 Do this to destroy the narcissist ego when the narcissist has discarded you You may want revenge You may want them to experience failure You may want them to lose everything You may want to hurt them Just like they hurt you because you think that will make you feel better But that's not the right way to go about it That would make you no different to them And you don't need to do that anyway Because narcissists always sabotage themselves They will sabotage their new relationship Just as they sabotage their relationship with you But if you've recently been discarded by the narcissist, it may look like they just rolled off into the sunset They're living their best lives They think they have it better than you They think they're superior They think they're more important and you just want to take them down a notch You want to deflate and humble them Because they're so full of pride and arrogance They think they're better than everyone So you want to damage their ego and pride You want to bring them back to reality And there is a way you can do that Without harming them directly Without doing anything to affect what they have going on in their lives And that is by working on yourself And going back to being the person you were before you got involved with the narcissist The person that they were attracted to And then becoming a better version of yourself If you do that and let them see it But you reject their Hoover attempts It will destroy their ego Because they can't deal with rejection They can't deal with being ignored Especially if it's from something that they believe they should have Something that they feel entitled to Because they had you before So they believe that you should always belong to them Narcisses find pleasure in breaking you down They find pleasure in your pain It gives them satisfaction So the last thing they want to see is you building yourself up You being happy Because what really destroys their ego is when they see you're not affected by their attempts to destroy you You're still able to do what you need to do You're still able to live the life that you want to live You're still able to laugh and smile Which means that their efforts have gone to waste Their plan has failed They didn't get the result that they were intending for Because now you're even more successful You look better than you ever did before You're in better condition than when they first met you Which destroys them Because they remember how good things were back then That's why they love Bombed You And they would love to have that again But if they can't it will crush them It will destroy their ego It will make them realize they're not as important as they think they are Because you don't need them You're able to reject them And this should be your goal after they've discarded you To become better than you were before you met them That is how you destroy the Narcisses ego There is nothing worse for them than that Especially when you reject them Because they know they'll never have that They'll never become happy and successful All of their relationships are going to fail So you don't need to get revenge on the Narcissist You don't need to do anything to them Just focus on yourself Focus on your own life Focus on building yourself up Making your life better And don't let them partake in it Don't let them be a part of it That is how you do it And it's not revenge It's just a subsequent effect of you becoming better And they bring it on themselves Because they don't want you to be happy They don't want the best for you They want to see you fail Because then that tells them they made the right decision by leaving you But when you do move on and become successful It leaves their false reality without any support It shows them that they messed up Which is why they just want to see your life deteriorate So they can feel more confident with the new person they're with Your failure fuels the illusions of their false self And it may even fuel their new supply But when you become successful You're no longer fueling the illusion So they can no longer experience that false sense of happiness at your expense Because they've realized they've just made a big mistake They realized they had the winning lottery ticket And they just threw it in the trash like it was nothing Because they thought it was all over for you They didn't expect you to bounce back They didn't expect you to become better than ever before Which is why this is what you have to do if you want to destroy the narcissist's ego Build a better lifestyle Do things that you always wanted to do Meet new people While they continue to go down in life While they experience one failed relationship after another Which is their karma So turn the tables on the narcissist Become a winner Become a champion Because they will be stalking you So give them something to watch Give them something that's going to spoil their stomachs Because they expect you to fail Which would confirm that decision by leaving you So prove them wrong Show them that they made the wrong decision And they will regret losing you It will destroy their ego And bring them back to reality Thank you for watching I hope this video resonates with you Please like, comment, share and subscribe If you would like to donate My PayPal link is in the video description Coaching inquiries You can email me at coaching.narcsurviver.uk Thank you for watching And I'll talk to you soon