 Why do most couples lose interest in each other when they once loved each other? I have heard stories of people who are so excited in love with each other People whom you thought would die for each other if need be lose interest in the same person They were once attached to what happened and if you are the one who is affected by your partner losing interest in you You may think it is your fault and so you need to change for your partner too often. It isn't always so Relationship writer Matthew Serendran wrote when couples lose interest in each other Their marriage is also doomed to be a miserable failure. Who isn't the wrong for this still mate? The fault lies with both. Both never make any efforts to make yourself interesting to your spouse Most couples lost interest in each other because of the same reasons According to Matthew in the initial years of your marriage your interest in each other is at its peak You do everything to attract your spouse towards you You behave in a way that makes your spouse feel that you are a perfect husband or wife You're so fascinated by your spouse that everything about him or her Excites you you're always presentable before your spouse as you want to attract him or her You are very appreciative and encouraging your supportive and caring But everything changes after a few years of your married life You're no longer appreciative and encouraging you no longer support your spouse One of the worst ways to create a relationship is when you both or one of you lose interest in each other too often It may not be your fault people and times change or it may just be what you did or how you hurt your partner And they're not able to let go of it Also when people stop spending time with each other or they start to distance themselves from each other It may build this interest between them However, if your partner does not give you a reason why they're no longer interested in you You're not supposed to berate yourself for living the relationship Relationship coach and founder of maze of love Chris Armstrong tells Brussels regardless of the reason What's important is that the person left behind because their partner lost interest does not try and change themselves as a result I once told a client if parts of you drew your partner away Maybe it's time to look within but don't make sudden changes over one person losing interest So if you always find that partners leave you too often because they're no longer interested in you You may need to examine yourself to be sure you're not doing something wrong in today's video I want to share with you some reasons why people may lose interest in each other If you're a new here subscribe to this channel so you will not miss other interesting videos like this One you had lost not love You know that initial feeling you had when you first met this person It is often that gosh of emotions We feel where we are warned not to respond to it without thinking you may see someone whom you think is your soulmate But as soon as you rush into a relationship with them you find you lose that feeling too early too often When we lose interest few weeks in the relationship Love was never there in the first place what you had was lost the foundation of love was never there And so the relationship has nothing to stand on Chris Armstrong says the initial excitement and energy that their partner Brought no longer exists it can be common for people to put their best foot forward up front only to fall back to their natural self As the relationship progresses to they're afraid to commit. It is not everybody who wants to be commited Most people are actually afraid of settling down They may find themselves in a relationship that weren't properly prepared for and so they become restless in the relationship They either distance themselves or they simply do not put in any effort to make the relationship grow people who are afraid to Commit themselves may be comfortable with settling down with one person that may feel they will be tied down and wouldn't want that for themselves Folks who struggle with commitments are always looking for what's beautiful on the other side And so they never pay attention to what they have right in front of them Three your partner can get over some hurt Although forgiveness binds a relationship together when a partner hurts you repeatedly or does something without even knowing their deed Or when they did know they do not feel sorry. It may hurt you Too often it may be difficult to get over this hurt Regardless of how hard the partner tries to while the other person may have overlooked it and have moved on the person Who is hurt internalizes the hurt and those begins to create a disinterest in them first for the person then for the relationship Some hurts are often too difficult to get away from the option will be to stay away from the partner For they just changed people change Sometimes when a partner changes, they're no longer interested in what you so inspire them in that relationship They want something more and where the other partner is not willing to change that this interest begins to build Chris Armstrong says the person that loses interest has changed or has discovered some things about themselves It can be very common for two people to start dating and break up for seemingly no reason They didn't fight a lot and communication was good But perhaps someone found themselves evolving and realized that the person they have evolved into wants different things in a partner Five you've changed people change and so maybe you and your partner have changed There may have been a growth in your partner that has made them develop a different perspective as a lifestyle writer Lee Rose Emery wrote maybe you've grown and evolved into a new person one that you're happier with It just doesn't necessarily mean that your partner will be too. That's okay when they're interest wanes Don't be afraid to go find someone who's interested in the new you. They're out there Six they have other priorities now Lifestyle writer Lee Rose Emery wrote not everyone makes their relationship a priority if their job or even their hubby's Takeover then their relationship would hold less and less interest for them. Maybe it's one big passion Maybe it's just being a beat-scattered and their attention jumping around, but it's hard to go through Seven they meet someone else when your partner meets someone else whom they feel meets their needs This should build interest for them and their relationship with you You don't have to feel bad about this because at least you know the reason why they lost interest in the relationship with you How can you rekindle your interest in each other when it's gone? Relationship writer Matthew surrender and suggest demonstrate love openly and explicitly keep communicating with your spouse When you do not communicate it becomes a habit a very bad habit Make your interaction friendly and enjoyable small talk with your spouse topics like movies sports hubbies and film stars are Non-controversial and you can extend your conversation without arguing about it avoid sensitive topics like religion physical appearance of your spouse And his or her upbringing and joy being together if this video inspired you like the video We love you