 But the reality is is if you're turning them off early, you're avoiding yourself problems down the road because how serious is a man if he's not willing to engage in these deeper conversations? How serious is a man? Okay. I actually, it's interesting. She and I watch reality TV, mostly for kind of a social science project of understanding human behavior. In some of these reality shows, many of the couples who have met blind like married at first sight or love is blind. It's interesting. Marie and I were talking this morning about another couple who had only been dating for three or four months when they decided they wanted to move in together. They spent a significant amount of time together to build trust.