 We are here with systematic desensitization, and the key to this is, I don't want to put my hands on there, the key to this is the process of having an inverse of situation or stimulus that is slowly faded into being not so aversive. So an example would be if you're scared of snow, I'm not going to put you on a helicopter with skis and throw you off Mt. Sun of a bitch down a really snow mountain or take you to the mall to go see Frosty the Snowman. No, that's not how you start systematic desensitization. It would be in a nice warm room in Hawaii with a picture of a snowflake and then you would just increase the number of pictures and then you would systematically get closer and closer to actual snow. Maybe hold an ice cube for a while. I don't know. I've never done this for a kiddo with a scared of snow, but you're slowly going to get closer to actually being in snow. Maybe they go to lost the thought, but you get the idea. It's all about going from really aversive and making it reinforcing for getting behaviors to come close to it.