 Narcissists target good people. They target people who are to be desired or approved of. People who have the required qualities. People who are of a high standard. People who are going to be useful, advantageous or beneficial. People who possess more of virtue. People who are obedient to rules or conventions. People who belong or relate to a high social class. People who are pleasant to look at. They are not going to target someone who is of poor quality or a low standard. They are not going to target someone who is not what they would hope or desire for. They are not going to target someone who fails to conform to standards of moral virtue or acceptable conduct. They have to target someone who is good. Someone who has goodness to give to them. They are not going to target someone who is bad. As that would be unfearable to them. That would be a liability for them. Would end up being something that they are responsible for. Something that they have to manage or take care of. A bad person's presence or behaviour. Would be likely to put them at a disadvantage. It would be a hindrance or burden to them. A bad person would provide resistance, delay or obstruction to them. They would cause worry, hardship or distress. They would be a nuisance to the narcissist. They would cause inconvenience or annoyance. So the narcissist is not going to target that type of person. It would not benefit them in any way. It would only cause them more problems. The narcissist is only going to target someone who they perceive to be good. Someone who is empathic or compassionate. Someone who displays sympathy and concern for other people. Someone who is cooperative. Someone who is going to assist them. Someone who is unlikely to fight against their agenda. Because the last thing the narcissist wants to do is to put themselves in a situation where they could be at risk of danger or harm. They are not going to put themselves in a dangerous situation. They have to target someone who they feel safe around. Someone who is not a threat. Someone who is unlikely to cause danger or harm to them. Someone who is easy to manipulate and control. Someone who they can use for their own benefit or gain. That is the kind of person the narcissist is looking for. Someone who is not going to put up a fight. Someone who is just going to tolerate the abuse. And they are very good at finding these types of people. It's like they have this predatory sixth sense. But they already know who is going to submit to them. They already know who is going to comply. And that is the person that they will want to pursue a relationship with. Someone who is a doormat. A submissive person who is going to allow someone to dominate them. Someone who is going to accept bad treatment. And not complain or defend themselves when they are being treated unfairly. Someone who will always give in. That is what the narcissist is looking for in their source of supply. Someone who will give in to their demands. Because when they are looking for a source. All they really care about is getting what they want. All that really matters to a narcissist is their own self-interest or needs. Whether it's attention and admiration. Money, power, sex. All the narcissist cares about is getting what they want. And they will do whatever it takes to get it. But they have to find someone who is going to give it to them. Someone who either feels bad for not giving in. Or someone who is likely to be persuaded. Someone who is likely to cave into pressure from the narcissist's force or threats. That is the type of person a narcissist needs to target. The narcissist has to survive. They have to get what they want. So they cannot target someone who we might commonly perceive to be bad. Someone who is going to put them at risk of danger or harm. Someone who doesn't care about anything. That type of person is very difficult for them to target. Because there's nothing for them to hook into. They can't affect them emotionally. The narcissist needs someone who is caring and compassionate. But lacks confidence in themselves or their own abilities or qualities. Someone who lacks certainty about something. That type of person is easy for the narcissist to influence or control. Which then makes it easier for the narcissist to take advantage of. It's easier for the narcissist to gain something from them. And that's all this really comes down to. Because that's all the narcissist really cares about. In the narcissist's mind there are two types of people. People who are good. And people who are bad. People who are going to give them what they want. And people who are not. And when they first targeted you. They knew that you were a good person. They knew that you were going to give them what they wanted. Thank you for watching. I hope this video resonate with you. Please like, comment, share and subscribe. 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