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so but anyway but welcome let's go to the little shot awesome and welcome those who are joined over here and go through a little roll call so of course we have ourselves and love life and marriage and it's brother David good to see you Donnell Junior good to see you as well Jesus loves you good to see you as well hello this Bobby good to see you testimony in testimony he is on a break yeah yeah it did brother it did isn't that ironic yes it did sir by God's grace yes sir yes sir good to see you man bless you in the family he talked about the subscribers on my channel and you can talk about anyway listen listen listen listen y'all today's Friday today's Friday today's Friday you're going to you're not gonna be hearing from me you won't hear a little bit from me tonight but this this is this is hers cuz she has some things she wants to talk about so and she's been this been brewing up in her belly it's been this has been brewing in her belly but anyway let's get through a roll call so sister Christina good to see you ma'am can believe it good to see you as well no oh no come he says good evening this is my first time tuning into your channel I was a subscriber of Corey miners for six months I was confused about Corey's position on John McArthur I want to thank you for opening my eyes well let me just let me just go ahead and give you this here it is y'all here it comes thank you brother for your honesty thank you so much for sharing your your experience with us in the body of Christ thank you so much for that brother Darrell good to see you again my brother let's see who else who else it was sister Lynn how was it going over there in Canada it's kind of that they always ask her but anyway how was it going over hoping hope the smoke and the ash and stuff is dissipating and clearing up be praying for those in Canada also those on the east coast because the fire that had started in Canada the wind blew it into the United States and so on the east coast yes the east coast so people have been affected by that but hopefully our sister Lynn is doing okay and is doing well with that Kino from the know what's going on my brother good to see you hopefully everything's going well with you and your family my brother I meant to check up on you but it's been busy but hopefully everything was going well for you you are in the Air Force man that's what's up wow all right and let's see who anyone else anyone else and what does the rate good to see you good to see you she's reformed she's she's redeemed good to see you she could be good thank you could be let's see yeah man I'm glad you I'm glad you checked in man glad you checked in the biscuits and ketchup must have been must have been spoiled yeah she see that's in it for those who knew this is inside you my wife eats some biscuits with ketchup that's that's the only caveat is it's not the kind you bake it don't matter it's only Popeyes don't matter not even KFC I wouldn't care it was Martin mama my mama biscuits I would not put no ketchup on the biscuits I'm sorry it depends because that's a different it's a different texture okay what about my biscuit and my sugar in my grits y'all don't leave me alone about anybody that long it just is what it is you need to get delivered from that Lynn says thank you to all who have prayed we need it I know New York has been bad up there too yeah yeah let's see anyone else to join in Angela hey what's going on girl Angela to see you good to see you sister good to see you listen we got to go with this bear with us for a second y'all we get a bear with this bear with us for a second this sister right here has been a day one from day one just haven't seen her in a while I know she's been busy I hope your number has hasn't changed I think ours hasn't you need to send us an inbox or send us a text real quick just need to touch base yeah yeah yeah make sure you're doing good hope you and your family is doing okay but it's been a long time but she she has been she had been a supporter and an encouragement to our family a thing when I said that's right has been an encouragement to and a support to our family y'all oh and by the way she is an excellent writer excellent writer and poet yes they need to check her content out so you're gonna see brother Davey and and maybe sister you can put a link up in the wheel if you still have your your link up your website and I actually had her on my my broadcast back during my doing my blog talk radio days this is this is how far back we go we go back since Hot Wheels and under rules you know I'm saying that far back that far back yes ma'am yes ma'am but today we're good to see my brother probably what's up my brother good to see you as well but yeah I just it's just good to see people that have been you know able to tap in and check in with us as well so the blessings to to to our sister Angela and all of you as well you know you said what did you say you said family suffer some cuts and bruises and a concussion but they seem like they're back to normal yeah brother I'm glad I'm glad everything as well I know it could have been worse but praise God it was not and so thank you for keeping me posted with that yeah yeah yeah back like Scott Pages and Payphone yes sir like bell bottoms and and and fish tank heels oh here is being biased I'm team Sharon see as brother Prover yeah look actually going on ODB like babies and pacifiers they might take y'all back honey I'll backslide stop it okay listen y'all so this is a free for all Friday love life and marriage with the woods Q&A we'll try to answer some questions that you may have if we don't know he's gonna tell you we don't know and get off our channel but no if we don't know we'll we'll point you in direction and we'll look it up together that's how we grow that's how we learn we don't know everything we just profess to know our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ by the pardon of our sins and by his amazing saving grace so as you said my number did change I ran over my last phone and sprint was switching to T-Mobile at the time so lots of drama I actually sent it to you I believe through Facebook message I'll get it to you yeah do it again do it again cuz I probably didn't see it or this email me say go was a yahoo.com and then that way we can just you know what we'll catch up and and check in with you later all right so thanks sis anyway so ladies and gentlemen ladies and gentlemen just want to let you all know again I am I am just here I am a spectator now I will say this let me just set the stage let's know later later groundwork out a little bit and then let her just spring off of it because she has my problem so she has been out of pocket since well your last video was on menopause which was May the 11th maybe 11th almost a month ago and prior to that you you all you you've been seeing me of course and you saw the video of my daughter Nile and I and we were talking about you know our dog Apollo's who we had to put down because of a severe injury to his spinal cord and so my wife had not really had a chance to talk about any of these things but there's a lot of things that have been happening to our household and then our family good you know challenging things like that by God's grace we're still here but she had been wanting just to share some things and so I said okay you know what since we have not done a live and in a couple of months I said maybe we can go ahead and just do an impromptu live let it be off the cuff no no script you know that's how we do it we try to do things as authentic as we possibly can and then you know share our hearts hear your thoughts your comments or whatever like that and then we can we go from there but anyway the Mrs wants to talk and I'm gonna let her share her her mind and things of that nature and you and I the viewer we're just gonna just you know lean in and listen in a little bit to what the missus have to say but anyway go right here ma'am you have the floor the mic is yours the mic is yours it's all yours say what you will but but stay safe you gotta stay safe that you can't can't be a save remember on Tom and Jerry when Tom and Jerry when Jerry would pluck one of the whiskers off of yes Tom space yep you can leave my whiskey alone we can leave it alone it's fine no nope nope not over here yeah don't do it exactly don't do it don't do it ain't worth it miss Ceeley ain't worth it anyway ain't worth it miss Ceeley yeah I have been y'all I wanted to get back to my my menopause segment but I'm definitely going to finish that cuz I have a note I have everything laid out I just haven't been able to what happened what would cause a pause one of my sorry I didn't mean that I didn't mean I did not mean I didn't mean what to say what caused the pause I'm so I didn't I did not mean that was not that was not a jab it was you know y'all know school is out right so school is out so one of my daughters my third oldest has now embarked on a summer camp yes that she talked me into yes for theater theater and so she auditioned and she got chosen and she's going to be in a play Beauty and the Beast so I'm spending my days driving back and forth to drop her off to rehearsal and then pick her up from rehearsal and yesterday I thought I was going to meet the Lord because it was horrible driving in that storm did you think I was joking no I'm not that storm was horrible I was terrified y'all so I'm driving and I literally could not see anything in front of me I couldn't see so yeah anyway I made it there picked up and got home so anyway we've had a lot of other things going on as far as not really much going on family wise except just transition yeah transitioning through the church and everything that kind of stuff so and I know you already told them about the experience we had last week you want you want to talk about the concert I want to hide cuz you didn't hear my thoughts about the concert how did you like the concert it was great it was wonderful yeah I want to be up there on stage but I can't you can always dance with me though dear we can't say that now I can't say you can't you can't dance for me did I say something wrong I ain't since you got to be herodious I'm just like can't you keep you can always dance for me what is yeah yeah you're right you're right yeah yeah I guess I can't I can't even talk marriage talk what's the problem I mean I mean I really I did enjoy I had a yes Janet gave us a really good show she did not disappoint I was very pleased yep that I've already gave us that for Christmas it was good that was a nice Christmas gift lady Saturday you're saying you got me up can everybody else hear my volume I mean I'm yeah lady Saturn talking too low or I don't know she said she got a TV on 30 and usually 10 is enough so I don't know if it's can anybody else here is anybody else having problems hearing okay I'm just reading Davis come you say you good bro ain't nothing wrong with it oh no maybe he's talking about maybe some of the dancing thing okay he said but let's say it's a little low okay so all right so let me do this well no because you don't you don't like the mic all the way over okay so okay so how because she always look yeah okay how about that you okay you get doing like that I mean you good how is that y'all is that okay does that sound better testing is that okay and let me try to do this a little bit more let me try this I'll try to all right what about what about now all right so everybody let me see I gotta take a little vote let me take a vote make sure that that is the Sanchez said it was a little low so I want to make sure that I can raise up a little bit let me try okay but I'm gonna make sure see I can I can talk a lot you you really want to be like you know so what I was trying to do was and people leaning in they straight in their ear so ma'am talk like you from you know from your anyway talk like you wasn't gonna give me in a club I don't recall that we are we are we are delivered now you all delivered now but okay so you all are good now hopefully you all okay you say it's perfect now okay okay good all right good good okay all right continue ma'am and you can stand so my mic sounds nice all right so let's let's let's continue I'm sorry go ahead so there are a few things that I wanted to elaborate on I have heard you say that I mean recently this is something you mentioned recently that someone wants to or made a comment and said something about you are not as hard as you appear to be or something like that are you want to be are you going there that's this will be doing tonight you want to go there I mean it's your issue it's your life no it's your life I want you I want you to get out whatever you want to get out of your that's in your heart you know I mean you want to keep it you want to keep it a buck keep this that that's fine I just want to make sure I mean if you want if you want to talk about it we can talk about it ain't like nobody in here is not familiar but if but they have not heard your thoughts about it maybe so if you want to talk about that that's fine go right ahead ma'am to answer your question what was it again about the comment that I made about you some of the Corey being all or trying to be all hard yeah okay yeah what about it well what about it my comment to that is or my response to that is no real man has to try to be a man okay you don't you don't have to put on this this air or this vibrato to or beat your chest so to speak to say I'm the man because if you got to do that then you're not the man and you don't walk around doing that that's not something that that's not even a part of who you are so for somebody to make that kind of a comment it's like apparently they don't know you know I get to have it yes yes all right so yeah I mean yeah somebody feel our sister Lynn in because she's been out of pocket for a few days but no he was talking he was talking about me I did hear the video I did watch the video he mentioned my name he mentioned Chris LaSala and Sam Shamoon and he was saying you know these guys thinking they're tough and he said you know basically I've seen I've seen their kind I'm not sure what kind he's talking about but you know just for the record I'll just say this just for the record all of this all of this happened because of the whole John McArthur situation this is where all the this all this stemmed from and you know basically Cory is in his feelings this ain't personal for me I'm just dealing with the situation as it's been presented publicly and of course the lines have been drawn people are on both sides and unfortunately people have made decisions and have chosen sides and I would say also unfortunately they have chosen the side that is not biblical it wouldn't care I wouldn't care if I was the one wrong and I know people say what but you are what my my thing would be show me where show me where I think there's a strong there is a strong strong delusional spirit that is running rampant between brothers and sisters in Christ and running rampant in the churches and I say that because it just seems to be so easy for people who we considered friends to be carried away by something so easily or be so easily persuaded right per se yeah if you can put it in those terms I just don't I don't understand how we are supposed to be brothers and sisters but we treat each other like enemies and for someone to make a comment like that and to say you know you not all that and you're not you're not that hard or audit and I tell whatever if that's that's ridiculous and that's so elementary and I thought we were above that I thought that some of us were more mature than that but it doesn't appear to be so yeah I guess I'll just say that this this this really shows people's true colors and what they are loyal to this this is also shown me that when it comes to when it comes to I guess what does the Bible say a lot of people who claim to believe what the Bible says when it comes time to apply it there's a pattern of inconsistency when it when it boils down to applying it to those that they that they like or what they think what they think is right what they think is sinful what they think should be done and and then they projected on you or projected on others as though they should follow their their preferences and when that does not happen then they'll just basically you know step away from you or accuse you of wrong or question your motives and not ask questions they're rather soon so I know that's a pet peeve of yours but for me I guess I'm used to it and so my my mentality my attitude is it's simply this if you say something publicly it's fair game publicly I am not I'm not under any obligation whatsoever to have a private conversation unless I choose to have that and vice versa again I don't I don't I don't know where we've where we've gotten this idea that I can make public accusations but then we need to have private conversations I don't I don't see that in scripture if I send publicly or if I say something publicly it is open to anyone to critique or to challenge or to ask for clarification or correction for that so I don't I don't you know I don't get it I mean this this is a this is a new breed of people but you know hey something else I've noticed is that people tend to take the easy route they want to take the broad road and not travel down the narrow road because it's too difficult and because you have to to a certain level have tougher skin yeah so just because someone is quote-unquote nice right so doesn't mean that that equates to them being right yeah and I think we get that confused and I don't know now maybe you can correct me you can correct me right here I could be wrong but I don't recall the scriptures calling men to be meek well there to be men of valor yeah well meek meek you know all of us are all of us are the character well I mean yeah I mean I'm saying I guess to be soft yes okay yeah a week because it says act like men yeah yeah yeah right yes yes so it's it's being labeled as you're being labeled as mean-spirited because you are firm and truthful right but if you're soft-spoken and meek then that that automatically makes you right right and that's not the case all the time no no I mean but again that's that's why I have made attempts and I went on his channel and matter of fact I'm going to read the conversation since my wife is taking it there I'm gonna I'm gonna I'm gonna I'm gonna follow my wife's trail on where she's going in her thoughts and and we'll move we'll move accordingly with that but the you know this situation is unfortunate because I really don't believe a lot of people are thinking biblically through this and and they're looking at numbers they're looking at how many subscribers Korea has versus how many I have and I'm saying myself if y'all are looking at numbers to base it upon who's telling the truth or who's innocent or or I mean then you got life all screwed up I don't I don't understand how you can even make that a biblical argument when we see Jesus we see God use the little the smallest the weakest of the minimal to carry about his purposes does not mean that you have to have always have a high number or a lot of people to carry out guys purpose of God's will listen though it was it was one man against 850 profit false prophets of ball and the ashore and they and they were the ones that were all saying the same thing except for Makaya so you have 850 to 1 and he says hey I'm so with God's words they don't give a crap what y'all saying you know I'm saying so the majority is not always right and just because you have a lot of followers does not mean that you are the the the righteous majority or that you have the right standing and we see that always could be the opposite but you know I don't I don't trip about that what I would trust me out is how people you know like Corey and others claim to know the Word of God claim to know the scriptures but then they're twisting it to their own advantage and that ladies and gentlemen is causing the division it's not it's not me contrary to what people may want it to be I'm not the one that started this I'm not the one that is that is you know carrying us on the way that it is unfortunately we have people that were that were you know standing with us supporting us but but the moment I had to drop receipts and the moment I had to drop that phone call showing that Corey was a liar and a hypocrite and really showing his real his real hand then people made that to be something that I should have done like no okay we're going to go right here because I was going to say you know I've also seen comments that have said you know why would you why would you share that information well that information was already shared right you were not the first one to share that information right so how is it how is it wrong for you to share something that someone already shared public already shared it was Cory go there let's go there Cory was doing it well because I want people who we are talking about now we're talking about course we're doing it share this personal but that just that grows across the board though even with him because I've heard that said about other things that we've done okay it didn't just apply to this particular situation or to Cory in particular but it does right but it has also crossed over into other areas and other things that we've done and other quote-unquote people that have said those same words right right you were talking about the the receipts and stuff right yeah the next thing I was going to say and that kind of flows into what you were saying is that the main reason people quote-unquote fall off or whatever or say that you know they're not talking to say go or they're not whatever however you want to put it however you want to frame it a say go does too much or he takes things too far or you know they have a problem because you don't conform to their way of doing things and I've said it before that what makes somebody else's way the way mm-hmm it could be a way to do things right but that's not necessarily the one and only way to do things exactly so because you don't do things the way others do and or or not how they would prefer you to do it then you get labeled as the person who started the strife or who started the division because you shouldn't have done that right so my question is why shouldn't you have done it how many people actually run their feelings through scripture right or do we just say I feel like you shouldn't have done that right well it's most of the latter it's mostly the latter and I mean newsflash breaking news I have feelings I have preferences I have things that I wish some people would not do but I don't care I guess that's I guess that's as long as long as you're not sinning as long as you're not causing other people to sin intentionally by your behavior or by your words about your actions I do not care why because that's not my lane that's your lane that's your personality there are so many people's challenge that ice channels that I see and content that I read and I just keep I just keep scrolling I do my finger like this I don't give response to that I don't need to respond to that I don't need to respond to that because that I don't care if it's not if it's not heresy over it's not something that that God is putting on my heart to to get my attention to over tonight if it ain't coming across my desk I don't care I really I really don't so when I get involved in something or if I throw my hat into the into the ring it's because I'm looking at the overall or I'm striving to look at the overall scope of an issue and I'm looking at how it affects other people this situation where I lean great and situation with you know Wendy Gray and others with John McArthur I don't know these people I mean I don't know them personally I don't right I've only had conversations with with with Eileen you know but I don't I don't know them personally but I know the fact that they're my my my sister's in Christ and brothers and sisters in Christ we talk about elder Han Cho so I try to put myself in the situation to say what if that were me what what if that was my situation how would I want my brothers and sisters to respond or how would I how would I want them to feel although it's not their toothache and see that's that's that's that leaves me into well that kind of carries on what I was gonna say as well when you said how would I feel if that were me or if you were in their shoes would you want someone to stand up for you would you want someone to fight for you and I've heard this when we had you know you when you were dealing with G Craig and all that yeah yeah well how long you gonna do this well how many videos you gonna make about this how long you gonna keep talking about this right and I've said it once and I've said it a hundred times before first of all I think we're dealing with some immature people some people who have been saved for two minutes some people who have not done biblical studies in theology and harmonics in any of those things but if you don't know those things it doesn't kill you to ask for clarification yeah true it doesn't people are so bent on their feelings they don't have a biblical worldview they have a my feelings worldview yeah and like I just said a few minutes ago if you don't if you're not willing to run your feelings through the scriptures right and ask yourself okay why am I feeling this way right why am I responding this way then you're just operating off of how you feel you're not you're not running that through anything right and I think when you do that you do the other person a disservice because you're not even giving them the opportunity to either explain or to break down to you biblically why they do what they do right and I think sometimes even when you do that they still don't understand some don't care some don't care to get it I mean the Bible says a fool Proverbs 82 a fool does not delight in understanding but only revealing his or her own mind so they're not they're not concerned about the truth they're more concerned about you hearing what they consider and what they believe as true and it shows itself and how they respond when you say wait a minute that's not what the Bible says or can you show me where you're getting that from or you tell me why you're saying that I'm sinning because I'm not doing it your way so right I I again I guess I'm there I'm used to this because it's been my lot in life when it comes to people flipping and flopping and so I when it came to create a little situation I knew that we're gonna be people affected by it and like you said people want to ask quick how long how long how long well as long as the Lord calls me to do it the situation with John McArthur I mean I really have not been aggressively into it but as the need arises as the need presents itself then I will respond and that's what anything I don't care what y'all think oh what anybody thinks about that you don't have to follow this channel you don't even have to watch my videos so it's like if you're coming over here telling me what to do why you here if you already know what I'm about so but again this this whole this whole situation it jumped off because Corey did did a video undermining the videos that I did with regard to John McArthur and even the one that he did with me about John McArthur your soul so and people asking questions like what changed who changed I mean what was why the why the switch and then hit him dissing David you know Collins and attacking Julie Roy's and accusing her of having ulterior motives and you know I asked the grind excuse me that's just that's just weak so and then you don't believe it you old person you know an answer what that that's anti first Peter 315 we're all we're always to give an answer for what we what we believe what holds in what we you know hold to what Jensen is a respect of course but again so you're you're throwing these you're throwing these shots and stuff and I'm saying myself now I ought to restart the Sir Walter Jones I did it on my own because I'm saying you know what I know you're not gonna want to come on my channel and doesn't leave me come on your channel because I already know this is making a mutual thing this is making a mutual thing and so he turned it down right his words were not right now well apparently you must be ready because now you're doing videos and you're talking and running your mouth so I'm like okay well apparently you must be ready to do this so let's let's just go ahead do for the sake of the body and here's the reason why ladies and gentlemen I refuse to have a private conversation with Corey Miner because the situation wasn't done privately the sin was not committed privately and the body of Christ needs to see how we are to deal with these issues in a public format we have we have biblical precedent for this so to so to tell me I need to call him or for him to try to act as though I should have called him I'm like Negro you didn't call me you didn't you didn't call me before you did your videos see this is another thing this is just something I have observed okay I have observed that and and men please don't take this the wrong way but this is just what I've observed and I'm not saying every man is this way but when a week passive man comes in contact with a real man a real man they recoil and retreat because they've never seen that before it's offensive to them they feel threatened okay do you not think that's that's that's I do agree with that I mean but I'm not offended by only only those are offended by those who are weak yeah it's not it's not an issue for me because I do it all the time so you know making the videos and so I'm I'm just saying it's unfortunate that this guy has people following him and they're not holding him accountable and it's causing that's that's what's causing the unnecessary division yeah that's that's what's causing the the the the strife it's not me I'm just responding to it whenever I feel I need to respond to it so and for the record I don't even watch his videos I don't watch his videos anymore I've unsubscribed from him I don't I don't care to watch this stuff because I'm like bro you your integrity is shot with me for you to gaslight and manipulate people to use your prison story or prison testimony as as a deflection or as a cover or as a as a smoke screen to to to run from the issues that really precipitated all of this and you constantly keep bringing up how God you know vindicated you I'm like no you weren't vindicated you you receive mercy period and then you take shots at attorney Tara McGrew and talk about his credentials and talk about his his his character I'm like it's the same Taryn who a year or so ago you in a group conversation you in a group video that I had and you had no problem with what Tara went in so it's only when you're held to the same standard you try to hold other people to that it's now a problem you know so how you gonna talk about Pagani how you gonna talk about south of our how you gonna talk about talk about Vlad and all these people who I never even knew but you do videos about these people and you challenge these people to come on your channel but now now the script has been flipped and you want to play like you're the victim you want to play like you're taking the high road don't say that that's real weak to me that's that's that's a sucker move stuff to me and so he's accusing me of being divisive he's accusing me of being pridefully accusing me of saying he's gonna drop receipts I'm like bro please please if your receipt game is anything like your exegesis when it comes to clip has a description you you are you you are gonna be in a word of trouble and see the thing the other thing too is that you know what I've learned through all of this and what I've seen is that folk will cheer you on you know and like rah rah and go say go you know until until they don't like what I do I mean you do or say something that they don't agree with yep and then they want to check out and that and that's been the pattern and that's why I say you know I take things as it goes I take all the greatness out he's our brothers they go you know a bastard or whatever I really appreciate this okay cool all right will use you too well that goes with it that goes with the territory they will use you I mean yeah that goes that goes with the territory they get what they want from you and then you're no longer valued yeah yeah but it goes it comes with the territory that's why I don't really trip about it because again this is why if you if you let your you have your feelings on your sleeve or you lead with your feelings in it just you'll never you'll never stay in this in this game you'll tap out real quick and so that's why I don't I strive not to let this stuff affect what God has called me to do and and I just move on to what God is it's told me to you know tell me to say and then you know it's it's where now people gonna have to make a decision I mean it's just bottom line you either gonna follow you're gonna follow the Word of God or you're gonna follow man and I don't want to take that out of context either because people will say things like oh we'll see he wants people to follow him right and that's you know but again they hear what they want to hear of course and that's not at all what you meant by what you were saying right right but anyway does anybody have questions I'm just reading the comments let me go through these comments Christina said because he's concerned about his channel growth he should want to settle it his integrity is on the line he is insulting his subscribers intelligence by acting like this isn't a problem yeah I mean I agree with you sis I don't care about the numbers yeah she's talking about she's talking about yeah I know she's talking about yeah yeah we don't and the reason why the reason why I'm kind of tripping because I'm saying these are some of the same people that are that they will tell you one minute this was the word of God says move on me it's like it's they're 10 toes down when it comes to clear heretical stuff I guess until the her until the heresy is dealing with Corey but now if this were me oh man come on out if I if I had said half of the stuff that Corey has said in the past it's just just just this year alone if I say that public repentance is not required for public sin if I said that Demas Demas was not an apostate if I said that Paul was sinning or wrong or incorrect in how he treated John Mark if I said any of that stuff videos will be made about me around the clock but let him say it you looped listen so so again that's this is where I am if he wants to have a conversation we can have that conversation but it's not to be public because I have questions that I'm going to ask him that he knows I'm sorry it will be public oh it will be yeah what I say you say it won't be oh I thought I said it will yeah it has to be public it definitely has to be public there's no there's none of this closet backdoor clandestine conversations not happening it's not happening the body Christ deserves answers and here's another thing I'll say this we see what's going on in the political realm right we see what's going with Trump we see what's going on with our government we see what's going on with Congress we see what's going on when they want to have these private meetings and want to keep things from the American people and and and we as Christians are saying no no we need we need to see what's been going on we paying our tax dollars and this and that we demand public disclose we demand public transparency okay well why is it why we got highest standards for for wicked leaders and government but we don't have highest standards for those who are supposed to be saved by the Word of God I'm just I don't I don't get that so I have nothing to hide so again if he if he wants to bring receipts then bring them I'm just saying hey bro let's get it let the whole world see who's right and then go from there so but you have you have people that have like you said that have reached out to us reached out to me we have wasted time hours and people have called us asking for asking for you know a vice like JoLon Turk I'm gonna mention her name I'm gonna mention her name I'm gonna call some names out real quick people like JoLon Turk so so so just just it's sad I mean done nothing to this woman other than help her no done nothing nothing nothing on the phone with her talking about talking about talking about her family asking for advice asking for counsel asking for help and we'd like hey this is what the body crisis supposed to be doing this is what we're called to do and this is the same this is the same woman that would throw rocks and talk about April Chapman and and and blast this person blast that person but now she's rocking over and I'm saying for what what what have we tried to warn us yeah yeah try to warn us about April Mike my you didn't want us about anybody I mean one is about what I mean we heard you but and they laid dollar short damages are been done you haven't said anything you haven't anything to help us and the reason why we're going here with this stuff is because we want people to understand we have extended ourselves to individuals and I have and I have asked them for anything in return not one thing not one thing I don't think people understand the the toll that this ministry takes on a person on us this is not your typical everyday no ministry if you have done any type of ministry even in the church right for any length of time then you would already know that you're gonna run across all people of different walks of life different stages in their walk people that are professing to be Christians and they really not you know you see all of that when you're in ministry I'm actually in it I'm talking knee-deep in it I'm not talking about being on the praise team I mean you might be okay right praise to you run across a few little different personalities quirks but I'm talking about when you are when I say serving people I mean giving up your time yeah and giving of your resources you're unpaid time for the most part and we just saying I'm just saying I'm not we talking about those who flip it we're talking about us we have flipped on right haven't tried to my dad you know I'm saying I mean cuz we this is part of the body we want to help people right and that's it but you know we want to share what God has given us with the body mm-hmm we want to share what God has shown us as a married couple and his individuals right as individuals me as a woman of God my husband as a man of God to show people what the experience is that we with that we've experienced in this walk that we have and that we're on right and we don't hold back we don't say you know when I can't do that right when I'm too busy for that I can't do that we make time for these people exactly I was gonna say that's I mean we do I mean we have family we have girls we have you know our daughters that are growing up you know two young adults we have two girls still in school we take time out of our schedule we still we're transitioning in our own lives you know right of us that we know we we're at home now we're from home and things like that and so we have things that we're well we're dealing with in our own lives and we're trying to adjust and we're trying to you know stay stay the course so when we take time out of our schedule when we take time out of our busy day that's taken away from things that that's taking away from other things that we do or where we could do right but it's a part of the the body and how the body of Christ is if some things may deserve some attention more than others but our first ministry is gonna be our family right that's that's that's that goes without saying and we're not going to minimize that for anybody but you were gonna cancel your life yesterday yeah until you made sure that I was safe right you wanted to make sure that I was either at you know somewhere where I was safe or that was on my way home or that I had made it home safe before you know you decided to go ahead and do your life yeah I mean and all of these things are our factor that we that we consider that I strive to consider because again you know what's the use of me trying to do alive if my family's not it's not doing well right you know I'm saying or they're not safe or their issues that we need to deal with because I want to put content out to get that and it's not about that so but Jesus lovingly you said you had asked the question about the the asbury revival am I going to do honestly bro I don't know too much about it well and what I do know about it it's it's not really something I don't know I do know that people were commenting going a month or so ago I could tell you this this is what I will take when we see revival case in point and Jonah in the book of Jonah that was a revival that broke out over the whole land right lives were changed can that be revival occur in a city yeah it could be yeah but when I when I think about revival I think about I think about acts when the gospel spreads it goes first to Jerusalem Judea Judea Samaria in the most part so it's a it's a it's a mushrooming thing it's a domino effect it spreads it goes out right so if this is authentic if the asbury revival is authentic then time will tell and how and how will we know that what happened in Azure and asbury is an authentic move of God we'll see lives change we'll see that community change we'll see local government change we'll see I mean because that's what the Bible the Bible talks about so when God changes the heart of a man it changes their whole manner of life it's not it's not gonna just be in some type of microcosm and that's it no it's gonna always it's gonna always spread and affect others and infect in a positive way others as well too so I don't think that it's for me I don't believe that it is something that I would trip about or or you know I wouldn't even I wouldn't even minimize it I'll just say let's wait and see I'm like I'm like you know if it's of God we'll know if it's not then we'll know that too yeah you right probably I did say that I said I said previously you wouldn't comment because you can't judge whether or not it that God was in yeah I can't time will tell time will tell so if it's if it's something that God is gonna do trust me it like like and like Scott says see the Abraham said it will affect the entire community trust me you're not gonna you're not gonna be saved and it not affect how we live right it's not it just impossible if if I stick my finger or if I stick my you know an object with a fork in a socket I guarantee you gonna see a visible change in me it may not be a wonderful change but it's gonna be a change so how is it that we can be plugged in to the transforming power of God and there be no change and how we treat our wives our husbands our children how we see our finances how we see our neighbors how we see our fellow brothers and sisters in Christ you're not gonna convince me of that now convince me otherwise that when a person has been saved it's not gonna affect how do you live because it will it will so and so that's just my take on it I mean people may have their different views on that I'm just saying from me I rather just wait I just see when when I see revival break out in scripture it spreads it spreads out it's not just in it's not just in one locale it spreads out so let's just see let's just see so you might have any marriage questions for us marriage questions questions about family you know yeah ask us with y'all which I'll feel you want to ask us and we'll try to answer it you said did you ask Joshua Brown about Tina Turner I did he commented on it bro he did comment about it but he said you know maybe there's been some change because I believe he did mention to that that was an old that was an old video that they were showing so yeah it was shown was old so he didn't you know he didn't he didn't delve into too much yeah he said he hadn't spoken to her or talked about her in a few years right publicly right right so so out of respect for that I didn't I didn't I didn't dig into anymore that was what he said years ago and he based on on his recollection he based on his experience with her but he said in my life with him that it happened a long time ago he said maybe she had changed before she died and so I said okay I left it I left it at that but I think that was a good interview I was glad that he came on and he he was very you know open to even to even come on my come on my channel you said will you please explain the difference between positional forgiveness and relational forgiveness okay sure so positional forgiveness if you're talking about what and his I guess let me ask you this question are you talking about and our relationship with God that's positional and that's also relational because if positional we were forgiven by God then also in our relationship we're gonna always when we sin that's the first John you know the first John you know one right if we confess our sins he's faithful and just forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all our rations so then there's a there's a relational forgiveness when it comes to that there's also positional forgiveness when it comes in justification you have Romans 4 Romans 5 you see that as well so when when when God forgives us he forgives us based on the merits of Christ in other words when we are saved in justification Christ declares us righteous okay and it's not just as as we never sin that's that's the wrong understanding of justification now we have sin okay but he declares the believing sinner righteous meaning he does not hold our sins against us because now Christ who is our who is our substitute the scapegoat he has carried away our sin on himself so when Christ died our sins died with him when he raised we were raised in a newness of life Romans 6 so therefore we have positional forgiveness but that that positional forgiveness comes upon confession of our sin meaning to say what God's word says about our sin confession to say the same thing and forgiveness repentance and all of those things are gifts repentance is a gift faith is a gift and God grants that to the believing sinner and once we do that we've been forgiven we've been justified with Christ now sanctification we know that that is a progressive thing we're not going to live perfect in this life but we should be we're striving to be made perfect in Christ so when we sin and we will that's where the first John 1 9 comes if we confess our sins he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and cleanse us from all unrighteousness so now there's their relational forgiveness but then now so that's the vertical okay the horizontal comes also and when we and how we relate to each other some people believe that we should just forgive because forgiveness is for us that's wrong forgive this is not for us forgiveness for the individual who sinned against us but we should always be in a posture or in a position to be willing and ready to forgive when or if confession and repentance of that sin has been made may know Luke 17 verse 3 and 4 if your brother sins against you rebuke him and if he repents forgive him so that that's the conditional clause the condition is I forgive if he if he or she sins I'm to go to them or to rebuke them I'm to confront them I don't do it in a mean spirit I don't do it you know ready to bounce on them no you bring the sin not your preference not what you think sin is and that's the problem you thinking what I did was sin means nothing to me and it mean and it should mean nothing to the individual that you're charging them and unless you can show them book chapter verse show me where I sinned show me where I sinned and then when you show that individual where they sinned then now the onus is on them to now say you know what I understand I see that brother sister please forgive me I didn't I realize that or I was wrong please forgive me will you forgive me and that brother sister must be willing and ready to forgive now does that mean the immediate restoration of privileges and relationships not always the case it depends on the individual not the individual heart it must be right but there are sometimes where trust can be broken and can be irreparably broken to where it's hey I love you I accept your you're you know I accept your forgiveness I forgive you whatever but you know I think it's best for us to go our own way whatever yeah you know so and that carries that carries different different scenarios but of course the issue is always gonna be the heart but forgiveness does not automatically mean restoration of privileges and or responsibilities that you or I have squandered or have misused or misappropriated so hopefully hopefully that answers your question all right okay okay there he says is not going to marriage counseling before the voice-considering I would say is unwise because you need to you need to count the costs you need yeah you need options and you know especially now are you a male are you a biological male I mean I you may need to see some birth certificate may seem to see some medical records you may need to see you know nowadays we know listen nowadays you may not even know so I mean you like my wife say you exhaust you know all those those questions you know and get people in your life they're gonna be unbiased they're gonna be in that are gonna be impartial he's saying before divorce it's going to marriage counseling before moving forward yes divorce thank knowing that you don't know what the consequences are if you are willing to go to go through with the divorce and it's not biblical yeah yes absolutely absolutely yeah because you the Bible says he who is hasty with their feet soon airs so yes you should get you should get counseling again and I think the criteria will still be you know people who are impartial people who are unbiased people who love both of you not just here on one side of the story right here in both sides and I would say this sometimes sometimes it may take some time right the individual may be upset or may be angry it may not want to you know go through any counseling right now hopefully and prayerfully these are believers and that they allow the spirit of God to to do a work in their in their heart and they don't make any rash or rushed decisions that can affect other people but yes I would I would say absolutely if you are if you're not considered his name the Bible says in abundance of counsel they are safer so yes if you're refusing if you're refusing to receive counsel then the question I will have to ask you is why what why are you refusing to have someone to help you to save you know your marriage or to you know to help walk you through your marriage now I would say this as well you can't make anybody do anything you can't make anyone do anything there I know there are situations where one person is saved and other person is not and if the person has not saved once out of the marriage and according to 1st Corinthians chapter 7 verse 15 the Bible says of the unbeliever departs let them depart and that's a command that's not that's not that's not a suggestion that is that is a command in other words God says you don't know whether or not that individual is the means for you to have to have peace and he says because God has called you to peace if that person wants out let him out leave let them go it may be hurtful you know you don't try to keep somebody that's not want to be kept let him let him go a brother sister's not bound in such cases the apostle but God has that has called us to peace so that would be my that would be my advice to anybody if before you before you go downtown before you you know you call it quits make sure that you you have biblical biblical reasons why the marriage is no longer you know long was salvageable of course there are times there are divorceable things but they're not commanded but it is it is allowed for adultery for abandonment which is the first you know first question 715 and also for abuse as well we don't like to talk about that but it is it is so but this is your live man I'm doing I tell why anyone do what it's talking so come on get your people asking wait on people ask questions that I can answer okay so let me see I'll just make sure she wants it when a person sends against you how do you know that they are genuinely repenting and can explain the difference between repentance versus restoration would pertain to a great question she won't thank you great question you want you want to jump on that one you want okay so she said how do you know that a person is genuinely repenting well first of all if they're genuinely repentant you'll see fruit of that you'll see evidence of that you won't have to second guess whether or not this person is genuinely repentant for what they've done or the Senate they've committed and can explain the difference between repentance and restoration well that's kind of versus restoration okay well you just kind of touched on that a few minutes ago that you know even if a person repents and asks for forgiveness that doesn't necessarily mean in all cases that the relationship is going to be restored right and it's not you're not obligated to restore that relationship you're obligated to love our brothers and sisters in Christ but that doesn't mean that you have the same relationship that you had before depending on the offense yeah BJ as you said how do you pray for the gift of repentance do I simply ask God to create him to create in me a clean heart and renew me a right spirit some of the song 51 so repentance number one is a gift second second Timothy 2 he says when you talk about those who refused to listen or those who are fighting against the truth he says if perhaps God will grant them repentance he said the Lord's bonds are not be quarrelsome but the patient all able to teach and if perhaps those that are you know deceived may not be held by the snare the devil but God may grant them repentance so repentance is a gift I believe what the Bible says is that that is something that God does he grants the gift the repentance and so you can ask for God to be merciful to you yes you can ask for God to give you a obedient heart that's it that those are those are sincere prayers and you can say Lord help me you can also also pray in the attitude in the spirit of repenting Lord help me to turn from doesn't help me to you know to turn toward you Lord give me the power to to what you know all those are aspects of repentance all of those things are so whether it's verbatim or whether you're asking for the spirit of the you know the desire for you to to to change your thinking matter of fact you can look at Romans 12 to be not conformed to this what be transformed by the renewing of your mind so all of those things are aspects of the of the doctrine of repentance so hopefully it's the fine-skinned Lord almost makes look decent the camera quality is I don't know why even tag this dude man okay during Greek you said you had a question let's see me girl let me scroll up here oh yeah he did I think it just hit right here yeah Cory said at one point that John John McGarver John Mack was wrong do you know why you change his position brother at once you find out you let me know all I can tell you was this Cory changed his mind this year last year he did video he did a video I think two videos one with me he did one maybe two by himself but last year he was that he was demanding that the reform community in fact this is where he said right here he says I'm asking that every reform believer on YouTube join me in demanding that John MacArthur steps down that's that's what he said a year ago and this is all this was actually on my on my video and he made a comment on it and he was responding to the Eileen Gray situation so now the question I guess you need to ask him is what change because he's not answering he doesn't believe he needs to answer anyone's question matter of fact he has gone as far as to say that John McGarver is not disqualified anymore he has said that that he's not disqualified anymore so why is he not disqualified anymore biblically speaking you're gonna have to ask Cory mine about that because according to the scriptures no John McGarver is not biblically qualified and neither is Cory biblically qualified to be a pastor so this is this is where this is where the confusion has started it didn't start with me it started with Cory it started with him flipping and causing people to now and not wanting to give an answer and I want to give an answer yeah lady Saturn says Sharon will you have another menopause video soon I hope so look I'm really trying to do that I know I left y'all hanging on some stuff so I'm going to try to make that a priority Lord willing really soon okay because I have some more information to share with y'all yeah blazing torch said why did Jesus have only had to die once on the cross but we have to pick up our crosses daily seems a little unfair well that's not that's not the that's not the point Jesus died only once because he paid the perfect he paid the perfect sacrifice he'd had to die daily he was the perfect sacrifice for for perfect and holy and righteous God so he fulfilled all the righteous requirements the man's in his own body and so code number in court he brews he only had to die once we pick up our crosses daily meaning we're to die daily to ourselves to our sin Christ I have to die daily to his sin he died once for all for our sin so that's why he only had to die once and believe she von you had asked the question you said I was excommunicated from a local church without due process how does the Lord deal with such a thing he would deal with such a thing maybe in and and and and the day when we all have to hold it be held accountable for what we do in this life now it could be he could deal with it through the leadership there if there are people who will hold that leadership accountable so let me ask you this question when you say that you were excommunicated what was the what was the charge if you don't mind me asking and you say it would not do process are you saying they didn't go to the process of Matthew 18 they didn't go through the process of first quarter in six they didn't go through that process if they didn't then yes they didn't you were you were basically abused if that is if that is the if that is a thing so and shout to Noel he's gonna say go don't hold the spotlight this is a Q&A right he says you don't have to say anything just wait okay okay my job but yeah so that's the question that you have that you have to you know tell us you know did they did they go through the process of church discipline Matthew 18 first first Corinthians 5 did they go through that if they didn't then yes that's that's not that's not biblical due process and you and you experienced abuse now how would the Lord do such a thing he's gonna deal with it right just like for we all second Corinthians chapter 5 verse 10 for we all should stand before the Judgment City of Christ and we'll get all we give an account for the deeds we've done in our body whether good or bad so we're gonna be held accountable we do we're gonna be held accountable how we treat people we're gonna be held accountable that there's a saying that goes you're going to miss God but if we are talking about a sovereign providential God can we really miss him one his will be absolutely I think the spirit behind that is maybe talk about blessing or opportunities but yes God's God's will will always come to pass but we don't know that so when we when we say those things I would say when we say those things is I guess it's in the spirit of us not not missing out on opportunities and I think we all can agree that there have been times when we may have missed opportunities where God could have you know could have done this in our life or that now of course again ultimately in the grand scheme of things yes God's providential and sovereign will will always come to pass but we don't know that you know we we're not we're not omniscient so we don't know the infinite beginning but God does so then has a question let's see is it is it down or further down all right let's see it's okay I understand y'all you'll have lots of them as well let me see hold on there with the system this is going through these these questions I can read it if you agree please yes thank you let's see Lynn says how do you handle all of this as a mother wife in the background she said you have been so gracious through this Lynn one word prayer lots of prayer I don't know where I would be if I did not have my own personal time with the Lord my husband and I pray together we try to keep it daily may miss a day here there but we try to pray together as a couple and we lift each other up in prayer when we do that but I also have to have my own personal time in prayer and that's when I lay things out before the Lord I I bear it all and tell him this is how I'm feeling this is what I'm going through and I need I need strength I need courage I need all of those things in order to live this life daily that's what I do it's a lot of prayer yeah I think what was it what was her name I think let me see I was reading her question here she said yes Terry is there any biblical view on being reunited with your loved ones who are saved in the afterlife now you say afterlife you're talking about they've died and gone to be with the Lord are you talking about reincarnation as Christians we don't hold to reincarnation we don't hold to the view that when we die that you know we become we come back at something else so we hold to the position what the scriptures teach that those of us who died first of all anyone who dies they're going to spend eternity somewhere let me just let me just say that off the top anyone who dies their soul will spend eternity somewhere either with God Christ Holy Spirit the three in one in heaven or apart from him in hell and hell actually is a holding tank the lake of fire is the second death so so when you talk about the afterlife or you're talking about any eternity I'll just share the scripture with you that way you can see it and you are everyone can have a frame of reference here and this is what we believe the Bible teaches about those who died in Christ he said but we do not want you to be uninformed brother first that's along each other for verse 13 we do not want you to be uninformed brethren about those who are asleep so you would not grieve as though as the rest who do not have hope for if we believe that Jesus died and rose again even so God will bring with him those who have fallen asleep in Jesus for this we say to you by the word of the Lord that we who are alive and remain until the coming of the Lord will not precede those who have fallen asleep for the Lord himself would descend from heaven with a shout with the voice of the archangel and with the trumpet of God and the dead in Christ will rise first then we who are alive and remain will be caught up together with him with them excuse me in the in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air and so we shall always be with the Lord therefore comfort one another with these words so that's the position that we believe that we hold we believe that those who die in Christ they would be absent from the Biders be present with the Lord but we will be reunited with them in eternity and we will always be with them so there is always that there will be an ultimate family reunion and so this is why it's our responsibility and our job to get the gospel first and foremost to our Jerusalem our family you know those who are in our circle our immediate loved ones and then we spread out a lot of us get it inverted we want to go out and menacing share the gospel with the world and we got our own our own families don't even know the Savior let alone have not even been given the gospel and we got it backwards so we needed we need to start inside working our families before we go into the uttermost parts of the of the earth he says no our Christian relatives in heaven we I'm hoping I answered the question I think that should okay yeah okay okay okay okay great okay Jesus how often do you exercise missionary why are you asking me that he asked a question I know okay what he's asking I'm sorry oh these are questions see see how long it's taking me to answer this question just answer the question I would say right now probably twice a week that's not bad I want to do more for yeah she wants to do more I want to do at least four she wanted more yeah I would like to do at least four she wants to do more so probably said how long will I I mean my friend have to deal with his wise men of pause remember I'm asking for yeah okay probably I can't tell you I can't tell you my husband isn't your friend I can't how long it's gonna be it's different for everybody so I don't have an answer for that sorry mm-hmm I wish I could tell you'd be five years or less but I can't here's where hit listen here's what bear one of the birds man we don't like that verse right geez that is crazy so to her said if a believer is in sin and dies before repentance is he or she in the heaven yes well let me put it this way if a believer is living an unrepentant sin and refuses to repent then there'll be no reason for me to conclude that that individual is a Christian but I will say this when we die there is always going to be remaining sin that we have not repented of I hope we understand this that there there's going to be remaining sin that we have yet to repent of I have that have not dealt with because we're not we're not sinless we should be sinning less but we're not sinless so we have the reigning sin has been dealt away and has been done away with at the cross but that remaining sin that's Roman 6 that's Roman 7 okay yeah we're all gonna have we're all going to have that we're all gonna have remaining sin but that remaining sin should not be reigning in our life that's what a fight in the struggle comes so if a believer is in sin the question we have to ask ourselves are they living in sin are the are they practicing sin are they struggling and fighting to to win the victory over that sin if they don't have an attitude to where they care then that's different and there's no reason but to conclude or to go to even say that they are a Christian because the Bible says according to 1st John 3 4 through through 11 or 13 rather no one who's born of God practices sin no one who is born of God who has been made alive lives in a consistent or pattern or habitual pattern and lifestyle of sin because his seed his sperm are dwells it's in him or her so you we can't do that we cannot do that you gotta go back because there's more to the chavons now you're going the wrong way right here before that the top part of it right there all right nope they nope they such didn't they excommunicated me and said that because I forgave the sister who committed the trauma against me but they told the church to treat me like an unbeliever because I chose not to have a relationship with that sister I wrote the church a letter asking to remove my name remove my membership rather than they went before the church and told them to treat me like yeah that's that that wasn't difficult I'm assuming does that church have biblical elder rule is it you know by a pastor and in deacons because when I when I when I hear that maybe you sound like a pastor's this you know soul leader and have deacons that's acting like elders but elders and deacons are not the same elders deacons not the same elders are not on the same authority as deacons I mean deacons not on the same authority as elders elders rule over the church deacons are under elders but it would not it would not be surprising if this is invested the pattern or you know mode of most churches that do that let's see what barber character are you most interested in meeting when you get to heaven you know Adam Adam I'm like I need to talk to you dad because he's the one that basically you know set this whole thing in motion yeah he it was him he did it yeah I've always said I have questions for you yeah I have questions for she the reason why y'all got the menopause and all right I know them pregnancy y'all are trying to rule over us and stuff oh that's all y'all right thank you for the super chat you and Greek thank you I appreciate it let's see oh so it is congregation I'm not surprised I'm not surprised I'm not surprised at all Tommy said they say a Christian can fall in sin for a season but why doesn't the Bible say how long because we're to always examine ourselves to see whether we're in the faith that's why that's why we're to examine ourselves to see whether we're in the faith 2nd Corinthians 13 5 and then also excuse me also one of the scariest verses we all know it Matthew 7 21 23 not many not everyone says me lower lower into the kingdom of heaven but he does it with my father right so we should we should always examine ourselves to see whether we're in the faith I remember years ago when I was a kid my dad used to say boy if I'm not safe save me so I was one like me why you saying that you know I'm just saying just in case just in case that that that second Corinthians 13 5 I believe that that's a practical advocate look examine us a matter of fact in 1st Corinthians 11 before we take the Lord supper we're to examine ourselves so that we won't be judged by taking the Lord's table in an unworthy and unworthy manner Jesus love you said if a believer dies in the act of fornication or adultery they're going to hell agree no I wouldn't say that because he because here and I'm not condoning that either right but here's what I'm saying should the Lord return or he Terry are we honestly saying that we're going to be found doing everything that the Lord has called us to do because here's a quick here's the question that's a habitual right if it's a bitch when that's different yeah but but he said he said if they said if a believer dies in the act of fornication or adultery so it didn't say we didn't know there's no no pattern here let's just say this was a one-time thing and they died well then the question we have to ask ourselves is okay so what does that mean about salvation that if Christ saved us from our past present and future sins was that not in future yep now we're not listen we're not condoning now for fornication or adulterate we're not we're not we're not we're not condoning fornication or adultery we're saying that well let's not make those two sins the unpardonable sin because all sin the standard for righteousness is perfection and so before the act there's a thought so what about the thought what about the thought and then let's go back again what did Christ save us from he saved us from our sins so yes there are gonna be sins that we that we commit even as believers it would grieve the Spirit of God it would grieve the heart of God and it should grieve us but we can't base we can't use that as the basis was not a person goes to heaven hell a person goes to heaven hell if they live and sin and they reject the gospel if they're living in a pattern of sin and they refuse to repent then yes there's no reason for us to believe that a person is a Christian right but I don't want I don't want to give people the the false impression that the standard must be perfection it's not it we're striving for that we're striving for that we don't make excuses for for sin either we make confessions of sin and we try to do what is right thank you super chat brother thank you man so the $5 Friday okay let's see it's not this was it's this way well let me let me let me try go down and list here them Jackson boys say after your friends turn on you guys do you still care to have more Christian friends or do you rather keep small small yeah keep them small I mean we've always had a small circle anyway yeah I mean never really had like a ton of friends no it's always been a small intimate circle for people yeah no those are in our circle quote-unquote those not the ones that have really have not flipped on us it's those that there were just outside of the circle you know just just right outside on the fringe that we you know that we have done life with quote-unquote but yeah we we strive to keep our circle small and matter of fact it's a biblical principle the Bible says a man of many friends come to ruin so don't need don't need too many friends bro don't don't don't don't need too many Jesus is I want to be Samson David Moses Joshua Christine so look at what he did and I show her grace I like it what he did not show a grace I've done the same thing on a smaller scale yeah we don't have a license to commit sin though no absolutely not no shall we continue in sin Paul says grace that grace may bound he says man never be how can we who have died to sin notice died to sin that means the power of sin has been broken when we were in Christ we died in Christ the pop sin has been broken in Christ so those of us who are Christians we have died to sin the pop sin has no effect on us and meaning it has no control over us so how can we have died since they live in it because they said not sinless but we strive to sin less absolutely the Orthodox that's the Roman Catholic Orthodox Jews big yeah exactly yeah we're not saved by sinning less exactly the Spirit caused us to be different Jesus called to finish from the cross was Moses black he wasn't white he was he was it he was Hebrew he was Hebrew but he but I'm whether he was black he was of color we know he had to be of color his wife that he married who got who made Aaron and Miriam feels the kind of way got got God's attention and ended up turning Miriam lepros white as snow Moses married Ethiopian woman remember that story right so the question was not he was black and that I mean in the end of the day doesn't really matter it doesn't really matter and I'll say this as well I want to see this as an encouragement as an exhortation and punishment to us as well to stay away from these trivial trite and even sometimes divisive conversations about about skin color about what the night Jesus black and all that kind of stuff the Bible called those feudal feudal arguments and he says have nothing to do with those things when talk about genealogies and you know I'm better you because I'm from this tribe God says had nothing to do with that stuff retidus have nothing to do with leaving alone I found her question okay go it up but it's me way up there it can be way up is the way up before let me find it then I'll just read it while you go ahead yeah please sadden said Sharon as a Christian are you willing to share the hardest trial you have had to endure or overcome thus far if that is too personal please disregard you just ready to know it's not one of the hardest trials I've had to overcome mm-hmm I would say the the backstabbing by people that I trusted yeah why is that because I feel like there were certain people that we let our guard down with a little bit you know we were genuinely who we are we were genuinely the people that we are were we not behind the keyboard were we not in front of the camera okay we were genuinely those people and it was taken advantage of okay I believe yeah and blindsided we were blindsided so how did you how did you how did you I mean how are you or how did you do I mean I'm better now but I was initially always gonna is always gonna be I was furious I was angry it took me a minute to get over it and it takes me longer to get over things and it does my husband because we are us as females we take things a little bit more personal and we're more emotional so I know it takes me a minute and I may come to him several times and say look I'm having a hard time with this right you know and you walk me through it and you say hey look let's look at it this way or let's look at it that way and I'm like okay you know and then I'll go back and meditate on what he said and it helps and sometimes it'll be days later I'll come back you know what look I'm still I'm still struggling with this I need your help I'm struggling with this and you know we'll still have a conversation and he'll walk me through it again and eventually as the time goes by I get better yeah I'll say this as well don't let what people don't have don't let what people have done to you affect how you treat other people yeah the reason why I say that is because people don't deserve the the fallout yeah of abuse or mistreatment because they didn't do anyone else you know somebody else did right he just said it done I know but it's not right yeah because it's easy to say well you know what I'm done right I'm done with people I'm done with church folk I'm done with everybody I don't want to talk to nobody it's easy to go there right because we can't go there because that's that's missing now that's missing out on the blessing that God has for you yeah and this temporal time space continuum as human beings right because you never know who got a place in your life you never know once once those people are being removed you don't know who got me placing you right right and you have to you have to remember everything that we go through is not for us it's happening to us but it's not always about us it's about other people it's it's you know I mean if you think about the things that you and I have gone through and we look at it in hindsight someone else had benefited and blessed and been better been blessed by it because you and I went through it and so now they're going through it for somebody else to be blessed by and it's that trickle down effect and so this is why it's unwise and I will even say foolish for us to compare our trials with each other because how we deal with situations it may not it may not it's not for you it's God Taylor makes our trials for us but it's for somebody else who have gone through the same thing or we'll go through the same thing that you and I have gone through for them for them now to be blessed and be and to be encouraged and and built up so let's see I think who was he had a question about yeah David had a question about the lake of fire here is so the lake of fire is the second death does it last for eternity or is it an instant spiritual death notice it's for eternity it is definitely for eternity by the fact I'm going to read two scriptures here for you revelation chapter 20 verse 12 I start there says and I saw death the great and the small standing before the throne and books were opened and another book was open which is the book of life and the dead were judged from the things which were written in the books according notice according to their deeds that's how God judges all of us according to their deeds and the sea gave up the dead which were in it and death and Hades which is a great gave up the dead which were in them and they were judged every one of them according to their deeds and death and Hades were thrown into the lake of fire this is the second death the lake of fire and if anyone's name was not found and written in the book of life he was thrown into the lake of fire you have also revelation 21 verse 8 but for the cowardly and the unbelieving and the unbelieving and abominable and murderers and immoral persons and sorcerers and idolaters and all liars their part will be in the lake that burns with fire and brimstone this is the second death so this is for all eternity tailor made for hell or tailor made for the lake of fire hell is a holding place Hades is a holding place this is where this is where they go awaiting final judgment which is the second death and notice notice this in this list right here for a second in verse 8 you see was listed first the cowardly you would think adulterers which would be a more persons would be first no the cowardly or first just saying so if you if you if you're living a lifestyle of cowardice never being bold never being willing to take a stand for what is right you're you a coward this is who you are God says yeah there's a place for you there's a place for you so yes the lake of fire is eternal it's not it's not instant evaporation or nothing like that eternal forever ever ever ever let's see who else what else should I go down before we wrap up oh David says you guys have been a blessing to me and Ashley we only connected because of what happened with Corey I'm grateful that God used that situation to connect us thank you my brother I appreciate it man I thank you appreciate it yes that is correct here was the poor was black yep yes Moses's wife the poor was black let's see Christina says she wants to meet Joe David and Queen Esther the Polita says she wants to meet Jonah and be like bruh what made you think will you was going to run away from God in the ship and I believe that's how we will be talking Lord it is so funny hope the Lord keep our seats it'll be perfect human though I believe that it's gonna be laughter I believe you'll be laughter in heaven ain't gonna be just ain't be no somber stuff come on in his presence fullness of joy Barry said Donna reviews I saw her on another live and haven't seen her on your channel in a while as a moderator you still friends yes yeah we're still friends we're still good I mean this decided to take some people off this for sake of peace and and and reduce the reduction of confusion wanting to be any any issues or problems so blazing towards says here's a tough question if there are not signs and wonders when I preached the gospel am I preaching the correct gospel mark 16 17 then signs and wonders should follow the preacher well again there's where it here's what textual criticism comes in because of verses verses nine through 20 of mark 16 we don't find that in the in the earliest manuscripts those those were added by later by scribes so we don't find the most earliest reliable manuscripts noting that that passage so I would not use that as the as a basis for that but here's the thing what you can say here's thing or I can't say right to you blazing torch the miraculous sign is a person being converted that's that's that's that is the ultimate sign and wonder and miracle when a person according to Colossians chapter one has been transferred from the domain of darkness into the kingdom of his beloved son that is a sign and a wonder in America so you don't really need anything more than that the gospel is the saving work of God to the human soul whereby they have now changed from darkness to light Kelly says you never know what God is going to place in your path to help you I've always appreciate how the two of you have taken time out of your schedule to me that means a lot appreciate it sister thank you JP was going on my brother I thought our judgment as believers is a war ceremony yes it is that's that's that's that's yeah revelation 20 ain't gonna do it us we that's one appointment listen revelation 20 ain't trying to be there for that hmm no no no first Corinthians three second Corinthians five yes that's that's us that's that's our that's our judgment Proverbs he is asking you JP I ask you to forgive me for disrespecting you publicly in the past yeah brother you showed me grace forgive me that's for you brother JP from brother Proverbs look at God y'all blazing torch said I would like to ask Enoch what was walking with God 300 years like let's see let's see it was let me see Jesus says haven't seen miss haven't seen Chavis miss cherry down and perfectly survive in a hot minute you know I'd be answered so perfectly imperfect she chose not to you know not to support me anymore for the whole Corey situation I had nothing against the sister sister reach out to me asking us matter of fact ironically asked me to marry her daughter San Antonio right say that she appreciated my ministry appreciated my teaching and things that you know whatever whatever and now again and this is not a job I'm just being listen we this this is real talk we this is what we do we have nothing to hide I'm just saying you know we have not done anything to these people got love for perfectly and perfect had nothing against her she asked against me and believe that I send against Corey by by exposing him I don't know how I haven't you know it's funny we just read you just reading about and talking about what heaven is gonna be like yeah please ma'am you have to see we just finished talking about you know there what heaven is going to be like and I'm like okay look if we're supposed to be brothers and sisters right mm-hmm and we're all going to the same place that's that's our goal our end goal is to end up in the same place right yeah so what are we there's not gonna be no segregation in heaven no is there no so what are they gonna do when they get there and they see you there oh I'm not going over there but so to clarify you know she she had asked if I would if I could you know officiate her way she asked if she asked me to she she had a restart to me was willing to you know bring us out there but our schedules I think we know they found somebody else but we couldn't do it but she did she did ask me and I would have done it but we just were able to do it so and it's again it's ironic you know people I mean I'm just saying y'all this is this is this is what this is what we we deal with this is what we deal with I just I don't take it too hard I'll take offense to it I don't I don't hold anything against against my brothers and sisters I pray that they mature I pray people understand what we're what sin is and what it is not and what your preference and what God's precept is and what what should be the standard and what should trump the other but unfortunately you know that that that comes by God's grace I was curious where did you go to seminary at mr. Woods answer I did not you want to go ahead tell that story why I didn't get my degree thanks to you go right here thanks to me for those who don't know we'll close it out with that yeah we were both attending Bible college together we took a few classes together 2000 was it 2000 yeah well maybe 2000 for you 2000 one for me because I was pregnant with my room one of my classes yes but anyway so as things progress and you know he went on and I only took a few classes but for whatever reason our finances got touched mm-hmm and was my class load oh you're taking like three four four classes okay so yeah so anyway money got funny and I told say God told him I said that maybe just maybe God is not allowing you to go to school or to finish school because it would make you prideful and when she said that to me I was like what you mean and she's like yeah I just you know I just really believe you know me when I when I listen when I say I was I was intent on getting my degree and going to seminary I said I was intent I mean and I was getting A's and all my classes to yeah I was like man I was and then people that you were in class with was graduating they were finishing and graduating walk across in the stage crossing it crossing the stage and I'm just like you know and he's the same people I was discipling same people I was mentoring same people I was teaching and doing Bible studies some people some of them were from your young adult past yeah I was yes they were under you yeah yes yeah who gave us thumbs down that's fine it's good thumbs down thumbs up it's cool because people watch the show people are watching it so thank you so let's see what degree of blazing what degree do you need if only God can teach me to the spirit why do we think God is universal a man a man some people some people they they they glory in education thing like that but I would have to be looking back on it it would have it would have made me it would have made me arrogant kind of like what Paul said God gave him a thorn in the flesh to keep him to keep him from exalting himself keep him humble and so you know my thorn was was finances man he hit it I see he hit it hard like I couldn't do nothing I can do anything so so I never and I guess Austin said I never had a but I never had a desire to go back yeah that's true I never have a desire to go back I mean I'm God's Grace this is where I and looking back at right now looking at where we are now with the church what's in seminaries now not it's it's and it's like for me what what purpose would that have served actually I mean even where we are now what purpose would that have served other than people looking at you and saying oh he has these letters behind his name so let's let's have him come over here let's have him do this that or the other yeah and based on the churches that we've seen it would have gotten used anyway right right I agree let's see in the last comments before we wrap up we want to try to keep this thing you know around two hours and stuff so y'all know how it goes just want to make sure they missed any comments and if I did I'll try we try to answer them after the stream but let's see so so I'll just say it before we wrap up I hope everyone here is our heart this is not this is not an attack we're not attacking anybody we would just being truthful and honest about the things that we have gone through things that have affected us relationships that we've had with some people and they chose for you know whatever reason that they have with us anymore and it just is what it is I don't I'm not going to you know be angry with them I think is it I think it's a maturity issue especially when especially when you have one minute said that this person or we have been a blessing to you and we've you know I'm who's changed you know we haven't you know in a negative sense we strive to to grow like everybody but but no we don't have any personal acts to grind with anybody we don't the situation here that phrase now it is what it is you know I'm not I'm not going to I'm not going to stop doing what God has come to do and so I'm gonna make sure that I remain by God's grace consistent in faithful to what he's coming doing that just forwarded me and those who follow us will those who support us will those who won't and it is what it is I mean I'm not I'm not gonna be in an attack campaign the mob will be the mob God will deal with them I'll respond as necessary as needed as I as I always have been you know that you always have to give you give you the opportunity to always share your heart because we're in this together I want you to feel pent up with all this stuff and you can't you can't express it so whether God allows you to express it in writing whether you like to express it in videos whether with me or by yourself I believe that your ministry God is using that's why I've been trying to you know push you to continue to put out your content because it's going to be a blessing to a lot of women and others as well too and you saw it in the questions here you know how you deal with hurt and betrayal and things like that because other women need to hear that and know that as well to deny by themselves so any thoughts do you have ma'am for your before we close out your your live your your session what's the score y'all on the game what's the score I forgot all about the score proper this is game for right yeah game for what's the score I'm hoping that I hope that Denver but anyway but yes so that's that's that's what I want you to be any thoughts there for me next next week I'm not I don't think we're gonna be live I don't think I may be live tomorrow if I do I'll let y'all know tomorrow yeah tomorrow Saturday Sunday we definitely not doing a lot but Monday no excuse me Tuesday the 13th I'm not even gonna tell y'all the 13th the 13th the interview I have coming up low one on the 13th you don't want to miss that one you don't miss that you want to talk about vindication this is vindication you tell me already I did I did tell me one about July that's that's that's penny but that's pending I had that that's pending that's pending I didn't change the dates up so anyway so so this Tuesday coming up yeah you've been for a treat you've been for a treat I guess I'm gonna say it's vindication now this this is vindication I didn't have to go looking for this one I found look for none of them God always vindicates those who he chooses to vindicate they stand for him so Tuesday night 7 o'clock Tuesday night 7 o'clock you are going to be in for a treat mark your calendars this 30 the 13th June 13th June 13th nope I ain't doing it ain't nope this way I do want to say something real quick go right ahead I want to say that I appreciate we appreciate everyone who has text who has inboxed who has given a love gift just sending us words of encouragement we really do appreciate that y'all just don't know and a lot of times they come just when we need to hear it yep or just when we need to read it yep it always comes when we need it yeah and I just want to publicly thank each and every one of you for your support and your prayers yeah when we say support prayers financial support we do we appreciate it all I don't like my wife mentioned that so we do we do thank you all so much for that because it definitely is an encouragement to to me and my family and it just you know happens to know that God you know God still he he supports his own and he helps people to you know to do what he has called you know them to do and so those of you who have been you know supporters of this channel God God bless you we praise God for you and and even people from unlikely places who have come even throughout all this and come alongside and have been you know an encouragement like brother JP you know this young brother man have you know has been you know supporting us as well just out of nowhere just out of nowhere so you gotta find him a ride or die this kind only comes by fasting and prayer my brother yeah but no um but yes so again I just I just want to say thank you all mean sister serene and I and please if I just call our name don't don't don't don't talk to me if I miss anybody but Lord knows y'all know who you are but but I just thank God man for you for all of you who have been supporting us you know and have not you know have not have not asked for anything in return just there's one of the support and been encouraged so this is a this is a blessing yes June 21st is gonna be another one June 21st is gonna be another one because he must be hosting no no no so he I'm gonna be on his channel I'm gonna be on brother JP channel to mark that as well if you haven't seen promo I'm gonna be on him I'm gonna be on his channel one of the debating again with with Bryson Gray and also young Don reborn young Don reborn of course you know my position on a Trinity I'm gonna be dealing in addressing the opposite respond to the opposite of that 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