 Welcome back to the 85 South Show Backwoods Lounge here at One Music Fest and we are sitting on the couch with the ladies of Black Girl Stuff, the hit show on Rebolt TV. Yes. You already know, and of course you know Carlos Miller, I'm Bre Renee, straight from the A. Your girl, Brick Hall, what up, though? She girl, Toy Bricks, what's up? Yeah, and today we backstage with Backwoods, but we kicking in the lounge outside of One Music Fest. Me and Lowe's been doing exclusive interviews and my girls from Black Girl Stuff were out here. So they was like, oh, we got to pull up backstage with Backwoods, vibe out with y'all, so I'm like, let's go, let's kick it. Welcome to the Trap on Wheels. This is a mobile trap. That's fire. It's a mobile, it's Trap on Wheels. And I thank you. You know we going to pull up on you ever, Bree. You know that. And we got to say thank y'all because y'all like, y'all gave us that razzle-dazzle. You know what I mean? That's, yeah, because it's like, they didn't even know that we was plugged in with y'all like that. And now that y'all here, and they was like, oh, okay, yes. It's up. It's all right, bro. Backwoods situation. I see it. No, we'll show. One Music Fest is lit today. There's so many artists performing, Josie just hit the stage, but who y'all excited to see? I'm not going to lie. I'm excited to see Lil' Kim. That's my girl. NYC, Brooklyn, Big Energy. I'm excited to see my girl. Okay. Lil' Kim is a legend. I don't know if you said it, but you already know Janet Jackson. Oh, the queen. Ms. Jackson, if you next. Ms. Jackson, if you next. I'm excited to see Janet. So who you want to see most? I want to see all the legends because, you know, this is a two-day event. So we're going to have to see a lot of dope performances. I would love to see Janet Jackson, that Michael Lil's sister. And then Lil' Kim. I don't know if she's going to act a fool because she told you in the song, she's going to throw shade if she don't get paid. And she got hits and it would just be dope to see her do her Lil' Kim dance in real life. I know what's crazy is like actually, since we backstage, like we behind the main stage, so I kind of already had eyes on her, Lil' Kim in the building. So. Okay. Put up Kim. Yeah. We got the exclusives back here with Beckwood. I'm trying to see like how y'all think these artists like prepare for their show, though, because I know we got like your nerves going crazy. It's so many people. You hit a crowd already. People already performing. Like I'll be trying to get in my zone. You know what? I think it's a lot of mental preparation just like for all of us when we're backstage on our shows and we getting ready to go out and like give our energy to people. I think it's just to take that moment by yourself and just, whoo, and then go out there and just give it out. Leave it on the floor. I think it's your friends and the vibe that you got in your trailer. Cause like you already put the work in throughout the week. So at this point it's like, yo, let's pray. Let's go out there with good vibes. Let's like turn up, like take a shot. No, for sure. I was thinking that it's friend too. Roll up Beckwood. Roll up Beckwood. Roll up Beckwood. But I feel like as an artist, they might shock you though. You know, you be, you go through your process, your routine of, you know, your show, making sure you know the words. Cause some of these songs, they don't perform in their set list. So you might go out and you be over thinking it and then once the crowd see you and you start performing that song, it might just take you to a whole another level. Cause you're like, I'm worried about the lyrics. They know the lyrics. I don't want to sing along with you, but I definitely as an artist want to see you sing the song. But like see, no, but I was back to what you were saying about like the friends thing and the vibe and the energy. Like I feel like you cannot be, if you're a friend or somebody that's hanging out with an artist, like you definitely got to be mindful of the energy that you bring it around before the hand. You can't be on the weird stuff. You can't be doing too much. Like they say scan the hose. Bring the vibes to me please. Yeah and be easy. Make that day as light as possible. You know, they got to perform. Like you said, roll up. Roll up. Make yourself useful. Turn some of this noise off. Don't be asking me all them questions. Yeah. Figure it out. Yeah. Go grab your partner's sandwich or something like that. Look out. Look out. Extend yourself. Yes. I love that. Access service. We live for that. This is my phone. Now we were talking earlier right before we started this about how y'all let those guys come on the show and give bad relationship advice. When can I come on there and give some bad relationship advice? Listen y'all. I told Carlos I don't be listening to nobody. Listen, my biggest thing is show improve. So I don't care what you talk about. For show. Until you show some proof of what you actually do. Jesus could come sit right here. Let them talk so we can see what they doing wrong. I wanted to hear their side. I didn't want us to be arguing with them and telling them what they could do. Cause that's what they expected. They always expect the woman to be. Yeah, yeah, yeah. And they set up a bunch of. You like that. Yeah. You set it up on the man's side. So they play these one point for us. Yeah. Stand up. One point. Dang it. Black girl stuff. I'll be making him watch Black girl stuff. I'll be too much. Yes. From the producer eye. From the viewer standpoint. I love it. And then, you know, he be starting to pick up on little stuff. Now Britt, when y'all do have men on the show. Okay. They be on you hard. They do be on Britt. They be on me. But I got. I was going to ask you how you navigate when you know you in the right. And they still trying to put that pressure on you. Cause that don't mean nothing to me. It's all about respect. That's my number one thing. And I feel my man is securing me as long as he know that way. He got it safe. You can say whatever you want to say, bruh. I done seen it. Done it. I'm good. So it's like this background. It's just a brick wall. It's a brick wall. It's a brick wall. No, for sure. That's what I'm going to call you then. I ain't calling you Britt no more. I'm always scared. She be so poised. Even catch it until you point it out. And then. I be like, look at Britt. I'll be like, yeah. Yeah, I love it though. That's good energy. They do be doing the most though. So yeah. I'm a new fan of Black girl stuff. Cause now it's just keep popping up every time I turn my YouTube on. I got to record it on his DVR. So. Oh shit. Not recorded on the DVR. That's when you know you in a relationship, babe. Come watch this. Come watch this, babe. Come roll up. Come watch this. Well, I want to ask all of y'all since y'all here. What are some of y'all favorite moments from the show? Has y'all been there from the beginning? So what are some of y'all favorite moments? Start and breathe. Or favorite episodes or things that you be like. This was crazy. Well, one monumental for me was, I thought this was really dope. Cause I'm a huge, I'm a huge Whitney Houston fan. You know that. So when we got to actually go visit new edition at a, at a, at their rehearsal and then got to interview them. And I got to sit down with the Bobby Brown as a Whitney Houston fan. I was like dope. And I ain't even mentioned Whitney. And he mentioned Whitney to me. And I was like, that was a little thing. No, for sure. Actually not anybody that's been on this show. I think it's just us, especially cause I came in on season two and I was nervous and I had never done anything with talk or TV. And they just brought like all the right energy. Cause you know, sometimes females be catty. You don't know what you're getting into. And it was just like my sister's like, oh, I love these women. They saw down earth and they felt real. And for me, that was like made the show. Oh, yeah. A show. Now that new edition for sure, that was lit. But just seeing how we're there for each other. It's, it's like, it feels good to be able to confide in somebody and like laugh about shit and even grow confidence with somebody. I think that's the best one. Yeah, I would say that. Cause it's like, you get to see, we made, we all became friends through this. You know what I mean? And you get to see them grow and transition as a woman on camera and off camera. Like, like Tori really has come out her shell in this second season and and being super vocal and really pop her shit. Like how Tori breaks pop her shit. So it was like, it was fun to see that transition in her as a, you know, as a co-worker. It's like, okay, I see you. Let's go. But I mean, I got two beautiful women speaking life into me. We not going to get mushy on y'all. What else we talking about? Let's get spicy. Yeah. Let's talk about how I love my bitch. Spicy jalapeno. Yeah. Well, we're going to do spicy on the 85 self show. We don't got spicy on the 85 self show. But I don't have like no scandalous topics. No. I don't got to be scandalous. I'm going to be fine. I'm going to be fine. Well, I want to ask y'all this. This been going crazy on social media. Like you said, y'all are all bad women. What do y'all think about the first date list? First date list. Okay. I got something to say. I feel like Shorty was tripping. You know what I'm saying? Big shout out to the Cheesecake Factory. They have never done me wrong. For real. I like their dark skinned bread that they serve in a bowl. Oh, yeah. Drinks is drinking. You know what I'm saying? It's a vibe. And really if somebody like you, they'll go wherever. We could go on a walk. We can go to the park. Like I think people, you know what it is? Add that to the list. I'm sure going on a walk would not be a good first date. You could. No, you can't. Cheesecake Factory, but you do want to go on a walk. I'll go to Cheesecake Factory. I'll go to Cheesecake Factory. You could definitely. It's not about the amount of money spent on a date. It's about the amount of thought that went into the date. That makes a good date. So I feel like if you know they don't eat seafood, then of course don't take them to a seafood restaurant. Right. But you could do little things that's not or inexpensive, that's really thoughtful and would make a vibe. For the first date? For the first date. Whenever. And if shorty like you and you got good conversation and it survived, maybe you got some backwoods. Right. You can kick it in the car. It don't really matter. You got to start gauging better on how much this girl already like you. That's the determining factor. That's what it is. That's what it is. Yeah. That's it. What you think about it? I mean, you're going to have to keep this up. Absolutely. We can start off. We can go up and down, but don't act like you can't. Okay. Now y'all got random women just walking up a grid. We didn't start it so. I didn't even see her. She was just like, mm. Right. Talk your shit. That's right. Now keep it simple for me. And what about you two? I don't know. Make me first impressions of everything. Smoking backwoods. Like where we went though. We could have went up to the top of LA where the lights was at. Yeah. Just like make it memorable. I don't know where the bookshelves all around us. And we got to talk. It's like wherever you can go and actually like. That's cute. You can know that person. I feel like it doesn't matter. Like I said, where you going? Cause me and Los was just talking about how we used to eat. What was y'all first date? Tell us y'all first date. The first one out, it was so long ago. Official like first date. Like we used to meet out like just being in Atlanta. And we went, it was like we already out. We might hang out. Smoking a car. Or then like. Yeah. When we were broken in. I was in college. So we eating McDonald's. That's what I was just saying. That's what I said. It was down the street. That's cool. So the date list should have an age on it. So it's like first dates for like college. Right. That makes sense. I think this. Absolutely. Absolutely. A whole lot of birthday people would just be honest. Be honest. I like you. I'm broke. I can't do all that extravagant shit this week. Be honest. What you said? The guys should just say that up front. Yeah, just say it. Be honest. You beautiful. I'm not about to do all of this. I'm fucked up this week. It's coming, babe. I got you. But I like you. Right. Yeah. I can't take you to buy this expensive food. Not yet. But if I didn't do it, what would you have ate today? Let me take you there. Ooh, energy. What would you was going to eat already? What would you eat? It's Wednesday. What would you buy? You knew you was going to stop and get Chipotle. Why can't you take the Chipotle? Why can't you take the Chipotle? You're supposed to come and upgrade your life. But sometimes I need to come and meet you on your level too. Yeah. Talk to y'all. Like you like Wendy's nuggets. Right. It don't start until I get my check. Okay. But I want to highlight you wins. Yeah. We can't go do nothing wins. Do you like that little soup from Panera? Yeah, I know. I'm not a nigga but you a soup. Man, don't take advantage of the daylight. See, when you start taking women out at night, that's when shit get expensive. Yeah. 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That's L-O-U-N-G-E. To receive your first month free, visit bluetooth.com for more important safety information and details. And we thank Bluetooth for sponsoring the podcast. You can give some... Like a mad name. Some group puns or something. They be having a little... You gotta be a creator. Little wins that you can go when the school goes or something. They be like, yeah, they ready to see ahead. Because the key is in there. You can't take me out in the daytime because I want to go to the mall. I want to go to the aquarium. Then I want to get something to eat. And then be one stop shop. Is there such thing as a first date that's too extravagant? Like, now you're doing too much. Yeah, I don't want to meet no family on the first date. Yeah, me neither. Nobody in your family. I don't know you like that. What if we out and I just run into like my auntie or something. Y'all let the aquarium too on a Wednesday. Yeah, set it up like that. But if it's a happenstance, okay. Yeah, you can't control that. That's cool. What y'all know goes for first date? Sometimes though, if the more or extreme extravagant a guy is going, he kind of full of shit. Like he's trying to cover something. You try to do too much. He overcompensating. Like you can go out your way, but like it's almost like that love bombing. I agree. Like, okay. Yeah, that might scare me because you doing all this. Like what you trying to do? Yeah. It's almost like you trying to force yourself instead of you being authentically you. It's like you trying to force something. A connection. So I'm going to get scared and run. You just start doing too much. I'm going to be like, um. Yeah. When it come fast, it go fast. No thanks. I'm still taking it up. He said I'm still taking it up. Oh my God. Let me ask y'all women. Nobody ever asked y'all this. Hypothetically, in a hypothetical world, we living on the alternate reality. If you had to pay for the first date, what would be your price range? You have to pay for the first date. It can be over $3.50. Oh, really? So $3.50. Damn, I'm a trick. What would you say? Because where are we going to eat it? I was going to say five honey. I almost said five. Like for our first date. Five is a lot. But we might have drinks. That's like that. Like if we have a couple rounds of drinks, that's like $1.50. Hold up. What would you say to her? Food is another thing. I don't really got a price but I want to do something he remembered. You going to remember me. This is in girl money now. In girl money. And we just keeping the night going or we like, hey, nothing we can't do. Talk your shit. If you spend money, they going to spend more. Yeah, but it got to be that type of thing. Perfect solution to this conundrum. What is it? Women should start paying for them. Too fast now. Let's see. I'm going to say realistically. Yeah, you let me advance. But I'm not coming into this over. Okay, I got to ask y'all this. No, this too good. I got to ask. So like on the date are y'all like keeping up a little bit in your mind with the tab? Hell no. No. And stable like that. I'm having like 48 oysters. Is she wild out? She ate 48 oysters. Like guys, your stomach going to be towed up. I would have been looking at her. Yes, she can. He laughs. She does. That's why I'm asking y'all. Because like this is her standard. She said if she was out by herself she would have did it anyway. I ain't going to lie. On the first date I'm probably and maybe cause I'm a greedy bitch. But I'm probably not going to eat as much as I normally would even eat. No. I ain't going to eat as much as I would get down like if I was with my home girl. She could have ate it. Like man my honey I can afford that. So I might, I might not even eat really all of this. We just tasting shit and we running it up. But if I'm on the first date I'm going to keep it cute. Because I don't want you to think like damn baby girl show kid put it away. They got to just gobble this shit down. Listen. No, I'm not going all of that. No. Now you don't have the word like I don't, I wouldn't say eat 48 oysters. But me and appreciate when a woman eat all her food. Yeah, eat all your food. I mean we know that it's cute and all that delay. Only eat some of it. But eat all that shit. We bought it. Yeah. But 48 is a little while. She crazy about it. Yeah. 48 is excessive. Well we appreciate the ladies of black girl stuff stopping through here. Y'all drop y'all social media. Let them know what they can find this show. Keep up with y'all and keep the conversations going. Yeah. Thank y'all for stopping by coming and checking on me. Yeah, it's our baby girl. Yeah. Make sure y'all follow black girl stuff at black girl stuff on all social media Instagram. TikTok at Revolt TV as well. Black girl stuff airs every Tuesday night on cable. You can check us out on cable. We syndicate it. Okay. Let's go. Every Tuesday night 9 p.m. on Revolt. Yeah. And y'all want to shout out y'all first on Instagrams? At Lay Honey B, L, E, H, O, N, E, Y, the letter B. That's where you can find your girl, Britt Hall. B-R-I-X-X. All right. Back with us backstage. 85 self-show. We out of here. Thank y'all.