 So what we're lacking is consistency. You want to be useful to someone? Be consistent and keeping in touch with that person over time. Don't be lazy with your, with your WhatsApp. I see a lot of people that are really lazy with their WhatsApp. You send them a message and they never even answer that message. What do you think is going to happen if they get in a tough situation? If they haven't answered my previous messages. How am I going to know about it to begin with? But, you know, so, so build that relationship over time. Keep in touch with people, send them little memes, send them little jokes. Anything that lets them know that you're thinking of them. Then the day when they're running to trouble and you're contacting them, it won't feel weird.