 When you do this the narcissist will ghost you The narcissist doesn't care about being liked or respected by you Which is how they're able to do the things they do Because all they really want is to be adored They want to be decided by you but for that to continue they can never let you have them Because you can't desire something that you already possess If you don't desire them in that way Then they will settle for your fear of them instead They will dominate and control you They will treat you as they're subordinate. They expect you to obey them unquestioningly Because it's about their needs. It's all about them The narcissist will ghost you. They will give you the silent treatment And you won't know why they're not talking to you So you will try to find a solution You will try to think of something to say in a way that they can hear it Because you assume that you must have done something wrong And you want them to like you So you're constantly walking on eggshells You're extremely cautious about your words and actions Because they're easily offended or upset which leaves you very confused and off-balance Because nothing is safe or secure So you're experiencing a lot of anxiety And you begin to lose confidence in yourself and your abilities Which is exactly what they want because they are ghosting you for a reason And they are ghosting you because you refuse to be controlled You refuse to succumb to their will And instead you continue to resist pressure and temptation So that is why they ghost you to put you in a position where you are worrying about what they think Because when someone stops talking to you It's because they want to dominate and control you But when they first met you they treated you like you were special Like they had never met anyone like you But as time went by They stopped texting you They stopped answering your phone calls As time went by you stopped hearing from them because you didn't act in the way that they wanted you to You didn't say things in the way that they wanted you to say it Which left you very confused Because you couldn't understand what you did wrong But if you confront them on it, they will gas like you They will say that you're paranoid They will call you negative, but they are ghosting you for a reason They're doing it to put you off balance To make you worry about what they think Which is not normal It's very unhealthy behavior Because it's just a power struggle To see who will submit under pressure To see who will win To see who will end the silence first It's all a game to the narcissist In the beginning they put you on a pedestal They pulled you up And then they pushed you off They ghosted you Because now they've got their eye on something else They're looking for the next shiny new toy After they've left you in a state of confusion To where you don't know what's going on If you confront them on it, they will attack you They will gas like you They will devalue you And you will struggle to make sense of it But they're doing it for a reason They're ghosting you to keep you off balance So that you will try to come back to them and have a conversation And then they have an opportunity to attack you Because they believe love is for fools They see love as a weakness So when you try to love them or when you try to understand what they're doing They see you as being weak So now they can act free from restraint or control They can dish it out on you They can treat you however they choose to They can punish you And it gives them supply Because it puts them in the dominant position But while you're going through it, you don't understand what's going on Because you're looking for a logical and rational reason for their behavior When it's actually not something that you can fix Because it's not even your problem to solve So you can't solve it because you're not dealing with a rational person You're dealing with someone who is not in accordance with reason or logic Someone who is only doing it to create emotional instability To make you question yourself To make you insecure To see how much you're willing to tolerate so that you lose control of yourself And then they can mold you into whatever they want you to be They can turn you into their puppet And then they can be the puppet master They can be the one who is pulling the strings Because they already know what they're doing They're just hoping that you will question yourself Rather than questioning their behavior Because people with a strong sense of self will understand that if you were in an adult relationship And the other person is not texting you back or calling you for several days Or they disappear for a couple of weeks Then that is not normal And they're not looking for a person like that They don't want to be around someone who has a strong sense of self Because they can't mold a person like that They can't turn them into their puppet So if they realize that you have a strong sense of self, they will see you as a lost cause And they will ghost you Because they're looking for someone who is more like Clay Someone who they can mold into whatever they want them to be Thank you for watching If you found this video helpful, please give it a thumbs up Share your thoughts in the comment section Hit the subscribe button to receive the notifications If you would like to support the channel You can donate at paypal.me slash narksurvivor You can book a one on one with me on my website It's narksurvivor.uk Thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon