 He says he doesn't want to be in a relationship, but wants an ongoing relationship with me with exclusive friend with benefits. He says he has strong feelings for me. Is that possible? Yeah, yeah, it's possible. If all you want is a friend with benefits situation, then you can be, a guy can feel a lot for you and only want a friend with benefits situation. It's one of the confusing things that a lot of women kind of throw out there because there's a lot of women out there. And what they think is, if I'm in love, nothing else matters. And so they feel it for a guy and they just go, right? And they will be like, okay, well, you know, red flags all over the place, says he just wants to be friend with benefits, but we're in love, so let's do it. And maybe I can convince him, maybe he'll want a real relationship to please me and for me because he's so in love with me. And that's rarely, that's rarely how it works. For most guys, if they, like for guys, commitment tends to be a really kind of like serious issue, right? Like it's like, okay, you know, he's telling you, like I just want a friend with benefits and I know that I don't want anything more because of usually it's some kind of baggage that he has from his past, right? I was hurt, my family is filled with people who are divorced, you know, he thinks that women hurt, manipulate men, you know, yada, yada, yada, yada, right? And those things are pretty ingrained in his mind. And so you are like, love is all that matters. And he's like, I'm in love, but you know, I don't want to end up getting hurt again or getting hurt like my friends did or whatever. And so he's willing to let that obstacle stand in front of him no matter what. And what ends up happening a lot of times is women just end up getting hurt because they think that something's gonna change and then they're getting physical and so they're just getting more and more and more attached while the guy is like, I told you from the beginning that this is what I wanted and nothing else was gonna happen and now you're turning it into something else. And it happens over and over and over again.