 Hi, I'm Matthew coast head dating coach and founder at commitment connection calm and today We're gonna talk about first date tips for women. So if you're a woman and you're going on a first date Here are some good tips for you so that you have a good first date The first one is enjoy yourself regardless of what you do. So There are a lot of women who will go out on a date and it's like this interview time, you know It's like, you know, what do you do? What's this? What's that? You know, how's your relationship to your family? You're looking for kids, you know, and it's just it's not a good experience for a guy And it's not a good experience for you and you'll just hate dating after a while if you go out and do that when you go on a date So don't do that enjoy yourself instead and and you know have a good time No matter what it is that you're going out and doing and just be flexible and have a good time The second one is allow the man to lead you So a lot of women are kind of resistant to this and you know, there's this big kind of feminism push out there and and You know guys They like to feel like men men like to feel like men is unless it's a feminine guy who If it is a feminine guy that you're on a date with then he's probably okay with you leading things But if he's trying to lead things if he's trying to move things in a certain direction Unless you really don't like them, you know Just allow him to kind of move things and obviously don't do anything that you're not comfortable with doing but you know if he You know wants to you know walk around just you know, just accept it and just be like, yeah Sure, let's go, you know, do walk around and do whatever, you know You want to take me on this experience that you want to take me on and so that kind of brings us to our next one Which is connecting with your feminine side and so kind of letting a man lead is is feminine man a feminine thing to do and so before you get a lot of women, you know, they're in the workplace these days and so The workplace is typically pretty masculine in order to be successful in most workplace environments You have to be masculine and so they end up Leaving the workplace and going on these dates and they're still in this masculine, you know task oriented You know, let's get things done type of attitude and that's not very attractive. What is incredibly attractive and just Absolutely magical and exciting and just wonderful in every single way is a woman who's in touch with her feminine side Like that is just beautiful and gorgeous and amazing And so just so hot and so many different ways And and so if you want to a guy to be more attracted to you, you know Get a ritual of something that you do before you got on a date that Allows you to get more in touch with your feminine side. It could be you know having a bubble bath It could be dancing around a room singing, you know, whatever it is just allow yourself to connect with your feminine side the next one is Focus on what you like about him and what you're and what you like about what you're doing. So the more you Can find things that you're enjoying about, you know him and you enjoy about the place that you're in The more you're going to enjoy the experience and the happy you will be and the happy you are The more he will like you. So, you know guys want to make women happy and if you're already happy It's really easy for him and it makes him feel good about himself He's like wow this woman's just so carefree and easy to deal with that's a great thing To be it's a great thing to be a very attractive to men So the next one is ask him questions about his passion So guys love to talk about what they are into, right? And so find out what he's up to in life and just allow him to talk about it And it's not necessarily his job, you know, it could be some passion that he has, you know Find out what he cares about in life and and just let him ramble on about that That's a very attractive thing to a guy is to be able to talk about those things You know, create an emotional connection with him So the next one is talk about fun and exciting things that you've either done or that you are going to do. So it's really attractive to have a An interesting life, you know to have a interesting life outside of your Relationships to have cool things going on to have cool things that you've done You know, that's really really attractive to men. And so if you can talk about things that you've done Or things that you're going to do that have been fun and exciting that can really connect with the man in a great way So the next one is If you like a guy, let him know that you're sexually attracted to him and You know, but you don't want to come on too strong But what you do want to do is make let him know that you're interested So there's kind of this Like really bad dating advice out there that talks about trying to get a guy to chase you or You know Faking disinterest in a guy like that stuff is not that's not good. It's not good at all. It doesn't lead to a healthy relationship It doesn't create a good foundation If you're interested in a guy, you know, just let him know by saying things like, you know Just wait for him to do something that you like and just be like, oh, that was you know That was really attractive or say that was really hot or something like that And and basically what you're doing is you're letting him know that he's not in the friend zone with you Which by the way, you know, one of the worst things for a guy is getting put into the friend zone and guys Usually get put in the friend zone a lot And so if he feels like he's in the friend zone, he probably won't continue to pursue you So if you like him, let him know you're sexually attracted to him And uh, he's much much much more likely to pursue you if you do And so the last thing is if you enjoy yourself Tell him that you'd like to you'd like for him to take you out again, you know or meet up with you again like Again, you know show interest but don't show, you know, don't come on too strong But you know at least let him know that you're interested because if you don't then he won't pursue you And if you do and he is interested, you know, there's the chance of him pursuing you and Taking you out again and asking you out on another date is massive I mean, it's huge. So Let him know So that's it for today If you want more information on how to attract a quality man into a committed Lasting relationship, make sure you go to my website at commitment connection.com and take the quiz there I'm matthew coast and i'll speak with you again soon