 Waxing sucks. It's basically torture. It's time-consuming and expensive. And if guys aren't expected to do it, then why are we? Ouch! In reality, grooming requests often lead to hairy situations. But happy wife. Happy life. This is neat, and this is Laura. They just got married nine months after they had their baby Cleo. Oops. Honestly, they have no idea what they're doing. But whatever, they're in love. And we're here to help. Who's got it? Guilty. I've been with my girlfriend for a year or so, and we're really comfortable with each other. There's just one thing I haven't really had the guts to bring up. And it's that I'd really prefer if she kept her, you know, oh, bear! Oh, I get it, like her vagina. Am I being a dick if I ask her to do that for me? This is actually a perfect question for us. Because I'm the exact opposite. You keep your vagina shaved, and I'd prefer if you didn't. And I'd even asked you at one point to try. And you did, but you didn't like it. Well, just call it what it is. Well, there's a lot of maintenance between the left and the bush. There's a lot of maintenance required in having that. You've got to get your little clippers out, make sure it's in nice shape, and it takes more time than just take it all off. If the amount of physical attraction you have for her is in any way inhibited by this, it will serve both of you to find a solution. Right. Because while she might enjoy having the bush, she'd probably more enjoy having you go down on her with more passion and frequency. Right, and fervor. Right, let's take a call from Nora. Nora! Hello, Nora, are you there? We're here to help. Okay, so this guy I've been dating for a few months is great. I don't really know how to say this, but he has weird manscaping habits, like he grooms too much. Is there a way to tell him I'm kinda into hair down there without seeming bizarre or totally embarrassing him? Yes. This is the flip side of the last question. Just make a Pinterest page and call it sexy guys, put a bunch of hairy dudes on it, and then accidentally leave your laptop open with that page up and he'll stumble on it and he'll be like, oh my God, she's into hairy guys. Right. Done. I mean, is he a swimmer? I don't know. See, I feel like this is a bigger issue, I think, which is how much does your body hair inhibit your lover? And how much is it just aesthetically for you? Maybe he thinks that's what you like. So she should just, you're right, make the, just be honest and be like, I like hair. For all we know, your boyfriend might think you prefer him without it. And if you just said like, hey honey, I don't know if you know this, but like I like hairy guys, he might just say, oh thank God. Nora, the reality is, unless you're gonna marry this guy, he's hair today, gone tomorrow. Okay. We got one more call here from Sophia. Sophia. Hello, Sophia. My boyfriend waxes his chest, which doesn't strike me as weird at all. Like I waxed, so I totally get the preference. But I thought it was no big deal, so I let it slip when we were at the beach with his brother and he got really weird. Like he was instantly super pissed. I don't think it's a huge deal to talk about grooming habit. So am I wrong to be confused? All right, so Sophia, it sounds like your boyfriend is a little insecure and embarrassed. So let me just put it out there. As a guy who grooms a lot, there's nothing to be embarrassed about. I pluck my eyebrows, I pluck my nose, I pluck the little crease on the side of my nose. I get my ears waxed. I trim the hair basically everywhere on my body. I trim my armpit hair. I even shave a little bit down there sometimes. There's no shame in shaving or plucking or waxing or whatever you gotta do to feel good about your body. Get him some nice aftershave as a gift or something. Yeah. That's an apology gift. I'm sorry that I blew up your spot. I didn't mean it. It's not a big deal. Let's have sex. Good luck.