 Why the narcissist gave the next person everything you wanted from them That is what we're going to be talking about in this video today Because that's what they do. You see the move on and they treat the next person better Everything you wanted they give that to them But this all started while they were with you because they were always pointed out things that they thought were wrong with you They were very petty About things that didn't really matter Then that's why they ended up wanting revenge. They ended up betraying you. They had all of these schemes against you But they never actually came to you and told you what they didn't like They were very dishonest Because they know it's ridiculous. They know there's no point even talking about it because it's not really important They're just making a big deal out of nothing So that they can then justify what they do to you because they know that what they're doing is wrong So they have to find a way to justify it So they will do things to you And they wouldn't like it if you did those same things to them If they were thought if they thought you were going to do anything like what they do, they would get very angry They would point the finger at you But they think it's okay for them to do it and that is why you cannot be in a relationship with a narcissist You can't even be friends with them because in the end they will blame you for everything And they will use it to justify them going off with someone else. It's just an endless cycle. It's a pattern They do the same thing again and again. Just look back and remember when you first met them They were telling you things about their ex Their ex was meant to have done all of these things of them But they never took accountability for what they did And then that's why they go off to the next person with you when you just wanted them to act right You wanted them to stop arguing and just cooperate with you But then they chose to go off with someone else and it may look like they've rode off into the sunset It may look like things are going better for them when really they are On a mission to try to prove something to you because this is all a game It's a competition and they want to win By proving to you that you were the problem Because now they're fine. They're happy with this new person. They can give them whatever they need So it looks like they're doing better Because that was their plan that was the objective to find someone else and do everything that you wanted them to do But karma is going to come back and get them. It's just a matter of time because the very thing That they were held from you Which they then gave to the next person That's going to lead to them being taken advantage of in the next situation Because they always cut themselves off from you You just wanted them to open up to you You wanted some cooperation You wanted some understanding Because you wanted a better relationship But to them it was all about power and control So they use the bread-growing tactic on you They gave you just enough crumbs of their attention and affection While you held them as something significant in your life You made them a priority, but the game is all over when you finally confront them Because that is when they turn against you and you become their enemy And then it's all a competition And they don't even care about the next person They don't care about who they're with next It's all about proving a point to you It's all about showing you that you are the problem So that they can feel better about themselves of what they're doing When they give the next person what they didn't give to you Because when they do that It's revenge. It's a punishment Whatever they think you wanted they give that to the next person So maybe you wanted to get married. Maybe you wanted to have children They will go and have that with someone else And they want you to see that They want that to hurt you They want you to feel like you're not good enough As though someone else was better for them But it's just a character They're playing a role It isn't real It's just something they're doing to get revenge on you Because you caused a narcissistic injury When you confronted them on their behaviors When you realized that it's all a game When you realized they're fake Yeah, that really hurt them And the reason why that hurt them is because they know that it's true So now they've got to get revenge They've got to get you back by doing everything that you wanted with someone else By giving Their commitment and cooperation that you wanted To someone else Which when you think about it, it is insane Very foolish and stupid for them to do that Because they can move on to anyone It doesn't matter who it is They don't care about who it is Because in that state they are so desperate to prove a point to you Just so they can feel better about themselves But then they end up in a situation that is worse than when they were with you And sometimes you might even see it all fall apart right in front of you If I tried not to cough But I can't help it, I am still Feeling a bit sick I am getting better though Maybe just a few more days I should be feeling good again But yeah, you may look back and wonder Why did they have to move on to that? They could have just stayed with me Things were good when they were with me I gave them what they wanted I took good care of them So why did they have to move on with someone else? The reason why they had to do that is because their false character Was not built for longevity They could never be in it for the long run Because they're weak So they can't sustain it They can only have short term relationships Where it's all about fun and excitement With no responsibility With no duty And then in the end they just betrayed you And they betray you because they're weak Weak people will always betray you In the end And you're never going to build anything with them Nothing meaningful or significant Will ever grow out of games and nitpicking Foodish behaviour Being childish You're not going to get anything out of that But they had their short with you They had their short With a winner A champion And they have this magical thinking They think they could just move on And find another winner It doesn't work that way though You can't just move on and keep finding winners So if they lost their chance with you What other choice do they have? If they could not win with a winner A champion Then how on earth are they going to win with someone else? They have a problem They are defective So you've got to let them go You should only want Higher calibre Higher quality people in your life You should not be chasing after low value people Because they're just going to run you into the ground They're just going to reject you They're not going to take you in and take care of you They're not going to appreciate you Because then you're going to be looking at them And wondering what you're even doing with them So do not go chasing after low quality people They're not going to be any good to you Just observe their behaviors Recognize how it reveals a weak character So wherever they go They're not going to succeed They're not going to meet anyone's requirements They might cheat their way in in the beginning But it's going to fall apart in the end So there's no reason for you to be jealous Just remember the type of person that you were dealing with And recognize that if they couldn't make it happen with you And then they chose to leave and go somewhere else It's not going to amount to anything All they do is talk But they cannot walk the walk And you should know that by now by dealing with them It's just talking so that you give them a chance Or so that you let them back in So that they can get what they want from you But then the more time goes on The less effective that they become Because they've already gotten what they wanted So then they do everything with no effort or care And that was never what you were looking for You never wanted that And when you realize that You won't care that they're gone You won't care that they're not with you You won't care that they're not on your team Because they were never going to help you win anyway They're not going to help you achieve great things They're not going to help you to reach a higher level They can't even work things out in their own lives So how are they ever going to work things out with you? They're just going to let you down They're just going to disappoint you They're not going to do what you expect What you trust them to do They're going to fall short of your expectations They're going to become absent when I had to quit They're going to drop out They're going to bail Because from the beginning they already knew That they are not what is really meant for you They already knew that They were not going to be any good for you They knew that before they even got involved with you So from the beginning they were only there to benefit from you But what they did know Would be good for you And that's just another reason why they stuck around Because they didn't want you to have that They didn't want you to find something better And they weren't even trying to be with you long term They were there to break you down To reduce you to nothing To use their dishonest tactics to gain advantage over you And drop you down and then they were gone And then they complained about How you're nothing like you used to be You can't do the things that you used to do for them But what they don't tell you is that They were the cause of it They were the reason why things went bad for you Because they were doing all of these things behind your back Sabotaging you Causing you problems, causing you stress Disagreeing with you every day Because they wanted to make things worse Because then when they're ready to go you've got nothing You don't feel comfortable You don't feel safe or secure You've lost your pride, your confidence You've got no money And that's exactly what they wanted They wanted to take all of that away from you So then when they're finally ready to pack up and leave Everything is so messed up for you You can't get anyone else You can't get anybody And that brings them pleasure and satisfaction It gratifies them Because then if they can leave you like that They're never gonna feel any regret for leaving you Because then they don't have to watch you moving on You're about something, you're making it happen You're being something to someone Something that they never wanted you to be Because they never wanted to be anything to you They just wanted to be there long enough So that they could tear you down And that's why they never try to help you elevate They never try to make you happier More positive, more optimistic I mean, just look back They never helped you to build anything in your life So why were they even there? What was even the point of them even being around? If they were just there to break you What was the point in that? This is what you need to ask yourself And realize that there really was no point in it You just wasted your time with them You spent all this time with someone who was not there for you They were not there to build you up They were only there to beat you down I've said it before In my videos that there are two types of people in this world Whoever you come across, whoever you cross paths with in this life They're gonna do one of two things to you There is no in between, they're gonna have an effect on you And that is either gonna be a positive or negative effect It's never a neutral effect It's gonna affect you positively or negatively So there are one of two things that people can do When they are around you One, they can either build you up Or two, they can break you down They can destroy you And you really need to Step back and look at your situation Your relationships, your friendships, your family And see, is that serving you? Is it building you up? Or is it breaking you down? You need to examine it And this is the same in anything Whether it's something You feel like you need to leave it behind Even with things that you just need to work on You could be in a good relationship It could be a healthy relationship But then somewhere down the line After a few months or years Things start to go wrong You need to re-examine it You need to work on things That's okay, that's fine But then other times you're dealing with a narcissist And you see the pattern of behaviour You see that things are getting progressively worse And there's no improvement No matter what you do Then it's time to leave Because if you've been in it for months or years And you haven't seen any progress Then it's very unlikely that things are going to improve in the future Especially if there is no understanding No cooperation Without these things nothing's going to grow And with narcissists all they do is play these silly Childish and mature games The nitpicking They're always finding fault with you It's always a competition Nothing good is going to grow out of that Which is why Anything they come across It's like Some people everything they touch turns to gold It becomes better, greater Where they narcissist it's the opposite Everything they touch dies It falls apart And when you are around them That's what happens to you Things get worse for you Your life goes down Everything falls apart Everything dies It's no good for you We are meant to be around people who build us up And not only that but people who we can build up Because if you are an empath like myself That's what you want to do You feel like that is your duty Your responsibility in life to build people up To make things better You could do that with some people Just not with a narcissist Because like I said last night They're not going to be able to receive it It's not going to work that way for you Yeah, think about this stuff Really examine it Examine all of the relationships in your life To see whether or not they are serving you And if they're not you need to cut them off If there's no signs of improvement If there's no cooperation You are just wasting your time And that time could be better spent somewhere else Or someone else Someone who deserves it Someone who can receive it Someone who's going to give the same back to you Alright, so A powerful message That I'm sharing with you today I hope it uplifts you I hope it makes you want to go out and share the love The energy, the motivation with someone else That's what it's about, it's all about Spreading positivity Uplifting people And together we all become better We are all connected in this world So if you become happier And things get better for you in your life That has an effect on me, it has an effect on everyone It builds us all up together Because we are all connected Just like when a narcissist tears someone's down It comes back to get them Whatever you put out, it always comes back to you So spread the love, the energy, the positivity Not just for yourself, but for other people Because you should want to see other people succeed Okay, that's all I've got to say for this one I do hope that you enjoyed it As much as I enjoyed filming it As you can see I'm just relaxing here In my hotel room Just enjoyed my breakfast And recorded a new video Which will be up in the next few days I'd just like to thank you all for joining me I do appreciate your support Please give this video a thumbs up down below If it was helpful for you And as always let me know your thoughts Down in the comments section I do love to hear from you And I read your comments every day Hit that subscribe button down below as well Then you will receive the notifications For all of my future videos And check out my Instagram It is NARC Survival YouTube at Instagram I have new pictures and videos on there every day Other than that, that's all I've got to say Thank you all for your support And I look forward to talking with you in another one very soon