 You have to see ghosting as data, it's feedback, it's intelligence and pay attention to the data because the data's telling you, this person's saying to you by ghosting, I am not a safe person to build a relationship with. That's what they're telling you. They're not saying that but they're saying it with their behavior. So it's data. It's important information about that person. So if after they have ghosted you at any level, if you carry on believing them, I'm buying into the BS, I'm not managing expectations, I'm not calculating your value to them. You're setting yourself up for a lot of pain. If you don't see it as data, pay attention to it and think, okay, I am now dialing down the energy I'm putting into this person. I'm dialing down my expectations of this person. I'm dialing down that they'll follow through on what they said is what you gotta do. What this will do is we'll stop you chasing ghosts. The worst thing to do is to chase these people.