 Big shit, it's a unique hustle nigga big shit big shit big shit big shit Check it check it check it. It's a unique house. It's your boy CEO, and I'm here with the lovely amazing official miss Jamaica What's going on? Hey, man? Hey, we got special guests in there today, man They don't really need an introduction man. You he real close up on the mic, too You can hear it man. Yeah, he used to the radio as well Say man my guy is a comedian my guy's an actor He does all type of stuff in the community, too. We ain't gonna leave that out. Hey, man DL is in the building with a lovely wife. Misty. Yeah So man, hey man, so what's going on? Hey, man, I'm blessed man, but the fact that you said amen at the big shit He said amen he's it's like big shit Say from bubble dove and China's Myron to this man. I know right man. So first of all, thank y'all for having me man You know we tried to do our interview with yeah at the premiere of a lady luck to look too. I didn't like talking Yeah, I didn't like it. It was it was a lot going on Cliff had everybody right there. I loved it far as getting to meet the people but yeah, just the you know how we secluded Yeah, I like that lovely store by the way man It's a lovely store man. Like, you know, it's different ethnic backgrounds outside. They got some topo Chico water next door Chinese folk, you know, I mean, you know what's saying when we turn down the street. I say you are now approaching the hood You know And to be over your man like like for the years we've been to see the kids grow up in this neighborhood when you go from from Say ten years ago, you can go back further than that and you see kids go from being ten years old to 20 years old It's amazing. Come on man. Stop playing and you've been providing for him So, you know make some difference some of them get out the feds to and come back and be like man Y'all still here thought about just a whole time. Oh go. He said get out the You know I'm gonna go to jail, but I'll be back That's dope dope that's dope man, you got me when I when I come out. I'm like, yeah, we got you got you Are they right right from prison? We get lettuce here. Wow. They're right just because they'd be like man We're just trying to see what the new clothes yields. I know I got life and be like my son I would love for my son to Get you if you're a link up with my son. I'm trying to you know do something for and they getting checks in jail Oh, he's trying to figure out ways to get a close from jail. Yes. Wow. I don't even want to know what they doing Man, you know, I was surprised some people says like the stimulus checks and everything going into the jail houses, bro Wow, I'm not playing I want to I guess so so my thing is listen I got a beautiful wife. I ain't finna lead it and go to jail to get a stimulus check Hey miss I got a plan for us. I'm gonna go to jail. I'm gonna get the stem and then I just my luck It will not work out like that. I mean like, you know, what it is, man So yeah, my beautiful wife is in here man. We'll be married five years five years next month. We've been together 37,000 years it seems like that but it you know It's a beautiful thing. You got a beautiful partner man She's how long y'all been together before you got married 17,000 years Yeah You know What it it was it was me Yeah, it was me, you know I'm saying then she kept telling me no She kept telling She didn't know what I was gonna get ready to Hey, I got a partner his girl still waiting And it's 19 man They're common law husband and wife. I don't know that's uncommon. That's that's no, but you know what? I've asked so many people that question and they'll say it's because As soon as you get married it all falls apart once you put that on paper So some people feel you know It's a mental block for them because they've seen things in the past whether their mom dad uncle friends Whatever that as soon as you say I do all of a sudden everything start to go left I had an uncle that was there was there was marriage another chick and start living with another chick never got a divorce He died and everything he was still married to another lady. They were one of them I wonder why they was fighting all the time She died the wife got everything and then man the one who lived with her didn't get none My mother didn't have nothing he went from you know, well, you know I think it was a lot to do because he used to do pain and body work and stuff like that So he hailing all yeah, so he really was in A convalescent home for the rest of his life, so I would hate to Live like that. So when he passed away my mama was crying I said mama would you really like to live like that? Well, you can't talk to nobody or say nothing. You know lord come get me Yeah, I don't want that. Let me ask you. Let's go back a little bit into you like your background for listeners, man We we definitely won't tell them who you are. Yeah. Yeah, man. It's your man D. Ellis miss entertainment Dallas King of comedy man, um You are not a funny man as a Ten-year-old kid growing up. Oh, you know what? I got a I was a joke up in a jokes to my whole life really pretty much. I Especially going into junior high. I got a They called it class clown and it was this court gesture or something like that in high school So I never did step in the comedy, but I've been doing music for years, you know Since I was 12 years old. Who did you get a sense of humor from mama and dad both both and missy can tell you my mom and Dad crazy mother. She is off the chain. Yeah, it's the smooth Talking charming from you dad. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, so my dad could talk Mannequin who like to rank on people my mama Yeah, she'll talk about you right there in your face and I get I got my dad told me that he was like She would be there and laughing and people so he's had to save her a few times She would bust out laughing and people and I and in missy attempt She'd be like man, you can't say that about people and you know, or you know, and I just be like I'll see it and just Well, you know, you know, I've seen it, you know, you ain't playing no games I'm sitting way in the back. I'm not setting close-up. I'm over here. No, you can sit close up, but it's a Dude did that at the improv. I was like you gonna do this while I'm on stage, bro. Okay. All right, you know I felt bad for him at one point because when he he was done with it. No, he was done with it He kept saying he's done. He said, bro, you won. You got up did all of that and you kept going in Please don't fight Like but what what is I mean? Yeah, what is that heckling like what is the thing that you face when you're on that stage? They're kind of it catches you you don't catch you by surprise now. You've been doing it. So, you know what man, um Either if my wife is with me or my partners, I'll sit there and actually Observe the room and say okay I forget their ass and I and and and I sometimes I say something to her or won't and I see something and just be like, okay But more than likely I pretty much set the tone. Yeah Once you know if you say something to me, you know I'm saying that's your ass Has there ever been a time where it's gotten so serious where it's almost like they from to come up there and Snatch, but they back stage give me an instant infant When we first got together it was a guy a year before I had talked about him so bad. I think I called him Johnny Gill His head was so big or something. I had called I had clowned him so bad So the following the next year I was doing another show with him He had his old lady with him in his last her last name was Ellis too. I'm like, hey, what's up sis? You know, so he literally got on stage Act like he was finna fight me or whatever and I would like man. Listen don't get these jokes fucked up So we was literally about as close as I am to this microphone. Really? Yeah, bro She was there. How did that DS the escalated? You know, it's just hey I thought you thought I was a punk or something because it wasn't going to go down. Was he bigger than you? No, it's about the same about the same height. You know, I mean, I don't let that the air out his head for yeah Yeah, yeah, you weren't here. You weren't trying to hear. I wouldn't know. This is the following year. This is not even He said, you know what when he come back in the town I am going to buy this ticket and I'm gonna be right here in front He was waiting on him. You know shout out these Texas man. We in the building. We do fight Yeah Now another incident was a guy. I talked about he had a hole in his throat What from smoking? He had a hole in his throat and I Just do right here, man Stomping at it while he was off stage and he act cuz my brother with him So I did my man Kirk and Kirk was holding him back and I was stompin and I'm like, you know So you don't even want this smoke. So I said man. I'll put my finger in that hole and get He couldn't say nothing. I couldn't even see the words come on It was but we wound up talking afterwards and it was cool, but it was it folks would die in Like that do anybody like you know some people take things up on their head Although you weren't talking to that person or about that person, but because it's a certain instance you talking about Have you ever had somebody that's taken up on themselves to say something to you like even a case like that with somebody Would some people aren't get offended be like that's me Yeah, like don't talk about that the person have cancer in their throat. Yeah, yeah, I you know and it is You know my mind once I get the going it is it's no filter a lot of times right now People are more sensitive to comedy than they was back in the day because I'm between them two generations So, you know, I mean so Richard prior wasn't wasn't afraid Bernie Robin Harris, so I'm cut from that type of cloth You know I mean so you know if you let folks go ahead and try to dim your light or you know Everything everybody may not find everything funny, but she had to get on me a couple of times I was with Lavelle Crawford And I we had like six shows one weekend so she came to the first of three one one night and Had everybody cracking up, but she's so honest with me. She said nah, that wasn't it You know said so she made me step my game up and she's like don't let nobody You know pretty much try to tell you not to be funny and I almost fell into that trap You know I mean and ever since then I really don't give a fuck, you know, I mean so I try to be Have a lot of try to have not a lot try to have a little sympathy But you know and I try to look at the person to see how they body language is and and stuff like that So, you know, but as far as I Just don't have no filter and having misty by your side and even at your shows It's very important because she she observes the room too. She'll be a don't let my wife fool you now Yes, she keep what she keep a little she keep a little gun I don't have a gun with a little knife on it. She got a knife You can get Hey, you know, but my wife cool, but she don't play no game. No, and I get it That's good. What I was thinking about when when he said that She's totally honest with you. I think about Taylor Gabriel how he was talking about his wife Yeah, and say that because he played football and how when you go out there Everybody blow your head up and say all this stuff about you know about you But whenever you get home She's the one who's gonna really put you back in place and we tell you the big truth. Oh, yeah She and she definitely does that but she'll tell you when I'm home. I'm like, man, I'm so chill You know, we always laugh we'll watch our little murder mysteries Cuz she can't go to sleep with the the loud action pack stuff man She wanted to watch something that's calm. Okay. Okay, somebody getting stabbed. Okay. I go to sleep now That's my wife, you know, I mean with the best thing that ever happened to me, man I always tell us you the best woman that ever happened to me Period, you know, I mean, I mean best relationship, you know, she she makes me a whole lot better And I'm not saying it cuz she's here But you know Sam maybe cuz I want something later, but just you gotta talk You sound like somebody I know that hey man. Hey when they and ma'am, they walk around the house Nick. It's sad, bro Hey, though, I'm uh, I'm still perverted I'm like, but when you have kids and everybody at home, you can't always Figure it out. Hey, you know, we got two teenagers. I'm like, shoot. Hey. Hey mama. Highland, you know, just letting you know I'm pinching or something on the ass. You may hear a little something The gene posted here the kids were listening to something on tiktok earlier and one of my oldest son The song said something about pulling out the double D's which was the breast and so I'm working and I said Y'all want me to pull out these double D's and he's Your mama Man so, you know when you and then it's first, you know, you never want to hear stuff like that about your parents like my mom and dad I know my kids always do the same thing to me Don't be that nasty. Yeah I'm like we before before y'all even got in this house, we was already here kicking it y'all tripping it without them Without the magic you guys don't exist man. Listen. I am the booty. I gotta go to sleep gripping her booty It is a must. I rubbed that ass like the Apollo law Coming to the stage How you gonna do this see now I'm gonna do well If you don't rub it She even sleep me you don't send off I touch anything else. She gonna wake up. Yeah, she's gonna be like, wait a minute Yeah, and nobody's here you go down. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. No On that she's staying asleep. Well, if I go anywhere else about if I touch any camel or tow is it's over Because when I came to the Comedy show me and bubble dub had talked cuz that's my guy, you know, I never knew you were gonna be there Okay, I know nothing about you gonna be there. Okay. I'm there to see bubble dub me and bubble dub talk Yeah, that's my guy. I don't know but me and you when I met you it was on this I'm different Yes, sir when I get there and I see I said look at I had to I had to get up and try to shake your hand hug You're something because I was like, dang man. God them bless me man I know you from acting so I wouldn't I wouldn't expect in that so man. Thank you, man. I was very very I was happy You know, he was a comedian. I know none of that Wow, I didn't I'm just telling you my mind be focused on what I'm doing so much I don't know. I'm just like doing whatever I can to be a part of whatever's going on Yeah, I'm just one track-minded dude trying to make sure I focus on what I'm focusing on But then when I seen that it was just like dang man. I'm blessed to be here man You made it you made this show worth Wow, man Like like you and bubble dub and all those all of those acts that night. I met another little guy before I Met he said he would be on son, but I don't think he'd be on son He's like the on son a boy with the with the braids. Okay. Okay. Yeah, and I met him I what is his name? He'll mad at me. Man. I know I gotta look back at the names and stuff That's why you had your phone be like, okay, who's man? Yeah, he was on it My phone he got I got his number man I had so much fun man And you know my rap packs of comedy tour was in that same building about a year or two ago We started the rap packs of comedy. Okay. That's me shed G Q which is marriage to spend the rella and my boy gross man out of Houston. Okay, so this is my own tour This is the jacket and everything my guys and so when you see that tour when you see all So we'll be we doing a date in April, but I'm going back home I just booked March 26 one of my guys just moved here man. He put the money down You're going back to Texas County. I'd be there. Yeah March 26 March 26, so I'll be there. Yeah, it's gonna be dope It's gonna be it's gonna be a holiday in Yes, I was gonna do it before because I went to the dentist today, but I would I'm to my mouth would numb Wow coming is spend the relays on the ticket to so you DJ in yeah, so yeah, I need to get over here, too I gotta get over right before that. I need to get over here so we can talk about it. Yeah, it'll be like a build up Yeah, and so she do certain dates with it, which I'm very grateful for a man we've been cool since 2009 before her and Q got married and You know, I was at they wedding screaming fuck salt and pepper My wife can tell you that I grabbed it. I wouldn't even supposed to speak at the wedding really What is the best man do he managed to mess around and hand me the microphone didn't he say hey But he came he say D. I'm gonna hand you the mic and once he did that bruh Wow, it was around. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, man. So Q is a cool dude Thank you is my dude, man. I know I started I started Q off Not started a muffin comedy, but you know, I really helped him along and I took him to Colleen for a whole year just to see where his progression and You know, every one of my guys is just real down-the-earth shit G is work with Prince and some of everybody so everybody has their own lane So when we come together, it's like Voltron bruh, so It's just dope. How hard is it like like to Okay For me T. I done got in a company. Yeah I'm just in the stage. He been hitting if he's a for the last two or three months every night every show He can hit not every night. He trying to get himself right How hard is that process to get he used to be in on stage he used to deal with people but comedy is a different lane That's what I know So explain to me like how you would from your perspective think that would be to cut to cross over Well, you know since I do more than one thing, you know, I mean, I didn't I didn't really trip on it But you know, I mean you can't He'll probably get more of a pass Because of who he is so there'll be more linear but a Negro like me. They're just coming up You're gonna really be you gotta be funny. You are you you know because I went through that whole phase of I Started off with Nannette Lee years ago. Yeah fat twos when Fat Tuzi was pop June bug June bug. Yeah I don't know what the hell June bug June bug been eating June bug That time I saw him. He had like a halter top jacket You about to have his wife's baby In movies, I've never really seen him in comedy comedy He doesn't come across as being funny, you know what he's in the sense I just I was in front of ti. Okay a couple of months ago the dude he has a sense of humor He's a lever to not sending had this thing to do with it But he you know and plus he's he's mastering so much other stuff man So I'm not one of them dudes to be like our man. You can't do this like a lot of folks I know I do music like the first lady luck. I got two songs. Yeah Just finished just dropped a verse on one of my cats EP man, and if and I actually had do some more songs on clips Rap but I write R&B as well and can you sing? Yeah, nah, I just I just kind of mess around on stage My daddy say I'm a lazy singer. He's like, hey, you can sing you come on my dad can sing his ass. Oh, yeah Oh man, so my they'll be a prettiest weekend because I have With some more Friday, okay, and then I shoot my special. I ain't that save yet Saturday in the Soto And then some Thursday. I'm at the chocolate lounge. I'll give my full work That's why I was able to go to the dentist today. Wow He said I ain't that saved yet. Tell me about that. That's my attention, you know, um being with a woman That's Kojic and I'm Baptist, you know, we from this, you know, so and I you know I've seen that, you know the holiness the Kojic the whole nine, but To the God and Christ, okay. Yeah when they were in the draws over they navel Yeah, and the skirts down. Yeah, they still nasty. Yeah Yeah, yeah, I got I got plenty of jokes about that It is real. So, um, you know, and I just started seeing it on on one on the phone call one of my partner shot to my man blue That does my some of my web stuff and some of my video stuff and I was like, man I just ain't that save yet, you know, so it's just and I just got I got the eyes to save search Yeah, I ain't that save yet shirts and you know, hey, but it's true I can actually even see a play with that time. Yes, it's dope. Yeah, that would that would be an awesome show Yeah, yeah, you know, and it's it is the truth because I'm like she's made me better as far as, um The spiritual side, you know what I mean? Because I'm like, she love her some Jesus, you know, and um, and I always have not, you know And our our lives have been similar at one point She was homeless at one point. I was homeless, you know when I first moved up here, man, I I was actually living in a guy's storage because he wouldn't give me a key to his career I lived in my car, but I knew I wasn't gonna go home. I was determined, but I always knew God never left me You know what I mean? So and that's what keeps you humble too, bro That's why I'm like, hey man, when I meet good people, you know, like I said, you from the crib, you know, I mean So it goes a long way dog and then uh go through all the phases and to finally have a A mate that you can relate that you want to fight for which is the difference. Yeah, because most men Will fuck around and be like, hey man, I'm I'm out. You know, I mean and I did that so much You know, uh, even when we first got together, I had that that that whole wall You know, I'm saying that whole wall Um, she was grabbing my ass at um, that's what's up. Yeah, she's grabbing my ass a little play You know, she thought, you know, my you know, I ain't got that much ad, but the bottom of it. She was like, yeah That's that part Okay, I don't know if she admits it I like that. Yeah, she was so cool with it. I like to just grab my ass. All right. All right. You don't make the mistake player This was after weeks of him flirting and just carrying on and so finally I gave Yeah, yeah, so where where did y'all see? It was it was actually at a play. She was both y'all in the play together. I was a stage manager. She was stage manager Yeah, so she had she had these avatar contacts on with the elvira hairstyle With a gray. Yeah, she had like man. She was sitting out just all kojic All church of god and christ like, you know, I mean and she used to tell me, um, you know Stuff ain't that funny because I was cracking jokes the whole time for that play, you know, I mean she playing hard Oh, she playing hard Yeah, yeah, yeah, and I just wasn't interested But I made it Yeah, yeah, she likes that's the way they're supposed to do it. She's like nah She said, you know, you a womanizer or you a playboy, you know, I mean And it was all true. Yeah, it wasn't pretty much But look, I look, I gotta move He melted your heart eventually No Honestly, okay, tell me you're okay. It was the holy spirit and I tell people this all the time. Um, I did not like him. I It was really the holy spirit one of the first nights that Right before the play he had to go to houston foreshow And he had to come back for the play that next day. So it was literally a turnaround and I was concerned that he was not going to get enough rest or that he was going to have an accident And I could not sleep and I was actually really sleepy And I think I don't know how late it was, but I ended up texting him letting him know I was praying for him that he made it back safely and he was like I was falling asleep at the wheel And I had a chicken to call with me. Yeah, and it what to me. It was nothing like that I there was so many members of the the cast That I was trying to make sure everyone was on point and made it to where they needed to be on time and had Everything together, but I just Yeah, yeah Thank god for jesus man. Come on somebody man. I don't know why Yeah, my my guy, you know what I'm saying? Yes, sir angel, you know, if I would say be careful to entertain strangers But thereby some have entertained Well, I'm just gonna be real Come on somebody. I just I just see you know the fact that you know God had to put you out together y'all won now. So that's that's that's dope man. So, um What are you guys? Where are you heading from here? Let's talk about something that The uprising that where we hit it. Um, we're trying to go to where we're trying to go Everywhere. No, but we talked about a white You know what I so hate that happened So so listen Man, listen, so you you guys are Are you guys planning any big trips? And you know, um, she turns 40 in March our anniversary is uh, March 12 I have a show that day. Okay. Um, that's why I actually got to do another podcast when I leave here and um Underneath one of the young ladies that's uh, that's over the whole track thing. It's a track event But um, so we're gonna do some for our 40th birthday, man. Um We're probably gonna do some my anniversary weekend too. Even though I got that show that one day So we'll probably do some but we definitely going out the town, uh on the uh on the 18th I'm actually in Philadelphia March 17th with chubb rock man. I need to ask the guy right there. Yeah. Chubb is cool. So chubb I saw I got a hook here with Dana Dane. Dana Dane is a good friend of mine. When they come through here, man Hey, I'll let your boy. It's a unique hustle. Yeah Yes, yes, man. They good they good people man. Uh, you got to get sweet ld from Channel three five seven. She lives here. That's uh, that's what's up and I dance with her, you know Uh, uh, man a whole lot man whenever we get a chance, man So I've been blessed to meet some great people in this business, man. You know what I mean? Real real I get it. So it sound like you I mean your boy said Lavelle Crawford. Well, I'm a big Lavelle Crawford fan Yeah, and he's a smaller Lavelle Crawford. I see that I see that man. The boy there's a beard, ain't he? Yeah, man, you know saying he lost that weight man, but he still looked to say This dude right here I can't stand him. You look you remember the job of the hut on uh He gonna kill us don't start boys Hey, where is the lie, you know saying whoever whoever whoever saying Lavelle Crawford was handsome You know Lavelle Crawford is a very handsome community. He's very funny though. Yeah He's gonna come with it But you you got to think about you got a hilarious face It was a whole phase for them when you had Bruce Bruce and all of them was running around the same time My dude, man, I you know Bruce I gotta give a shout to Bruce Bruce, man We did a show in Mississippi and I still have the uh the newspaper Uh clipping they wrote online. He said I was one of the next uh kings of comedy And he said this years ago. So I'm always Grateful for stuff like that and uh, you know, Steve Harvey Showing me so much love man, and uh, he said I was gonna make because I had the right attitude You know just stuff like that stick with me. Well, don't it stick with you stick with me, man So he thought when I first introduced uh Mississippi I say man, this is my sister because she that's how she started off and I'll tell the people that was my assistant And I do I say Steve that's my sister. He said nigga. He said I believe you better if you said that was your sister Soon as he looked at you like nah, bro, you can tell me something else. You ain't got nobody that is fine and cute Something like your sister Man, you know, you got somebody that's fine. You'll wipe that for I'll be throwing stuff on the floor Man, what you talking about man? She came to sleep smelling good last night and started snowing on my I say you gonna just smell like a whole big tour your secret closet and fall asleep And I'm trying to reach down and grab some more of that cushion man. Listen man. Hey, hey, hey When people look at y'all, you know how you say you had um Y'all were homeless you went through some stuff different stuff But people look at you and they judge. I said, oh my god. They got it. They they're living good But people don't know where you come from man. Listen man. Um, it is she has a hell of a story We both do She just lost her dad last year man. Um, you know, she was um She took care of him and my wife is wonderful just the thing she did to be in the hospital She was the only person that was at the hospital with him and he came home. She called me And she said, you know pops. I want to my dad want to come home. I called him pops I was like my dad want to come home come home come to our home. I said man I I I didn't even give it a second thought because I'm like we all getting older You know what I mean? So how old was he? Uh, I was 62. Yeah, so he wasn't that old, but Um, and it wasn't that he wanted to come live with us. It's he really didn't have a choice. He had Are you on a child? No, no, there's eight of us. Yeah Wow, and I'm not the oldest. Are you the only girl? No, there are one two five girls three boys And so my dad ended up having a heart valve replacement liver and kidney transplant all in one It was a lot They had already given him six months to live whether he had the surgery or not So this was a choice that he made and so I was I see you with him for nine days and just it was a journey And he needed to stay with us because of um, the surgery was 19 hours I mean, it was just a lot involved, but my dad died at 61. So I definitely can relate so You know, I'm sorry Man, you know, and and I'm that's why I tell her I never tell somebody that's lost a parent. Oh, man You know, I can relate because I still have my mom and dad. Yeah So, you know, um, and she tell me all the time. She said I'm about to put you in a straight jacket Something happened. Yeah. Yeah. I mean, I'm she probably ain't lying No, she ain't you know what I mean because me and my dad real cool We're working on some stuff together. Um, you know, because my goal is man I really don't want her to work no more. You know, um, so we just put some plans in place Praying about it man. And um, you know, she pray she pray over me when I'm asleep I'll do the same thing You know, sometimes I say something sometimes I won't and just get up and try to have the best attitude, man You know what I mean? Because when you haven't been through so much you like man, it's It's life is short. So you just try to get up with the right attitude But you see like what I always tell always tell our kids, um, because no No one is promised to be here tomorrow And so each day that you get that new day Make memories because at the end of the day You can't take all of the money people lose money people lose all of that But one thing I'm always happy for is a memory rebuilt This world tends to make you feel like I gotta work work work to supply for my kids to to build to build to build But if you if you go tomorrow, what your kid's gonna say, oh, yeah, she worked a lot That's the only value you really instill in them that I'm and they're gonna turn around and end up being the same person And just work work work and not really just try to spend time with loved ones And build memories and you know and leave that valuable lesson with each other and so And I tell them that not only for myself but for them because if I go tomorrow, I don't want them to be You know all devastated. Yes, you're gonna hurt your human being but not be able to move forward Or something happened to them. I can't move forward. I know that It's a reason god knows. I don't know. Yeah, and their job here on this world is done That's how I look at life Where'd you meet? Where's y'all to me? Let me ask y'all. Well, you know, first of all, you had to get the book She like, you know, I'll tell the kids, you know that God worry about me. Jesus got me The Lord and the Holy Spirit got me He has it Huh? He's not doing a good job. I'm not my god He's just everybody Every time somebody do that, she be like, hey, but she's so smooth. You know, I tell the kids, you know If I go do not cry over me Do not shed a tear Oh Now we met actually in tarot. We met in tarot. I give him that much. Oh, Jamaican tarot. No tarot. What's your tarot text? Tarot text is what Jamie Foxx from They got a christian college down there. Okay, and uh, that's where she was at and I had I just happened to be an area Oh, really god placed me in there. You like, hey, so she stopped you like, wait a minute. Hey, excuse me. Excuse me You talk like that And you Like what? Yeah, now you you had that country swaying going First of all, I'm confident so That's the whole game with us, I think the confidence builds the whole thing out It kicks doors in just get out the way you say Oh, yeah confidence comes straight through what and then you're gonna have to believe it's because we ain't gonna shut up No I'm gonna keep talking I'm gonna keep talking man. I'm gonna keep talking man. That's and that's a good thing man. We talk, um If she if she's not working from home, man We'll uh, we'll have a conversation on the way to work. I give her a little time to get in the car get herself together And we'll talk on the way home and we've been doing that since we've been together Wow, that's the communication is key. I want to know because I heard you said that you were previously married so what um Have you learned from the previous marriage that you now use to make this one better? I was about to say absolutely nothing No, I'm talking you learned from mistakes And you learned from so You know how you when you move on you're like, okay, I'm not gonna do that again. I'm not gonna do this I'm not gonna do that. That's hard because I I did the same thing I ended I did I'll just say I did the same thing and I'm not saying that I'm perfect But I did not make a lot of mistakes and so the divorce was not on me It was on him and he chose to leave and I felt like I was going to do the same thing because I would find someone who loved me for who I was and You know one of the things that I did I would always say to him is what do you like? What makes you happy because I always wanted to put his feelings You know first, I know people say Your feelings matter and put yourself first But I'm always a person that puts someone else first and that could be a mistake that I you know made over and over But I don't know how not to be that person Be a pleasing person. Let me tell you something man. God already know y'all we walk in in purpose. So it ain't like we just Uh come around dude. We think we're doing something really. Yeah, we really think we're doing something But really he already got the plan wrote out and y'all that's what tripped me out about people who They they say we believe we pray and everything else. But if you read the same book I read Everything is already predestined to happen to what is going to happen And that's kind of why I didn't do anything different. You know, I feel like You know, it is what it is. It's going to happen if it's supposed to happen, you know It's just I try to let God be God and you know, we've had some situations that were really Tough and you know, we struggled through it and if it's meant to be then it's going to work out Me just walking out is Me willing to fight which is a difference. That's it And you know, which is a difference. Hey man, you done stuck with me stuck with me through all this bullshit um, let me show you I'm willing to fight too and and And you know a lot of time we as men growing up. We don't have a lot of examples Of how to be a husband. That's it. I mean, so it's you know, it's my second marriage, too You know, so I was like, hey, um I wanted it to work. I didn't want it to be In in divorce and nothing like that. Um, she did a lot where I say I did a lot for me Man, I was I wasn't even talking to like two of my daughters at one point So at our wedding She flew one of my daughters in and my other daughter was just having to be at the wedding as I was coming down Wow. Yeah, so she made that happen. Did you cry? Oh my god. Yeah, I was like, she's like, hey daddy. I was like I'm that person that feels like family is important, you know, it is my mother so many people just can't put their pride aside though And I'm huge and listen, but I had made up in my mind. There was nobody Anybody family whatever that's gonna make me leave this woman alone That's how that's how strongly I felt When when I married this woman, um, even one of my sisters when she stopped doing for You know, um She started acting funny. So, you know, you got we all got family members like that. There's some just stupid You know, I mean, I'm like, man, you got the same 24 hours. I got You can get out here and hustle. You know what I'm saying? You can do the same thing I got But hey, you settle you you the one that chose to settle For this type of lifestyle. So there ain't got nothing to do with me. You know what I mean so I think that's I think that's you know I go back to the word of god, you know, I teach so I I'll be thinking about I think about scripture when you're talking I'm kind of different like I'm trying to because I'll be trying to figure out where this fit in what I read You know, I'm so a lot of times that's kind of how I flow So the thing I look at is there's always been spiritual warfare. That's all you're talking about Yes, sir We put it to an individual but but satan is busy, brother Oh, man, y'all over the place trying to figure out how he can what he did You know, I'm gonna destroy right. It's like when she went out with her dad, man Um, like a couple of her brothers I had to check their ass. Yeah, I had to because when I say she put everything together And they was talking reckless. I like me a little bit about the check, you know, I don't play I'll say so say dawg. I was ready to roll up on them and wasn't playing no games Yes, sir You know I'm saying she was like, but then she the fact that she let me handle it I'm like, nah We need for to bring that type of negativity Into this house not not not from some folks that didn't help you do shit I'm wearing that and burying your daddy and you know, all of a sudden you want to have an issue with you No, that ain't for the happen. You know I'm saying for real. So she literally I was gonna run up on one of her brothers and I was like, yo and she said I want to go too And she said, I'm going to I wasn't gonna let her know I was like, hey, I said, bro, where you at? He said I'm in Grand Prairie. I said, I said, what's the address and he dropped it address. No, I was going by myself Yeah, yeah, I was like, nah. Yeah, because you know, these are brothers that They should have been the one Bathing my father. I should not have been having to clean my father's testicles, you know and Change his depends and put him in the shower when there's three grown men that can do this outside of my husband and my boys and You know for them to just be so disrespectful and say, you know, that's the part right there You know, I don't I don't owe him, you know anything But I want everything he had for me or you know, I hope you eff and die and you know, they were just so disrespectful I think that's just the devil, bro. You know what I hate to say is like that because Situations like that come up is not only for them But to make pull you out of it because to make you angry and in cases like And I understand when I tell you I understand I understand Is a case where you have to just pray by it and say, god I forgive because you don't want any of that animosity to come into your heart because that's what the devil is Trying to do is bring all of that because he knows how to try to get to you Your father Yeah, my one of my sisters she was like I know who you are now, but I need you to deep Dig really really deep and bring that old misty out and just you know, let him know about themselves And my wife, what you know She's nice She's like a dog going to his own vomit. You can't do that. I was like when god take you from from one place Dude, that's the whole game with me. We don't have people that say stuff about us and all kind of stuff But I'm the type of dude man I can't go against No, I can't go against what god had already pulled me from because I go there and when I go there It's different when everybody else go there because I'm extremist right y'all don't really know my story My story is different like like it goes all the way One it go from zero to a hundred real quick I'm telling you like I can't do halfway stuff Yeah, that's why we've been married for 20 years because I don't go have I go all the way or nothing So I'm trying not to go at all because if I go, I'm gonna lose my family I'm just being real and that and that's and that's and I and I knew that Because I'm like once you tell me something she hate to tell me something. Yeah, you know what I mean because I'm very I'm more I'm really more so protective of her Now she probably wouldn't she have to tell me but I'm like man, you know, I just don't play no games like I don't play. I don't I don't um play no before you tell him just say baby. Let's read these um verses right You got to that without that. I'm gonna play first before I knew it brother matter of fact I was um, I had got off the cruise ship And she didn't go with me and I had left my truck to get a tune up So I had spent a lot of money getting this tune up So I drove my got in the truck and I drove. Um, I forgot where I was hitting baby I was out hit it off a 35 or something So it kept leaking um Inner freeze. So I said man, I said maybe I said well I said maybe I'm tripping I put that inner freeze some more air freeze off and it came in and started leaking. I had to pull off on the side of the road First person I called was her And well, actually I called a guy for and I called and I called her So that's zero to a hundred and I had spent all that money I said, I ain't paying for shit when I bring this truck back And I'm telling her I said man, I'm gonna shoot this whole goddamn Man, I was I was so hot and this is my wife Ellis Have you eaten? As I she was talking to me she was like I ain't finna match his boy because I like he is I am like right there because I'm like, man, I work hard for my bread. Yeah, it's like you playing with you Don't play with my money. I'm working on my car at that time I didn't say nothing to him when I got there. I didn't say nothing to him. I dropped my truck off I said, man, I don't give a damn who fix it Just fix it. And I had to leave. I had to go ahead and leave, bro Because I knew I was already there. Yeah, yeah, you could take it there. Well, I got let me pull you back Um top three comedians of all time that are alive. Yeah Number one Bernie Mack Bernie Mack number one. Yeah, that's my guy man. That's dope. That's my guy number two um Gotta say Richard prior Richard prior number two. He's giving all the greats number three. Yeah I gotta say More than likely uh, Robin Harris Robin Harris Robin Harris on stage was fearless He was he was he had the once you get the hardest dudes in the room Bubba dub had a had a thugged out ass audience think about that. Yeah, he had some he had some dudes that was some Oh the old cheese and all yeah, so to have them laugh and and standing up and And cracking up and having a good time because dogs they be ready. They be ready to fight Oh, yeah, you gotta be able to reach your audience and engage with them and talk about shit. They can relate to And it makes the world of a difference. Robin. Harry did the same thing. He was talking about Crips and Bloods and his own club Yeah, you know and uh, Bernie was just relentless and Richard prior was a hell of a storyteller So now I'm really I'm in the storytelling now. So usually Um, like I only have 15 minutes at the samore show So I can't really get into my storytelling like I would like to you know, I mean, but like my 30 minute special I got some shit. I gotta say let me ask some I want to know how can people get a hold of you I wanted to know misty's top three because she might have a different top three than he does. Okay. Oh I don't I don't know. I didn't even know sign for you. Yeah. Yeah, she might have the golden girls Yeah I I don't have a top three. I really wasn't even into comedy for him. I had never been to a comedy show I had seen critiques the shit out of me. I promise you she's like baby that didn't work Oh, that'll work. Oh come back with this. Won't you add this on so and so? Wow, that's those but you've been to a lot of comedy shows with him now So since you critique him so well when you see other comics come up. Do you also like Critique them someone of course I do I do I don't I don't say it to them of course, but you know, there's some things that I see that Oh, he could have said this or done this or presented it a certain way But I do so out of all of the ones that you have seen who is your number one I love lamar Lamar Jones, he is just really funny to me. Um Yeah, he's a cat here. I love shaggy. I'm not just saying it because he's with the ratpacks, but he is church of god and christ He's coaching and so he'll say some, you know jokes that I think is is really funny And I don't know. I don't know if I have a number three. I have to think on that You see even say me Yeah I always tell him that I feel like His improv is the best I have ever seen and I remember when I first Saw him perform I said to him. I don't know why I your name is not there. I don't know why I say that too bigger than you know, I think of Steve Harvey and and him and the way he doing his thing I'll be like, dang it the other night. I just seen it one time But I know the feel of how you control in that room like that and in coming back and doing it I seen niggas try to do that and it wasn't like that I don't see these niggas try to come back up there and and when they're coming I'm like, hurry up and get the person up here We don't want to see this nigga. We want we come to see a eddie griffin niggas Get out from up here. So to me it's funny because I I understand Well, to me there is a difference between Improv and comedy Yeah, that's what I've learned and so if Again, I think he is number one. He can read a situation. He has the best comebacks. I have ever seen the quickest comebacks. I've seen So yeah, so what what is stopping you from being there? Um The Right team putting the right people in place and um because uh When you know where you are as far as your career, you you want to settle You know what I mean? Like you got folks that say, hey man, I want to be your manager I'd be like can you take my career more than what it's at? Like like my guy who is it? Have you done anybody else career? I'm crazy. I go to ask What have you done? Oh, man, and she she'd be I'd be tripping like nigga I don't want it certain people come to me about managing them. I'd be like nigga. I'm trying to manage me A lot of people be asking us. I'm like, you just going with you wanted the height nigga I don't know what to do with you. Man. I'm not gonna help your career nigga. I'm not giving you no money Hey, and it's it's it's it's the difference of when folks see Like I built such a brand on my own What are you gonna? What are you gonna? They're trying to ride away, bro And so I had to get rid of cash like that You know, it's it's only a certain amount of people like hey, and she said all the time Hey, are they gonna take you further than what you already are? Yeah, I mean and I and I definitely get there like one of my dudes I've been doing since 2017 He literally got here two weeks ago Put the money down for the texas counter show I can't wait and it you know, and I mean didn't hesitate. I mean, you know, and he said bro I got faith in you. Um, and it's a tour. I can't announce yet. You know until we find out for sure Yeah, so and um, he took me to one of the guys houses and he was like, hey, we should go over here Yeah, I'll finish right get you on this tour and it's it's a huge tour. So I get that tour, bro It's all it's it's it's no question Yeah, it is that it is God is placing you where you need to be man. Listen, I and and This this is one of the moments I said, uh, you know, we pray for each other man when I placed my hands on my wife last night That was one of my one of my deep prayers is also A peace of mind and and just saying hey, you know, just want to live life peaceful It's when a man and a woman has peace when a man has peace man It's so much he can accomplish and and he go hard and I think at I think when he gets to a point where Him and God are like this. I think that's when his career will elevate That is what I feel because I'm on that spiritual side. I feel like Yes, people can put you in the right position, but God Can do better than that So seek him first and everything that he has to offer and the doors will be open So I feel like when he gets to that place where He is totally dependent upon God. I think it will change man and I agree with you. I agree with that But it's a it's a place where when you when you seeking it, you know You got a you got to die daily. So it's a day this situation where you still you know, you still you But you become a better you there's a better you when you're dealing with wholeness in God And that's what you're talking about And I think that's the difference in how we grew up, you know, the background and I then this is no state to my husband because he says all the time I'm learning a little bit more from you But you know, there are some people who learn to be surface Lovers of God and there's some people that dig way down deep and they are very rooted and grounded And I think I am a rooted and grounded person and I'm trying to get him rooted Do you think it's the reading because you're probably a reader? Yeah, she definitely she's she's because that connection to reading and praying and stuff that personal relationship Is what pulls you closer. I'm telling you that time when you're willing to to To give God your time because most people be trying to give him a tenth of their Tithe but they need to give him a tenth of their time Of course and it's a way to do that man like people don't give God time and I try to I don't want to be forceful But there are times when I'll say I need you to pray And and whether it's five seconds or you know a minute It's better than nothing. So I'm steady trying to get him to where he doesn't I don't want to push him away You know, you don't want to be so Churchy, you know, so that is where he got that I'm not that saved yet So because there were things that I was asking him to do or you know, let's fast and let's pray Let's get on our knees and but everything has to have balance We're still trying to get that balanced because he he his his lifestyle is completely different I grew up in church. My dad was a preacher. I mean, you know, it was vacation bible schools and revivals and and It's embedded the scripture is embedded He would say I have a scripture for everything and I do and that is what has Carried me through my mother's death now through my father's death and all of the you know, just it has carried me And he grew up the hard way. This does that heart knock life And so he only know the streets and he knows how to get what he needs And I don't want to say manipulate people but he works the system because that you know So and that is where I think it balances both of us because I don't know how to you know I'm a straight by the book type of person, you know, I've been with with doing title insurance for almost 22 years now, you know, I'm 40 and I've been doing the same thing for 22 years So I'm much, you know, straight shooter and and he's kind of like, hey, let's work it. Let's figure it out and let's maneuver So I think that's where we're both trying to balance, you know, so I can understand that other side Because he used to call me green Because I knew nothing of course us, uh, you know, one of what we was growing up man. So, you know, I did Uh, I don't even say it was forced but you know when you go to Revival at the revival. Yeah, and you know, and then I did have a balance where she was in church all the time I did have another You know another side to me all together But and at the same time she this is the same woman that uh, helped me get Learn how to for me to keep my checking accounts Out of the negative. She's like, you just can't swipe your car Yeah, I was an older dude because I was used to carrying cash Yeah So now I'm getting my business created together and you you you know, and at one point she stopped asking me because at one She said, hey, how's it how you checking accounts? So now I have five different accounts have my llc. That's right. All my taxes paid up She was on me about that and which a lot of if you don't know growing up like that, you just don't know You know what I mean? So you like man, you know what she she got me focused on that end too Yeah, I mean and and and I love God without more because I know I wouldn't be where I'm at First and foremost without him Man, come on. I already see it in you and the thing about it is I didn't grow up in no church I ain't never been a member of any church. It's it's the God in me Yeah, you know I'm talking about like like God took I went through a lot of things that got me Right now, so just like you quote scripture and just cause you you you've been through church I felt like when I bumped my head I lost my mom early on so I lost my mom. I lost a lot of different things I think it was 20 23 she was 10. Yeah, but but the thing is crazy when you when you hustling Yes, and and and you ain't tripping on nothing because you that's your that's your god Yes, your parents is your god when you ain't really that's how you can run around and act like everything Okay, but when that foundation is shift and you have to start understanding how to pray for yourself And really because you live off of your parents pray a lot of times man And go ahead baby. No, and I was just gonna say that's why I told him as he said earlier is if I am so grateful that he still has his parents And I tell him all the time his parents are his biggest supporters. I have seen it You know and I tell him he is blessed that they are still here And when I wanted to live my dream my dad was no, that's not what we do You know, we have a career we do this and we do that But for the fact that his parents would say to him, you know, go live your dream We are there for you. You know, you do it. Whatever you want to do. We got it. We're supporting you I know that he's always had that foundation And so god forbid something happens to either one of them is going to be difficult for him It was crazy man is um a lot of folks. I know my mother was a was on crack for years Okay, but I've never disrespected my mom. I remember finding Uh mother's crack pipe. Yeah, you know, and you know and as a kid you can either go one or two ways when you see that You know, I mean, but I you know had money stole from me, but I've never treated my mom any different never And I'm so grateful to still have her and and that like I said going through that those are things those are levels, man You know, you know that that's growth to be honest with you to be able to see what you've seen That's still that that's another way that god connects with you You know anytime you go through something what don't kill you make you stronger Man, I never I never forget when the cat um Call my mother crackhead. Oh my god, bro Man, I was in junior high but to know that somebody else knew your mother was a crackhead one of my best friends to this day He ran around the bus And he was like, hey man, you know you because I felt like I was gonna kill that dude, you know, but you know That crack era was a mug. You can't tell me nothing about it. I got a functioning crackhead uncle right now Yeah Functioning functioning right that you're gonna put a whole motor out with his teeth that they don't have no more He ain't tripping at all. You know, man. Yeah, so we've seen it all man Let me know how can people get a hold of you if they trying to link up with you if they trying to book you Can they book you? You know, you you elevated to how to be booked? No, you know what I'm saying um, my wife do my contracts, okay, so we're I'm in talks with a A couple of people as far as um Manages, you know, I'm saying we trying to work to the things out but definitely my boy travis He's probably gonna be my role manager. Okay, so he's uh, and she love him and his his girl I meant to bring the shades that she had she has like third. Uh, was the third eyewear Third eyewear man Beyonce reposted us stuff man. So she gave us like a octagon joint five in five shades deep It's nice. You can just roll it out man. It's it's you know It's just you know, I like I like to support my black people too, man, but I'm on 94.5. Oh, yeah Yeah, yeah, yeah, what time 10 a.m. The 2 p.m. The man cave my boy DJ smooth with the ve we got the number one show during the day So I got I got I got to come I got to come through that thing You got to come, you know, I rock with you. You you don't even know I'm I'm So yeah, they can reach me man at dlsworld.com or on instagram dls ent um, and can people hope Um, how are you just to host an event? Yes, doesn't have to be any, you know Comedy show or anything that is yes, because your personality is like amazing. Thank you know how to deal with deal with stuff, man A lot of people that's a gift. Thank you. Thank you. Yeah, I'm your host in a wedding Yes, yes, well who ended our host, maybe, um Who was that that would be hilarious? Yeah technically host but you ended up I mean for a couple of you know, once you you know once i'm there I like for everybody to have fun, you know, I mean, so I do weddings. I even did Um, um, I mean, I'm actually got a right before I do the show friday I got to go to a funeral in texas counter one of my classmates. Sorry to hear that. Thank you, bruh His mama was like my mom and um, you know, um He just had health issues man, but at one of our other classmates funerals. I got up and spoke Oh my god And she said she never forgot that And so I had everybody cracking up laughing. Oh man. I had folks cracking up and I was okay Until her mama stood up and started clapping. Wow. I lost it. Oh, man. I started I lost it man. So, you know, um, just the the joy of laughter, man We laugh. Well, I tell you we laugh Every day about something The other day and she was like, man, quit putting my business out there Man, my wife came in there because we had somebody come clean the house every once in a while No, sir Man, it was the funniest thing. She was carrying her clothes in the living room So she it was a bunch of clothes. My wife got a lot of clothes She threw him on the couch In the living room, man when she threw him on the couch, man, when I tell you it was the loudest fart trying to throw them She was like she looked at me like did you hear that? I'm like, yeah He loves to embarrass me No, I get it because it is like you don't think that you're woman even for it My wife is like you don't suppose to do it I got all things you don't suppose to do it My wife is the most elegant Thank you. I got all of the great things I can do. I pass gas. Thank you My wife is brilliant. So she's like Oh, and she farted in her sleep, man It's hilarious It is hilarious. I look at her She'd be like, she'll wake up, she'll wake up My wife is one of the most elegant women ever Even when she pass gas, she'll wake up If she hear it hard enough, she'll open her eyes And she'll be like, oh, so sorry Excuse me She'll open her eyes and I'm like, you don't care what you get, you married a comedian Yeah, so it's hilarious, man The bishop that married us, he said, wait Your church got in Christ and he's Baptist How did this happen? Because you are completely opposite Completely opposite, man I would change it for the world I know it and to be able to have a good time in the midst of whatever The gift in itself, man We have to try to figure out ways to The date night thing, we try that But then life just keeps hitting us in the face We got to figure it out We do good for a little bit Then we have to retract We talk like we're going out of town We're like, man, I'm not going to do this stuff We're not going to be interviewing Put this stuff away We got too much stuff going on Because we work a lot Then the kids, but that's no excuse We got to figure it out You definitely got to spend time with each other Communicate She loves TikTok You been dancing on TikTok? No My son says I'm stuck on the Christian side of TikTok But that's okay But you can do a Christian TikTok There's nothing wrong with it She's challenging, man My wife does her own nails, her own hair She's cold, man My wife do that, too, though She's challenging, man, she's coming with it And the food, the cooking over there in my house It's a pie I ain't going nowhere My wife doesn't cook no more So I'll do all the cooking But she'll cook some dressing Or something doing I only cook for holidays My cooking days are over I'm done You do everything else I do enough I'm good She's expressing her balance, man She's learning to enjoy herself more We leave next week To go for a whole week on the cabin In Oklahoma? We about to do something like that We go on with Spen And Q That's dope And Nina And Ken And me and Brandon It's four couples And it's real cool And have some fun, man Because the last time we went No Say, man, we about to settle down I'm going to settle down We love y'all This ain't the last time This periodically happening Check it, man Any time you need me, dawg I mean for real Misty, when we don't have to leave We'll just set up A couple's night right here And talk I love some Jamaican food We bring food up here You like spicy? Now I got my wife eating a lot more Spicier food too Now she be eating the hell out them sunflowers I smell like some hater the night Check it, man It's been another great segment Of Boss Talk 101, man