 All this teaching about abstinence is absolutely useless. Just teach safe sex. Okay, wait a second. Safe sex? There's no such thing. What do you mean? I mean you're only accounting for the risk of pregnancy or disease, but you're not accounting for the spiritual and emotional bonds that are formed. Explain. In the Bible, it says that man shall leave his father and his mother and cling to his wife and they shall become one flesh. Because of our sin, we've distorted God's plan and design for sexuality. When we engage in that act of intimacy with somebody that we're not in a covenant relationship with, when we leave that relationship or that relationship breaks up, emotional baggage, hurt, and scars all stem from it. What if you've already done it? Now that's not to say that it's hopeless for those who have sinned sexually. And that's good news for all of us because all of us have sinned sexually whether in thought life or in physical deed. But because of Jesus' payment on the cross for our sins, we can find redemption, restoration, and new life in him.