 Hi y'all she was seven. Okay, I know I look crazy, but I've been experimenting with some crazy eyeliner, and I'm just I feel like doing a video so This video is gonna be about flipping the script. Okay ladies a lot of people have been asking me How do you ask your man for money? How do you? Get money out of a man. How do you get them to pay for stuff because they're not trying to pay for stuff these days? I'm like well You got a trick people these days. Okay, and it's it's sad, but this is what it's come to Men do not want to act like gentlemen anymore men do not want to play the provider role anymore because they have been taught that You're not supposed to do that and By nature women are receivers men are givers. Okay, so When something goes wrong in nature, what do they do? They experiment and they do run tests and they say hey Why is this going wrong? We need to fix it and a lot of times they'll take you know Insects or animals and they'll put them in a different environment under different circumstances To see if they'll revert back to the way that they were supposed to be naturally and so a lot of times I got a trickle. Okay the environment and certain things Change them for some reason. Okay, and In order to get them back to doing what they're supposed to be doing by nature Sometimes you got a trick of them and put them in a certain situation. So let's do it So if you don't want to pay on a date, don't bring your purse. Okay, don't bring your wallet First of all, they're gonna think you're bringing a purse, but they don't know there's a wallet in there So when you get to wherever you need to go you order whatever And they ask you to split the bill. Oh, I'm so sorry. I left my wallet at home. Oh my god. I'm such an idiot There whose paper okay, so Now you need some money and you've been dating this guy. He's your boyfriend, but he's he never gives you anything Okay, he's not Putting in you know his dues, you know, yeah, he might take you to the movies or whatever But you know, he's not giving you any extra spending money to make yourself beautiful for him, right? Your friend down the street hurt. She's not even as cute as you but her boyfriend is giving her money like You deserve some too, right? So let's get let's let's get into it. How do you get money from a man? Okay? Well, you cut him off sexually. Yeah, so You say, oh my god, I need to I'm so stressed out about this problem that I having I need some money I need to go, you know, I need to pay this person back to make up something Doesn't even matter if you want a hundred dollars make up something. I owe my mom a hundred dollars. She's just bugging me I'm stressed. I don't feel like doing that. I'm not in the mood. I'm not horny I'm I gotta go get another jobs because I have to pay her back a hundred dollars a month because I bought something from her and It ain't true. Okay, but this I get your nail and hair money or whatever I'm just so stressed out. I'm thinking about going to wait tables at one of the little men's gentlemen's club Because they said that they make a lot of tips and only have to work one night a week So he's gonna be like, thanks. Let me working with strippers Just to get a hundred dollars to pay her mom back every month. No, let me go in. I got you I'll give it to you because first of all, if you Say I have to go get a second job at strip club as a waitress That's how all strippers start off, right as a waitress Especially if you have a body to do that kind of stuff. Okay Um, so they're gonna be like, no, I don't want you in that environment. You don't have to do that I'll give you the hundred dollars. Okay. I said, well, this is every month. So I'm gonna, you know I'm gonna need that extra help every month. Are you sure? Like pretend like you don't even want him to give you the money Like, no, baby. It's okay. I'll go get that job. You know what those men in there? They're drunk They're horny. They're gonna give money, you know, like it's water. They got money So I don't want make them feel like less than the man and He'll give you that money be like, you know, I don't want to take your money I can take their money, you know, I can make lots of money on these You know rich old horny men who are just handing it out. So now that puts you in an environment I'm in an environment where you can meet a rich Man or a man with more money than them Who's just gonna throw tips at you for bringing them a drink, right? And who might even flirt with you because you know You never know. So in his mind, I'm like, oh hell no, I can't do that So it's gonna give you the money now if you don't look like, you know You can pull off being a waitress in strip club or getting the attention from certain type of men then you take away still you take away the sex and you take away the time and You insert someone else in his spot like, you know My put put your ex-boyfriend it But not directly indirectly my ex-boyfriend's cousin Name a girl or my ex-boyfriend's mother You know She Always told me if I ever needed anything I could come to her So first of all if he knows that you're gonna go borrow money from a ex-boyfriend's mother or cousin or whatever He's gonna feel like they have money and she'll try to talk you back to going with her son or You might accidentally see him while you're over there or she might call and tell oh She needs money. She must not be with any type of you know decent man because she's coming to me for money So it's gonna make him feel bad. So he's gonna give you the money. Okay. It's mind games Now if he just says no, I broke I can't afford I can't afford to take care of myself That's when you got to go to plan B and get a side dude just to give you money. Okay And this I know this is politically incorrect, but that's just how things work. Okay So if you can find a side guy You know our older guy who got some money and just like want to spend it on somebody and just say hey You know my boyfriend ain't this he can't afford to do this and that for me, you know, you want to be my side sugar daddy, you know Some women have to go to that extent a lot of women say you know what if I could make the perfect man I would have to have three men And this is just realistic you you guys okay a lot of women will Think that there's some magical answer out there to get what you want, but it's all in your mind You know men play games with women all the time. Okay all the time And when a woman can play a game the same game, but even better With a man and she gets over on him Have the time actually more than half 90% of the time they never find out Okay, 90% of the time they don't think it's a game They won't even question you because women are so talented at putting so much detail into the game They just believe it. Okay, and half the time whatever the problem is it's not even a problem Okay, it's a way to get what you want. It's called manipulation. Okay, and I'm not saying that you know I'm not ashamed to say manipulation works because everyone knows manipulation works Okay, if your morals are so high and so above this and this event Why are you with a broke guy? And why are you complaining about it? It should only be about love So if you have a problem with manipulation and tricking guys, but you want money from a guy. This is this and that But you're not willing to do to get what it takes by tricking him because you know He's not gonna give it to you any other way. Then you don't really want that money Okay I'll tell y'all story. Let me see about time. Yeah, so When I first started dating the guy that I married I said look I was very blunt because I was like, you know I have nothing to lose like I I've been single for a while. I don't have nothing to lose I'm just gonna put it all on the table. I'm like look I Don't have sex with people until I'm in a relationship Okay, that means we got a date you got to take me out. I gotta be your girlfriend Okay, so he said okay, I can deal with that and he really wanted it. Okay, so he waited for it He he said, okay, we could we can be a couple. So I said, okay After three months, I'm like, look, I can't be involved with somebody I can't be in a relationship with some especially a guy who is You know very financially stable and you know has a lot of money to spare you have a nice car You have a nice place you make a lot of money I can't be with somebody who's gonna make me go out there and work in nine to five up under some other man all day When you can afford to take care of me, I can't do it. It just doesn't feel right, you know Because every place that I work There's always some guys that's coming after me y'all heard the work y'all heard the work husband. Okay, they're real So I told him about that. I said, you know everywhere I work There's always some guy that's always, you know interested in me and they want to whine and die me Take me out to lunch. Take me on a weekend trips everywhere. I work. They want to do this. So I that's why I'm not comfortable working and dating at the same time if I'm gonna work I can't date because there's so many, you know guys at the places that I work who are very interested in me, okay, and You know, they take things personally Especially from women this is before sexual harassment was real big Especially for women if you say no if you decline them all the time to go out to lunch and you know do things with them They'll take it personally and then you won't get the same treatment. You won't this you won't get that and if they're If they're not corporate owned there is no policy in place, you know To you know to stop the sexual harassment and if you know if you're young you you can't afford to go hire a lawyer Da-da-da-da. So it's like look, I can't date and work at the same time. You need to handle this. So He did he's like you're right. I know a lot of my friends who own businesses that are in that business and they're very You know, they're very Roofless, I know exactly what you mean. So no, you don't have to work anymore I can afford to take care of you, you know So that's how it goes But if you don't have a man that can afford to take care of you and he says well I don't care you just want to deal with it And you know, if you love me if you're any type of woman, you'll you won't have you won't deal with that And you won't put up with it and blah blah blah blah blah blah then you say, okay Whatever, you know, but then then you go get a work husband for real because obviously you don't have a choice And you get him to buy you stuff to buy you lunch to take you shopping. Okay, there's guys out there Who you work for will make a lot more money than your man and they will buy you things. Okay I know this is probably like, oh my god, she's living in fantasy land. What where does she work? Y'all forget I was young back then, okay And the people that I worked for were older. So That dynamic right there is, you know Bait that's bait, you know, if you're young and you know, you look halfway decent You can get what you want out of life But you know, if you're older, it's not gonna work and I'm not I'm trying to be rude But it's not gonna work You're gonna have to come up with a mental game at that point You're gonna have to come up with the I gotta go borrow some money from my ex-boyfriend's mother or I can't be with you. Uh, I'm I'm not sexually aroused anymore because I am so stressed about money. Okay, um You know, I'm thinking about going to work at night And a cocktail bar as a waitress. I need to take on a second job at night in a club Now this means, oh my god, she's gonna meet other people with money with tips. She's gonna leave me Why I'm supposed to be with her. She's out working in a club with skipy clothes. Oh, no I gotta give her that hundred dollars, you know, if you know, they can afford it Then you play those games if they say no, you know Because they're lying And if they don't want to give you money, then they don't really value you you're not They're not giving you The thing that you want, you know, women like comfort, you know If we're gonna pay money to get our hair nails makeup or whatever for you To look good for you to up your status to make people say, oh, he got a nice looking girl Then you need to help pay for that, you know Because you know how some women just let themselves go after they get married and say, you know, I'm just gonna wear a t-shirt and some jogging Pants with some stains on them. I'm not gonna do my hair and put my bonnet on I don't need no more makeup. Just give me some lip gloss. Okay, let's go No, that stuff costs money and when women pay for all those things when they're single Believe me, they're getting They're getting reimbursed with dates with drinks with gifts and stuff like that They're not just spending that money and if you are you're doing it the wrong way. Okay So I'm just gonna put that out there. I know a lot of women are gonna disagree A lot of men are gonna chime in and be like, what about look, you know what? If you can't give me a hundred dollars when I ask you for it, do you really love me? Like honestly, do you really love me? If I say, baby, I need a hundred dollars If you say no, then how am I supposed to believe that you truly Truly love me. Okay, you'll die for me. You'll do this for me, but you won't give me a hundred dollars That don't make no sense. Okay It just don't you know, you can say you'll die for me, but when it comes down to it Is that true? If you won't even give me a hundred dollars, I don't believe that Put your money where your mouth is, you know So anyway I know I'm looking crazy, but I had to get this video If y'all have any questions or if y'all have anything to add to it Y'all know what to do put in the comments I don't regret anything. I say I believe 100 and manipulation and mentalism and tricking men because Women are the receivers men are the givers if they don't want to give naturally and they have to be deceived and tricked into it Well, oh well, we're just you know trying to get them back into where they're supposed to be naturally That is our job as women of the earth Is to get nature back in order. Okay. I'll see y'all later. Bye