 we all have the capacity to check in with someone. Nobody's life is so effing busy. I mean, guys, I'm going to speak to the men out there. I go to the toilet. I spend quite a few minutes there. It's a lot of time with your phone that you could at least message someone. But you cannot say you don't have time. We all have time to go to the bathroom. And within the time it takes to go to the bathroom, you can connect with another human being. But if a guy is flaky, that means he's just not that into you. The other type of guy that you have to be on the lookout for is a guy whose life is in chaos. He's going through a contentious divorce. He's got a contentious ex in his life. He's got chaos going on in his professional life, maybe as chaos going in his emotional well-being or his physical well-being. His life is in chaos.