 Why the narcissist stops having sex with you? Narcissists are very manipulative They do this to everyone when you first meet them they love bomb you In that moment you are perfect They worship you They compliment and praise you They fulfill all of your sexual needs and they let you fulfill theirs Many of you may even be convinced that the best sex you ever had was with the narcissist But it's toxic It's harmful to you It kills you inside Especially when they start to devalue you when they start to take everything away When they no longer desire you anymore when they begin to despise you That's when they take intimacy and sex away They no longer kiss you and you notice that they're disengaging from you They're never in the mood to have sex But when they first met you They trained you to believe that they want to have sex every day But despite that you choose to tolerate it Because it's not all about sex you love them you care about them You assume that they must be going through a difficult time, but as time goes by nothing changes It just gets worse It begins to irritate you Because you're unable to change it and you would think that somewhere inside of them Is this desire for you? But they don't seem to have any interest in you at all Because you're no longer this person that they've compartmentalized as their sexual object Now they're sexualizing other people They're desiring other people You no longer fit into that role or category. They don't see you in that way anymore And they will even put this stuff in your face. They will show you pictures of other people People that they are fantasizing about in the same way that they used to do for you But when you see this It should start to make more sense They're manipulating you they're playing with your emotions They're stripping you of sex and intimacy And watching you still continue to support them and remaining in the relationship Which makes them feel powerful Because now rather than being a partner in a sexual or romantic relationship You're just a provider You're just providing something to them. You're just giving them what they need While they continue to lust over other people people who aren't doing anything for them and You're not getting anything a return Because they're not bringing anything to the relationship They blinded you with sex in the beginning They used it as a privy of your understanding judgment and perception So you paid little attention to their bad behavior You let it slide, but now you're watching this video because you've had enough You don't want to deal with it anymore But not everyone comes to this conclusion Many victims choose to remain in the relationship for years after they've been stripped of sex And it just becomes normal to them They may even begin to lie to themselves I believe that their relationship is better without sex to justify the narcissist's behavior But this is all a part of the trap. The narcissist's behavior is normal for them There's nothing wrong with you This is just what narcissists do They will try to make you think that you're crazy But you need to wake up They're already fantasizing about other people and they may already have someone else lined up Which is why they have no desire to touch you When the narcissist stops having sex with you, you may try harder to please them You may try to understand them You may try to win back their love and attention But it never works Because they already know what they're doing And that's exactly what they want you to do It causes you to suffer and it makes them feel powerful It gives them a narcissistic supply But they're fantasizing about other people They don't care about you They have that uncontrollable desire for someone else to love Now your garbage You're nothing But you may choose to remain in the relationship Because you're under their spell You're so attracted and interested in them that you cannot think about anything else You will do whatever they want It's like a drug and you're addicted you have no control of yourself Because they have infected you with this drug And that is why you have stayed in the relationship for such a long time Even though your needs were not fulfilled Even though they were treating you in an inconsiderate and exploitive manner While you are being very careful not to offend or upset them And you are not having sex When the narcissist stops having sex with you The only thing you can control is yourself The only thing you can do is go no contact Because they're not going to change Why would they change when they're still getting what they want? You're still providing to them While they're not giving anything to you So there's no incentive for them to change But even when you go no contact You shouldn't desire for them to return and give you what you want Because they're just going to play that same game again It's going to be another rerun Another cycle You have to cut them off completely Because once you do that You can start healing from this You can start becoming stronger You can't heal when they're constantly showing you pictures Of the people they're fantasizing about If the narcissist is doing that They're already cheating on you It's emotional cheating So you might as well go and have sex with someone else Because the relationship is already over They have no respect for you if they're doing that The relationship is over if they're doing that So go and get your needs met with someone else It may give you the power you need to leave them Before they leave you Because if they discard you first It's going to destroy you Thank you for watching I hope this video resonates with you Please like, comment, share and subscribe If you would like to donate, my PayPal link is in the video description Coaching inquiries You can email me at coaching.art-survivor.uk Thank you for watching And I'll talk to you soon