 Sims and Gemma will be back on social media. Simphiwee and Gemma will be back on social media. Sims and Gemma tragically lost her husband Dumie Macy Lila in a botched hijacking a few weeks ago. The beauty was in the middle of planning her white wedding when her fairytale came to an abrupt end. The talented actress has been off social media since the passing of her husband and she recently made a comeback this week with a touching post.