 You know in a world where people on YouTube are looking up how to manifest a specific person in 24 hours, you know I'm probably not a big fan of the law of attraction. I actually am a big fan of really actually doing something to reach your goals. Now in my mind there really is only one way to change your life in 24 hours and the way to do it is the way you change how you approach your life. Now in this video I want to share a very specific mindset hack that can help you change your life very quickly. What's up guys? Alex Hine, author of the book Master the Day. Now one of the fastest ways and most fun ways to change your life is by learning a new language. So this has been a really cool language learning model coming out with a company called Lingoda and basically what it is is a live learning platform for learning foreign languages like German but also French, English, Spanish or even English for business. Now Lingoda offers a new training system called Sprint which you'll definitely find very interesting because if you take a class every day for three months with the Sprint program you can get 100% off your money back or you can take 15 classes per month for three months and get 50% of your money back even after completing it and more than 25,000 people have already been through this program. But the thing I really like is that if you get live interaction with qualified teachers who are native speakers and there are other students there too and usually around three per class you get all the learning materials required with live people from all over the world and getting quizzed it makes it easier to learn and stay in with a sense of community. Now Sprint starts on July 1st make sure you sign up before June 15th and don't forget there are limited spots. Now if you use my voucher code class 86 you'll get $11 off the deposit so you can check out the link below for Lingoda's special package. All right so the fundamental way to change your life incredibly quickly is to do the exact opposite of what you see everybody in your life doing. Now hear me out because I know this is very simplistic you may see your friends doing a certain thing your mom your dad your siblings your professors your boss your co-workers but you have to keep in mind that the way that person has gotten to their life which is probably mediocre and average because by definition most of us are average the way they got there is by having average thoughts average beliefs and average habits and actions so if you just do anything but what they have done to be average you can get a pretty exceptional quality of life if you go in the right direction so if you want to know how to live a dramatically successful life in any quadrant of life just look at what the average person does and don't do that so let's say you want to start a youtube channel or you want to start a business now you look at what all your friends do you know during the night in the evening from let's say seven to eleven they're on their phone or they're on their computer or watching Netflix and on the weekends maybe they're going out to a bar or to a club so you know the first rule what are my friends doing they're watching Netflix they're going to a bar and they're talking about starting a youtube channel or business they plan to quit their job and they have all these ideas of moving across the country or beginning this great endeavor or this passion project but you invoke the golden rule which is do anything other than what they are doing and because you know this golden rule in your evening hours you just dedicate half that time to actually doing something to build your channel while they talk you do when they're planning you're booking that flight and while they're strategizing and gossiping and trying to figure it all out you're beginning the action steps to really make that happen you know what the average person does you do anything but that and those are habits that will work for you let's say what you really want in life is a relationship now again let's invoke this rule what does the average person do around you maybe your friends are on apps a lot maybe they rarely go on dates and when they do they kind of seem to always be these lukewarm people that they're just not that into and things just seem to fizzle out from there or maybe they keep getting in casual relationships that never really end up going where they wanted to go now maybe when you hear about your friends dates they sound pretty much as fun as a poo flavored lollipop they sound that interesting so we invoke the golden rule do the exact opposite of what you see everyone else doing and it gives you a hint for what habits maybe you decide you're going to close the apps and actively start going to events in person pick up a dance class go to a rock climbing gym start going out to coffee shops to work instead of working in your remote office maybe you decide instead of waiting for the man to approach you you're going to initiate the conversation or maybe you're going to learn how to be more interesting and more fun or actually just live a more interesting and more fun life and rather than using these boring cheesy conversational starters you try to talk about things that really genuinely matter and you stand up for yourself and rather than letting someone push you into a relationship that's the gray zone the gray area you actually say this is what i want take it or leave it and so again by invoking that golden rule you know what the average person does and you can do the exact opposite all you have to do is make sure your thoughts and beliefs are different and your habits and rituals are different and you're going to get different results now one last example let's say you're going home for the holidays and you want to be happier around your family you notice what is the pattern you see all your friends ah i'm going home i'm kind of excited but i don't really want to talk to my mom she's so high strong and wants me to just do all these things around the house and then when they get home it's the same conversations it's boring and they get triggered and then they get pissed and they're texting you about their mom or their dad or their brother and it's the same old same old so you invoke the golden rule do the exact opposite anything but that so what do you do when it's time to go home you say rather than uh i'm not so sure i'm going to do something different this time i'm just going to change the way i go home i'm just going to try it and then when you go home you take the time to review the patterns with your mom or your dad or your sibling the patterns that always cause friction and anger and frustration and you decide you're just going to become a little bit more aware of it you're just going to do a little bit to take the initiative at fixing or changing the relationship you go home you decide to be more helpful and do the dishes you decide that you're going to help with the yard work you decide that you're going to help with the things that normally irritated you being at home when you just want to chill and so now because you've invoked the golden rule of doing anything but what the average person does when they go home and complain about being home with their family you've actually taken the initiative to build consciously deliberately build a different and a better life so this fundamental principle has helped me so much because sometimes when you don't know what to do to live a better life in any quadrant of your life just come up with the mindset beliefs the habits what the average person does and make sure you do anything but those habits and rituals and believe and act that way so i hope that helps kind of like a big idea but surprisingly simple and not so many people do it now before you go you can check out the link down there below you'll also download a free goal setting worksheet and a free series every couple days on how you can use goal setting to radically change the trajectory of your life and 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