 Yeah, the Australian government's looking at me right now that someone's researching this and going I don't think he was looking for jobs during that time He owes us quite a lot of money Yeah, I can pay it now In that moment, I was not prepared. I didn't know I did not have all the tools. I wasn't feeling cool enough I wasn't alpha enough. I didn't have the right shoes or whatever else I Had been preparing in the sense that I'd made a decision. I wanted to be better with women I was out there doing it with friendly fives and like, you know Nice sevens and like arty chicks and like girls that I could handle and then suddenly next level appeared and I became ready by doing it In that moment I changed that behavior of not me not being able to do this or not this girl was too good to me or whatever else That was the moment where I had an evolution and you look at Zen Buddhist because that's the the traditions that I come from in terms of my spirituality That constantly striving through daily practice to reach instantaneous breakthroughs Yeah, in terms of seeing the nature of reality And that's what you guys are doing when you're learning seduction. You are taking daily action You're going out there. You're going through the motions You're going up doing approaches and so on but the breakthroughs will come with one girl in one moment or one time When you felt that rush all that weirdness all this anxiety all this doubt who am I am not good enough all that stuff And you breathe through it you breathe out and you step in and you do it anyway and suddenly find you are worthy You are good enough. There's supposed to be a thing that says how much time out someone took it away so one last story Once again, I was on Euro to a couple of years ago. I was on this island paradise called Havar off the Croatian coast and I was walking In the dappled sunlight through an olive grove with a couple of students and I was wearing my Daniel Craig swimming suit Which looks much better on him than on me with my skinny white body in my hairy chest and My students were equally well endowed with the gifts of nature And we were strolling through the dappled sunlight Across slightly pebbly ground Across this island and there was this outdoor cafe and all these beautiful people Croatian couples are sitting around sipping espressos And I said to my student see that over there and He looked in the direction and he went to see what and I said the most beautiful one on the planet And he went oh Yeah, yeah, right like he's trying to avoid the fact that in the middle of this and well away from everyone else Is the most beautiful woman on the planet Obviously a Russian. She's wearing this gold bikini, you know that has well has little bits of gold go over these Amazing breasts and this perfect body and she's dripping with gold and like wearing Gucci sunnies and whatever else And she's wearing high heels like what the fuck And she's sitting there by herself sipping a coffee And so I draw my attention to this because the student knows you like I don't say that because he knows Fuck he's gonna make me talk to her so I'll just pretend suddenly like you know fight flight and denial Yeah, I'm like, okay, so Do I need to finish this sentence? He's like man. I think I need to kind of warm up my most beautiful woman on the planet So he goes over and and you have this moment as a coach You can't help it where you see your student going in and you go To a set like that you just can't help it because it's it's tense All right, especially when you got a microphone on you're listening you hear that you can hear them breathing and you can hear them talking to themselves That's the freakiest thing Dude I can hear you and then they go and they're like then they have to go and take a piss and then you're like Take their headphones out. It's a weird existence that we dating coaches living and um so he strides up to this to this girl and I see him like lean over and like put his hand on the table and go and this girl just looks up and like withers at him and opens her mouth like this To deliver one withering word probably and I see him sort of there tentatively and he just like backs off and he just walks back He comes back to me and I just give him a little hug And he says man, she was really not very nice. She was really nice. That was really bad I don't want to do that. It was horrible like all right cool cool stop and then we do our little meditation thing there So I stood with all of us You know standing in the middle of this thing looking like weirdos and I tell him to close it like it's like with some I don't know some gay Trist is having here I'm like just close your eyes and think about it and he does he's breathing exercise and he comes back to center and We're okay. He opens his eyes and I said That was really good. You know that you did that you've taken a step that most men would never do I'm proud of you now when you go in again, and he's like thanks for the lesson I'm not gonna do that again. I don't like that was enough for me today. I'm like all right My turn watch and so I'm walking over