 I am laughing my A.S.S. at Nackby Head of Jehovah. She's done several videos on the James Charles situation, but then I guess she has some people. You have to understand that young lady, those of you who don't know, is Nackby Head of Jehovah. I stand for her. I love her content. She has a quirky sense of humor. She's very blunt. She does curse those of you who are not new. It's forewarning she does curse, but it's not that, not all the time I should say. Every now and then you will hear an F-bomb or something. She was stating on her recent, one of her recent videos that her channel was going in a new direction. Look you guys, and I've said this before, I get that you initially subscribe to someone and if they have hair, the content is hair, you may feel a certain type of way, but we don't have to watch them. If they've been on YouTube for a while, like she's been on YouTube for a while, it gets old. I mean, we're more than just our hair. There's nothing wrong with bringing other topics to her channel. And baby, there are literally hundreds of other natural hair YouTubers out there. Like seriously, so many. So yeah, she's changing the direction of her channel and she's gotten a little pushback from some viewers, but it is what it is. Y'all, I'm struggling with this perm rock set. I can say that because I can't see. I subscribe to a young lady named, I am a loho, it's E-L-O-H-O. And I've seen some of her videos come up on my feed as suggested and recommended and I just never watched it. But baby, when I started watching it, I was like, oh, I like you. I like you a lot. Yeah, she's one of those too. She tell it how it is. And some people may not like it and they don't have to watch, girl, you just don't have to watch it. So yeah, y'all, I'm gonna do a little bit of oil to help with that frizziness, I think. So let me tell y'all about some music I've been listening to. I am absolutely obsessed with a young lady by the name of Doja Cat. When I tell you she is the weirdest little thing I've come across in a long time, but I like weird people. I really do. I mean, she's weird in a good way. She does not follow the cold, so to speak. She has a song called, one of her most popular songs is Moo, I'm a Cow Moo, which really she's trolling. She was, it was a joke. Another one is Tia Tamera, which I kind of put a sample of that in my Bantu Nod video. I love that song. I listen to it almost every morning. JB Little Rose, his eyes, he's like, oh my God. I like her. She's so different. She really is and I like that. Another person who I started watching and I had to like stop watching her videos and listen to her music because it was, it's a little too much. Megan Thee Stallion, now Megan is based out of Houston, come through Houston. She's been around for a little while, but she's finally getting the recognition and she's raunchy. She's the rap version of Idina Howard and I don't know, I think I said this in one of my blogs. There is only so much coochie popping, talking about money and drinking that one can handle. She's worse than Trina. She's kind of like Lila Campbell with a Southern flair and you know, she can rap. She can actually rap when she has a deeper voice. She has a natural body. I was laughing at some of the comments because people were like, she has a natural body and oh my God, like, how can she be that thick? Girl, Texas brand, the women in the South, let me tell you something. When I was in college, there was women walking around and this is no exaggeration. There were women walking around in college with 26 inch waist and 40 inch hips. My best friend was like that. She literally had like a 26, 28 inch waist and I think she was actually 42 at the bottom. It is possible. So yeah, Megan is all natural. All right, I can do those two over because it was complicated. So y'all, I'm going to talk about something serious real quick with two subjects that's kind of serious. I am so tired of hearing these stories of young girls. And when I'm young, I mean 10 and under, young girls who are being murdered by a boyfriend, many murdered by the mother's boyfriend. I really do not understand why these young girls are so quick to jump into a relationship with someone else. Is it really that important, is getting some penis really that important to you to where you will put your child's safety at risk? And nine times out of 10, most of these girls, young girls are being molested, raped and then killed by the boyfriend, let me tell you something. The short time I was single and by myself, I could have definitely jumped into a relationship with someone. Absolutely. But that wasn't my priority. My priority was working, providing for my son and doing whatever the hell I needed to do. I was not worried about no man. Now, you know, later on, yeah, and I get it, you know, they're girls too. Most of these girls are under the age of 25. They jump into these relationships and boom, like literally every week, every week, I am seeing a story. I was on Facebook today. I saw a story of a three-year-old little girl who the boyfriend called the paramedics and they got there and the little girl was unconscious. Real culture of the hospital and she was severely raped and abused and she didn't make it. She died and apparently the mother knew about it. The mother knew she was being raped and didn't do anything about it. That is absolutely horrible and I just don't understand. First of all, there are some people who should never be parents. You should not be parents. If you cannot put your child needs before your own, you should not be a parent. Give your baby up to the grandmother, give the baby up for adoption. That is just horrible and I know a lot of people mean I agree with this, but I honestly think this is my opinion and it's okay. You don't have to agree with me. But I think there is no place in our society for pedophiles. I don't. I do believe in a, you know, the proper process of a judicial system. But in my opinion, if someone has been found guilty of molesting and raping a child, they should get the death sentence. There is no, there's no rehabilitation for people like that. They end up typically doing it over and over for a predator, serial predators. There's no reason for you to be alive in my opinion. I'm sorry, but none, no reason at all. Just disgusting. Seeing a lot of that, seeing still a lot of, not as much and there's probably some that are not being reported of children who are committing suicide due to bullying, but even just in general, children who are being bullied. I've been speaking to my best friend often on and her little girl is being bullied at school. And kids who are being bullied over this crazy, and the sad thing about it with these schools is that a lot of times the kids that are being bullied, they're not allowed to do something about it. So dog, you know, damn, if you do, damn, if you don't, you know what I mean? We have told JB that he has every right to defend himself whether verbally or physically against someone who is bullying them. I am so sorry. I know these schools nowadays, they preach that we don't want a, what do they say? We don't want to encourage an environment of violence. Well, I don't want my kid coming home crying either and threatening suicide. Did y'all see the video of the California mom who went into the school and basically was like, I believe it was boys that were bullying her little girl? And she was basically like anyone who keeps doing this senior mama to me, senior sisters, they have, you know, I need them to be over 18, square up. She sent free-ass whippings for everyone, 18 and over free-ass whippings. That is what I'm talking about. And she went through the proper process of contacting the school. She asked to speak to the parents. The school refused for her to speak to the parents. As a parent, you have to do everything possible to protect your child. The school isn't going to do it. The teachers aren't going to do it. The bullied parents are not going to do it. And honestly, it's still our responsibility at the end of the day. You will hope that you have support from the school, the administration, but they're not doing it. And I think that at this point, there's so many kids that are being bullied and because they're not seeing anything positive being done to the bullies. A lot of the kids don't even report it. Thank God now I still have a connection with JB and I hope to maintain it to where he tells me everything. He has told me about a child that says something about his skin tone, laughing that he was dark. Oh yes, I wrote up on the school. I just busted up in the middle of lunch. I walked right past JB and it wasn't for this reason, it was for another reason. He was doing some stuff to JB. He was being mean. I just wrote up in the middle of lunch and was like, hey, just sat down and had lunch with him instead of JB and I spoke to him and I said, I'm going to need for you to stop that. I know his mom. I've already told the mom once this at this point. This was like the third or actually this was like the fourth or fifth time this kid had been messing with JB just so he stopped. I mean every now and then JB will say something, but the consistency consistently doing it every day has stopped. JB is also in karate and so we have little drills with JB. I asked him like, okay, if someone hits you for the first time, what do you do? He says, I will tell the teacher. I said, okay, if someone continues to hit you, what do you do? He thought about it for a while because he has a little brain working and he's like, well, you may need to move me to another school because I'm going to knock them out. I said, oh, oh, oh, I like that answer. He said, or, or I could hit them and then go tell the teacher. I said, I like that answer too. Look I'm not encouraging my child to be running up on kids, but he has every right to defend himself. I even, when I was keeping my little neighbor and I heard it happen, I heard the kid and I heard JB crying. I pulled that child aside. I said, you need to keep your hands to yourself because I have taught my child to hit him, to hit people back. I said, as a matter of fact, I want you to stand up. I had him stand up. I had JB to stand up. JB has him by an inch and about five, five or six pounds. I said, JB is bigger than you. If he wanted to, he could lay you out. They five years old, but I'm letting you know. He could lay you out, sweetheart, so you may want to keep your hands to yourself. Y'all, he never touched JB again. And I don't think, I didn't keep him again. Wait, girl, absolute mess. So yeah, y'all, in between the bullying and these, these young girls being, you know, taking advantage of and just the mother's not caring. It's just been sad. I try not to get online and look at that type of stuff because it can be very depressing. Like honestly, it can't be. Um, so moving on, y'all, those, you know, uh, moving on to personal, personal stuff, those, you know, I got a promotion at my job and let me get this hair out of the way. I've been working towards a promotion for a couple of years now. So I was very grateful to get it. And that just got me thinking about, um, what do I want to do as a career? And I don't know y'all, I really don't know, um, those who you don't know on what's called a LMS, a learning management system administrator. Basically what that is, is excuse me, I'm belching. Oftentimes we are hired. Well, you should go through what's called workplace harassment. If you are in the medical field, HIPAA, there may be a number of compliance training that you have to take. Um, perhaps there is some type of training you need to take for the job itself. And let's say it's online. While I am the person that manages that, um, training online. Now I don't create the actual WBT or what's called the web based training, but I would register you for the training. I want ensure that you get credit. I will manage materials. All of that behind the scene is what a learning management administrator would typically do. Now what I wanted to go into with why I got pregnant, what I wanted to really go into was, um, uh, I'm blank going blank y'all. An LMS administrator consultation to where you were hiring me just to set up your system and then I would bounce out. They make good money. Oh baby, they make really good money. Uh-huh. But because I didn't go in there, I'm not, I'm, I'm doing good. I'm comfortable, but I could be making more if I did that. Um, my friend and coworker, Nick, he went into that for a while and he was making good money. The reason why I can't do that now is that they tend to travel a lot of people who do that. Um, they travel to the client location and yeah. And a lot of those jobs tend to be contract jobs too. So I can't do that. I need to guarantee that I have benefits. Um, so, you know, things change, you know, I'm an introvert. I have a type of personality that attracts a lot of different people. I don't go to work to make friends. I go to work to work. I'm that type of person. I'm there for a reason to work, but a lot of people get attracted to my personality and then they want to be my friend. Um, but I will say a lot of the good friends I have are from work and that's like one or two within that particular like company that I become really close to. I don't overshare information at work. I'm not like that. I know some people who are girl, don't be that way. You don't want to be telling people all your business at work. It's just not, it's not professional. You know what I mean? Um, but one thing I have done and I do advice is make sure you get close to one or two people and make one of those people, someone who's not on your team. Um, Christine is my go-to. We're pretty close. And I have another friend who works in quality assurance QA, Michielanda, and she's been a huge help to me. If I wanted to, I know that she could train me to go in that field, but I don't want to do that. I don't want to, I don't want to do QA. It's more IT focused and I don't want to do that, do that. So y'all need to be thinking about where I want to be in the next 10 years with my life. Um, I know a lot of things was on standhold on stand still after I had JV. I started to redo some things that I've been passionate about. I did write a children's book like it's been like two months. Um, my friend offered to edit it. I'm going to contact her this week actually and let her know girl, I'm going to Texas when I get back. We're going to focus on editing my book. Um, so yeah, y'all, you know, oftentimes you get, you get those questionnaires to say, well, if there's one thing that you could do without getting paid, um, and that you're passionate about, um, what would it be? Nothing. Oh my God, y'all, I'm sorry. I'm using the wrong thing. Hold on y'all. Um, yeah, not nothing. I would sit at home and just be cute and fluffy. But you know, for someone like me, that's good at doing a lot of different things. That's hard. That's really hard. I was going to say because I like old people y'all. I have a soft spot for old people. So, you know, in one life, I would have loved to have a group home and care for old people. Um, that's, that's such a, uh, different area for me to, um, maybe later on in life, that's something I could consider. Um, it didn't even have to be me opening up one, just possibly even getting back to volunteering, um, with the elderly. I could, I should really consider that, you know. Sorry, y'all, I'm chit-chatting it up. Let me continue to roll up this hair. Y'all, real quick, the white group. I know I'm all over the place. Girl, if you a single, count your blessings, girl. Stay single. Cause some of these women, first of all, nearly every, I would say at this point, nearly every day, the group has almost 30,000 women, right? Why am I whispering? They can't hear me. Nearly every day, at least one woman, uh, talks about that she's found out that her husband is cheating, which I think is absolutely horrible, right? So y'all know, y'all, y'all heard me talk about in my vlog, how the one woman she found out, her basically, her husband walked out on her while she was in the dango shower. Girl, he just packed up his stuff and left. My, I told y'all, my husband knows I'm crazy. Whenever he tries me, I let him not seem to remember that time. I went down, I drove down to Dallas and through your BCRH. You know what it was about. I don't even remember, but my crazy ass drove from Denton to Dallas, which is really not that far. But I just remember I got there after class and I just stayed in my car in my little center and when it said he got there, I had his BCR, y'all, I chunked that BCR. I said, here's your BCR. Crazy ass. Ooh, girl, yeah. So anyway, wife group. I'm all over the place, girl. Wife group. So a couple of weeks ago, first of all, just when I think, you know, sometimes I read these stories or posts and I'm thinking, this, this can't be real. Like this can't be real life. There's someone's actually going through this. So a woman posted last week because it still has comments going on it, right? She posted last week that her husband does not want her involved with their kids, with his kids. I think he has like two or three kids with, with his first wife. So when they, when they first got together, he said he didn't want her involved with his kids because he didn't want any outside influence, influences. To me, that was, that was already a red flag in my hand. 10 years later, 10 years later, I guess one of the kids is living with them, his daughter wants to have a graduation party. So the wife asked him, this is a vent post, by the way, she's not asking for anything. The new wife, second wife, asked her husband, is it okay for her to have a graduation party for his daughter? Cause again, he doesn't want her involved with the girl who lives there and who's been living there since she was eight years. So he agrees to it. He's like, yeah, you can, you can throw a party for her. That's fine. Tell me why the wife posted in her post. She said, he completely ignored that, counsel what she was doing, went behind her back and invited all these different people, cook all the food, just held everything about her knowing and boom, he was supported that I did. I was, I had to read that post multiple times because it's, first of all, why would you marry someone who doesn't want you involved with someone who lives there, a child? I said, you know, I, I respond, I'm like narcissists, narcissistic and controlling. So yeah, no. And what, what would happen since the daughter probably doesn't know that her father has told the mother not to be involved, what would happen is that daughter will, will, she probably does resent her for not having a relationship or not trying to have a relationship because she doesn't know that her father said, no, I don't want her to have a relationship with y'all, crazy, crazy. So another one who she posts every now and then I have to remember, she's one of those, if you were in the Facebook, one of those fake Facebook groups, you know, you have one or two people who always has drama. Child, this one girl, she's young. When she posted a couple of weeks ago, it was during tax season. So this was around March. So she was like, you know, my husband, no, my, my soon to be ex is basically saying how I need to give him, oh, he's not willing to give me any of the tax refund money because he needs something with his car. Yeah. And he got to, why did I scroll down? First of all, that's, that's a bunch of BS. If you file your taxes together, he needs to give you some money. So I look at a couple of comments later on and she's like, someone said, why are you still bothering him? Isn't this the guy that you caught sleeping with other men? I said, you know what, I am done. I am so, so not only is your husband cheating with you, he's cheating with you with other men. And he's, he's taking, you know, money and not giving you money basically out of your tax refund. Girl, what? I'm okay with my husband. Like he is born. He doesn't talk to me a lot because he, he's an extreme introvert. He doesn't talk too much. I'll be having a whole damn camp conversation with myself. That's why I come on here talking to y'all, but I ain't got to worry about any of this type of fool to read. And it's not even, it's not even like you can say as young people. It's all ages, acting crazy. Oh, I feel like the crazy ones are the ones in the mid forties. And I know some of you, I agree. Lord have mercy. Y'all, I'm putting a little bit more moose on this end because I wanted to curl around this rod. All right, y'all. So that is it with this chitchat. I am talking out, it's going to be 2020 by the time I'm done with this. So that is it, y'all. Thank you so much for watching. And thank you as always to all of these subscribers. Take care.