 This is when the narcissist will leave you alone for good That's what we're going to be talking about in this video Welcome to another one My YouTube family Anyway, I can get very irritating sometimes It's like they're constantly pestering you They're constantly on your case They're constantly trying to force themselves into your life into your space To try to get you to accept their interests or ideals and it's like When is this person gonna get it? When are they going to understand? When are they gonna take the hint and realize that I don't want them? I'm not interested in being a part of their lives Or in having them in my life I'm not interested in that at all and at some point You just wonder when is this person gonna realize that? But here's the thing Here's what you need to understand About narcissistic people because up until this point you haven't realized this and what that is Is that when they're chasing you? When they're not leaving you alone When they're constantly on your case and this is going on for weeks months or even years The reason for that Even though you may have made it clear to them that you want nothing to do with them The reason why they're still after you The reason why they're still stalking and harassing you It's because they're constantly imposing false characters on you To pull you into this alternate reality This fantasy world that they've created inside their minds They can't continue to chase after you If they accept you as you actually are And if they accept themselves as they are And they choose to exist in reality Rather than in their fantasy world Otherwise they would not be able to be involved with you They have to view you as a different character to who you actually are They have to impose a false character upon you and choose a false character themselves and they have to get you to agree or conform with it to act in accordance with their wishes and demands and Their distorted perceptions of you and if you're dealing with a narcissist, they will be constantly scanning your Facial expressions body language and tone of voice They will be micro managing you to look for any micro expressions of Agreement With the false character that they are trying to impose on you And at the same time, they will also indoctrinate you and they will sensitize you Into being pulled outside of yourself To where you no longer feel comfortable in your own skin And you begin to agree with whatever force character they've imposed upon you And this is how they gain power over you It's instead of validating you as you actually are They pull you into their world with their perceptions of you Which are always going to be distorted because they have a false character as well and as soon as they do that that it makes you want to form and Try to conform to their interests and ideals instead of you being self-composed and Acting in accordance with how you see and Feel about yourself So that's they managed to gain control of your mind and they have to do this To continue stalking and harassing you And just not leaving you alone But as the title of this video states There are times when the narcissist will leave you alone Of course, it's gonna be the opposite of what I've previously previously mentioned It's when you gray rock to the point where you give no Reactions those signs of conformance or agreement with whatever they're putting out with whatever they're displaying to you You just brush it off. You ignore it. You continue on your path. You continue to validate yourself You set strong boundaries. You have other sources of influence. You have a strong support network And then they know that they can't Penetrate through This protective outer layer that you have created They can't penetrate through that. They can't get in Especially if you have also managed to destroy the Outer appearance and display the shell Of what they're using to protect their false character and the illusion So if you've managed to get restraining order on them or maybe if they went to prison in Some cases they may then leave you alone then at another time when they will leave you alone It's when they feel like it's all over for you. So it's when your life is deteriorating And it's gotten so bad to the point where there are no signs of it improving. There's no signs of you Recovering your life your health your happiness and they assume that it's all over for you To the point where they're not even gonna Hoover you Because they only come back if they think things are gonna get better for you That's when they're constantly on you That's when they're not leaving you alone and in those situations when they keep coming back It's because They're constantly giving you baits to get you to react to them They're constantly trying to bait you to lure you in To the fantasy the fake worlds that they have constructed inside their minds And they're which they impose upon reality And they use it to attract other like-minded people their false They're flying monkeys and they're enablers draw other people into it as well and it's all just designed to contain restricts and confine Your level of consciousness and awareness and your vibration So that it stays at the same level of theirs and then they are better able to control you And to manage your perceptions of them That's how they keep you locked in this fantasy world Because it has to be a fantasy it cannot exist in reality reality because reality conflicts With what they're imposing upon you the reality is that you are not who they say you are Everything that they think you are and everything that they think about themselves It's very different to the actual reality And this is why When they're going along with this fantasy they need you to be their source of supply Because it's not generated from within they use a false character So they've got to get you to validate it with your power and energy to it So that it can continue to function and exist in the way that they would like it to And also you may notice as well That when they impose a false character on you And they try to get you to conform and agree to this false reality Then you start to feel drained You start feeling down you start feeling negative emotions You start feeling anxious depressed stressed out Because you are entering a Void a Place where you cannot exist as you actually are and as you've been existing before you got involved with them All of that gets stripped away from you your power your energy your inner voice All of that has to go for you to enter their fantasy world Because you're giving all of that to them as you are entering their fantasy world and They are then using it to Sustain this facade this illusion and their false image Of what they want to portray themselves to be to the public Or to the people around them So that's how it works That's how they're able to do what they do That's how they're able to feel no remorse no conscience When they continue to come after you and I know it really is incredible the way that they do it It's like how can someone be so delusional they come after you with such conviction Such arrogance and audacity with this sense of knowing When it's like if you look at them they haven't got Any credibility They've got no experience in anything in their lives other than their manipulation Maintaining this illusion and a false character That's all that they've really got Other than that they've experienced nothing in the actual reality So of course when you get around them, they're gonna bring you down They're gonna make you feel small They're gonna make you feel less than you than who you actually are and If you look at your life Following entering the fancy world It will begin to deteriorate over time It will get worse for you because you're investing your time energy and attention Into something that has no value in the real world It has no value at all unless You transmute it into something positive And then you use it to your advantage To help other people otherwise It will be of no use to you and it's only going to bring you down Just as it's actually no use to them as well other than As a means of something temporary A band-aid A temporary form of Medication Which relieves their symptoms for a short period of time Because yeah, they actually made a big mistake When a long time ago They felt like they weren't good enough And they abandoned who they actually are When they did that they're in a power and strength Went with that And now this is why they're so heavily dependent on other people To validate this false character and the illusion That they are trying to portray This is why they can't be real, they can't be authentic They can't even sit down and have a normal conversation with you for even five minutes They can't even do that All they can do Is pull you into this realm Where they're trying to get you To validate this character that they want to be Because then it will make them feel better about themselves But I don't know about you Well rather I think I do Have to do in these videos for such a long time But I know exactly how it makes me feel When they impose a false character upon me And they try to pull me into their fantasy world Where there is no value There's nothing that's of any use to me in that world And they pull me into that And instantly I feel very shameful I feel like I'm not good enough as I am To be this false character To enter this fantasy world And if that's what you're thinking You are exactly right Because As a normal healthy person You shouldn't be thinking any other way Why would someone who is real And authentic like ourselves Who's able to generate our own power and energy from within Why would we ever even contemplate To try to be good enough For this false character that they're trying to impose on us To exist in this fantasy world Where we can be in agreeance and in accordance with them For what? Just so they can continue to stalk and harass us And continue to deplete us of everything that we've got So of course we're going to feel bad Because we already know that there's nothing in it for us Even if somehow in the actual reality We could be this false character And we could exist in their fantasy world And coexist with them And this is why This is the reason why we just rather stay out of it As an example At family gatherings, special occasions Christmas, birthdays, whatever it is You'd rather just not be a part of it You'd rather just not get involved Because it's all about this stupid image It's all about Being someone you're not And it just feels so fake It drains you It strips your power away from you Because not only is there something That drains your power away from you Because not only is that not who you are It's not what you want to be as well You don't want to be fake You'd rather just be normal But they pull you into these arguments And ego battles Where you've got to defend yourself You've got to fight to try and maintain Your stance in who you want to be That you're already losing yourself Because just by defending yourself In their minds they already see that As a grievance, as conformity Because they're still reacting to them So then in their minds That just validates their argument And then they've got you Exactly where they want you And then it feeds their ego And makes them feel better about themselves Even if it's only for a moment And this is why I advise for you To continue on that path Be cold Don't be defensive Don't try to prove anything to them It doesn't matter what they do to you It doesn't matter what type of situation They put you in They're going to do all kinds of things to you They're going to do whatever they think They have to do to get a reaction out of you No matter what they do Do not react Because that's only going to validate Their arguments Their illusion Their false character And it's going to make them feel powerful In comparison to you And it's a big problem because That is just an illusion They're not more powerful than you That's why when they have the power Things take a turn for the worse Things get a lot worse without you in charge Without you being the one with the power Because that is the possession that you were meant to be in That's who you came here to be And if you can't be that with them Then you've got to go and be that with someone else Even if you just have to be that by yourself Because that's Even though they may not like it Even though they may not feel comfortable with it That is who you're meant to be Yes You are meant to be in a position of authority over them Even though they don't like it Even though they don't want to agree with it You are meant to be the one who is in charge Over narcissistic people As empaths that is who we're meant to be And that's how it feels that way And if you start here, you really research it And look into it deeper You will see yes It validates what I'm saying here Because they have no power or energy of their own They've got to get it from us as empaths When it's like Why don't we just keep everything that we've got Everything that we are Because maybe there's a reason Why we have this So why don't we just keep this And why don't we be in charge Instead of letting them take everything from us And then they maintain power and authority over us That doesn't make any sense Maybe there's a reason why it was ours to begin with But of course they don't ever want you to come to that conclusion Because that just completely destroys their false reality And the false characters that they are trying to impose upon us But that's just how it goes And I think at some level they knew all along That they were never meant to have power over us I mean clearly they're not meant to All they do is misuse it They use it for the wrong reasons For the wrong things And it never amounts to anything good When you look at it It's like it elevates them for a certain amount of time But then they've got to come back and get more from you Because it's never enough to sustain them And while for us we're always the ones Who are generating that from within So when you look at it it's not really serving them anyway It's self-destructive for them And this is why when you look at them They become so dark They become even more bitter and resentful as they age They don't become happier They don't become more positive They just become even more abusive and controlling They just get worse with age They get worse as time goes by They're never satisfied They always need more When it's like Maybe the right thing Maybe what should happen Is that we should hold on to what we've got We should hold on to who we actually are And the actual reality that we prefer to live in And they should just go somewhere else With what they have We just go our separate ways We take everything that belongs to us They take everything that belongs to them And let's see who gets where Let's see who survives But of course they don't want that to happen Because if it did It'd only be a matter of time until they die They would not survive on their own And our lives would become so much greater We would do so much better without them If we had two separate communities One for the empaths One for the narcissist The narcissist would all destroy each other We would all build each other up At this world that you see today Our world would be far more advanced than that In such a short amount of time I mean if you look at it This world is so far behind To what it could have been It could have been so much better than that But it's because we have these narcissistic people Who are stripping the real empaths of their power And using it just to sustain them It's like we're keeping people alive Who are not even meant to be alive They're not even meant to be there And that's why they're like parasites They have to leech off us And it's because they can't sustain themselves 137 live viewers Only 19 thumbs ups If you've been finding this video helpful so far Please hit that thumbs up button down below Thank you I'm just out here at my favourite park I like to be near the fishes And there's a few cats around here as well Yeah I'm just out here living my best life You know how I do Just being travelling, exploring Looking around different places And this is what we need to do as empaths We need to have the power to support ourselves To explore the world and have these new experiences Because with this experience This wisdom It helps to confirm And to identify to ourselves That all along we were never actually the problem It was always them Look back and you will see that they kept you down They had every opportunity To lift you up To make you into a better person than you actually are But no They didn't want to do that Instead all they wanted was the fantasy Their false image And I don't know about you But I am never going to support that I'm never going to support something that is fake Something that isn't real Something that doesn't even exist I'm never going to stand for that I'm only ever going to stand for truth And what actually works in this life What works to support our world Our communities And the people who live in it Rather than working against all of that But if that's what people want to do If these narcissists want to go And destroy themselves That's up to them Just leave us out of it Instead of imposing this fantasy world And false characters onto us And trying to get us to agree Or conform to that And even when we don't Indulterate and brainwash us Sensitise us, pressure and intimidate us So that they can look for any micro expression But really the fact is Maybe we're just nervous Maybe we just don't want to belong there But then they distort it in their minds As though it's some other type of response As though we're agreeing we're conforming to it Where we're actually not We're actually not and we never will We will never conform to that Instead what we will do Is we will continue on our path We will continue in the direction that we are going But at the very least We will die trying But one thing we won't do Is go over to the dark side We're not going to go over there We do not belong there We know where we belong And we do not belong there We belong on the correct path We belong in a place where We are doing the right things In contrast to the things That are unjust The things that are undesirable The things that are wrong Maybe there was a time In the past where they did manage to pull us into it And we did get involved in the wrong things For a short period of time Yes unfortunately that does happen to many of us Even as end-paths We develop unhealthy coping strategies Some of us get into drugs, alcohol Whatever it may be Yes some of us get involved in that And of course all sorts of problems for us in our lives But when you look at it The real problem Rather than our response to that It was actually the people that we were around We never should have been around those types of people to begin with We didn't belong there That wasn't us They imposed a false character upon us I'm seeing 156 live viewers Just drop a mic Let me pick it back up 156 live viewers, only 23 thumbs up If you're finding this video helpful Please hit that thumbs up button down below To show your support Some people just don't want to be real They don't want to sit down and have a normal conversation Like a normal person And why? Because guess what? That would put them at a disadvantage Immediately It would put them at a disadvantage if they were to be real For us That puts us at an advantage That's why they don't want us to be real And it's why they don't want to be real with us That's how it is, that's how it goes This is why they don't want us to be real Because then instantly we have power over them That is real, that is reality And this is why they want to be fake They don't want to show who they actually are Underneath the mask Although you will see that sometimes But even when you do they don't I mean sometimes they want you to see it But even then It's just to intimidate you And it's because they want to shock you Into submission To where they then have power over you And they're better able to control you So that's the only time they're going to rip that off That's the only time that they're actually ever going to be real And instead of being scared and intimidated When they do come to you And they are actually being real You should look at it and be like Yeah Thank you Thank you for showing me who you actually are So now I can make the right decisions In my life And I can choose not to deal with you anymore And that is when You do have the ability to do so You should set strong boundaries Maintain or establish a support network Cut off walking with them Block all access Prevent any means of them contacting you Or gaining access to you And maybe as well You might want to try and get a restraining order on them Because otherwise The only other way that they're going to leave you alone Is that if you're so broken down And your life has gotten so bad That there are no possible means of recovery for you That's the only other way that they're ever going to leave you alone Anyway that's it for this message today Live at this beautiful park I do love it here I did a video here about a week ago As you may remember Drop the mic again Got it Alright thank you all for joining me On another live video If you found it helpful hit that thumbs up button down below I appreciate it Let me know what you think about what I've said here in this video By leaving a comment in the comment section down below I am reading your comments every day I try to respond to as many as I can Also hit the subscribe button And click all notifications So that you will be notified When I upload a video in the future And if you would like to donate You can leave a super chat At the live chat down below Or a super thanks in the comment section Or you can go to my PayPal It is paypal.me I appreciate all the donations No matter how small And if you would like to book a one on one coaching session With me You can go to my website It is knocksurviver.co.uk And also I do have an Instagram You can follow me on there It is knocksurviver youtube And I am posting new pictures and videos of my travels Every day on there So definitely check that out To see what I'm doing What I'm not making videos or doing lives on here Again thank you all for joining me On another knocksurviver live video I appreciate all of you And I look forward to speaking with you In another live video very soon