 Narcissists do not want a resolution. Many of you may be struggling with the narcissist that you're dealing with. You may be trying to get them to see sense, to see your point of view, to see your perspective. But it's like no matter what you say to them, they can never understand. Well, they don't want to understand because they just don't care. They don't care about the future. They don't care about developing the relationship with you. That means nothing to them. Your future means nothing to them. So why would they ever want a resolution? Why would they ever want to make anything positive or progressive happen? They just see you as something temporary for recreational use, for their own amusement and enjoyment. You provide them with some form of entertainment. And that's all there really is. But you're taking it as though it's something serious. As though you mean something significant to them. But there is no meaning in a relationship with a narcissist. There's actually no such thing as a relationship with a narcissist. It's a transaction of value. And it's one-sided that value comes from you but it doesn't come from them. Because there's never an equal exchange. There's never any reciprocation. But for some reason we expect value. We expect meaning from the narcissist. But that is something that you're never going to get from them. They're never going to give that to you because they don't even have that to give. You need to look within and find that within yourself. Find that sense of conclusion and resolution within yourself. Because it is there. It was always there. Many of us who are dealing with narcissists, we overlooked the red flags in the beginning. There were things that stood out to you. Certain things they said or did. Things that you didn't like. And yeah, you should have paid more attention to those things. Because if you did then you would have left them a lot sooner. But there's no point regretting what has already happened. You can't change the past. But you can change what you're doing right now to create a better future for yourself. And that's very important. It's something that you need to do. Instead of messing around with someone who isn't serious about anything. Someone who doesn't even care about you. Because if they did care about you then they would give you that sense of resolution that you're looking for. They would give you closure. But you're never going to get an explanation from them. At least not the type of explanation that you're looking for. They will justify what they're doing. They'll give you reasons or excuses. But it's never going to mean anything. It's never going to seem genuine. Because they're fake people. They just give you lies and stories. And that's what you really need to understand when you're dealing with someone like that. They don't care about you. They never did. It was all an act. It was just something they used to keep you locked in. So that they could keep getting what they wanted from you. It's future faking. They make false promises about your possible future with them. But they never follow it up with action. And this is something that you all need to know. You all need to be aware of this. That the narcissist does not want a resolution. But many of you, it's like it hasn't clicked for you yet. It doesn't make sense for you in your mind. You just can't understand why wouldn't they want a resolution? Don't they want to progress? Don't they want to advance in the situation? Yes, they do. But they're only thinking about themselves. They're not thinking about advancing with you. And that's why there's just no purpose in them giving you anything. What's the point then throwing away anything of value or meaning to you when they just see you as something temporary or something that they use only recreationally? It wouldn't make any sense for them to do that. Remember, it's all about them. They only care about themselves. You're not important. You're not significant. You're nothing to the narcissist. But many of you, you think you mean so much to them. You think you're their grade A source of supply. Even if you are, that's still nothing to them. You're still just an object. This may sound harsh, but you need to know the truth. You never meant anything to the narcissist. They never even saw you as a separate person with their own needs. And that is why they never took your needs into consideration. They lack empathy. And they're completely self-centered, so they just see you as an object, a tool. Something to get them from A to B. Yeah, you all need to know the truth. This is what you're dealing with. But I want you all to know the narcissist is not your God. And they should not be your world. They should not be everything in your life. You need to have a life outside of them. Because by having that, you will realize that while you may not be important, significant or valuable to the narcissist, that doesn't mean you're not anything at all. You can be significant. You can be important, valuable, powerful. You just can't be that to them. But when you look at this great big world out here with billions of people, why should you give a fuck if you don't mean something to one person? Who cares about them? Why are they so important? What are they doing for you? Are they paying your bills? Are they taking care of you? Are they giving attention to your emotional needs? No. They're not doing none of that. So why make them so important in your life? Just a quick video today. But I think we can all agree that this is a very important message. Something that you all need to hear. And we need to work together to get this message out there. Please give this video a thumbs up down below. Let's spread awareness of this horrific disorder. There's only 11 thumbs up right now and 43 people watching. So please hit that thumbs up button down below. Let's get this message out there. I can only do so much on my own but if we work together we can really make a difference in this world. I'm just standing on the balcony of my apartment looking out at this incredible view. Got the ocean there, the bridge, the city and even the mountains there in the background. The sun is about to start going down. I'm out here living my best life. I'm not thinking about no narcissist. I haven't got time for them anymore. I'm too busy doing me. And that's what you need to be doing. By all means educate yourself in this disorder. Even if you leave the narcissist that you're with they could always be another one around the corner. So you need to stay on top of this information. But that doesn't mean you've got to be thinking about them all day. Keep it moving. Focus on what you need to do. And then when you have a few minutes you can watch one of these videos. Educate yourself. Stay aware of what they're trying to do. But you have to find time in your life to enjoy this beautiful world. Alright thank you all. I appreciate your time. And as always I look forward to talking with you again in another one very soon.