 Good morning everybody. How you doing today JR Fisher? I have a different background today. Don't I I've got a story to tell you Everybody don't forget to subscribe hit that subscribe button down there. Don't forget to ring the bell ding ding I don't have a bell. There's a reason I don't have a bell There's a reason I have this wristband on and I'm gonna share it with you just a second But I do want to make sure that you guys are subscribed I want to make sure that you are turning on notifications And I'll tell you why there's a bed behind me in just a second Today is gonna be a cool day this whole week with the exception of Friday because I'm traveling Friday But Monday through Saturday exception Friday. I'm gonna be going live I'm gonna be showing you how to start a successful business online. I think it's gonna be very useful I do apologize for my lighting. I do apologize for what it looks like behind me right now But let me explain to you why okay, cuz I said I would my son had on undergone I guess a minor surgery in Ohio And they botched it And it caused him some serious complications. They operated on him again day before yesterday Thank you so much Paul. Let me know that you can hear me And he's recuperating now and I am now at the Cleveland Clinic, which is where he is a patient and he actually works here, too And I'm staying at the intercontinental here right on the campus of the Cleveland Clinic to take care of my boy My boy is actually 27 years old, but he's still my boy His wife had to go to work So somebody's got to be here to take care of him and nurse him back to health. So that's my job So that's what I'm doing. That's why I have this bracelet right here That's why you see a hotel room behind me But I didn't want to leave you guys out and just leave you for the entire week because I'm gonna be here for the whole week So get used to this. I don't know if I can find a different angle or something if you've got some other ideas Let me know I have a window here in front of me So it's letting some beautiful light and you know a lot of you say well my gosh She should be so upset they botched his operation and he's in a lot of pain and really a near-death type thing happened to him But I'm not because he's not He's alive and he made it through it and I was able to talk to him this morning And it was it was pretty serious stuff And it's a good thing because today I want to kind of talk to you a little bit about your attitude as you start this online business Your attitude is gonna be Critical to you getting through now I will tell you nobody sat me down when I started my business and said hey You're gonna run into a lot of crap You're gonna have a lot of problems things are gonna go bad wrong and they did they went bad wrong many times When I was growing my business nobody sat me down and said but you're gonna need to be positive They didn't need to and here's why they didn't need to because the alternative for me was to go back to my old job The alternative for me was to go back to my old boss Who was a drug addict? alcoholic Yeah, he was a very accomplished person very wealthy person, but not somebody I respected So that was the motivation that I needed Paul says prayers for speedy recovery brother. Thank you so much. He's gonna be here at least several days They they did some real damage to him in the first operation and repairing that damage Yeah, it's gonna it's gonna take some work, but you know what he's alive and I'm really glad about that You know, he's he's one of my best friends. I love my son. So I'm here to take care of it. It's okay Uh, good morning. How's your son? I was just talking about that. They did a botched surgery on him They actually sewed part of his intestine To his stomach wall accidentally when they were doing a hernia operation which caused his bowels to block And uh, they didn't know it and they weren't going in to operate to figure out why and um Yeah, it was getting really bad because if it had split I could have you know gone into his entire system and killed him But fortunately they went in they said, oh my gosh, we uh, we made a incision problem And we sewed up your intestines accidentally to your stomach Not a good thing not a good thing, but anyhow they they detached it He's got tubes down his nose and all this kind of stuff Still not able to eat or any of that but that's not our subject today Our subject today is being positive. So that's what I'm going to talk about And that's why you see the hotel room behind me because I'm here with him Trying to nursing back to health, which I can do I've done it. I was a single dad. I raised him by myself So I think I can do this too. So Why do you go negative first off? I mean, why is it that our brains and guys understand this is about growing your business online This is about building your business online But if I neglect this area if I neglect Explaining to you why you need to change your brain and you can change your brain My brain is not the way it used to be years ago. You can reprogram your brain. Anybody can do this Okay, but it's a good idea to look at why your brain automatically seems To look at the world through a negative lens. Okay now According to loretta brining of the inner mammal institute. She says Chemistry hurts. Okay. Our body is made up of chemicals. Some are good. Some are not so good But chemicals such as dopamine serotonin oxytocin all fall within the category of happy. Okay, so we have these happy things, right now chemicals And they create these senses of pleasure or satisfaction our body releases in short spurts Only which are metabolized quickly. So this pushes us to keep seeking a way to stimulate these chemicals We shouldn't be happy all the time But we should always be motivated to go be happy. Okay, and I think we all have experienced that We always want to be happy, but we're not always happy On the opposite end of the spectrum is control. Okay, and you need those things too. It's a chemical that surges um To connect the neurons in your brain at a single moment causing the feeling of pain and it's effective Okay, it motivates you to focus on the cause of the release and work to make it stop Okay, so we we need those those feelings too. Unfortunately This comes at the cost of not noticing much else except the solution to stop the pain the pain or the discomfort So I don't want to get too deep into this, but i'm going to get a little bit deep into it because I think it's important Uh tyens says oh elch. Hope they get it right soon Uh sepsis is very scary. Yes, he did not get sepsis But it was it was going in that direction Let's see here I think it's important to remember the serenity prayer create an environment for positive start by getting negative Stop or start by getting negative people. I think you've been getting rid of negative people But uh anyhow, we are surrounded by triggers So our ancestors were surrounded by dangers and so are we Albeit different strains of danger right while they may have had to worry about wild animals We are more worried about the disappointment of failure And that really kind of takes over our brain, especially if we're trying to do a business or we're trying to do something new Either way your brain learns what to associate with good and what to associate with bad And you've trained your brain over the years. You may not have meant it. Okay now. We're going to change that We're going to change that brain our brains learn from pain Your mind remembers what triggers that shot of cortisol It learns to scan for that trigger. This is necessary to help us avoid dangers And it's you know, it's self preservation We have to have this but it also means that the brain focuses on negatives that we come across on a daily basis It always does that it's always going to turn to the negative Someone who is allergic to bees will consistently be scanning for bees makes sense, right? So they may not notice the beautiful patch of flowers that surround the bees Okay, they may not notice that or how pretty a bee actually is The difficulty of being social we are inherently social species which brings its own set of difficulties Now, I know a lot of people will say well, I'm not I'm an introvert I don't like being around people. I'm uncomfortable around people. That's because you've programmed your brain that way I used to be that way. I was that introverted person We are consistently comparing ourselves to others. We do it all day long. I don't care if it's clothing I don't care if it's age. I don't care if it's intelligence. I don't care if it's money We're constantly doing this. We don't mean to but we do it Okay, which leads to a constant back and forth of serotonin and cortisol When our brain sees that we are in a position of weakness. It is processed faster meaning We then need to try again for the social reward. Okay, there's a social reward out there There's this flip flop to this We also need social support our brain seeks safety in the herd and releases oxytocin When we find safety in social support now, this is dangerous for a business This is dangerous because the majority of the people out there aren't going to be a Aren't going to be accomplishing what you want to accomplish. Okay, so we need to do it differently We need to change things differently when we move away from the hard Uh and safety. Okay, well, excuse me when we move away from the herd and all that safety Um and or or when the the herd itself is threatened It releases cortisol in alarm. Okay. It says oh my god, there's this big problem So your brain is sending mixed signals and you may feel safe in the herd and get oxytocin But at the same time you'll find yourself in a position of weakness Releasing the cortisol this will cause mixed feelings and you can lead to anxiety and social settings And we've all experienced anxiety. I just want you to know how it comes about So what we have to do is we have to retrain our brain The good news is that you can retrain your brain to look for positives in everyday life And we have to do that. Uh my my son's in the hospital here He had a near-death experience really But i'm positive because yesterday was my birthday. Uh, I traveled all day yesterday for my birthday But how exciting is it that I got to see my son? It's something horrible didn't happen to him. Okay There are a few methods to try And I want you to choose one or try all of them. I'm going to give you several things to do And yes, this is important to growing your business online guys This is so important because if I don't get your brain, right? You're not going to make it through all the obstacles you need to make it through to have a business online Uh, let's see here Let's see. I'm to the point that if people are always negative or spouting off conspiracy theories constantly I will unfollow if it's family and unfriendly for others Uh, I don't want more of that junk around me. And that's very true guys You've got to think about what do you put in your brain every day? Whatever you put in your brain every day, you're training it if you're watching horror movies every day If you're watching murder mysteries every day, if you're watching terrible news every day, it's gonna hurt you I'm telling you it's gonna hurt you. I have a really good friend. Who's a plastic surgeon Uh, and has been for years very positive guy has a great family very accomplished person And if you walked up to him and said what's happened in the news, he couldn't tell you You know, he told me one day he says I haven't listened to the news in years And I said why not he says because it's not positive and there's nothing I can do about it And you know, that's a really good reply The news is not positive. It's never going to be positive. There's a line in the news and it goes like this if it bleeds It leads so the more horrible it is the more they're going to push that story because people gravitate towards those stories It's because your brain is wired that way. So here's what I want you to do I want you to create What I'm going to call a positivity Circuit three times a day every day every single day. Okay, somebody spam, right every single day Spend one minute looking around specifically for positives. How often do you do this? How often you go? You know what? This is not a bad hotel room. You know what? My son is alive. You know, he went through a really terrible experience But he's alive. Uh, you know what? I got a great wife at home. How often do you do that? This helps you retrain your brain making it look for positives in the same way that it may right now be looking for negatives Now there was a dr. Bruning and she recommended that you do this for 45 minutes Now there's really no reason To stop after that, right? If you if you do it for 45 minutes, how about you see well guys I don't have time to sit there and look for positive things every day Really? Why not look for positive things all day long start off with three times a day at a minute and then grow it Grow it to where you're a positive person because that's what we're trying to get to Because if we can get to that when these negative things happen to you When your business isn't doing well when you're not selling what you want to sell When you're not getting the traffic you want when you don't have as many opt-ins Your brain's going to switch to what's positive about this What is positive about this and you're going to build on that Now the next thing i'll tell you is let people know that you are recognizing positives no matter how Recent they are This could be taking a minute and saying thank you to the co-worker that helped you with the project It could mean digging up an old mentor such as a college professor High school teacher and thanking them for advice. They may have given you that you now use every day You know, I went to dinner the other night with somebody I haven't seen since I was 18 years old And I let him know how he affected me. He was a really cool person. He was very talented He got in some trouble. We won't talk about that, but we all did when we were kids But the thing is he's had a positive impact on the world and become very successful The next thing I'm going to tell you is I want you to learn to pivot Okay, if you find yourself thinking negatively, I want you to stop Stop it and think about where you would find yourself if you turn 180 degrees What if you stopped what you were doing? What if you stopped that thought process? Okay, what would happen? What would happen? So for the longest time people Didn't clean up after their pets. Okay, so there was a dog poop everywhere Now that it is common for people to pick up after the dogs We don't think about the fact that we aren't you know dodging dog poop every day. We don't step in poop We do however notice when people fail to pick it up and often trigger some type of outrage When I was a kid nobody picked up dog poop. They didn't do it. Okay, you just stepped in it every now and then and you live with it Okay, and it wasn't a big deal to you They they would they would put out their cigarettes and throw them on the ground It was just common practice Instead of getting mad and focusing on the negatives the dog poop that is there Think about the positives focus on the fact that 99 percent of the people are picking up after the dogs now They didn't do that when I was a kid. Okay The next thing I'm going to tell you I want you to do and I want you to practice all these things because tomorrow We're digging into this business thing, but I want your head right I really do guys without this without this you're not going to succeed if you don't get your brain right This is what's been preventing you from succeeding before I'm telling you this is the stuff right here We've all heard about that that pay it forward moments, you know at starbucks or mcdonalds or something like that But you don't need to shell out money to the fast food chains to achieve this Just perform small acts of kindness that will help other people Helping others make them feel good. Say. Thank you. Help them out. Let them in front of you in line You know I for years I would get so upset when somebody cut me off in traffic And then about three years ago, it's taken me that long, you know All those years I got upset about three years ago. I said you're going to let everybody in Every person that wants to get in front of you you're going to let them in okay every single time It doesn't matter if they're going too slow. It doesn't matter if they're driving erratically You're going to let everybody in you can't imagine How liberating that was for me I don't I don't get mad at anybody anymore when they drive bad and then I have a justification in my brain If somebody does drive poorly, here's what I say to myself I say, of course, they're supposed to drive poorly. They're not good drivers Of course And here's something else. I'll say to myself if they look like they've just cut me off and they were very rude They were speeding I'm like gee. I wonder if they've got somebody in the hospital that they're racing to I wonder if they've got an emergency emergency that's happened in their life I wonder if a loved one just left them or they got got fired from their job Man, I feel sorry for those people. That's the way I look at drivers now That's the way I look at drivers and you know what you can say. Well jr. That's not always true Some of the times it actually is Some of the times it actually is Imagine you get mad at somebody and you curse them out and you flip them off because they cut you off And they're actually racing to the hospital because one of their loved ones is in the hospital And was in a car accident or fell down or whatever the case may be Imagine that you did that right that doesn't make you feel too good. Does it next thing I'm going to tell you Is take care of yourself your health can impact your outlook your your health does impact your outlook actually If you're eating well, you're sleeping. Well, you're exercising appropriately And I exercise I exercise probably four or five days a week. I was just down there talking to my son I was also like flexing. I'm like, oh, look at me. You know, I'm 62 years old and I can do x number of things I do 170 push-ups now. I do 170 now That's not that's not 2000 like David Goggins But for me, you know at my age, it's okay. I'm gonna work my way up to 200 I want to be able to do 200, you know when I do my push-ups I do them every minute or in the minute until I hit that number And I usually do it for 12 13 minutes So that's what I do. I take care of myself Um, this isn't an old wives tale. Okay While they they haven't really pinpointed the exact reason why this happens But universities such as john hopkins or the university of kansas have noted the link There is a link take an honest critical look at how you treat your body and what you put in it What are you eating? How are you sleeping? Are you exercising? You must exercise You could eat the healthiest you want and you can take all the medicine you want But if you don't exercise the muscles in your body will deteriorate and if they deteriorate It's going to affect you mentally and heck if you just look in the mirror and you don't look good That's going to affect you mentally, isn't it? And let me check my time here. I'm doing good. I'm at 10 19 Um The next thing you want to do is release that inner negativity that you have Center your thoughts around things that make you happy. Okay, you want to do that Helping to direct your mind towards positive things constant negativity and habitual skepticism Will influence your decisions and keep you in a constant negative loop. Look at the automotive industry for years They said you can't make an electric car that's viable. You just can't it won't go far enough The technology is not there. Elon musk came along and said bull. I think you can and when he did it Everybody started copying him. Okay, but they all had that negative outlook. Uh, and as I sit here right now guys I'm at the Cleveland clinic. I'm watching an emergency helicopter come into the hospital Um, and who knows what's happened Somebody's had something bad happen in their life if you don't have an emergency helicopter You know raising towards you or one of your family members. You should be happy What is it going to take to be happy? And that's another question I asked people What's it going to take and I want I want I want to cover that a little bit more in just a second Uh, let's see having survived a stroke. I'm grateful for every breath I take I try to pass that positive attitude by just saying thank you and have a nice day paul. That's awesome Thank you for doing that. You make the world better Um Paul also says thanks uh hit me up on facebook or messenger I'll do that. Uh tyan says, okay good Oh, okay. You were replying to uh paul. Tyam was she says hey at paul Where would you find the softest and best sweatshirts for po d? Okay, they're doing some work here That's a good tyan says i'm a sucker for murder mysteries. Yes, try to find positive and mundane every day Um, we need to learn that we are too blessed to be stressed In living with the attitude of gratitude All these things are good guys and as you say these things as you bring these to the forefront of your brain You're training your brain. You're doing it. Okay, so I want you to Uh, let it go let the negativity go stop letting negative things drag you down and limit your potential My watch keeps hitting me up here. Uh, it does it does limit your potential control your thoughts You aren't control your thoughts. You're the only one that's in control of your thoughts Centering on things that make you happy if you do that if you start feeling frazzled or stressed or distracted Calm your mind slow down Even pause what you're doing Take a moment and get into the reality of what's around you You know, you may be worried about what's gonna happen or what did happen. Stop and look around you You know, i'm sitting in a nice hotel room. Is it the nicest hotel room i've ever been to? No Is is it kind of dated? Yeah, should I concentrate on that? No I've got air conditioning. I've got light. I've got electricity. I've got health I've got clothes on my body. My son's doing well. You could focus on whatever you want But if you can't be happy in your moment right now When will you be happy? When will you be happy? Okay If not only for a moment stop and be positive clear your mind of all these negative thoughts Then get moving again On the right foot do what you're supposed to be doing Bring positivity into the moment every chance you got by practicing this mindfulness of this moment We're in this moment. How many of you actually stop and think about the moment you're in Uh and make a habit of this you stop your subconscious mind from doing the driving because you're subconscious My if you don't drive your mind your subconscious will and it's going to base it on bad experiences Okay, it's not going to base it on good stuff. I'm telling you you've got to control this having your conscious mind drive your decisions Will help you focus on your thoughts towards more positive balance approach. Okay a great way to do this is by asking yourself Questions, okay, and here's some of the questions. I want you to ask yourself. I think that are super important Okay, number one What can I do right now that will give me joy? What can I do right now? Now? I decided at Nine o'clock central daylight time. It's actually 10 o'clock here in um, a little past 10 in uh, Cleveland, Ohio I decided talking to you guys would make me happy And it does it makes me happy when I get a chance to talk to you guys. It makes me very happy What am I grateful for at this moment? Ask yourself that question right now and actually answer these as we're talking answer these I'm grateful that I had a safe flight here. I'm grateful that all my luggage got here My son's violin Is over there from high school. He's 27 now and he asked me to bring his violin And I bet he's going to be grateful for that. I'm grateful that I could bring it here and it didn't get lost or stolen Okay, so many bad things can happen that don't happen to us And yet we forget about all the good things that happen to us that we aren't thankful for Is there's something I can do to give someone else happiness right now? What can I do? You know, I've met a couple people in the hallway I had somebody brought me some food last night and I did what I could to make them happy I mean the room service person. I said is the tip already included And she says yes, it's already included I'm like, well, let me give you a little extra tip because I used to have to work room service I used to have to carry stuff up in people's rooms. She goes. Oh my gosh It's nice to meet somebody who actually was in the service industry I said I started off washing dishes when I was 15. I was a dishwasher I appreciate that person in the back of the kitchen that's washing my dishes so that I have a nice clean plate Do you appreciate that? Do you appreciate that or you just when you find a dirty dirty plate you get upset? What is it? Is there something you can do to make somebody else feel good? Ask yourself that question Now ask yourself this question. How can I demonstrate my gratitude? How can I express gratitude on a daily basis by retraining your brain to go positive instead of negative You can change your outlook on life entirely now if you change your outlook on life You will change your success. You will change your success and you'll be able to handle your failures You will feel better And you will likely see improvements in your social and your professional life This is not just for business, but I want you to use it for business right now It's going to help you in your personal life too. Okay As I said before there have been numerous studies on the effects of positivity with the effects of positivity Ranging from improved immune response. Hey, there's there's that that illness out there I'm not supposed to say what it is, but there's that illness out there Maybe just being positive could protect you from that. Isn't that reason enough? All right So Also, if you do get sick you you tend to get Better quicker when you're positive now it may seem negative to tell you You won't seem changes overnight because you won't it's not going to happen overnight But that's simply reality You're fighting against centuries of bread instincts that evolve chemical systems in your brain You can change these chemicals guys But you will see the changes over time and you will be able to train your brain to look for positives in life If you do the things I talked about today And I wanted to spend some time on this today guys because you know, right now I'm surrounded with situations Okay, my birthday. I could I could bitch and say oh my gosh on my birthday. I had to be on an airplane Flying to cleveland You know what how grateful am I that I could afford To go and see my son in the hospital How grateful am I that I can be here to help him out? How grateful am I that I could afford to sit in first class and stretch my legs out? There was a time I couldn't do that You know, but if I was sitting in coach, I should be grateful for that too I should be grateful because I've got another day to do this stuff guys And if you get your mind wrapped around what I told you today Tomorrow when we start working on your business more and more and more And you run into problems which you will run into problems You're going to be able to handle them. You're going to be able to find solutions to the problems You're going to be able to do better at your business because you've trained your brain And you got to keep training your brain. It can go negative at any point, right? My wife and I talk about it all the time and we try to be really super positive people and we pretty much are She wasn't as positive when I first met her and it was because of her brain training But she's changed it over the years and I constantly try to improve on mine. Let me let me see what you guys have been saying here Um, I like how you keep an uncluttered workspace. I think your space contributes to mindset with positive and negative Yeah, I don't believe in paper. Okay. I don't like paper. I think it's bad for the environment I lose stuff on paper. I don't write well on paper. I don't write well period and my handwriting is not that great I try to hurry and then when I try to hurry. I can't read the writing Um, and then I tend to stack it up So I'm allowed one spot in my house where I have a little bit of paperwork and it's behind this cubby in our butler pantry Um butler pantry that sounds so funny, but that's what is part of that else Um, and in the butler pantry, I have a little stack of paper stuff I've got to handle, uh, but I don't like to have all the clutter and paperwork everywhere. I just don't it's not something I like to have um Fall is one of those seasons for reflection and calming yourself in nature. Yes, it is fall is definitely good for that And so is winter and so is spring and so is summer Don't wait for a season Though that's a good point you made. I think it's a great point and and now that we're in fall If you want to start now start now, but if you miss fall You know, you can do it in the winter and if you miss winter you can do it in the spring But gosh, you got to do it. You got it. You got to be thankful. Oh my gosh I can't tell you how that has changed my success in life by just being thankful of other people When I go into a room of people who are really good at digital marketing. I don't go into that room and go Let me see who I can get to help me out. Let me see who I can learn something from I go into that room and go what can I do for somebody else in this room and not ask for anything in return How often does your brain go in that direction might automatically goes in that direction now automatically Um, when I see people who are strangers now it automatically goes to I hope they're having a good day Maybe I can make it a little bit better. Okay. It's not uh, they aren't doing the job great or they aren't good at this Or they aren't good at that or you know, I didn't like this meal It tries to go positive because my brain's just trained that way now And it makes me happy it makes me smile when I was a kid. I never smiled. I got in trouble I got in fights and got involved in drugs. You name it. I arrested all that good stuff But I was always negative and that's what I attracted was all these negative things and now I seem to attract good luck Everywhere I go everywhere I go doesn't mean I don't have problems It doesn't mean that you know things don't happen in my life You know my son's in the hospital right now and I'm trying to nurse him back to health, but he's gonna be fine He's a he's a tough guy Let's see here. I think every person who worked in food service. I appreciate the stress of service workers Yeah, that was very helpful to me because I was a I was a busboy. I was a waiter I was a dishwasher. I was a salad prep person. I was a saute person in the kitchen Uh, I was a bartender. Uh, I was a banquet bartender. I did I did a lot of food service stuff Uh, and you learn to Hmm appreciate how hard those people really do work Um, I love that you make time to keep time In touch with positive people like your older buddy in san diego. Oh, yeah, luigi's awesome You know about luigi luigi's like 80 just turned 87 He went to paris And I got to get back in touch with it because I talked to him right before he went to paris True every season has its perks when it feels best for different things Yes, uh, and all I'm saying is don't wait when I say that tie in whatever whatever season you pick is it's perfect It's perfect. It's all perfect. Whatever you do guys. I'm gonna leave you with that today. It's perfect Whatever you do is perfect. Let's say you did something and it wasn't up to par of what you wanted You did what you could with what you had give yourself credit You know, if you give yourself credit and you do good with what you have That's all you can expect of yourself. That's it. You can't expect any you can't expect more than what you can do Okay, I can't expect to do two thousand push-ups Right now. I can't do it. Well, I do it one day. I don't know. I don't know if I'll work towards that But the point is I'm happy with my 170 right now. I'm good with that. I'm very good with that I'm very happy about that. I'm happy that I can walk into my son's You know hospital room and say hey like your dad is getting up in years, but I'm still in good shape still healthy Because I work on it. It's not because it was given to me. I work really hard on that. Do I screw up? Yes, of course. Do I eat crappy food? Of course I do but not all the time Do I overeat sometimes but not all the time not all the time? I will say my friend from High school, uh, he he had had a heart attack He has stents in and you know, he ain't a meal. He probably shouldn't have the other night Now there's nothing wrong with that. He ate a rack of ribs Uh, and I had a piece of salmon, but I've been there where I ate some ribs too But when I do eat that bad food try this one guys when you do eat that bad food Try to just eat a small amount of it. Don't eat the whole cake Eat a sliver of cake, right? Eat a small portion of that steak. You know Cut it down a little bit Just do that if you do that you're going to be okay And please when you leave this training today Matter of fact, if you would put something positive that you're thankful for today I want everybody to do that that's listening to this In the chat section If you're listening live put something that you're positive about put something that you're grateful for Just a matter of fact put two or three things if you could everybody do that Even if you're not watching this live, let's say you're watching, you know, the recording of this Put it in the comment section. This isn't just for me This is for you because when you write it down when you express it when you share it with the world It's going to come back to you It'll come back to you. You're also starting to train your brain Because before you watch this video today, you weren't going to do that. You weren't going to do that Which means your brain was going to go negative at some point during the day because it's trained to do so You're right for for eons. That's what your brain is trained to do We're trying to change that and if you notice the people who do really well in life And I keep pulling out elon musk. He's a very positive person Very very positive. He sees bad things in the world. He sees that we're overpopulated But instead of freaking out over and he's like, let's get some other planets going He tries to find a solution to that that may be a bizarre thought for some of you out there But he has a brain that sees negative and chooses not to accept it How is your brain operating? Have you put down positive things in the uh chat here? Have you done it? Have you done what I said? Are you going to do it if you're watching this as a recording? Will you put it in the comments? Are you going to decide to change? That's up to you. I can't I can't control that. Let's see. I had The queen's with him. What's going on? I had terrible job experiences. However, the worst bosses I had taught me the best lessons either directly or indirectly. Yes Yes, you know, um when I quit my job And I went to do online marketing The person that just drove me out of there the person I just really despised And he did pass away actually, uh, drank himself to death or drugged himself to death. I don't know what it was Uh, but if he hadn't been like that I would have stayed in that job if he was a great boss He was a nice guy and I would have just had a mediocre income, you know And I say mediocre I earned decent money, but I would have never earned what I earned now Never if he hadn't been that way. So I thank him. I thank him for treating me poorly I thank him that was a genuine blessing and disguise that he treated me poorly Because look where I am now. I wouldn't be here if it wasn't for that negative individual. Okay Uh, let's see here. I want to read some of this. You guys are awesome focus on the positive Uh and make the most of what you have. Yes, this is from the queen is within Avoid negative people and that's why you keep your business to yourself The only people that need to know are the ones who give solutions very nice Paul Grateful for my wife. Well, you must really love your wife. You talk about her a lot. That's awesome. I gotta meet her Um and family plus the fact that I live in a land that anyone can pursue their dreams. Hey, yeah, I mean guys If you're in america, you're super lucky. You've got no excuses But there's a lot of countries out there that you should be very grateful for We don't we don't have the only country that's got you know possibilities and opportunities You know every every place you are in the world. There's something there for you if you decide to use it Um I keep a daily gratitude journal. Do you really james? You are a very positive person Uh, he says please a peace and blessings everyone always Tyans says thankful for the greening of things and cleansing fall rains Yeah, that's pretty cool, right? Uh, it is pretty cool stuff and I'm very thankful for that stuff, too The color feels Are just colors and fields are just my favorite in the fall. That is really nice Yes, and I'm looking out over a big forest here behind the the cleveland clinic Uh, and I'm looking out over all these buildings that are helping people and getting people well and that's amazing lessons Are learned in every job some let you know that you were not meant for that nasty job. Yeah, that's very true Guys, I want to thank you for being here today. If you haven't subscribed, please do so Uh ring the bell. This is all I got. I got a water bottle. I don't have a bell I need a bell. They didn't provide a bell in my room. That's okay. I'm still thankful for the room Ring the bell turn on all bell notifications to your notified each and every time I go live I'm going to be doing these lives all week long. I'll be here at nine o'clock central daylight time Throughout the week. I'll be here through thursday and then saturday. I'll be back in texas and it'll be 10 o'clock Central daylight time. Uh, I want you guys to stick with me. Join me Participate this could be a life changing week for you. It really could if you let it be if you let it be It could be a life changing week, but it really truly is up to you Don't blame anybody else. Don't expect anybody else to do stuff for you I want you to be the driving force. I want you to be the one who goes out in the world Why not you go out and affect other people's lives in a positive way? Why not you make the difference? Stop waiting for somebody else to be the one you be the one you be the one that people are grateful for You be the one who at the end of the day says i'm glad i met this person. I'm glad I talked to this person I'm glad I associated with this person. This person was awesome. You be that person I think i'm the queen's wisdom says i'm thankful that I am of sound mind and body And I have the knowledge and mindset to keep on pushing I'm grateful for family and the fact that I can wake up today Thankful to be here very nice prayers for your son again, brother. Thank you so much paul He is he is talking today He hasn't eaten in days Because he can't he still has a tube down his nose, but they're working on that If it's to me, it's up to me 100 james. That's 100 guys. Thank you so much for being here. I appreciate your attentive Uh Being of here and I appreciate you showing up and please put those comments in there Please keep posting positive things throughout the day if you want to come back and post on here Please do so Because it's going to help you. This is for you. This isn't for me. It's 100 for you It's to wake you up a little bit because tomorrow We're gonna start working we're gonna start working Okay, and you're gonna need all this to get through all the work We're gonna do but on the other side is great success and great happiness Thanks so much for listening today guys. I really appreciate you being here. I apologize for the hotel room behind me But it is what it is. I'm still here. Love you guys so much. Thank you for being here and I will see you tomorrow