 Okay, I have to scoot over a little bit, this way, you scoot over a little more. This way. Yeah, you have to be closer to me, but you know where I- I'm moving the pillow! Yeah, she's sitting on a pillow. Cause you're like, you're T-shirting. You are. I'm only concerned about how I look. I need to be taller. We're so close, it's so weird. Fine, fine. No one sits that close. You don't have to do that. Isn't that fun though? You don't have to do that. Stop! No, this is not the podcast, but go follow it cause no one follows it. I don't even know your intro, I don't want your videos. Hi, my name is Project Ten. No, no, no, wait. Hi, I'm Fettuccine Alfredo. No, no. Hi, friends, my name is Font Size. Oh, and I'm Kiana. Let me get these out. Okay. I don't like how we're- no. Hi, my name is Font Size, and today I'm- That's not it! What is it? Hi, friends! When do you say friends? I always say friends! You're like a kindergarten teacher. Hi, friends! Jesus Christ. Today I'm joined by... Kiana Mangida. Today's video is a little different, I have a guest with me, and she is a fellow member of the LGBTQ community. What letter are you? L, first one. Exactly, exactly! The first one. I see a lot of female YouTubers doing videos like answering your questions you're too afraid to ask girls, or like middle schoolers, or high schoolers, either cringy like dating life, or actually informative, like periods, because no one ever talks about them. And I bet there's some people who are going to be like, ew, period, well guess what? You're going to deal with it one day, cause you're going to marry someone who will have one, so fuck up! Okay. Okay. Something so sensitive, Chad. Isn't that the name you used for your straight guy? Yeah. Persona? Chad. That's not my persona, it's my cousin. Oh. Something's actually going to believe that. I asked you guys on Twitter to leave some questions that you're too afraid to ask the gays, because actually think that these could be helpful. Now if they're straight up inappropriate, I'm not putting them in, because I would like to keep this monetized, please. How do you prepare for a dick appointment? Yes. Okay. Well, you're up next after this. I'm just going to say, when you're preparing to do it with someone else. Your boyfriend, maybe it's a hookup. Oh, that's your transfer and the question. Yes. I don't want people to get the narrative that gay people just like dick appointments, because I don't approve a hookup culture. Yeah. I don't really hate it. Personally, I like shaving down below and behind. I'll shave my legs if I'm really bored. Wow. I think it's fun. You feel like a dolphin. Okay. Like a beluga whale. Yes. An orca. A slug. You just went through the entire ecosystem of the earth. I'll shave this part just in case. I forgot to. Hair removal. This is a thing that people don't have to do, but like often you should. Is it true that you really do shit before you have sex? Not everyone does it, but like if you can do it because you want to prevent poop eggplant. Okay. Change the words. I got you. It's better for both of you in the long run because it saves you from embarrassment. But it's also something you shouldn't judge. What happens? Stuff happens. Shit happens. You can also douche. Okay. Do you know what doucheing is? I recall from sex education. Yeah. Sex education actually. That's a good show. It actually teaches you like informative stuff. So if you don't know what doucheing is, it's basically they're visual. Um, maybe you should. Okay. How about this? It's like mouthwash for your bum. Boom. That could be a whole slogan. Doucheing. Mouthwash for your bum. Oh Moira Rose. Doucheing. Mouthwash for your bum. I guess opposite to that. You don't have to shave. So despite what everyone thinks. Just do what makes you comfortable. I like doing that. I know especially with like girls though. It's like such like a thing. Like people think it's so gross to not shave. But it's so normal to not shave. You don't have to. It's also healthier to not shave. It's also healthier. It's meant to protect that area. There's not much preparation. I feel like it's just the safe. Some people for gays will pre. Okay. To pre open it. Gotcha. It's like this is very tight. I got it first time. Loosen it a little bit. So it's easier to pull. You got, yeah. Yeah. Okay. But yeah. I think it's generally the same. As long as you're comfortable too. I don't shave for other people. I shave because I feel. I mean that's your thing. That's your thing. But don't feel pressured to. Do you shave your peach? Yes. I don't necessarily shave the peach itself. I shave the core. Awesome. Why do the gays not like me? You? No. That person. You? Them. Probably I just presented yourself in a way that isn't approachable. That the gays just don't want to interact with. Why the gays don't deserve you? The gays don't deserve you. I'm straight. Are you gonna bully me Frederick? Yes! Right? Yes! Not exactly. Frederick will. It just depends. If you're a straight male, I'm very like, wow. You actually put up with my channel. If you're a straight girl, hey. Hey. I do it for the girls and the gays. That's it. How hard is it to usually come out to your friends? My friend came out to me before anyone a couple months ago and I'm not 100% sure how hard that is to do. If she's still closeted to her family. Extremely easy. Yeah. I think coming out to friends is way easier than anyone else. Just make sure you just have the right friends. I mean if they like suddenly react and they're like, ew, well then you know they're not your friend. Most assuming you're in high school or like middle school, you'll make better friends in college. Sometimes. And they won't judge you. Sometimes. Sometimes. What are your opinions on the stereotypes that are given to gays? Like the more feminine ones and the more masculine ones. And do you think you fall into one of them completely or more than the other? That's a good question. Yeah. I fucking hate stereotypes. They don't make sense. We're already like a minority group. I guess you can say it with the LGBT community. Yeah. And then we push stereotypes on towards them. We've already been pushed away from society and we're pushing ourselves more into these little like archetypes that no one needs to fit in. And then we judge each other within the community because like, oh, you're this, but you don't do this. You're a bottom who doesn't fucking wear makeup. No, yeah. You're feminine. Don't wear makeup. Like I don't know what that. Especially like I feel like the lesbian community, like it's you're so quick to like go in like, okay, femme, stem, which I was like literally stud has like racial background. Oh, not not science, technology, and you know, math. And then there's like so many, but I don't think anyone just is specifically one or the other. You shouldn't be. There's a lot of people who are like probably a bottom go up, but like don't turn into your personality, please. At the end of the day, a top and a bottom is just the role you have during sex. Sometimes even because you can reverse switch. It's also weird because you kind of depend on stereotypes, which is a whole other thing. So either way, fuck all the stereotypes, just who you want to be and don't judge people by them. I think I fall into both feminine masculine types. That's like within the LGBT community. LGBTQ community, but like outside of them, there's just stereotypes of just being gay, which is like femme for gay males at least. Yeah, and then butch for like lesbians. Yeah, it's okay. The straights are uninformed. So we're here to inform. I'm mostly curious if you personally would date a trans person or not. I personally believe that if you are a trans person, that means you're trying to define as one of the genders and I'm attracted to one of the genders. So why wouldn't I date that gender then? Sorry girls and I attract to you. It's not happening. If you present as a male, you identify as a male and I'm attracted to you. Yeah. But stopping me. The dick. I just don't want to be so selective in terms of who I like because then it's going to be like I'm gay, but not. I won't date trans. Like that just reminds me of on Grindr when people like would say no rice. Right. Your take on people who aren't part of the I'm going to assume this is male love male community using the Epsilon because I feel like a lot of people are using it incorrectly right now. But I don't know. I don't like it. I don't like the Epsilon. Sorry, I read that wrong. I thought I said are part of the MLM community. I don't like it being said, but if you're not even LGBT and say it, you're disgusting. Hey, take talkers. I want to know what the Hets want to know. Hets. Is there a new name? I'm not Hed. What is the new? Like I'm not Hed, but I just want to know how y'all know if you're top or bottom. Okay. I guess it just comes down to when you do it because you could be a top or someone and then a bottom for someone else. Yeah. I feel like some people are very just like, No, I won't do anything else but top. Yeah. That's a thing. I think more of most of the time it's switch, but like, I guess in terms of when you like, I don't know. I don't know if anyone's like, it's like I'm a top. Well, how'd you know? I'm not though. Like a hundred percent. I think it's just it depends on the person. There is no like you're born and it's like, Oh, I have a big butt. I act more feminine. I'm a bottom. No, that's not a thing. It just depends on when you're in the bedroom. Do you shave back there? Honestly. Yeah, back there. I'm going to be below. Oh, below there. Back there. When I think back, I think like back there. I think I didn't think you're back. Yeah, I didn't think of that. I was talking about my butt. Okay. I do shave back there. Do you? No. Okay. How do you know you're not just straight? Did you fall in love? Just know. Seeing you maybe realize I don't like women. After living with you, I've decided I don't want a brother. Say it to the mic. After living with Frederick, I've decided that I'm very lucky to not have a brother. I just thought boys were cute like in school. I can't even like pinpoint like a person. I feel like I just always I'm like, I said repetitively to people. I've known since I was like five. And apparently if you're bisexual, you know when you see Jaden back next to each other, that's a meme. I've just always been attracted to boys and I thought girls were pretty. But then when I thought about it, I was like, no, I don't want to have sex with you. I'm gay. I don't have any questions, but I love to listen to everyone. The everything the heads want to say is where did it come from? I don't know where the heads come from. Where's the origin of that Twitter? Why is it when a guy acts more feminine? A lot of gay people start to joke that they're gay. Even today, we try to get rid of these stereotypes. This is confusing me too. The gays tried to say like, is he when a guy dares to show any femininity? Yeah. It's like you're just doing what people did to us back then. It's counterproductive to me. That's what I was trying to say earlier. It's horrible stereotypes are horrible, but it's so weird how we like depend on it to be able to tell. I mean, do people want to live in a world where there is no conception of femininity and masculinity? Or do people like know you have to be straight? Like you can't try to become feminine like us gays. Either way, I appreciate it when straight guys can show femininity. Yeah. What are they called soft boys? It's not a whole stereotype now. I hate it. I hate it. Those are boys who know that if they act soft, they'll get girls. Yeah. And I hate that. How are we so fabulous? I don't know. We're going to brush your hair back. I'm going to just grab my rat tails. Is that a thing? Do gays and lesbians just have like fucked up hair more often? I feel like the answer is yes, but it's just based on people I know. I want to know what heteros think we are. Why are some gay men against being a part of the LGBTQ umbrella? Internalized homophobia. That's it. Two words. Nine syllables. Sorry, it took me a minute. Thoughts on white gays. I think they mean thoughts on white gays who party in LA. It's like a gay Karen. White gays trademark is a gay Karen. I saw a TikTok. It was like gays for Trump. White gay. Yeah, I was like, uh, what? How do you have sex? This is honestly important. They don't teach this in sex ed. Do you really answer? I was going to do a fake one. Okay, fine. Go for your fake one. Okay. So you stand back to back and you try ass to ass. And you have to try to get on some floor without falling. And if you did it correctly, then you had sex for me. It was you stand back to back and you jiggle your butt together. And if you do it for a long time, you'll become pregnant. They should teach about this because they do in other countries, just not the United States for the most part. Kind of like gay sex. Yeah, it's actually important to think about it. How did we all learn? You would have to go online and that can take you down dangerous routes. Exactly. So let me explain and I should be serious. Bumhole, long insert key to enter. And then just so this is out there. This is not real. Well, it is, but it shouldn't be. This is not the only way. I don't know why it's so popular. It's probably just because of straight men. It's because of movies, so this is not real. That's also probably very uncomfortable. Very uncomfortable. Use condoms, use lube. Wash your hands. Yes. I think people have to realize that you don't just shove it in there. Like you have to prepare it. This could be a whole video on its own. It could. I'm not going to because that'll make me very uncomfortable. It's not meant to take stuff back there. People say it is because there is a G spot, which is like the thing that gives pleasure, but you don't have that. That is in your papaya. Yeah. Yeah. I was gonna say there's multiple spots, but yes. Yeah, for you. But for me, that's unlimited. I'm limited to literally one area. It's this big, the whole. And then like if of a slob, a cucumber, usually this big, you have to like let it settle in. Okay. As an ace, I want to hear your two cents on the asexual and bisexual being questioned to be an actual part of the LGBTQ. I don't question it. I just question the one about I'm going to give them attention. It's a spectrum. Who says your point? Don't date men. I saw this Tiktok and I was like, you're telling me lesbians have the power to not like men and also not be a man, but they still can't tell someone's game like a girl's game. What's the best way to react when someone comes out to you? Just be supportive. Yeah. Don't I feel like you shouldn't say like, oh, I always knew. Yeah. Sometimes that's like not comforting to you. Then they start to worry like, oh, what did I do? Other people know because they when they first come out to you. Yeah. That's just mean to you. Yeah. You don't know if anyone else wants to know. Because like I got that and I'm like, I got that too. I mean, that's it doesn't make me feel better. Like I think the best reaction is thank you. Thank you for coming out. I'm proud of you. It's something like that. It's good lunch. Like it's good lunch. You don't have to you don't have to talk about it so much. No, you just have to say thank you and like I'm here for you. I love you still even more like that's it. Yeah, let's get lunch. Are you scared to look slash be gay in public? There are certain events like this or situations where I try not to be. I try to be more feminine just so that it's I don't know. It's like maybe that's internal assembly. So I'm like, I make other people more comfortable. When do you do it? Like if we're going to like a dinner party with my family, my family is fine with me. But like just because I'm going to be around other people be a little more feminine. Like what does that mean for you? Means I'll put a dress on. I'll do my makeup and like all that. Yeah, which I like doing. I just wouldn't do it all the time. What is look slash be gay? Yeah, that's true. What does that mean to people? I don't think that should be a thing. They're saying there's a look straight be straight and then it's like you're sectioning them. God forbid they blend. I get it that for gay males is like look be gay. God forbid you wear this earrings that dangle nails makeup. Walk with your hips instead of your shoulders. Yeah. Have good posture. Those are all things that anyone can do in a professional setting. I'm not going to do that probably. Maybe it is internalized homophobia. Maybe it is. Wow. I'm discovering myself. But I usually don't restrict myself. Now I'm like more comfortable. Yeah. Her dick's all the way out. Correct. Is gaydar real? Yes. Oh, I like this one. Yes, but usually wrong. True. The ones again. What are you? You asked me that and I literally couldn't answer for you. I just know. You just know. To twinkle in their eyes. What are some of the most toxic qualities that LGBTQ people that you personally experience? Either they're gay and also homophobic. Yeah. Like I'm gay but I'm not a homophobic homosexuals. People who use those stereotypes and like only go by them. The gays who say on the grinder, no rice, no Indians, no this. The lesbians that they're called Hey Mama's lesbians. Hey Mama's. I've never been to that. Do it. Hey Mama's. Overpoweringly lesbian. Yeah. Thinking they can turn any girl. Like stuff like that. I think that's incredibly toxic. I don't like the gays that think they can turn people straight. Yeah. There's a lot of them out there. Do I know him? Yes. That's 15. They have the balls to say that. How do you feel about the fact that gay people are so sexualized to the point that it's the reason why homophobes don't like gay people and don't want people to be out and openly gay? He's constricted people to see what like Hollywood puts as gays. It's always a lesbian who goes for like a married woman. That's always the plot. Didn't you say it was they're married to a man, leave for a woman or something? They don't leave for the woman. They like have like an affair and then they always go back to the man. Like that's always like the plot. Oh, there's just like 20 seconds of oh, let's have sex and like I'll go back to the man. Basically. So that's usually why there's lesbians in like shows and then makes it look really nice. It's like we're only here to like be homeworkers. Yeah. Or stupid stuff like that. And then gay guys is always like overly sexual and inappropriate. Yeah. I feel like it's becoming less like I think a really good example of shit's created could be just the sun. Like that was a really nice relationship. Thank you. It wasn't just a gay. It was just a good relationship. Right. I think the best example, not the best, but like the L word, like it has lesbian relationships. Unfortunately, there is a lot of like drama, but I think that's the point of the show is to have drama, but like I wish it were better. No, I'm going to move this. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Nice. Thoughts on gay people not wanting to date by or pan people because they have been with the other sex. I think that's just like a whole self center problem. Yeah. Yeah. It's like people who have trust issues with bi people. It's like you think bi people have higher chance to cheat. No, a cheater is just like a cheater. Not because they're bi. Yeah. That's totally like their own problem. It's not. That's their issue. Don't date them. And trans people will be lesbian gay. Yes. Yeah. Why do bi's want to say slurs so bad? There's like some people in the LGBTQ community who like love saying the slurs. I guess it's either they want to take back the power. That's what I was going to say. Because they was used against them. Something like that. It wasn't used against me. If anything I've seen it used against other people and I'm in the same room. Which makes sense. Kind of. I don't personally. I just don't like it. Yeah. Your addiction can evolve past that. How do the traditions of a hetero wedding translate to gay wedding? I don't know. I like to believe is do whatever you want. Yeah. Rules are gone. We were talking about this. Like why do I have to have like a maid of honor? Why can't I have a best man? Yeah. Like I mean that's not really hetero. I want both. I feel like even hetero is like they can do whatever they want. Yeah. No, it's your wedding. Do what you want. You're paying for that. Hey, lesbian here. Hi. Hi. Do gay men fantasize about dick? I want to say fantasize. But occasionally we have the thought. Well, do you have fantasies about peaches and papayas? Personally, no. I feel like it's the person. Like I wouldn't just imagine the thing. Okay. Yeah. I'll back that up. It's not just like I care about that only. I care about what's attached to it. Awesome. That's it. That was it. There's only so many straight people that follow me on here. If you have like any more questions, I'll probably do another one on the podcast instead. That's a little more like informative instead of having fun. Honestly, if you have no shame, Google stuff. It's actually very informative. It taught me what a douche was. If it's starting to go negatively, just read. Yeah. Don't try to go on adult sites. Yeah. Have that. Yeah. There. And parents just know that I am an educator first. Comedian second. College student third. If you enjoyed, give this video a like. 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