 السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته اسم الله الرحمن الرحيم والصلاة والسلام وعلى أشرف المرسلين سيدنا ونبينا محمد وعلى آله وصحبه وسلم يا ربنا لك الحمد كما يمبذي الجلال وجهيك وعظيم سلطانك اللهم افتح علينا افتح العارفين اللهم معلمنا ما ينفعون وانفعنا بما علمتنا يا أرحم الرحيمين يا رب العالمين اليوم إن شاء الله سوف نتحدث عن أمو سلطان بانتو ملحان وإن وقت مرسل إن شاء الله سوف نتحدث عن أمو معبنت اللهم سبحانه وتعالى قلت في القرآن ويؤثرون على أنفسهم ولو كان بهم خصاصة وانس رضي الله عنه أنا سبن مالك قل يساد سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم ساد دخلت الجنة فسمعتوا خشفة بين يدي فإذا أنا بروم يصى أمو سلين بانتو ملحان إن شاء الله سوف نتحدث عن قلت لأسفل إن شاء الله قرآن was revealed about this amazing character this amazing woman who was a companion to sayidna محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم and there were many narrations and sayidna محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم talked highly about this female companion who is umo sulein her nickname is الروم يصاق so she was an honorable companion she was an amazing wife she was someone who called for الله سبحانه وتعالى in a wise way she had the best of manners and she was nicknamed as umo sulein بن توم الحان she was of the Ansar she was beautiful she was noble she was very wise very eloquent and she had great manners and she was someone who the people of Mecca would admire and talk highly about so who is this amazing character umo sulein was married to her cousin ماليك بن النظر and she had a son from him whom we all know his name was أنا سبن ماليك رضي الله عن so she was married to her cousin before before Islam but when الله سبحانه وتعالى got the message to سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم and Islam was announced she was one of the people one of the pioneers of women to become a Muslim she did not care about what she might face from the torture of Quraish of the non-believers or even from her husband or from her husband ماليك and when her husband was informed about her being a Muslim that she become a Muslim and that she followed سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم he got very angry and he threatened her that he will do so many things and he said to her الصباوتي did you leave the the religion of your forefathers she said in a certain way and she said no but I become a believer and she started to dictate the Shahada to her little boy and she was telling him سي لا إله إلا الله سي أشهد أن محمد رسول الله so her husband would get so angry and she would say do not ruin my son do not do not tell him of these words that you are saying but Muslim very confidently very strongly very powerfully she would say I am not ruining him I am teaching him I am guiding him the way that الله سبحانه وتعالى guided me so when her husband مالك did not was sure that he will not be able to get her to go back to her to her old religion and she is so steadfast on the new religion then he said okay I'm leaving the house I'm going out to I'm traveling to another place and I will not come back I will abandon you I will abandon your child and she did not she wished he would accept Islam and she wished that he would not leave but he didn't listen to her so he went out and he was going without knowing where to go actually until he met one of his enemies and that enemy killed him when when a Muslim heard about the death of her husband she was very sad she was very sad that he he died as a non-believer that he did not become a Muslim and سبحان الله so she she she wished that he would become a Muslim she didn't want him to die as an unbeliever but that was what happened so سبحان الله when her husband passed away and she decided to to grant her life to her son so she decided to take care of her son to raise him the best way that she can she decided that she would not get married until he is old enough that she would he would be old enough so he would he would be the one responsible if men want to get married to her then they should ask her son to accept the marriage so أناس رضي الله عنه used to say جز الله أمي عني خيرا لقد أحسنت ولاية may Allah سبحانه وتعالى highly reward my mom she took care of me she well raised me and she did her best so when the best thing that she did to her son was that when سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم migrated to Medina أناس رضي الله عنه was eight years so when she was in Medina she looked around her and she saw how the أناسار the supporters men and women used to come to سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم and to gift him to give him as much as they could they were competing what they can do to سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم and she she was poor she could not do anything and she was thinking what can she do what can she provide سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم with how can she express her love to سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم so she came to him صلى الله عليه وسلم she was full of joy and she said يا رسول الله لم يبقى رجولا ولا مرأة من الأنصار إلا وقد أتحفك بتحفى رفå تبا فخوضوو ف Richmond كما بدأ��ك إلي badass إفضل هم كبwol لذلك أم سلين رضي الله عنها لم تسأل لأي شيء في الوصول أنها only wanted that سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم to accept her gift and he did صلى الله عليه وسلم and he loved NS رضي الله عنه so NS was 8 years old and he got the honor of serving سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم and he spent 10 years with him so NS was a student in the school in the prophetic school in the blessed prophetic schools سبحان الله so let's ask a question what way is it is it that أم سلين loved سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم so much and that was the reason that she gave him her love her son to serve him or was it her love to her son that made her do that that made her put him as a servant to سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم so he would get the honor of companionship and of serving سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم so she gave the one she loved to the one she loved سبحان الله so there is a narration that سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم whenever any of his wives would tell him oh NS did so and so NS did not do so and so so he would tell them if Allah wanted NS to do it then he would have done it so he was always very kind very gentle to him he loved him a lot سبحان الله so this was the boy who became now who spent a lot of time with سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم and now he is a young man أبو طلحة heard about Umosulayn and about her son and a sublomali so he proposed to her and at that time he was still a non-believer سبحان الله he proposed to her and he paid her a very expensive dowry just so she would accept him but there was a big surprise that started him and that made him so surprised that this righteous woman with all dignity she refused him and she said I cannot marry someone who is a non-believer she said don't you know أبو طلحة that you're God that you're God that you are worshipping is being made by the hand of so-and-so so if you ignite a put fire on it then it will be burned so don't you know that what you are worshipping is a tree that grew up grew from the ground but there is a carpenter who took this tree who took it down and who just formed the shape of a God and you are prostrating to this piece of wood so would you accept to say أشهد الله إله إلا الله وأن محمد رسول الله and I will marry you so he said to her let me think about it and she said he went and he thought about it and then he came to her and he said أشهد الله إله إلا الله وأشهد أن محمد رسول الله so أناس رضي الله معا was sitting and his mom said oh anas go take take Abu Talha and take him to رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم so she said to him someone like you would not be rejected I am a Muslim and you were not so again he said to her who can witness it and she said the messenger of Allah so Abu Talha went to سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم and he was sitting with his companions when سيدنا محمد looked at him and he said جاءكم أبو طلحة غورة الإسلام في دينه so Abu Talha is coming to you to this gathering and الإسلام is in his eyes so he got to سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم and he told him about مسلم and how she she would accept him if he becomes a Muslim and he said he witnessed سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم and he got married to أم مسلم with a dowry but that is only إسلام no money would be equal to this dowry and أناس رضي الله عنه narrated that ما سمعت بمرأة قد كانت أكرم مهرا من أم سليم كان مهروها الإسلام I never heard of a woman who was who had the most honorable dowry it was إسلام أناس سيدنا المسلم إسلام وصالحة إسلام كذلك أجل غير سيدنا إسلام وأناس سيدنا أنسى هذه أطفال أدعى حسنا very honest she is very sincere so Subhan Allah has blessed these two couples with a beautiful boy and his name was about her so هذا الشخص يجد ان يتعلم و كان يلعب مع بردي يجد و قد يموت فهذا الشخص يموت و كان يشعر بأنه يموت فسيد النحمد صلون الله got past and he saw him crying so he looked at Muslehman and he said what happened to you to Abba Umair and she said she told him about his birdy that died then said the Muhammad صلون الله وصلون الله talked to him and he comforted him and he said to him يا أبعو مير ما فعل أنه غير أو أبعو مير what happened to the birdie سبحان الله سالله سبحانه وتعاله I wanted to test this righteous woman with her good husband so they're beautiful young boy أبعو مير God's sake and normally every day his father would come back from his work or from the masjid and he would give salam to the family and he would ask about his son and he was very worried about him that his son is not getting better at all one day he went out for some chores and the boy passed away the boy died and the mom was so sad for the death of her husband she accepted the decree of Allah سبحانه وتعاله so she shrouded him she she washed the boy she shrouded him and she put the best she put cover on him in his bed and she was repeating and she looked around her and she said no one would tell أبو طلحة about the death of أبعو مير except me so when her husband came back from his outing she she she she she she she she wet her tears and she she was ready to to meet her husband and she prepared his dinner and the father asked her what happened how is إبو همائر doing she said is the best that he could be وطالع أن الله سبحانه وتعالى لقد حفلت على أرادته. فهي كانت حفظة وكانت حفظة أن أراده يسأل وخافطا فهي لم تأتجوه أكثر منه. فهي فقط فقط قتلت له. فقلت له وقلت بأنه يفعله بشكل جيد. فمتأتي بأخباره ونقوموا بعمل المنزل معهم وإن سبحان الله there was a relationship, a husband-wife relationship وإن المسلم لم يقوموا بعمل أي شيء لذلك she let him sleep until it was the last part of the night they both woke up ونقوموا بعمل المنزل معهم إذا كان شخص يجد شيء ونقوموا بعمل المنزل معهم هل يمكنهم أنهم لا تردون بعمل فقلت لي لا بالطبع فقلت لهم ونقوموا على أس tutorial ونقوموا بعمل المنزل معهم ونقوموا بعمل المنزل معهم إنها ش großer ونقوموا بعمل المنزل معهم ونقوموا بعمل الهي لي便 تبات الشخص ونقوموا بعمل المنزل معهم سيلا إلهي اللهم الله أبو طلحة was very upset and he got angry and he said to her أم جرى mentioned that to say it to رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم so when it was the morning he went to say the محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم and he told him with what his wife with what happened exactly سيلا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم looked at him and he said مي الله سبحانه وتعالى bless what happened between you two that night so that night was the night that أم سليم got pregnant with her son عبد الله ابنو أبي طلحة and when she delivered this baby she sent him with her son أنا سبن مالك إلى رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم and she said to him go to go take this boy to سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم and take some of these dates with you so that he would give him the honor of chewing the date and feeding or putting it in the mouth of the baby and he did so the boy took the date the boy was so happy to have the date in his mouth and سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم said أباة الأنصار وإلا حب التمر so the answer the supporters they they would do would love date so أنا سبن مالك رضي الله عنه سيد يا رسول الله give him a name and سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم said هو عبد الله so he named him عبد الله and when عبد الله جوا he got married and he had a very righteous offspring and الله سبحانه وتعالى gave him sons and they were all believers الله سبحانه وتعالى and they were all lovers of Quran and her this husband المسلين and her husband where their life was full with so many good incidents that would be as lessons for everyone أبو رير رضي الله عنه سيد one time and then came to سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم and he said oh I'm so tired I'm so I'm so hungry and سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم sent to some of his wives and they all said to him والذي بعاثك بالحق ما عندي إلا ما by Allah سبحانه وتعالى I have only water and they all gave him this answer سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم asked who would who would host this guest may Allah have mercy on him so أبو طلحة said I will do it yeah رسول الله so he went to his wife and he said to her so he brought him to the house and he said to her do you have anything she said لا the only thing I have is the dinner of our children and he said just get them distracted and well we'll put the food so when when he comes in just when when we serve the food just pretend that we are eating go to the لاترن لاترن and pretend that you are fixing it and turn it off and she did so they just pretended that they were eating and the guest ate and they the family slept hungry that night so when when they went to say سيد محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم in the morning سيد محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم said لقد عجب الله من فلال وفلال so الله سبحانه وتعالى was surprised of what they did so and he said قد عجب in another narration قد عجب الله من صنيعك ما بدعي فيكم والليلة so الله liked what you did with your guest that night and الله سبحانه وتعالى revealed ويؤثرون على فصيهم ولو كالبهم خصاصة and this is صورة الحشل آية number 9 so they give they give preference over themselves even though they are in privation they need that thing badly but they give it for the sake of الله سبحانه وتعالى so this is was the آية that I started the session today and سبحانه وتعالى المسلم was المسلم was very brave she had an amazing role in the spreading of the call of Islam and she participated in with سيد محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم in battles against the non-believers so أنا سرضي الله عن هو narrates that his mom went to سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم and she said يا رسول الله يا رسول الله أخرجوا معك إلى الغزو oh مسلم جرور الله should I go with you to to the battle field and he said يا المسلم إن الله لم يكتب لم يكتب على النسائي جي هاد الله سبحانه وتعالى did not order women to fight for his sake she said وداول جرحا وأعالجوا أسق الماء she said I will I will help the wounded and I will give water to those who who needs water so he said yes and she was with him on during the battle of وحد and another time she was with him on the battle of حنين سبحان الله ونحنين she she went to the battle field and she had a dagger around her belly and she was pregnant still with عبد الله so she her husband so the and he said to سيد محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم or يا رسول الله هذه أم سولا متخذت خنجرة يا رسول الله رسول الله say oh رسول الله this is أم سولا my wife she got a dagger and she said يا رسول الله اتخذه ان دانا مني أحدهم من المشركين أبقرت به بطنة so يا رسول الله I have it just in case any of the number of the relievers came closer to me close to me then I will hit him I will hit his belly so سيد محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم smiled and agreed to her what what she did she was very courageous and one I think one last thing that we have to to mention here that سيد محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم he he would never get into any any but his house except hers and he would sleep at her house she was the mother of and a سيد محمد his servant and he gave her the glad tidings of being one of the people of جنة and I started also with دخلت الجنة فسمعت خشفة بين يدي فإذا أنا بلموميصا أم مسلين بنت ملحان سيد محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم said I saw myself in a dream entering paradise and I heard I heard the footsteps of أروميصا and I said who is this they said she is أروميصا أبين توملحان the mother of أنا سبين توماليك أنا سبنو ماليك فون سيد محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم always honored أروميصا he used to visit her he used to pray in her house he used to to sleep in her house and one time she said رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم used to come and sleep in my house he used to take a nap in my house so I would put a leather rug for him and when he sleeps he would sweat so I would take this sweat and add it to the توماليك to the perfume that she used to have and she used to when he asked when he's صلى الله عليه وسلم asked her what are you doing she said I am taking this I'm collecting this for بركة so he did not deny that and he accepted it there's so many things here but the last thing that I would mention is that one time سيد محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم was at her house so he made دعاء for أم مسلم and for her household and مسلم said I have something special I want something special for him he said so I want you to make دعاء for your servant and a سبن ماليك for my son and أناس رضي الله عنه says the messenger of Allah made دعاء he made all types of دعاء for me to get the best in the آخرة and the best in the الدنيا and سيد محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم said in one of the دعاء اللهم أرزقه مالاً وولداً وبارك له and أناس said فإني لمن أكثر الأنصار مالاً I am of the most people of the أنصار of the supporters who who were so wealthy I was the the most wealthy of the أنصار and it is narrated that he did not he did not die but he had one hundred and twenty nine children سبحان الله and it is known that أناس رضي الله وعن was one of the famous people famous narrators of حديث who were trustworthy that they narrated the حديث of سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم he lived with سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم for ten years as we mentioned and so he witnessed a lot of things with him he lived with سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم he traveled with سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم he served سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم he was loved by سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم so one time أم مسلين looked met سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم and he was with his wives and she she said to him يا رسول الله إن أبا طلحة وابنه حجا على ناضحهما على ناضحهما وتركاني يا رسول الله my husband and his son went for Hajj and they left me and she was very very sad for that and سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم said to her عمرة في رمضان تجزيكي بن حجة معي so if you perform عمرة عمرة in رمضان it's as if you did Hajj with me سبحان الله so this was one of the special things that أم مسلين رضي الله عنها got from سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم and she was very happy to hear that from him so أم مسلين رضي الله عنها the female companion the amazing person who lived her life who's تسيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم she used to drink from the prophetic spring she used to learn the right the correct faith from سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم she was the best righteous wife to her husband she was a good wise woman she was someone who called for الله سبحانه و تعالى very wisely she was a fighter for the sake of الله سبحانه و تعالى she was very courageous she was an amazing mom she was she was someone who was responsible for her family for her kids for everyone around her so الله سبحانه و تعالى was happy with her and he الله سبحانه و تعالى gave the glad tidings to سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم that she is in paradise so now if we look at this female companion of سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم we have to stop for a second and think what have we given to our religion what have we done for our religion are we ready if سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم asks us what did you do after me you got the message what did you do were you practicing were you a good Muslim were you a good neighbor were you a good son were you a good wife were you a good husband were you a good child were you a righteous person what did you do with the message that you have in hand what did you do with the Quran did you read it did you understand it did you try to memorize it did you did you get the light of the Quran so what did you do what did you do for your religion so imagine those at the time of سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم those companions and what they did and what they did was amazing that we got this message as it is today if we apply the rules of this school of this prophetic school then we would live happily if we follow the footsteps of سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم when he was the best father the best husband the best when he was an amazing person to everything when he was the best of the creations of Allah سبحانه وتعالى are we following his footsteps are we ready to meet Allah سبحانه وتعالى on the day of judgments and stand before him and answer the questions that he will be asking us are we going to make سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم are you proud of us let's stop and re-evaluate what we did for this religion there is still time the boat is going we need to be on the boat at the beginning of all the things that are happening we want to be pioneers we want to be leaders for the sake of Allah and we want to raise children who are who would be coolness of an eye to سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم and until we meet next week إن شاء الله where I would send my salam and your salam to سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم والسلام وعليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته