 Hey you guys, it is Monday the 21st. I think it was the 22nd. I think it's the 22nd. Girl, I'm back to drinking coffee. Especially after this morning. Go have a seat. Go have a seat. Go have a seat right now. No, you're good. Go have a seat. Here. Now go have a seat. Ciao. I'm gonna talk about you. He's eating. I am. I am. I ain't gonna say everything but JB decided to throw a little fit at the grocery store. I can count on my fingers how many times my child has thrown a fit and I don't care what anybody says. Every child is different. The look, I know how some people, some people like I give my child a look and my child stops, not with JB. The look just makes JB cry even harder. What I do with my child is I ignore incorrect. Ignore incorrect. If he starts. I do not like when one you ignore me. It makes me cry and have a fit and slap me in the face. I don't slap you in the face. Well I slap myself in the face. Even better. So yes, I ignore him. You know what he said? He doesn't like it when I ignore him but it works. I ignore his little ass and then I tear up those legs when we get home. Don't play. So anyway you guys, I'm having coffee. I'm back to having coffee. Yeah, anyway, we are looking at old Vlogmas videos. Actually, I only did Vlogmas once and it was a lot of work. A lot of work. We may do it this year. JB said he wants to do it because like I stated, maybe I feel like I'm always repeating myself but not everyone watch everything. Stop it sweetheart. Hair related videos will slow down come. I'm trying my best to push out. I have to record almost every week if I'm going to do this to push out videos by July 1st and then just do Vlogs and shit chats. Shit chats I will still be doing my hair. So we have been home for a few hours. I met with my friend Robin and it was so great to meet her. She invited one of her friends. Y'all normally I don't like that but I've had to get used to that because I don't know. We were chit chatting. A lot of my friends, a lot of my friends a lot of my friends talk to me talk about me to their other friends and then that friend wants to meet me. Like a lot of a lot of my friends you guys are mutual friends. Like I tell you I was still your friend. So introduce me to your friends. I was still your friend. My best friend I stole from another friend. He had a great lunch and Ms. Robin offered to edit my book for me which is awesome you guys. So I have all my stuff here. I'm going to pull up my laptop here and make some edits again and I'm gonna give myself a deadline of two to three weeks to send her my book. I don't think you liked it but you at least were able to try it. Yeah I think I may cook some Ethiopian food here. So they just take so long like prepping can take all day on day and my husband's family taught me how to make it so I can cook it better. I'm gonna clock my own tea because the family taught me how to make it and I've been cooking it for 10 years you know. So I'm making a cocktail. I'm drinking this cocktail I'm making right now girl. When I grow up but I'm already grown up so I need to be a chef now. Yeah you need to be a chef. Oh my goodness speaking up I need to it's not really on my goals but I did buy a recipe book blank recipe to capture document my recipe so that's something I am going to be doing. Do I have those? All right y'all I'm just rambling at this point. Hell I'm at the dollar store. They got bikini top. What type of dress up bikini shit is this? Look at this video of mine. Look at these stickers. Pretty. I already have these. Look y'all I'm at. Is this thing moving? The car? My car is on. It's already hot. It's already 90 something degrees. I'm at the dollar store. Let me show you what I bought. You know what? The dollar store is a trap. It is a trap. They trap in you when you go in there. They trap in you with some stuff you don't need. I forgot what I was supposed to go in there for but I ain't got everything but I was supposed to what I was supposed to get. I did get some snacks. See this is part of the trap. And I yielded the checkout lady. At first she forgot my snacks. I said excuse me. She said oh girl let me get your snacks. I know you're gonna eat that in the car. I said you know me? You been reading my diary? That's exactly what I'm gonna do. It must be real good that baka. It'll be really good. It's frozen though. Y'all I'm sorry. Is this really moving 94 degrees outside? All right. See this is what I'm talking about. If you've seen my Dollar Tree video you saw that we got three hours of snacks. First of all we have one how do you have I'm talking about how do you have one hour of food and three full hours of snacks? And then I got some sugar. You guys I try not to buy this is funny but I really try not to buy sugar. And so this is the first time I bought sugar since the holidays. Yeah because I don't use a lot of sugar. I prefer to use agar syrup or honey. I think it's cute pineapple tray for ice. Excuse me I'm spitting for ice or but check out ladies she's like oh you could put chocolate in it with coconut. I see you. I like the way you think. I have some travel bodies. Travel bodies. Travel bottles for my husband. I already got myself together. This is cute. They had a bunch of LA color stuff. I tried not to go crazy but they had this LA colors loose face and body shimmer shine like a star. I want to shine like a star for some time even though I want to be summer ready. This is like yellow okay. I think it'll be really cute on me. Hold on y'all. Not to this I need to take my fluffy butt home. Let me put this stuff up. Ain't no damn clue. I'm sorry y'all. Let me get it together. I got some foil paper. You don't want to see that. I got some morning starters. Some books for JB. He's struggling with addition and subtraction and then morning starters first. Great. So I saw this liquid eyeshadow LA colors. Isn't this cute? There's like a lavender color and it's metallic. This is so pretty. I have so much makeup. Real pretty colors. Pouts play. Isn't that cute? All right y'all. It's gonna be hot this summer. April 94 degrees. Another person has died out here. Hold on. At the Grand Canyon. And I know that a lot of the times, well of course it's tourists. A lot of the times it's people who are not even from this country. Let me tell you something. I was surprised that there ain't no railing. So you know they got signs that says you know be careful. Slippery rock. They mean that a woman fell to her death. Sorry y'all. A woman fell to her death a couple of days ago. Some people fall to their death taking pictures. When we went there a couple of years ago, my ass stayed. My husband started going out there too far. It is very dangerous. I remember a couple of years ago a whole family like fell off and like half of them drowned. We don't have a lot of plants this weekend. We are going to be visiting a new church. I need to figure out which one. On Saturday y'all. Last time we were at church and JB is such a sweetheart. This age is so sweet. So even though he gets on my nerves sometimes with all the wine and not listening to me, I have to appreciate him now at this age because while we were at church he was first of all he said he wanted to sit with me which I really didn't like. So he said you know I'm six now so I can sit with you. I said we're not leaving early so I don't want to hear it okay. So a church service is not that long. I mean with worship and the sermon it's only 45 minutes. That's really not that long. So but he so he kept moving around moving around. There was a lady next to us. I don't want to make sure he wasn't bothering her but she was just smiling at him. So as we were walking out of the church she came with me. She's like he is so beautiful. I'm like oh thank you. She said he wanted, I told her he wanted to sit with me because he said now he's six but I'm sorry if he kept moving. She's like no that's the age. She's like you know enjoy him while he's his age because she pointed to her child. She said he's 12 so you got six more years. I said oh a lot. So all right y'all I am rambling the next time you see me I'll probably kind of come on on Sunday. My husband's off. JB we're probably gonna get in our pool. Y'all our pool is ready. My floaties are not ready but I usually get in that pool with a bunch of floaties. The pool is only five feet but since I'm paranoid about being in water station. What's the point girl? I don't know how to swim and since I still have this fear of swimming I blow up like I kid you not. I have about eight or ten floaties and it don't make. JB looks at me when I blow up all those floaties and put them in the pool that goes up to my chest. He's like mama just get in the pool. I have the ones you lay on. I have a you know whales you know sharks. I have a huge hamburg girl all the time because I need to catch just in case. I need to be able to grab on something. Buttons type thing. So I picked it out and I bought this from the Dollar Tree and I'm just gonna create me a little file case. This is some pair of earrings I got from Walmart a while back that I've only worn twice and I don't like them because they you hear that they make too much noise. So I'm gonna pull some of these off and superglow them on here and I'll show you y'all what it looks like when I'm done. It's cute once it completely dries I'm gonna get some of this stuff off the side. So yeah I took um three pieces pieces of jewelry plus what Ms. Lori gave me to make a cute little phone case. This cost me $1 because you can go buttercream. This is uh you see that it's done. This is a styler excuse me. I would have to use with a gel or use on wet her damp hair. I don't think I I added more strip but not enough clear because this yeah it's frizzing out. Let me show you what I'm wearing. Just simple um this belt could be a little bit tighter to pulling this waist but see how it could be. Yeah it's come through waist um yeah I'm hippy as hell. All right but we don't want that type of attention so we make it a little bit looser. This is my purse. Can you remember blue shirt I don't want you wearing? JB's like whatever. So I can show y'all my makeup while he's coming. It's simple JB's just simple no bow tie today because it's too hot for that child. Our bathroom the contractor is officially done. Y'all when I tell you the amount of professionalism look this young man and he's young and he's farming his late 20s early 30s he was able to do all of this him and another guy and four and a half days. The glass guy came today and took measurements and yes this is what everything looks like now. It's still drying in some areas but I love it. This is what the pebble looks up looks close up um and I shared a picture of this sort of kind of when it was still in the process and the couple you guys were like yeah it has a spa feel. That is exactly what I was going for a spa natural like feel. I have my episodes salts and bubble baths and stuff that's going to go over here with some candles and ready to go. Yeah I'm excited yeah I'm really excited so the glass guy's going to come on Wednesday and to install the um the glass because it has to be custom and um yeah that is it. So I don't feel so because at first when I said earlier maybe I didn't that I was a little concerned about all the different textures and everything and if it will clash with the floor and all that I'll be okay. This is beautiful. I'll be okay. Now we showed him our guest guest bathroom and um my husband just decided out of the blue let's just go ahead and and knock that out. I'm like go ahead then Alex. So good morning good morning good morning you guys it's Friday it's Friday and I'm ready to swing pick up my girls and do the damn thing tonight. Girl we ain't doing nothing tonight um I had tried to record this video now this is be the seventh time um I was at home trying to record it but my child wouldn't let me be great and I had to pause for the calls and um yeah handle handle him girl handle him but y'all it is Friday I have a lot of errands to run today I need to go get my nails did I may get gel nails because I'm in a hurry and I know Tina and Tom are going to nickel and dime me you want to know you know you want to you want to eat the bunny on your no I don't want no Easter is over I don't want to eat the bunny yeah I know I'm silly I'm out here in front of JB school if you hear any kids barking it I want to talk to y'all something real quick about something real quick I need to drink some water my vote voice has been hold on girls I have some water how have y'all allergies been here in the States because my allergies are up and down I'm on flow nice so yeah y'all this week has been so crazy for us excited about the bathroom the the developments of our bathroom um they will be finishing up next week I'm really excited about that this morning I will be going to Walmart because I want to purchase two gray towels to go along with the white towels that I purchased because again I want to give like a spa feel a very clean crisp feel and I feel like with all of the textures going on I'm with the bathroom I need to be as neutral as possible when it comes to the towels the rugs etc you see what I'm saying but y'all I'm having to dirty delete a comment this morning y'all and I think about that you know when I see a comment um I I'm into a person I can agree to disagree and I have count I can count on one hand how many times I've had to delete a comment either someone's cursing me out or there's a comment where I absolutely do not agree with and I'm like you just came right out of left field like that girl the girl the young lady who left me this paragraph I mean of how I came off angry but when I was detangling my hair either I was detangling my hair I was using the pre-pool and I'm like girl you would come off angry too if you had all this hair today but no she was really left feel it was really like I'm like and it was a lot oh she had a lot to say it and I didn't see it y'all didn't see it so anyway a person this morning left me a comment and again I couldn't see it so anyway this young lady let's get to the point this young lady left a comment on my on a vlog and it was the vlog where I spoke on Marion y'all know who Marion Hampton is she has the long hair fair skin and young woman beautiful long hair she's one of those youtubers in my opinion that you really have to take with a grain of salt I don't think she has any ill intentions I really don't I don't think she I don't think she comes off I don't think she tries to come off as being gimmicky and I definitely am not a person to want to put down another youtuber I'm not like that I hope you guys realize that I I'm sincere when I say that but again some of her videos I'm like girl Mary what are you thinking baby is on a vlog where I was speaking on the product that Marion claimed to be a natural hair relaxer which ain't no natural hair relaxer it's really a butter now I've had some comments from people who have purchased the product and they basically gave their their thoughts on the product and I actually pinned one of them you know she left a very long comment on how the product was beneficial to her I'm like cool thank you for the feedback matter of fact I'm going to go ahead and pin your comment okay let me get to the point let me read the comment if you're going to make a video offering help to others you should clean up your language everyone is not on your level of speaking any kind of way first dig children could also be looking at this respect your audience even even if you don't respect yourself second dig so I'm like oh my god what did I say you know I read the comment two times maybe three times so I looked at my video and I did I was I cursing a lot so I looked at the video y'all and again it's a vlog not that long of a vlog from almost a year and a half ago and I wasn't seeing it she told me to clean up my language I'm not seeing it so initially I responded in a very PC way based off my 20 years of customer service like you know I'm gonna go ahead and delete it because I know someone's gonna respond to her whether you agree or disagree with her and I don't want that type of atmosphere on my channel anyway y'all that is it we are not focused on negativity in 2019 look baby I want y'all to do this especially this year and going forward and for a while there earlier this year I was really focusing on some negative stuff I was thinking about some things it is real easy to get sucked in into that pattern of reliving some things and wishing you could have should have done things differently I'm all about reflecting on some decisions you may some behavior but then reflecting and correcting it so that we can grow right so again if something comes up any negativity any negative energy negative people girl bounce that back bounce that off excuse me yeah bounce it bounce it don't bounce it back to them because you don't want that karma bounce it off keep it pushing think about it reflect about it maybe I should have you know changed the way I responded to that person look and they got they got bikinis over there for five dollars top and bottom let me see what I can get me so I can look sexy sexy how does it look on my skin tone y'all look I gotta blow up my floaties first now that's too that's pretty but I'm feeling this green this is a large but you know what it doesn't have any support and I want my girls up high this is pretty though isn't it oh the back fat though I don't know y'all I'm on the clearance section now y'all they got everything over here from baby food to binders a bunch of toys that's cute for like college clip kids there's nothing I see that I need did I just hit the jackpot I don't need green though I need brown I need brown y'all can I see girl hey man you know what God knew that I was coming in here that not for 450 though what do you think here are the towels see these towels are 297 what the why are those tiles so expensive you know I'm getting these I actually need some smaller than this yeah let's see now this is a step above these are pretty I got times I got time for kids I ain't got time for it do you hear them I want something like this tassels but I don't want that color maybe I'll have it Ross I'm not going to Ross today let me see no see no nope that's not gonna work y'all what in the same hill it's gonna I'm out of Walmart but why would I want to go pay my groceries it's that tender tender I get an error tender car decline I'm like the devil is a lot so I did it a second second time using my debit card my bank card card is declined I'm like what the hell is going on so then I did it a third time but I use credit approved and it made me nervous it made me nervous because there's someone behind me I did self-checkout because they have the long long lines like your actual cashier at Walmart they're really long self-checkouts not the not the mini ones I mean you got a long belt you know to place your groceries on there was someone behind me so I started getting nervous but I have money in my camera what the hell is going on so I did the guy went off he went and he walked away he went to another because he's like you didn't got no damn money so I did the third time using credit and it went through but you know what ever since these cards have a debit card I need to go ahead excuse me ever since these debit and bank cards have a chip I can I could issues so I swiped it so when I swiped it using credit it went through that doesn't need to happen to me ever again because we're gonna be out this weekend I don't need to be embarrassed I mean I have my credit cards on me that I could use just in case or I could just get cash out which I try not to get carry cash on me has that ever happened to you guys where your chip doesn't work or the swiping does I'm gonna go ahead and comment on America and be like you may need to send me into the card with the same number don't switch up my stuff because I need to use my card this weekend that's scary card decline great said tender I'm like tender what I guess it's a type of era that has never happened that's a lie it happened to me because at Walmart at this Walmart but there was something wrong with the actual card reader and it wouldn't read the chip so she told me to do swipe but I didn't get that error it just wouldn't take it really weird I don't like that but anyway yeah let's go ahead and go home put up these groceries I need to do some work work out and then we are going to be running errands this is already nine o'clock so yeah look when I was getting my nails done Tima did my nails this time five minutes into her doing my nails a woman comes back in who was just there I saw her pay and you know she come back and she's like um I don't know what's one of my nails but there's spots on them she's like look see there's spots so she's showing Tina and then she kind of puts her hands over to me the look and I'm a girl I'm not looking at your nails and so she goes on to explain she's like I don't know why there's spots on them and Miss Tina tried to tell her what is jail and the polish is jail so they go back and forth back and forth so she's basically going to redo her nails so um Tom starts to fix her nails and he puts a painting over he puts some more polish over it and she's like I don't want jail and she's like well you have jail Tina's trying to explain to her you need to come back in three more weeks and I'll fix it because you have a jail set and she's like but I told you I didn't want jail I'm like out the shop paying for jail nails because there's a big difference those of you who don't know who don't get your nails done jail nails first of all jail nails die I mean they drive fast so you would have known once your nails are dry in like three seconds that you had jail nails I don't understand like you paid for jail nails you really think that them jail nails are more expensive so child they went back and forth back and forth she was upset Tina finally snapped she said it's not my fault I was like damn I'm like don't get Miss Tina upset why she has a drill in her damn hands like for the nose it could be the polish because gels you see how smooth my my nails the nail art itself gels give gel nails give you an overall polished finish as opposed to regular acrylic whatever anyway girl you so y'all I'm about to go pick up JB all right y'all and I only show y'all what I bought because I was um having an attitude problem I needed to spend some money and buy something for myself so revolution has this cute makeup palette and marvelous match when I tell you this makeup palette is fire I'm going to use this tomorrow I'm going to do a yellow pinkish look look at that I'm going to be using this entire top row for my makeup look yes look at the heaven look at this heaven on a plate Cajun chicken pasta oh no let's get that course we got the way there she go divine so good so so good yeah I'm going to eat all this because I'm already