 Next speaker, you guys just got a little taste of him a second ago. I haven't heard him speak before but I'm really excited. His name is Nathan. He's from RSD. He's the senior executive coach of RSD. So a real treat to have him here. He's been teaching since 2006 and he's a pioneer of natural game. He's consistently rated, like very, very well rated, one of the top coaches by his clients and he'll be talking about being a man and his highly regarded dating coaching and philosophy. Help me welcome Nathan to the stage. Thank you for the love. I much appreciate it. Thank you. Thank you. Today, yes, I spoke in 2009 unrecorded. Anthony has brought me back. I thank him. I thank you guys for being here today. Today, being the man, yes, today I'm actually gonna be really talking to you about the greatest tools in your arsenal. Really the greatest tool. There's a few things that I notice on bootcamp a lot doing this every single weekend. No more than three students tops. They usually guys have just in fundamentals have problems with. It's usually gonna be your eye contact. It's gonna be having desire, being in touch with your own desire and tonality. Tonality. Funny thing about tonality. Tonality has everything to do with your body language. It has everything to do with the emotion you're feeling and I'm gonna demonstrate a little bit of an exercise a little bit later for all you guys to kind of just show you a little bit about my teaching now. Everything actually kind of works. How it all comes together. First off, a little bit about myself. Yes, I've been in this a long time. 2002 is when I first picked up my my first entryway drug into all of this. It was David D'Angelo's first edition W dating ebook. How many people here have heard David D'Angelo or read any of the stuff? Yeah. Yeah. Entryway drug. That's what I call it. It's like marijuana to regular drugs. When you get to my level, it's more like heroin. So you get deep. But now I've been, what would you consider like a natural? I don't know. We're not some mythical creature. Women haven't necessarily been a mystery to me. I've been lost. My Virginia was like 14. So I think it's 35 now. So what is that? You know, 20, 22 years, something like that. Old enough. What's that? No, my kids three and a half. So not quite. But yeah, so I did that. High school is pretty good to me. I still had like some fears. I was still afraid of rejection. A lot of things I can really empathize with a lot of people on a lot of different levels. I moved around a lot. Taught me a lot being in the military originally from the Midwest, lived around the world because of that. And I had to make a lot of friends really quickly. So it's kind of forced in some situations that held me. Incidentally, right after I graduated, I was in the US Navy. I was search and rescue. Saved a man's life. Very unique one. Taught me a certain lesson about adapting situations. Because the man was like 6'5". He was like a brick house. He did not want to be saved. He was actually committing suicide in 8 foot seas, 22 miles off the coast of Corpus Christi. And I was pissing in my wetsuit. I was like, shit, I'm here to save dead pilots. People who want to be saved. You know, people, you know, this is not what I'm trained for. And sent in another buddy. I quickly adapted, changed it, changed my methodology, came under, saved a man's life. And he's thanked me to this day for it. But I was scared. I know a little bit about fear and adaptability. Helped to rewrite some of the tactical Navy tactical manuals. Nothing else like that ever been done. Since from there, I went to University of Texas, graduated in four years, interpersonal communication, top program in the world in this. I'm very, very passionate about this. This is how I kind of meant to like the DOI DE book. A lot of things that were being covered was actually stuff that I was studying. And I even wrote papers on social attraction. I'm very, very passionate about this stuff. From there, a couple of years investment banking, you know, wrote reality dating TV shows, a lot of things. I mean, really, it's kind of irrelevant. I just have a lot of life experiences. Then RSC picked me up. And when everything was still kind of pick up lines and stuff like this and, you know, hung out with style before the game came out. And there was something there. But it didn't quite mesh. I mean, obviously I was in there because the marketing worked. I couldn't make out with the girl in 30 seconds. So shit, my game sucked. I couldn't pull a model into like the hottest clubs, bathroom and banger in five minutes. Man, my game sucked. You know, it's funny how like some marketing just like really preys on your own beliefs. Like so many guys, for example, I get so many good guys, like cool, natural, like just decent, good dudes on my programs. And sometimes one of my biggest things I do is I just give them permission to be themselves. I give them permission to actually do the things that they already know and things that, you know, just give them that confidence. That sounds almost cliche. It's just I give them permission to be who they already know they should be. And so anyway, so since 2006, I've been coaching around the world, more than a couple dozen countries. Hell, man, I just saw... What is it? Where's Chris? Oh, Leo too. Yeah, he was just there with me this year. Where's Leo? Or Chris? Yeah. Dude, I haven't seen these since 2007. He's like, Nathan, I remembered him. I remember sticking points. We went over interactions that we both had had. So I don't remember. I mean, I remember everything. This is, that was 2007, a long time ago. Me and Jeff. But around the world, hundreds and hundreds of students outside of, you know, the largest dating company in the world, what other coach really has like the reference points of so many people. Brazil where people don't even speak, you know, English. And that has everything to do with what I'm going to talk about today. You know, communicate people on the core, core levels. And these exercises are going to be so key to helping you to understand. Now, one thing I do want to explain, like you guys behind the camera, it's like, I do, you know, in-field footage. Matter of fact, I mic up a lot of my students, particularly my returning students. I mic them up with the same mics I'm using right now, as a matter of fact. And, you know, an HD night cam. And we go over this stuff. And the funny thing that repetitively kind of happens is we see the emotion is gone from the environment. So when we see it's a very third person. I tell you guys are watching like maybe someone's in-field footage. It's a very third person. You don't see it because when a student is actually re-looking at their footage, it's like the next day, it's like, just, that's not kind of in the moment. You don't quite understand. You just like, you don't see it. And, you know, I remember what the emotion is like. But kind of interesting, kind of interesting dynamic. So what you guys are going to experience in this, in some of the demonstrations that we're going to be doing, is you guys are going to feel the emotion. This is a game of emotion. Say, Pioneer, because, you know, I never got into like a lot of kind of like the weird alienating names and things. But you are going to feel the emotion here in the audience. I hope you guys behind the audience, or behind the camera, are going to be able to see the same thing. You know, kind of feel a little bit of it. But the emotion like in in-field footage is not going to be quite the same. So look, real simple. We're just going to do some tonality and exercises. Can I have two volunteers? Oh, excellent. Who wants it most? All right, get the fuck up here. Everybody give him a round of applause. What's up, boys? Richard, nice to meet you. Where are you from? Awesome, man. Sean, where are you from? Orange County, all right, great. Never been there. I used to live in Northern Maryland. Orange County, I know the OC pretty well. I'll see from living in LA and all that. First things, sorry, pardon. Sneak wet my palate. Have a seat. Have a seat. This is very much about emotion. It's a base emotion. This game is emotions. It's based on everything emotion doesn't, you know, it always leads your emotion first. Girls are lagging indicators. They are just following your emotion that you are you have and you cannot fake it. Part of this is actually going to kind of it's going to go into so many different things is actually though, I think there's a time and place maybe for some prompts, what I call them, like maybe some lines or routines to understand like emotionally, how people respond to you, how to give good emotions. Though I think that can be important, but it also, you know, as you kind of go along, just kind of just proves you got to move on on your own. Because what happens is when you do a lot of lines, maybe routines, and, you know, maybe the first time it works fantastic, you get it. The confidence that the guru gave you in the marketing says, Oh, shit, this is the greatest fucking line ever. And you go do it. And it fucking works. Why? It's the emotion behind it. It's the new the exciting. I can't believe I'm saying that. That is what the girls respond to. So before you again, the greatest tools in Europe. Sure, probably written out a little earlier. Sorry. Here we go. Where so there's there's four modalities here. Okay. It's gonna be one, it's gonna be two. I think you guys can be out the rest three and four. Now, there is for the purpose of what we're gonna do. It's gonna be your full masculine, full masculine, kind of like your neutral. You guys think that you guys know where this is gonna go, right? Now, you're full feminine. And this is what I just call like your cool dude. Just like fucking cool. What everybody responds to guys and girls and everything we're going to talk about has everything to do with guys and girls. Girls almost irrelevant. Everybody is just a reflection of yourself. Girls are just the easiest path to kind of show us what we feel in ourselves and who we actually really are and what we perceive for ourselves. So what I like to do on this is kind of first off, are you guys familiar with this? Anything like, you know, tonal is like, you know, you know, feminine, neutral, masculine, stuff like this. A little bit. Okay, so I'm going to give you a little example. This is not just tonality. So many things are going to come out. It's going to be also a little bit of body. It's going to be body language, because your body and your mind find and your emotions finds a way of being congruent. It's kind of like crying and laughing at the same time. It is pretty damn hard. Pretty damn hard. You know, I can be ever cried in a pillow fight. Hopefully not with each other, but same thing. They just can't do it. But you can't really fake it. So just the full feminine does not mean gay. Well, I see a lot of guys. It just means you're acting in accordance of a woman, like what things that make a woman fulfilled and happy. Okay, so you know, much more, much more so than say when we get down to some of the others. Alright, so hi. How are you doing? I'm sorry, is this okay? Okay, what's going on right there? Was it pretty fucking creepy? Yeah, why is it creepy? It's very incongruent. First off with how I project my voice who I am. My body is just kind of who I am. Now what's happening here? It's very incongruent. It's creepy. It's it just doesn't make sense to see a man do that. And that's for everybody here. So what's not congruent about it is what am I doing? Well, you know, raised eyebrows, my voice kind of like trails up a little bit. My body language makes it very congruent. I'm like, Hi, I'm timid. I'm apologetic for who I am. I just know what I'm doing. And what what what did you guys feel? What what did you guys? How'd you want to respond to me? Look at his body language right now. How'd you want to respond? Okay, right there. Okay, so I don't know if you saw you getting played back. This is like, you can't fake this stuff. So he's like, he's just a little bit like this. That's very common. Every time that you guys are going in and talking to girls in any form like this, then you are making yourself feel bad. How'd you guys feel? Yeah, awkward. You are you are creating what I call an inverse relationship. It's a symbiotic relationship. I'm going to explain it. So when I go in feminine, I'm creating like in your your facial expressions and kind of which you are feeling repulsive side creating this same thing. So or or actually, I'm sorry, I take it back. Let me let me let me draw out the brass and then it'll bring it together. Now, neutral is going to be like, Hey guys, how are you doing? You guys having fun? Yeah, you like it? How are they responding? Yeah, I'm like a waiter. I'm like, yeah, in kind. Exactly. That's the act. They responded exactly in kind. There's nothing, you know, there's nothing odd about it. It's like, it's very information. It's almost boring. It's just like, you know, it's just very neutral, very neutral. Now, let's go into a little bit more full masterful. Oh, I'm sorry. This should be full feminine. That was the first one. This is full masculine. So full masculine. Now, this is going to should insight like an emotion inside. This comes from a place of emotion. This is where most guys actually have the most problems. Because they've been operating a certain way in their entire life. And it usually isn't something like this. I say full masculine. She'll almost come from like, you know, a Rambo place. Anger. Just get into that heightened emotion. Just that full commanding the presence, not apologetic, assertive, dominant tonality. Who are you? You like your hair? Do you cut your own hair? Who are you? What about you? Just standing there? Huh? You a mute? Who are you? Kind of a dickhead, too, right? That's what I asked for. Full dickhead. Why? Because if you can tap into that, then you can kind of pull it out. There's a point in our lives when we have to be able to stand up for ourselves, we need to be full dominant. Call it laying the hammer. Time for half measures, talking nice. And so there's tons and you have to lay the hammer. My buddy back there, Roostum. That's what he learned on his second boot camp. It's a big thing. It's time like you play around. There's times you got to lay the hammer. Now it's not like you just full dickhead or anything like that. But it look either way, the full feminine or the full masculine isn't going to work. Either way, they're not going to work. You're going to repel in some way. You want repel, you're going to do whatever. Typically, what happens is I go full feminine. It puts another person into the masculine. So if I'm like, hey, what's going on? Like, who are you? You know, tonality, kind of like what, you know, full masculine is like, who are you? I'm in their fucking, I'm in their, I'm in their shit. That's it. Now, then there's this like kind of like the cool guy operating. Most guys that get in program are usually somewhere around neutral. If they're kind of good, they'll have a little bit of this, a lot more this and you know, depending on dude, a lot of that too, but they usually operate somewhere in here. Cool is bringing it together the full feminine full masculine together goes like this. Hey, what's up guys? How you doing? Good. You guys having a good time? Doesn't even it's content you're relevant. Chairs chairs are cool, right? I love chairs. How about wood? You like wood? It's great, man. That's awesome. Alright, so hard wood. Alright, so what was the difference there? What did you guys say? A lot more likable, right? I love a lot more likable. You have you're mixing in a little bit of the dominant, the full masculine, but you're adding a positivity. It's in the animation. It's, I'm still my tonality is still kind of strong. You respect it, right? Even when I'm full masculine, you might not like me, but you respect me. Man, he's business. But now it's like kind of a cooler dude, somebody who you can actually, you know, relate to, especially, let's put in like the bars and clubs, you know, atmosphere. I have a guys on my program. I'm this guy named Dave. I was like, hey, man, just, you know, get warmed up, talk to this guy over here, see what's up with these guys. What's going on? He's like, he's like, he's like, hey, guys, let's go. Or no, he starts out strong. He's like, hey, guys, what's going on? And they're like, yo, who are you? And he's like, oh, and then he's just like trying to shrivels. Now to some of these like alpha dudes you're gonna meet. You might meet like we speak in kind. It's like cool speaks cool. Nerd speaks nerd. Hot girl speaks, it speaks cool. And it's all in the tonality. It's like talking to a baby. You know, you talk to a baby, they don't understand words. That's why it's like content irrelevant, lines and routine irrelevant. What they're responding to is your emotion. Now you get another guy going back to the dude. Another guy, especially if he's aggressive, dude, sometimes you run into gangsters or want to be gangsters, whatever, I'm hard. And they're going to come up and they're going to keep going. But it's kind of like you got two lines here, you know, you just you kind of feed it back. You're like, he's like, it's like, hey, what's up, dude? He's like, what's up? What are you doing? What are you doing? What's going on? Man, where's the girls? Same tonality, same thing with the positivity, a smile, the animations, you know, engagement. And that's how it is. What we're doing is we're ascertaining value, the value that you have for yourself. So if I'm, I'm like, what's up? He's like, yo, what's up? Nothing. Right away. Typically, it's actually two different ways to usually your eyes start darting, or your voice starts trailing, or it goes into full feminine. Now what I would like, and this is going to be a little bit more exemplary of this, because it's nice for me to come up here and do this. And I'm going to explain a little more, is I would like you guys to come up and do the same thing. Okay. All right. You want to be first? Which one? I want you to go through all of them. This is why, you know, years ago, I came up with a thing called, you know, be your own guru many years ago. And I'm going to, and it was very personal to my late, you know, how I teach my boot camps. I lead guys through my programs through a million agendas. It's not about me imposing my game on you. It's about bringing out your own game. So this is a very exemplary of some of this. And I was like, be your own guru. You guys here in the audience can be the guru of this. Almost you don't even need me, because you're going to know what feels right, what sounds right, what looks right. You know, I get, like I said, these video cameras, like we do it. I remember I was this in Jeff. The first time he saw himself on tape, he's like, shit, that guy's not getting laid. He knew instantly, you guys are going to know, and you're going to know in a second or in October, whenever this is released. Alright, so full feminine. That's the first one. Actually, here, take this, because I want you to feel the brunt of it. Full feminine. Pretty good. Not bad. Try a little more full feminine. You want to kind of like bend in a little bit or anything like that. That would really creep me out, dude. That would be awesome if you do it. I have some guys who are fantastic on this on my program. How does it feel? It feels very strange. Now, the thing is, if this was a bar or a club or even a coffee shop, would you want to pay attention? No. No. You cannot command attention. Now, you start going in cool or full masculine. That commands attention. I'm sorry. That was the other part. Guys, you know, I said eyes, tonality, which is part, you know, and other things, as far as like some of the biggest things, just the basic fundamentals. Why is it so important? Because you have to command the attention. Let's keep going. All right. Full neutral. I'll go more into command attention in a second. Okay. I have to talk to this guy. All right. That's exactly how I'm feeling. I'm just listening to my emotions. You can still be kind of like when you first walked up, dude, I heard your tonality. By the way, can we get the mic here so you can hear what's going on? When you first came up and you were talking to me, that was actually even more neutral. That was great. Come on, just one more time. I just wanted a little bit more. It's just, you can be a little bit louder, you know. Yeah, maybe so some of these guys can hear. Yeah, just neutral. Real normal. Normal conversation. Now, can we just put on a table? Thank you. Hey, guys. How are you tonight? Good. Good. Good. Our thanks. Good. Great neutral. Did you guys hear that? Yeah. I kind of just wanted to naturally respond. Okay. Come in again. Full masculine now, okay? I want your full dickhead on the line. Okay. All right. Lay the hammer. Hey, man. What's with this shirt here? It's like a weird, like your shirt's weird too. It's like, I don't even know. Is that like salmon? Go fuck yourself. What is it? All right. So, I'm just playing, dude. I'm just salmon. Let's see me with my callback humor here. No. All right. So, what'd you guys think? Be the gurus, be the instructors here. What'd you guys think? You could go. This is exactly how everybody, like, when they, until everybody was going, this is how they approach. They don't command their attention up front. Yo, who are you? What's going on? Good. See, you know, he's responding right away. I'm just demonstrating here. Come back in. I want some, I want some full fears. Is that, have you ever gotten in a fight before? No. No. Yeah. Kevin's no. All right. Come on. You're from, you're from Harrisburg. I know you got some brawlers out there. I'm going to bird, man. Stay clear of that. No worries. All right. Come in. Own this. Own this. Come on in. Do it again. Yo, guys. Who are you guys? Hey, next time I want you to try this. Who are you? This is actually, this is a very commanding posture. Just like even the pointing, something like that. You're bringing in kind of clothes. It's good. Eye contact is very critical, too, to engage. Who are you? Who are you? This is all very much like, you know, talking to girls and winging or, you know, engaging bigger groups of, you know, girls. You know, you have to engage them all. And it doesn't have to be much. You're like, boom, boom, boom. Good. I love your dress. Go back on your girl. You know, actually, that's one of the best winging things ever. Like, you're working big groups. Give them a compliment. Give one of the friends. It's like, you kind of shock them. You're not shocking. You just kind of like, like, oh, I like this guy a little bit. And they're just going to let it go. It's one of the best things. I love your necklace, so anyway. Come in. Do you think it was pretty commanding? What else do you think, besides eye contact he was kind of lacking? Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. If anything, square up, right up to him. You know, right up to his knees and butt. Yeah, better. And repeat after me. Who are you? Who are you? Who are you? Who are you? Who are you? Who are you? Alright, good. Alright, come on. Let's try it. Who are you? Who are you? Why are you guys sitting at this table? Why am I not looking? Because I don't even need to see him to feel the emotion. This isn't a tactic. You feel it. Do you guys feel it? You guys feel it? No, no, I mean, would you understand what it feels like? If I'm like, hey, excuse me. I'm commanding. This happens a lot. You're going to command attention. That's what you need. You need to strike to the heart. This is like full anger. Were you pissed off? Were you angry? No. Alright, this is what I want you to do. Once you take like 15, 20 seconds, go over there and I want you to mold in your mind. Just kind of get in that place. You live at home? You do? Now, good relationship with your parents? Alright, pretty good. Okay, let's say we come back, you go back home and your mom is, she found your entire porn collection. She's rifled through everything. Everything's on the floor. What is this pick up artistry stuff? I did not raise you to be like this. Now would you that make you pretty pissed? Yeah. Yeah, I want you to get into that. What have you ever been picked on? Yeah. Okay, how'd you feel? Pissed. Alright, I want you to go into that moment. I want you to stay over there. Buy yourself, get inside a moment. And when you get there, when you feel that emotion inside, I want you to come at us like it's that man on the playground, that kid in the playground whoever was pissing you off. And I want you to engage us like that. Alright, close your eyes, just get in your place. Yeah, dude, who the fuck are you? Like, seriously, who are you? Better, right? It's definitely some work, but of course, most guys do need to work on this. Very good. Very good. Appreciate it. Wait, now come in the final one. What we're doing is we're bringing in more of the feminine, or actually, I'm sorry, not the feminine. We are bringing in the masculine, that full masculine, but we're just adding positivity. And the positivity is nothing more than a smile, strong eye contact, a smile and good animation. Hey, what's up guys? You having a good time? Just like that. Okay, so come in, just bring in cool guy, you know? Bring it. Hey guys, what's up? Yo, my name is Richard. Did you guys catch that game last night? Need some more. Smile more and bring back the anger. Bring back, bring back the fury. The fury, not the anger, because it's not anger, really. It's just, yeah, the intensity, exactly, and try and get back into that emotion. Why is this important? I mean, when you're, when you're approaching these girls and you're talking to these girls, you have no idea who they are. Especially if you talked and hooked up with a lot of girls. Man, you've seen a lot of shit. I'm, this isn't even nice. Probably don't even want this on, I just remember one time in LA, and this one girl I met in the club with my buddy Todd, who was an instructor at the time, he, we're talking to this one girl, I think of Red Rock or someone Sunset, and she's like, yeah, I'm all, I'm all for FHM. I was like, oh, that was a good week. Oh, what else do you do? It's like paper tigers, you know, you just want to see what they're, they stand up to. I'm not interested in just an asshole. I'm just like, I'm playing around, it was kind of probably dick, but you know, she runs out of crying and stuff like that. The thing is, you just kind of want to know what kind of makeup they are, and you know, that girl was, you know, she had some issues. I remember just at the end of the night, of course, Todd, right after I said that, I'm having my own fun, man, it's, you know, sometimes you just kind of get that way. And Todd, he's like, he's like, he sees the opportunity, he's like, oh, I'm sorry for my buddy. He plays that. But I do remember at the end of the night, seeing her running out of the club, like crying like, guys, you're dickheads, and it wasn't me, because my interaction was only a few minutes long. I wasn't even trying to make it happen. I was like, you know, whatever. I mean, I like playboy models. I'm not going to call for myself. Go on, go on. Yo, guys, what's up, yo? My name is Richard. Good positivity. We got to work on the dominance here, okay? Just bringing that hammer. Repeat after me. Yo! Yo! Yo! Better. Louder is always the same thing, but sometimes it brings out the emotion. Hey! No, just hey! Hey! Good. That's actually pretty good. That can command some attention. So I don't need to see it, because I just can feel the emotions come from. Oh my god! Oh my god! Look! Look! See? See? Hey! Hey! Good. Who are you? Who are you? Good, good, good. Okay, good, good, good. What I was just doing is actually a buddy pointing out to me is like, hey dude, you know how to, like, call them like, you can see you learn a lot of NLP. He's like, those are pattern interrupts that I do. And I was like, I started to come up the list. I was like, oh man, yeah. For like dominance and threads and cutting threads, like, you know. So anyway, that's one. Hey! That's one. Look! So when you're actually talking to some of this stuff, and you know, I'm very purposeful on where I'm going and what I want to do. Whether it be a girl, whatever I'm, you know, whatever I'm doing. Like, I don't, I don't mess around too much. You know, I do it very playfully, of course. Like, I'm very playful dude, but I'm also very dominant and very purposeful, you know. And I cut to the chase. I don't like dancing. So anyway, let me show you just, wow, I'm going to go the little tactical or Jeffy. Oh, I bet you can't do this. Anyway, ah, he knows what it is. Good. It's old school. Yeah. Yeah, that's not coming to me. I cut right to the, right to the chase. It's a time management tool for me, just like what we're going over right now. So those are pattern drops. Somebody's talking about something totally random about my, how my X, you know, you should go on a tangent about our X or, you know, why, you know, you know, why you guys should be friends or just, I don't know, you know. So anyway, this is what I'm about, essentially is what I'm about. So come in with one of those, one of those. Hey guys, I want you to command the attention and the smiling in a positive way. Okay. Hey guys, how's it going? It didn't, it didn't really command my attention. It was a lot better. You guys agree? Yes. Yes. Heaps better from like when it first started. Good. Let's just for time. Let's give him a round of applause real quick. Good. Thank you. And let's mix it up. Let's mix it up. All right. So we're going to start with the full feminine. Yeah. Cool. Good. What's guys do is really well. So you don't need to get in that mode of, why am I so sad? You don't have to do that. You can just come. Well, I guys have fun with it. Hey guys, that's why you sit over here. I was like, I had to meet you guys. What's your names? Let's do it. I want full feminine. Okay. Why is it full? Why do I want full feminine, full dickhead masculine? Why do I want that? Yeah, it's a it's a range of emotion. I want because you know, if you can do the full feminine, then you know where you don't want to be. And if it's like taking like kind of like, you know, the cliche, the pill, the blue pill or red pill, whatever from matrix, whatever. It's like, once you feel it and you feel how awful, how awful did acting full feminine feel? This is really weird. Yeah, you don't want to go back there. I see repetitively a lot of guys doing this. Now, full masculine, how did that feel? That felt better. It felt good. Yeah. At least you felt like you had respect for yourself. Honestly, you, I mean, and guys, you respected the full, the full jerk, you know, more than the full feminine. Now full masculine is because you're acting, you know, just more like a man in his core. You know, but you know, what's, what's unacceptable is the feminine because that is not your role, not who you are. So full feminine, let's hand it up. How are you doing tonight? Good, I like it. Good. Okay. Let's do this. I just want to emphasize a little bit more. So you guys don't even have to think about the word you're using. Let's just talk about rugs. It is content you're relevant because what we're all responding to is just the emotion that he is feeling at the moment. That's what you respond to. That's what women respond to. Okay, so just coming in the neutral rugs, rugs all day, baby, guys get this, my house just got re carpeted and I got two free rugs with it. They match the ceilings. It's awesome. I like you to engage him a little bit more. You know, just not just engage me, but this is a group, you know, I just got back from the rug store and they told me that there was a two for one special. I got one brown rug for the upstairs. Good, good, good. That is fantastic. That was fantastic. Okay, now let's bring the hammer full mask full jerk. I want to hate you. I hate me. Whatever, whatever you feel comfortable with, whatever is best to help you express yourself and do it. Like, I get jacked up on the stuff and I, you know, curse a little bit too. I mean, I mean, this was the fuck's up guys. You have no girls with you. Oh, that's real cool. What the hell are you guys doing in that anyways? Let's, let's, let's talk about rugs. Sorry, guys get this. That's got the most badass rug. The chick digs it. We banged on eight times already. How do you feel? I feel like that was probably weird, but I liked it. How did you feel inside doing it? I felt kind of good. Like, yeah, I banged on the rug eight times. You felt now, did you feel strong? Yeah, this makes you feel strong. It makes you feel good. Now, how'd the first one feel? No, it's good. Oh, man, it hurts. Like it really hurts. How did it look the first time to you guys? No, no. Now, now the third one, the full masculine. Did you respect them? Do you like them? Maybe. Yeah. He had a little thing called relating. He's like, oh, thanks for growing a carpet. So yeah, pay a little attention. I would actually need to make it even full more masculine. I would be attacking the dude, you know, because I do kind of want that. But no worries, no worries. It was good. And it's not always louder. Louder is just a byproduct of what you're feeling. It's like, who are you? What are you doing? You might be taller. I'm a little wrestlers online. Yeah, it doesn't, you know, it doesn't always have to be louder. It's just the intensity, emotion, your feeling. And I have to watch out because I really get engaged in the stuff. If you guys need some help on some of the stuff, even like what I'm talking about, there's a fantastic thing called Meisner technique acting. And it's all about expressing emotions in the moment. Com cheap boot camps even. And it's great, fantastic, like emotional training. And, and it is kind of like, you know, almost like acting, especially of these, because you have to be able to turn on and off emotions like this. And it's a big part of what I teach. I teach about being full masculine man purpose. You know, the core fundamentals confidence and like just really hammering the fundamentals game is 80 percent just in those fundamentals. If you're working on all those stuff, then, you know, I can always tell where people are working. Any other part is just mastering emotions. And this is actually part of it because you're teaching how to feel good. Mastering emotion, feeling good at all times, a positive always game. You start acting this stuff, you start feeling good. Start acting like a man, leading, you know, unapologetic, good tonality, good body language, strong eye contact. All this stuff is all part of it about being a leader. And I teach a lot about this. It's about leading. It's what women want. That's what everybody responds to. Really, I think the whole world, including a lot of leading leaders are actually kind of sheep. They're always looking for somebody who's a little bit more certain. How certain did he sound at that last one? All right. So let's bring in the cool. Add positivity. I want to like you, man. Hey, what's up, guys? How you doing tonight? I'm Sean. Good to meet you, man. What's up, dude? All right. What do you guys think? It wasn't bad. It wasn't bad. Maybe come in a little bit more attention, Ralph, the bat and add more positivity. Smile. Smile a little bit more. Animations are fantastic for it, too. Hey, what's up, guys? How you doing over here? Hold on one second. Like, I don't really want to look. I just want to respond emotionally to it. So when you come, when you show up, command my attention and command attention is like, like kind of we said, like, hey, I remember as Orlando last time I spoke at the convention in 2009, I had three students and this was on Sunday. And we're out in the middle of the street. And one of the things about, you know, if you're doing like street game or talking girls in the street is that you're your greatest tool in your arsenal is your voice, whether it be the club or in the street. This is why it's very similar. They were very purposeful. They're going somewhere. So I was like, with the guys were like, hey, excuse me, girl, 30 minutes away. I mean, 30 30 feet away. So walking the street, I guess there's like a geno's pizza or something like that. And girls like she's just walking. She's like, huh? And she runs over to me. That's the power of the voice. Same thing. If you can command the attention and I've got a whole fantastic opener for this, just like start off on the right foot. If you can command the attention, then instead of, you know, approaching 10 girls and one of them like allows you to talk to them, you know, you can open 10 out of 10 times every time. But you have to command the attention first. Petively see it. My favorite thing is like, you know, first, it's your voice, your eye contact. And a tap. Those are probably your three best like in a club. But your voice is absolutely the most important. And it's like babies. Girls are in clubs like talking to babies. Like I'm in I'm in Brazil. I mean, you know, Iceland, Sweden, Switzerland, whatever, whatever country I'm I being they don't speak my language. They respond to my tonality. They're at least, you know, that one story is like resin Florence. Many years before I even got into all this, like, yeah, the girl I just kept on telling her is like I'm from Texas. I'm in Texas, like, like the TV show Dallas. She's like, oh, Dallas. And that's all she knows. I was doing my Spanish at the time. And yeah, and they're poking up with us. Didn't speak any any language, but we spoke the same language of desire and the tone out is like I was just, you know, talking in this masculine and acting as masculine is what I call being a man talking in the feminine is what I call being weird. So some guys have seen some videos out there and it's like, don't be weird. It's not about like, don't be your unique self and like express yourself. It's about what's weird is what we've already experienced. Guys acting not like men. Sometimes you just remove the weirdness. And then all of a sudden you just got a really solid dude and girls like that. We're only making more complicated than it really is. Every single one of you guys come from a long line of closers just to be sitting in your seats right now. We're behind the camera millions of years of closers. Like you guys at your core I have to believe in everybody has to believe that you know what you you got to do. Sometimes about giving that permission, sometimes about leading you to being who you are. There's a lot of bad conditioning. There's good conditioning, bad condition. We all have a lot of bad conditioning. Parents or dad wasn't a pimp or whatever. There's also bad conditioning. You know, if I just get a guy in program who's just like, who's just like, you know, I just saw this site online and I was like, I'm going to sign up for bootcamp. I just broke up my girlfriend or I just got a call. I just got a high school or or you know, I'm just fed up with what results I've got in my life. Usually people come to me in times of change, usually breakups, post college, social circles gone, you know, maybe post high school or post high school or they're just sick of the frustrations. Sorry. My mind. OK, so let's just bring. Oh, just conditioning, conditioning, there's good and bad conditioning. Good conditioning is about getting a good game plan that's going to actually keep taking you forward. Keep building confidence. If you're not getting good game, if you're not keep building confidence, you're not getting a good game plan. There's things I called bad conditioning. It's not just from your parents. If it was just social conditioning is a problem, my job would be infinity leisure anymore. Some of my the for a long time, some of the biggest problems that I've had is like what I call like my bad pickup conditioning and it's man, David Gingel said I need to be stick my cock out and do this and girls are going to look at my cock, you know. All right, you know, so much like how many guys go out to clubs and it's like I've got to approach 30 girls. If I hang out with my buddies, I have to be talking to girls at all times. So much bad conditioning, you know, like sometimes just removing the weird. It's understandable. You have to practice and you want to work on some stuff. A lot of guys like, you know, that marketing they just make it their identity and I make it very simple. So bring the cool. Show you who you are good. Hey, we're all ladies tonight, man. This place is usually possibly smile. Smile. Yeah. Like it's going to come off. It's good. It's everybody's going to know. Hey, guys, where are all the ladies at tonight, man? This place is dead. It's usually pop tables or chairs, whatever. Dude, much better. That smile made a huge difference with you. You guys, do you guys feel the emotion? Yeah, you guys are not even you can't even see what I see, but you guys feel the emotion. I can't see. So you guys can feel it. People respond to emotion. And then that's exactly what you guys are responding to. You know the difference. You guys are not stupid. Girls are stupid. So many people think like girls are stupid. I'm going to technique. I'm going to do this. Girls are so smart. Man, so intuitive. They're so smart. They're not dumb. Like a lot of people think I'm going to pull this move in tactic. They know exactly what it means. In fact, you're approaching, you know, anything less than just, you know, they know exactly what's about. I think Chris Rock out of Grayburn is like, it's like, I want sex, you know, whatever it was. It's like, oh, would you like some dick? Hi, would you like some dick? Chris Rock has some great stuff. Friendzone. So OK, that was fantastic. Thanks, both of you guys. I appreciate your help. Give him a round of applause. Thanks, guys. All right, I appreciate it. Now, one thing that's really common too, and if we were seeing it, I might see. I'm going back to this. There is a symbiotic relationship here. OK, usually if I am like, hey, what's up, guys? You guys having fun? Your natural emotional response is going to be is to be like to move back into the masculine. It's going as a symbolic relationship right here. So if I'm trying, if I'm trying to gain rapport with you, which is what feminine is, you are putting a girl in a bar and a club into what? The masculine. You are making her be the man to be a man, to feel like a man. I tell you what, just like him, just like what we just see him, just like what just like what we just saw here. It feels good to be a man. I don't apologize. I mean, it doesn't mean be a jerk or anything like that, but it just it feels best to be right here. This is what to be like and all that. I mean, you want to be like, but you want to have respect for yourself and display that you have kind of like respect for yourself and values. You know, just the cool. Be the cool. Now, if you're putting a woman by talking full feminine, you're putting her into a full masculine. That's how, hey, I just had to meet you guys. Hi. You know, dude, in silly. Who are you? I mean, you're not glorifying anybody here. You're making yourself feel bad, make them feel bad. So it's not the full jerk or anything like that, but definitely needs to be working on it. Almost everybody needs some tweaks and learn who talks like this. Leaders, you know, it just look at politicians. Fantastic eye contact. Their content always irrelevant. They have to have array of like some sort of aura of certainty. They're not like, I think we should do this. Think about doctors. Doctors are fantastic. Damn, shoulder surgery back in 2008 for torn labor and stuff like that. I was the worst thing I ever did. Doctor will never nobody in my life had ever made me feel so silly. It was like, no, or so just speechless, so certain. This is what we need to do is we're going. I'm like, they're OK. I was like that. I like kind of met my maximum man was about my best look my best interest. But yeah, the full full masculine, make yourself feel good, make her feel good. Really, that is the name of the game. It's about two glorified souls feeling good. And and I like you. You know, she likes me. It's not about pumping her state or pumping her. You know, it's like it's just like a big love fest. Love yourself and love the world around you. I think kind of sums up a lot of game. My little things. Yeah, commanding. It's coming up to me. Everybody. Hey. Oh, my Aussies in the group. Look, see, hey. Oh, my God. That's when that's what girls do. Oh, my God, but it works. Now you're going to know exactly when, you know, you're about to be led. Oh, some other little ones. Uh, sorry. Odd IT. Here. Listen. Hey, oh, my God, wait. Oh, there's so many go on. And you're going to start picking up too. It's like, oh, just led that in conversation, leading the direction you want purpose, goal, glory, you know. So other things. When I am talking full masculine or I'm cool, I am actually eliciting a response to core like, who are you? They're like, uh, I'm, I'm, I'm Joe or whatever. I'm eliciting a response. What is that? That's investment. You know, investment is a very slippery slope. It starts a little thing. So we'll prostitutes don't get tricked out overnight. Smokers and, uh, you know, drinkers and alcohol. It's don't turn into overnight. Don't become a heroin junkie. I guess overnight. It's a slippery slope. And so is investment. Investment. I can talk about that forever as well is, is very, very important. Um, but let's, let's stick to this. Now it's also kind of qualifying. I guess you're going to put it that way. Who are you? You know, who, what are you doing? You know, whatever. So repeat after me. Repeat after me. Some standard ones that I've, you know, just a little exercises. Where are you from? Where are you from? Let's add a little bit of a pattern interrupt. Hey, let me finish. Hey, where do you work? Where do you go to school? Cool. Good, good. Hey, are you all nerds? Where's your Wii? Where's your Wii? Shuffle the reverse. Oh, yeah. Hey, you guys causing trouble? You might notice that there's two different ways. It's not just like the hard breaking or even like with the positivity. There's also a suspicious tone to it as well. It's like, you ever had a threesome? You know, and when I like asking, I was like, Hey, so when was the first time you knew you were bisexual? You know, same thing. Yeah. And, you know, hey, do you have a boyfriend? This is just like old school. Hey, you have a boyfriend? I'm not asking you literally. Yeah. Yeah, follow up with me. Hey, do you have a boyfriend? How many people here thought I was actually asking no question? Yeah. Here's where it all belongs in the conversation, too. If you're going to go like you have to command the attention at first. You know, this is kind of like an interaction, you know, at first you have to command the attention. You don't command attention. You have nothing. Hey, what's up guys? Just keep walking by. They're done. You have to command attention. Hear me roar. This is who I am. What's up? Better animation is great. You know, it's really good because it's going to lead into like mid game because the mid game is all about engagement to me. Just engagement. So you're going to start maybe, you know, you want to command attention a little bit stronger. Then you kind of like, you know, you chill out a little bit. You can go into like the neutrals and stuff like that. And over some, you know, you want to lay a little bit of hammer just to let her know, you know, you have a dick. That's kind of what I say that you don't have a vagina, you know, you know, just kind of keep spice it up a little bit, like it's just natural ADD. That's what I like. It's just like, you know, I take a guy who has ADD, teach him how to lead. Man, it's a rock star. Okay, I remember Boston at my time, like talking to these Japanese girls and they're very like, hey, Japanese girls like to make out. It's like sometimes you like, oh, repeat after me. Hey, do Austin girls like to make out or anytime I travel overseas and I was like, yeah, I'm from Texas or from America. Do sweets girls like to make out? It's like, yeah, I'm just laying the challenge down. That's how I'm like, oh, yeah, just kind of laying let them know like how my desire and what I'm thinking to and what some of they are too. So anyway, I'm here in Austin, Texas. How am I doing on time? I'm here in Austin, Texas. And visit my website, NathanDating.com. It's going to be powerful. I'm putting pretty much everything out. I've kind of laid low for quite a few years because of kind of some of the things about the market. I didn't quite agree with, but right now it's really out there spread to the you know, to the benefit of the world. And that's exactly my point. Um, you know, what's the point about marketing? You've got to back shit up. And that's exactly how I do. Like I am what I am. I do what I mean. I mean what I say. I back it up. But yeah, I'm just going to be giving out free value. NathanDating.com here in Austin, Texas. Come visit me on bootcamp. It's fantastic. It's a small market. So actually when I'm here in Austin, when I'm not traveling, actually keep it to 201, 201. So it's very personal. I have like two, two or three assistants always with me. Life long type friends, crew members, resurrection crew. That's what we call them. Come in on Sunday, Friday and bring in your negative beliefs, your excuses, your, you know, who you know, who you think that you're not. And then we crush that. And on Sunday, we resurrect the hero you're meant to be. But thank you guys very much for having me here. I appreciate all the love and all the, you know, the demonstrations and everything. So thank you.