 And then another issue for women is getting into abusive relationships. That's a big problem. Yeah, it's a very, very big problem. Yeah, you know, and I basically, um, okay, I'm not saying a path I've chosen is the right path, but I'm celibate and I put everything into work. So now I'm not saying that's a path for everybody. Mm hmm. I, um, I do a lot of work around socializing and relationships and my in my online work. And I do I do agree with you like there is a lot of there's a lot of abuse when when autistic people um, date, neurotypical people because we don't we don't have that sort of inherent sense. Um, for people, you know, some sometimes we we put too much weight on people's words rather than their actions and um, you know, what what what they say to us, you know, if they say, right, okay, this is not how it is. This is this is how it is when it could be something completely different. And one thing that I have noticed in particularly in my relationships that I'm very vulnerable to people who don't have the best intentions, who don't have the the most healthy healthy sort of view of relationships, you know, and there's a lot of infantilizing that goes along, you know, like being treated like a child because you have a different communication style. Well, I've seen that too. I realize there's things in my life that other people do like I listened to songs on the radio. And I started calculating calculating how much of those about relationships and love over half of all the songs. It's true, isn't it? It gets on my nerves. But I don't care. I like 60s music. I don't care if I listen to the 60s station, listen to country Western, listen to the 70s. I get serious XM 70 station. And I've got to thinking about that relatively recently actually that the vast number of songs is about relationships. Now there's some songs about work. I actually like those songs better. Or abstract ideas or, you know, or but it's there. I realize that there's a part of life that I don't experience. And I've replaced intellectual complexity for emotional complexity. Maybe that's the best way to put it. You know, intellectual complexity for emotional complexity because I'm emotionally real simple. Get scary easily. I get, I have a can't lonely task where I try to avoid those situations.