 This is the narcissist the narcissist loves it But all of your attention is on them when you're constantly thinking about them When you're constantly worrying about them You're worrying about what they're going to do next the narcissist loves that That is exactly what they want They want you to be worrying. They don't want you to think about what you want to do for yourself About what you want to do to improve your life They don't want you to do that And when you go no contact with the narcissist After you finally had enough Of everything they've done to you that does hurt the narcissist That is a major blow to them They don't like that Because they see it as though you are escaping their control But what will really hurt the narcissist forever is when you no longer make them Significant in your life When they're no longer important When you make yourself More important in your life when you see yourself As a priority over them That will hurt the narcissist forever because as we know Narcissist need attention And not only that but they need to be the center of attention They need everything to revolve around them They have to be number one They have to be the top priority And when you take that away from them And they no longer hold that position in your life They will sense it They will feel it And it will hurt them forever Yes, they may find other sources of supply They may find other people To supply them with what they need But they're always going to remember that time when you rejected them When you didn't make them the center of your world Even if before that you accommodated to them You served them The time when you finally reject them And make yourself more important Make yourself the priority in your life Regardless of what happened before that That moment Is going to be what they remember It's like when you bring things to them That they have done to you All of the times that they hurt you They never seem to remember any of that It's not important to them But what will be important Is when you hurt them And I don't mean intentionally Going out and trying to hurt someone deliberately That's not what I speak about on my channel It's not what I advise But it just happens that you Go into contact and moving on with your life And making yourself the priority Is what hurts these narcissists That's what really gets to them But it is also something that you should be doing You should be focusing on yourself You should be trying to better yourself And improve your life Of course the narcissist may not like it It's very unlikely that they will like it You're not doing it for them It's doing it for you Yes it will hurt the narcissist forever They will hurt them Some of them might come out In a rage Where they're accusing you of something They're blaming you They're trying to sabotage what you've got going on You start smear campaigns They say horrible things about you to people This is how you know that they're hurt They should tell you everything that's going on with them They should tell you all you need to know And also when they go silent That's another sign This is how you know that you have hurt the narcissist And trust them believe that when you go no contact You start focusing on yourself They will feel it It will hurt them If you're looking for revenge That's all you have to do Just forget about them and move on It really is that easy And despite everything they've done to you If you're still walking With your head high And a smile on your face Trust them believe that it is killing them Inside They look at it like Wow After everything I did to try to destroy you You're still able to do what you need to do You're still happy And shocks them You just can't believe it But that's really what you need to do You need to shock the life out of the narcissist By focusing on yourself And improving your life Despite everything they've done If you imagine Like they've just taken a wreck and ball to your house They've done everything they can to destroy it But despite that You still come back And try to build it again brick by brick There's nothing that hears the narcissist more than that Than to see that They can't stop you You just keep getting back up You just keep trying again and again No matter how bad things get No matter what they do to you You just keep trying You never give up And that is The mark of any successful person It's not that things always go right for them It's not that they always win and never lose No, they have to experience failure many times But what separates them from other people Is that they just keep trying They never give up And that needs to be you Never give up No matter what condition you are in right now No matter what you're going through No matter what they did to you Keep trying Don't give in You're stronger than you think you are You can do it You can get over the narcissist You can heal Let this message be your inspiration Let my voice guide you to where you need to be Anyway That's all I've got to say for today I hope that it empowers you That I'd just like to show the beach one more time before I go Thank you all for joining me And I'll talk to you in another video very soon