 Who are you? You like your hair? Do you cut your own hair? Who are you? What about you? Just standing there, huh? You a mute? Who are you? Kind of a dick head too, right? That's what I asked for. Full dick head. Why? Because if you can tap into that, then you can kind of pull it out. There's a point in our lives when we have to be able to stand up for ourselves. We need to be full dominant. Call it laying the hammer. Time for half measures. Talking nice and stuff. There's times when you have to lay the hammer. My buddy back there, Roostum, that's what he learned on his second boot camp. It's a big thing. It's time like when you play around, there's times you gotta lay the hammer. Now it's not like you just full dick head or anything like that. But look, either way, the full feminine or the full masculine isn't gonna work. Either way, they're not gonna work. You're gonna repel in some way. You're gonna repel, you're gonna do whatever. Typically what happens is I go full feminine. It puts another person into the masculine. So if I'm like, hey, what's going on? Like, who are you? Tonality, kind of like what? Full masculine is like, who are you? I'm in their fucking, I'm in their shit. That's it. Now, then there's this like kind of like the cool guy operating. Most guys I get in program are usually, somewhere around neutral. If they're kind of good, they'll have a little bit of this, a lot more of this. And depending on the dude, a lot of that too. But they usually operate somewhere in here. Cool is bringing it together, the full feminine, the full masculine together. Goes like this. Hey, what's up guys? How you doing? Pretty good. You guys having a good time? Doesn't even, it's content you're relevant. Chairs, chairs are cool, right? I love chairs. How about wood? You like wood? Wood's the best. Wood's great, man. That's awesome. Hard wood. All right, so, hard wood. All right, so what was the difference there? What did you guys see? A lot more likable, right? I love a lot more likable. You have, you're mixing in a little bit of the dominant, the full masculine, but you're adding a positivity. It's in the animation. It's, I'm still, my tonality is still kind of strong. You respect it, right? Even when I'm full masculine, you might not like me, but you respect me. Man, me's business. But now it's like kind of a cooler dude, somebody who you can actually, you know, relate to. Especially, let's put it in like the bars and clubs, you know, atmosphere. I have guys on my program. I'm this guy named Dave. I was like, hey man, just, you know, let's get warmed up and talk to this guy over here. See what's up with these guys. What's going on? He's like, he's like, hey guys. Or no, he starts out strong. He's like, hey guys, what's going on? And they're like, yo, who are you? And he's like, oh. And then he's just like, shy shrivels. Now, to some of these like alpha dudes you're gonna meet, you might meet, like, we speak in kind. It's like cool speaks cool, nerd speaks nerd. Hot girl speaks, it speaks cool. And it's all in the tonality. It's like talking to a baby. You know, you talk to a baby, they don't understand words. That's why it's like content irrelevant. It's lines and routine irrelevant. What they're responding to is your emotion. Now you get another guy, going back to the dude. Another guy, especially if he's an aggressive dude. Sometimes you run into gangsters or wanna be gangsters or whatever, I'm hard. And they're gonna come up and they're gonna keep going. But it's kind of like, you got two lines here. You know, you just kind of feed it back. You're like, he's like, hey, what's up dude? He's like, what's up? What are you doing? What are you doing? What's going on? Man, where's the girls? Same tonality, same thing. With the positivity, a smile, the animations, you know, engagement. And that's how it is. What we're doing is we're ascertaining value. The value that you have for yourself. So if I'm, I'm like, what's up? He's like, yo, what's up? Nothing. Right away. Typically it's actually two different ways. Usually it's your eyes start darting or your voice starts trailing or it goes into full feminine. Now what I would like, and this is gonna be a little bit more exemplary of this because it's nice for me to come up here and do this and I'm gonna explain a little bit more. Is I would like you guys to come up and do the same thing? Okay? Okay. All right, you wanna be first? Which one? I want you to go through all of them. This is why, you know, years ago I came up with a thing called Be Your Own Guru. Many years ago. And I'm gonna, and it was very personal to my, how I teach my boot camps. I lead guys through my programs through a million agendas. It's not about me imposing my game on you. It's about bringing out your own game. This is a very exemplary of some of this. And I was like, Be Your Own Guru, you guys here in the audience can't be the guru of this. Almost you don't even need me. Because you're gonna know what feels right, what sounds right, what looks right. You know, I get, like I said, these video cameras. Like we do it. I remember I modeled this in Jeff. The first time he saw himself on tape, he's like, shit, that guy's not getting laid. He knew instantly. You guys are gonna, and you're gonna know in a second or in October, whenever this is released. All right, so full feminine. That's the first one. Actually, here, take this. Cause I want you to feel the brunt of it. Full feminine. Pretty good. Not bad. Now try, try a little more full feminine. You wanna kind of like bend in a little bit or anything like that. That would really creep me out, dude. That would be awesome if you do it. I have some guys who are fantastic on this on my program. How does it feel? Now, the thing is, if this was a bar or a club or even a coffee shop, would you wanna pay attention? No. No. Keep conversing with the person. You cannot command attention. Now you start going in cool or a full masculine. That commands attention. I'm sorry, that was the other part. Guys, I said eyes, tonality, which is part, and other things, as far as some of the biggest things, just the basic fundamentals. Why is it so important? Because you have to command the attention. Let's keep going. All right, full neutral. I'll go more into command attention in a second. Okay. Go ahead and have to talk to this guy. All right, that's exactly how I'm feeling. I'm just listening to my emotions. You can still be kind of like, when you first walked up, dude, I heard your tonality. By the way, can we get the mic here so you can hear what's going on? When you first came up and you were talking to me, that was actually even more neutral. That was great. Come on, just one more time. I just wanted a little bit more. It's just, you can be a little bit louder, you know? Yeah, maybe so some of these guys can hear. Is that a neutral still? Yeah, just neutral. Real normal, normal conversation. Now, can we just put it on the table? Thank you. Are you tonight? Good. Good. Good. Our thanks. Good. Great neutral. Did you guys hear that? Yeah, I kind of just wanted to naturally respond. Okay. Come in again. Full masculine now, okay? I want your full dickhead on the line. Okay. All right. Lay the hammer. Hey man, what's with this shirt here? It's like a weird, like your shirt's weird too. It's like, I don't even know. Is that like salmon? Go fuck yourselves. What is it? What is it? All right, so. I was just playing, dude. I'm just, yeah, salmon. That's gonna be my callback humor here. All right, so what'd you guys think?