 Hi y'all, okay, she was seven. I am doing a video about something silly, some celebrity issues, but it's also for advice for men and women. Okay, everyone has probably seen some of these pictures floating around Facebook and the internet of the singer Sierra who has a young son from a rapper she was married to and she divorced him because he was you know cheating on her and before she married him she knew that he had like a bunch of kids from a bunch of different women okay but she still married him because she was pregnant so she you know she's like well I'll do the right thing. She made friends with all the mothers of the other children. She also you know spent time with his other children as well and you know she thought she was gonna be special because you know I'm a celebrity I'm beautiful I'm Sierra I sing I dance I'm you know I'm gonna be different. Sadly she was not different and he still cheated on her and so she was like you know what I'm too good for this I'm going to divorce you and leave I got my son you know we had a baby together but you have other kids that you know you abandoned and left to and I just can't accept this my standards are just too high for this I just I cannot accept this so I have to go out and find you know or actually I just have to go out and people will find me because I'm Sierra so I met this guy he's a football player and he plays for you know the Seahawks and he's very handsome and he has like way more money than future way more I mean and he looks better and oh my gosh he took me to dinner at the White House I got to meet the president because I upped my standards in the type of men that I deal with because I learned my lesson from dealing with loser man alright I'm just saying what Sierra's probably was thinking I mean Sierra was thinking okay so you know the best revenge on any man who cheated on you and you leave is to upgrade ladies always upgrade never go backwards never go back to the same old man who treated you like crap upgrade upgrade okay so she upgraded to the White House to guy who just got 87 million dollar contract who is cute by the way okay futures her her baby daddy he's all on Twitter being upset that she has his son around a man who actually has time to spend with him because he doesn't have 18 other kids he's mad at another man for stepping in and doing his job that he's supposed to be doing or he was supposed to take seriously and a lot of people are an uproar over this especially man they're like don't take my cute around some God what they're engaged they're gonna be married they say they haven't had sex yet because they're trying to do the right thing and get to know each other before getting emotionally involved sexually involved and all that kind of stuff so they're you know I think they're doing the right thing because laying down having sex with somebody getting pregnant and then having to marry them and their baby mamas and babies kids it's not very smart so she learned her lesson there and she decided to upgrade and you know sustain from getting pregnant before she gets married to someone by not having sex she's taking that option off the table and this guy's actually being a good role model and stepping in and playing the father role to her son who has to share his daddy with a bunch of other kids and women so I don't see anything wrong with that ladies I do think you should upgrade if you are in a situation where the man you're with is dragging you down making you unhappy making you feel less than your worth because your worth is a lot I mean look at look at her she is very beautiful she still got cheated on she had someone's child she still got cheated on when a woman is smart and knows how to choose a man and knows how to upgrade knows how to you know do its best for her and her child that's a smart woman now of course I know people are gonna say well he can cheat on her too he can do this he can do that yeah but he's not some cheesy probably he's not some cheesy habitual baby making rapper who's probably not gonna have a career in about five years you know this guy is gonna have he this guy has serious money that he can invest and have a future in you know and the rapper guy you know he's most rappers are only hot for a minute and then they fall off and you know what happened to them and you know they still got all these kids to support and don't have the money to you know so guys cannot be mad at a woman for taking control of her life and getting her child with what they need a male role model you know a father figure a stepfather they cannot be mad at that women have plenty of options and they don't have to travel far to go find their options their options have been there their options are on backburners if you think unless you're messing with the lowest of the low type of women your woman has options right now even if she's married to you she has options waiting on backburners that's how easy it is for women to replace men we have options because we have standards and when you're not easy to please when you're not easy to get there's always a line behind you when you're in demand you know and I'm not saying that to be conceited or anything I'm just saying that's true if you're if you always mess with men who are losers scum habitual liars and stuff like that no one's gonna be waiting in line for you because they see what your worth is you know no one's gonna be waiting in line for you not gonna have anybody on the back burner because you know you're just not worth it you know if you have higher standards and hope and don't take stuff learn from your mistakes move on upgrade yes you have options that's why I say it's so important for women to have standards don't try to go by what more morals society forces on women to have to be considered a good woman because a good woman is a smart woman okay a good woman it's not a woman that's gonna stand by a loser's side until he drags her and her children now and her future generations down that's a dumb woman it might look like a good woman and some people's eyes but it's a stupid woman in my eyes okay because if my mom had a done that I would not be where I am today I would probably be somewhere broke poor living in a bad environment repeating her cycle okay so yes it's not about being a morally good woman to some loser guy no it's about being a smart woman who's looking out for her future generations that's what it's about and I applaud Sierra for upgrading on a loser and giving her son what he needs a dad I mean no one had a problem when she was posing and taking pictures with all his baby mama and kids because they were okay with it the moms know the moms were like oh yeah you know when he falls off because he's a rapper and he's not even that great of a rapper when he falls off of his career and he's no longer making music well we still have Sierra to support us because she's getting ready to marry him so that means more money you know they weren't they didn't care about they weren't jealous because they knew but his his career is limited and hers might be too but now that she's upgraded to a man with money 87 million dollars plus I mean that's just one contract you know she can retire tomorrow and live happily ever after for the rest of her life you know you have to understand that women have to upgrade they can't go backwards in life men they go backwards they leave the country they try to do they try every which way but just being right okay they try every which way to escape responsibility and being a decent person and a decent father they try to escape every way except for just doing the right thing you know I mean how many how many times can you make a mistake and not learn from it I mean that's insanity so ladies yes you have your options you can always upgrade you can do better there's another man waiting around the corner that will make your life even better if I had a stuck with my ex-boyfriend the guy I was with before I met my husband and just say oh I'm gonna be a good woman I'm gonna support him I'm gonna have his back I would be living in some crack apartments okay I would be living in apartments where people so crack on the corner okay that's where I'd be living if I was a morally good woman but since I have standards in a brain and I want to do certain things in my life I I said you know what this is not for me okay I I didn't even live like that growing up so why would I accept that you know why would I accept that from a man just because I want to be a morally good woman no if you can't if you can't give me better than my mom and my my dad my stepdad gave me as a child as a teenager then I can't have anything to do with you you know and I know that's snobbish and I know that's wrong but we're supposed to be going forward in life not backwards and the partners that we choose determine our future generations so ladies gentlemen get your stuff together stop accepting lame excuses from these guys that oh I need me a good woman or he's a simp yeah he's a simp whatever a simp means to you know what men who use the word simp are usually broke I'm just gonna say it men who use the word simp cannot afford the woman that they want so they just label the men who can simps but that simp is happy that simp has food on his table every night that simp has sex that simp has a beautiful woman that every other man want but couldn't afford and get okay that simp has a life you wish you had okay that simp doesn't have to go to other foreign countries looking for sex okay so thumbs up if you agree with me ladies man if you don't already know you're gonna comment anyway just try to keep it decent because a YouTube blocks comments that are ignorant and full of profanity so it doesn't get shown anyway so try to keep it you know try to use vocabulary that you actually can consider English language you know instead of profanity you know they say a lot of people that use profanity lack in vocabulary so let's see how good you can do without calling people out of their name and using vocabulary that is inappropriate okay let's see how smart you really are thanks for watching bye bye