 Let me ask you a question, as a married man and both of y'all, like in your marriage, give me an example of a time where you realize that you made the right choice. Yeah, we on boss talk one on one, one on one. Yeah, we gon' talk. So, I know you were talking about black women and so forth. First of all, let me introduce Money Moses. Money Moses, we ain't gon' let this nigga pull off. And you ain't even been on the show, nigga. You ain't been on the show, nigga. Don't worry about that. You ain't gone for a minute. Yeah, I been taking time to myself. Oh, okay, you been listenin' at the end of you, nigga. I ain't been listenin' at the end, but I understand what he was sayin', bro, you gotta put the phone down. Oh, yeah? Yeah, man, you crazy, bro. Yeah, I know, nigga, he ain't got no phone to this day. He don't have no cell phone. You gotta catch him at the house. No word. Yeah, we got out. He ain't been to jail. No? He ain't been to jail? No, he ain't been to jail. He just don't know why you don't just phone. I just don't know he been to jail. He ain't got no phone. He ain't been to jail. I was just talkin' about him today. It's crazy, just you gotta catch him at the house. If you don't catch him at the house, you don't catch him. I feel him. That's old school. You know that, don't you? Yeah, you gotta leave a message. Man, so Money Moses, what's up? Do you know anything about 85 South when Carlos called you out last time on here? When he said you was mad, Moses? I wasn't, what you got to say? I wasn't mad back then. I told him I put my phone down, bro. I ain't mad, nothing like that. I thought it was a woman that was making you mad about the phone. Yeah, cause she blocked on everything, the ledee, can't text me, none of that stuff. One time I know she callin' when it's like a, no call ID. No, it's not. Nah, you just assume it's her, nigga. Nah, nah, nah, nah. You're gonna say it's her, and it's gonna get paid for that contract with her. I don't hear nothin', I don't hear nothin' at all. My name ain't no nothin', so they can't call me. Man, what's goin' on? What you got from him, Miss Lady? No, you were talkin' about Black women earlier. So I remember listenin' to an interview that you were in and you were sayin' something about you've never dated a white girl? Mm-mm. Ever? No, no. I ain't never been around them to date them. You know what I'm sayin'? I grew up in D.C., there were no white girls in D.C., like when I went to North Carolina and said that nigga was like, nigga, you ain't never, nigga, never? Like, no, nigga, nah, I never have, no. Never got one. No, no, no, no, man. And I just, you know, I don't see nothin' wrong with it. I don't judge nobody, but I just love Black women, man. That's real. I love Black women, like, and the things that make, in my, that I've asked from the men that I've talked to that don't like Black women or don't date or marry women of the opposite race, if you will, the things that they tell me that made them do that is shit that don't bother me at all about Black women because of the way that I was raised. Like, I was raised around some of the strongest Black women that ever, in my opinion. Wait a minute, so you sayin' niggas weak cause they can't deal with a Black woman? I'm not sayin' they weak. I'm just sayin' that the things that they say are the deal breakers, aren't deal breakers for me. Give me one example of it. I knew that would come. Just, you know, having to be responsible to one, like, in regards to being held to your word, you know what I mean? And not being allowed to do certain things. It's certain things that you can get away with from a woman that don't know no better. But a Black woman is not gonna stand for certain shit from a Black man and she's gonna challenge you on that. But I think a lot of that comes from niggas not being who they say they are. I really am who I say I am. So I don't mind you challenging me on who I say I am cause I am that, so therefore it won't be a problem. I'm just, if I have to re-remind you of who I am, that's not a problem for me. So that's just one example, you know what I'm sayin'? And it's just, you know, I love Black women, man. You know what I mean? No disrespect to nobody else, but I love Black women. I mean, you both, man. Yeah, you got it going down. You got a hell of a woman, you know what I mean? More than 20 years, man. You know what I mean? Jamaica ain't got you one. Yeah, well, everybody say that, you know, but she came over here, her brother didn't have over it. Yeah, she came and found you. You know God sent her to me. Don't make it seem like she needed a green card, nigga. I'm God sent her to me, man. You lucky to have this woman. I'm blessed, I don't even believe in a woman, nigga. Yeah, yeah, you definitely are. This is her, this is one of the luck, like I said, that's the reason I'm here, man. Man, listen, nigga. If you ask me to do that, she's gonna be like, hey, man, hey, man, uh. Listen, I see you. Hey, man, I'm a hollet you Black man. I've seen you, man. When you showed us love at the show, man, thank you so much, man. I have no problem, man, and I respect that. Even though I don't, you know, I have no desire to ever be married or in a relationship, I respect relationships that I see. Don't worry about it. No, no, no, no, no, we need to go into that. Well, no, we don't wanna wait. We don't wanna wait. We don't wanna wait. We don't wanna wait. We don't wanna wait. But I respect relationships, even though I don't have a desire to be in one, I respect the ones that I see that I can tell are stern, you know what I mean? And what I mean by stern is that from the way that y'all interact and communicate with each other, I see that one of the most important aspects of any relationship to communication is present and active amongst you too. And that's something that I think that you guys are given to the people that you might not even recognize that you're given in regards to the importance of communication because that's the biggest deal breaker in relationships, you know what I mean? It's like finances and fucking, but those two things are driven by the communication, you know what I'm saying? They are driven by the communication. So when I see two people that communicate in the way that I've seen y'all communicate outside of when the camera's on, just in my space and how y'all interact, it's like bravo because it's possible to really have a relationship that lasts. I'm not saying that people think that when I say that, that means that I'm against it. I'm not against it, but I'm just against the bullshit that people are doing out here. If you're not really willing to communicate until you're a woman, the truth, that's my perspective. There's no woman that I can have and stand in front of God and the pastor and listen to Brian McNeist songs and say, tell Def do us part. If I can't be who I truly am in front of you, I don't understand how niggas can be a real nigga everywhere but in their house. That's so real. But I posted something on threads today and I said, I can't read your mind. You have to say what you need and then I can fulfill your need. You understand what I mean? But that's the thing, I'm glad that you said that because as a man, in my opinion, we have the responsibility of being honest about what our needs are and the biggest problem that we have is the fear of taking the ill. That's something that I have learned to accept with grace because I'm gonna tell you what it is with me from the beginning and it's kind of like a disarming technique if you will because all this shit that you gonna look at me and think is bullshit about me, I'm gonna tell you is active right now. You're not gonna be the only woman that I deal with. Period, ever. I have no desire to do that and it's not just about sex. It doesn't have anything to do with me putting my dick into another woman. Sometimes I just wanna be in the presence of some different women and I'm gonna do that because that makes me happy. So if that makes you unhappy, I'm not the nigga you need to be dealing with. So is that your major problem? No, it's not a problem. It's just the way that I communicate, you know what I'm saying? No, no, not a major problem as in your part. I'm talking the females that you encounter, is that one of their major problem? Oh for sure, like because you know we are, you know it's what you raise to believe. You know what I mean? And that's something that I always find funny is that we will question everything but the sanctity of male-female interaction, you know what I mean is people are questioning God and religion and government and all that but when it comes to the way that a man is supposed to interact with a woman, the only way it's supposed to look is the way you've been told it was supposed to look growing up and I disagree. Everybody is different and you just better hope you find somebody who's true about whatever it is that they differences are. Would you have a problem with her having a lot of male friends? No, I don't give a fuck about none of that. That's the thing, I just was saying this the other day, like I don't have, I was, I have a different perspective. I was raised around a lot of different things, you know what I'm saying? And I say this, it might sound like a joke but I'm being serious, I love hoes. Like real hoes, like women that are hoes because they're the honest women. And if you are willing, if they respect you enough to give you real game, they give you the reality of how a woman's mind works in a lot of ways that we as men will never get because y'all are so much better at dealing with your emotions than we are. Whether it be being honest about it or hiding the shit, you way better at emotions than we are. So just being able to get the game that I've got from the women that I've got, like if you don't wake up in the morning and wash your pussy, it don't belong to you, it's yours. So my job is never to control what you do with it. My job is to be the best version of myself that I can be so whatever you decide to do with it is beneficial when I show up. But outside of that, do what you do as long as whatever you do, when I'm not around don't bring me no problems when I am around, have at it. Because I can care less about that. I'm not pussy to me is the least valuable thing on a woman. I think that's relating to honesty. I think that's something that, that's how relationships work as well. To be honest with you, if you're gonna stay with somebody, you gotta be straight up with them about what you're gonna be able to put up with or what you're not gonna be able to put up with. And if you choose to do it with one, you got people that do it all counter ways. Well let me ask you a question as a married man and both of y'all, like in your marriage, give me an example of a time where you realize that you made the right choice. Because I think that's something that's not discussed enough. Like that moment where it was, where you realize, okay, this really the person I'm supposed to be with for the rest of my life. I think mine was more, well I met her, I already knew it, you know what I mean? So. I mean the outside of that, see that's what I mean, that you get that answer all the time, but I'm talking about how long y'all been married? 20 years. In that 20 years, outside of what you knew, when you had it confirmed, like when was that moment? That's been for me several times, you know, and the reason I say that because of the kids and just it's all type of different things that happen through the course of us being together. The way she interacted with my kids, I got two kids before I even had my children by her and the way she interacted with them, that was something that was important. You got a daughter, so if you had somebody that mesmerized you when they met your daughter and they treated her better or just the same as you did, that's not easy to find. Most people don't even wanna put up with your damn kids. You know what I'm saying? Everybody's versatile. So to see how she interacted with them and the way they received her, that was an eye opener because I had been, I was single, so I was dating and I was bringing girls around and they was not trying to hear none of that. But I love my kids because I had just, I've been through some stuff, but when they met her, it was dope. And then to have my kids by her, those were other pretty much great moments where I never forget those times that my children was brought in. The way she have taken care of us, that's, those are big factors, just the way she always cooking, always cleaning, always, you know, I really did battle with the kids, I believe, cause she didn't really go in there with them. She just be like, I'll go whatever. She trusted them. You know, me, I'm like, you need to check on them from time to little, but she had a way of dealing with them no matter what they learned on their own and I always valued that too. So there are several different things that has to do with family that make me, reconfirms every day, I'm with the right one. And that's the reason why I ask, because that level of confirmation is something that I think people negate in relationships in regards to the conversations that I have, the daily confirmations and affirmations that you got to provide to a person that you said you dedicated your life to. Because in my opinion, the reason people get divorced so much in this country is because you don't have to get divorced the same way you get married. And what I mean by that is if everybody that got an invitation to your wedding automatically gets to come and you gotta throw a whole another ceremony where they get to come and sit in court and listen to y'all tell each other why you can't wait to get the fuck away from each other. And then y'all gotta have a divorce reception like y'all did, a wedding reception and how you came out to your first song, what's your first song you gonna play when you getting away from this bitch? That's twisted. You know what I mean? But by just saying, it's just those things that you get to hide behind in regards to the glory and the veil of, oh, I found my life partner and then you just get to show up with the ring off and be like, yeah, shit ain't work out. Are you here only one side of it because I've known people who get divorced and they go through a divorce party because nowadays they're doing parties for everything. Yeah, but there's the same people that came into it with them. But even if that was, you're still only hearing one side of the story. You understand? Because both parties are not at that party to hear both sides. Because my philosophy with all of this stuff is always there's three sides to a story. There is your side, my side, and the truth. And the reason why I'm saying that, people don't understand that, I used to always say that as a kid, but as you get older, you get wiser. And it's not that you're telling a lie or I'm telling a lie, but we have different perspective of what transpired. Yeah, I say it all the time. I have those conversations with women that I deal with all the time, like just in regards to the general interaction, like if I'm looking at you right here and somebody's standing behind you looking at you and we both giving descriptions of what we see, we're describing the same thing, but it's gonna be two totally different descriptions that we're giving. That's real. So how do you get to a point where we, either I need to come around to your side or you need to come around to my side. But if we keep trying to describe it from where we're looking, we ain't gonna never get nowhere. That's so true.