 You may never hear this about the narcissist in another video. This is something you may never hear in another video. It's something that you may not want to accept. But it's the truth. And it's something that you need to recognize. Many videos about narcissists on YouTube talk about how important you are to the narcissist. But the truth is, you're really not that important to them. You're not that significant. It's an illusion. They're giving you a deceptive appearance. They're giving you a false impression. You may be in a relationship with a narcissist. And you may think you mean something to them. You think you're something significant, but it's just an illusion. You will never be anything important to them. Because they just see you as something temporary. They see you as something that serves them for a limited time. Something to sustain their existence. You're just a toy to the narcissist. And eventually they get bored of the toy. They no longer take care of it. They no longer give it any attention. They just forget about it. Because it no longer has the same effect on them. It no longer excites them. They're not that interested in you. Because the narcissist is constantly distracted by other things. They're always looking for the bigger, better deal. The next shiny new toy. Which is why they give other people more intention. Than they give to you. They treat other people a lot better. They always treat the people closest to them the worst. Because it's very easy to get rid of them. It's very easy to insult them and put them down. Because you no longer have any use to them. Which is why they feel like it's so easy to replace you. Because now they're so familiar to you. That it feels normal and usual. They're comfortable with you. They don't regard or treat you as more important than other people. They can replace you just like anyone else. Because they see you as something temporary. They're not planning to keep you around for a long time. At some point they know they're going to get bored of you. Or that you're going to figure them out. And that is why they don't put much effort into you. Because they already know you're not going to be around for a long time. And they don't feel any need to change that themselves. So they have to find someone else. They can't help themselves. They have a compulsive desire for excitement and adventure. They need constant attention. They need to have something new. They need constant praise and admiration. Because they enjoy the effect that it has on them. It makes them feel better about themselves. So they have to keep trying to find something newer and better. Which means that whoever is with them is destined to be discarded at some point. Which is why you should never think that you are anything significant to the narcissist. You should never think that any of the times you shared was something significant. But this is something that is very difficult for most people to comprehend. Because you might think that after everything you did for them. After everything you put up with. How could it not mean anything to the narcissist? But it didn't mean anything. You would just stay substitute for the next person. To give them what they need. To make them feel better about themselves. To make them feel alive. They need to have different people to make them feel like they exist. The only reason why they will stay with someone for a long period of time. Is because that person is still giving them what they need. And they are willing to put up with the abuse. But even when they are with one person. They will have other relationships on the side. They cannot survive without having multiple relationships at the same time. Because they are addicted to people. They are addicted to the attention they get from them. So you were never anything significant to the narcissist. You were never the only one in their lives. It was never something exclusive. It wasn't restricted to you and only you. You shared them with other people the entire time. They never belonged to you. They were never yours. You never had anything. So you never lost anything. You were just wasting your time with a narcissist. Because you were expected to have something meaningful. You thought you had something that was worth investing in. But you were just wasting your time. Because you were just a substitute for someone else. If someone is really committed to you. They are going to be careful not to inconvenience or harm you. They are going to be considerate of you. But narcissists are very immature. They don't want to talk about anything deep or meaningful. They don't want to solve problems. If someone really cares about you. They are not going to let something get blown out of proportion. They are not going to let it go too far. But the narcissist will. And then they will come back like nothing happened. But if you were so significant and important to them. And they really valued you. They wouldn't let it go that far. And that is how you should know. That you're not significant to the narcissist. You're not important. You may think that you've worked hard in yourself. And you should be worthy of appreciation and respect. But for the narcissist. This isn't their first rodeo. They've been around the block a few times. They've experienced this before. They've seen people rise and fall. So you're just another brick in the wall. You're not special to the narcissist. You don't really mean anything to them. But you could be special to someone else. You could mean something to someone else. Someone who recognizes what it took for you. To become who you are. Someone who understands your worth. Because a person like that. Is not going to mistreat you. And they're not going to let you go so easily. Thank you for watching. I hope this video resonate with you. Please like. Comment. Share. And subscribe. If you would like to donate. 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