 Hey you guys, how you guys doing girl? It's time for another chit chat. It has been a busy February or we in February child. We're back to be in March like in a Fortnite. Sorry y'all. I've been watching way too much House of the dragon. We're gonna get into a girl. So it is a lot going on I know how we do this with this chit chat video I talk about what's going on my personal life when I watch on my YouTube what I'm watching on TV So y'all while we're doing this actual chit chat, I have a new product line I'm going to be reviewing for y'all. This is coming up like in a few more days. So be patient. This is the dude I've been on this product for years and at first I was like it's a little pricey But I got extra coin and so I went ahead and purchased a leave it and a styling product and right now I'm gonna do it just a basic twist out girl. So, yeah, I know how we do this. Let's go into my personal life My husband was here for two weeks and girl. He left he left and I was a little I was in my feelings and you know It's good to have a mama that gives it to you rod and others My mama's like, you know, he's doing what he's supposed to do as a man. He's providing so let him provide So I'm like you're right mama. You're right. You're right. So he was here for two weeks We enjoyed him and he went back about three days ago And he's gonna come back though. He's gonna come back for spring break in this like in three more weeks And then we're gonna go up there when he comes back for the summertime. So, yeah, we enjoyed him when he was here So you guys in February, I'm doing good, I'm staying track on my goals for the for the actual quarter and I feel very very good about it. I really do so, you know I've had another video on how I actually go about You know setting my goals and achieving my goals and I felt a certain type of way ever since COVID that I wasn't I wasn't I felt like for me. I wasn't accomplished a lot this year already I just got it, you know, just be consistent, right? Just be consistent girl. Look at that man Yeah, look at that man. Um, so Wilson's going to a child right now. My niece is here and her baby is here. I Girl I Am so tired y'all y'all do remember keep in mind I mean, I haven't had been around a baby like this consistently in days In years and she's active because she just started walking I'm gonna put a video down here so y'all can see her. She is so Petite like she is so she's short and she's little like I keep telling my niece I'm like JB was the size at six months. She's like really I said, yeah, but my baby was a ham He would he was you know knocking babies out of the Crips She was biggest and he still is he's always in a 90 percentile For us since he was like two weeks old. Yeah, he was like knocking kids over, but she's so Sweet and she's so cute, but I'm tired when I tell you I'm so tired and it's not even I'm it's not like I'm doing anything. It's not like I'm putting her in bed. You know, I'm holding her I'm walking her to sleep rocking her to sleep. I mean for naps running around with her But yeah, I'm enjoying them. And you know, I have my niece here. My niece is young. She's only 25 and so I wanted her here because I feel like as someone that's older than her and as her aunt that the best way to Especially this generation, I don't know what you call they Gen Z. What are they? Well, this generation you have to lead by example I could tell you over and over and over and over what you should do But if I show you as a mom as a wife how I leave my household You know something saying maybe that can soak in a little bit more. So We were talking meaning my me and my niece and I was we're talking a couple of days ago and I was flat out I was like, hey, I can come pick you up. You want to come here for a week? She's like, yeah I'm like, I'm serious. So I call my mom up. I said put her on the phone. She's like, okay I said, let me tell you something when I say something. I mean it. I can come pick you up right now Don't don't you let me waste my purple lipstick and she started laughing. I said don't let me I'm not gonna waste my purple lipstick and jumps up to come get you because I'll come get you an hour And they're here been for a few days. They've been here for a few days It's gonna be here for a week. And so what I mean by by leaving by example We're getting ready to go out to eat some apples a couple of days ago and Richardson, right? So I'm telling my niece. I'm like, okay I'm at a reservation. I'm giving you two obviously get ready What you need to do as a mother you need to get your child ready first And then you get ready because what you don't want to do is you get ready You get her ready the baby ready and let's say is she had an accident You know what? I mean you you accidentally lifting up and you mess up your maker It could be anything it could be something minor, but it's just always best to get Your child ready and then you get I even do this for JB. And I told I showed her by example I say you see JB. He's already ready The only thing he has to do is put on his clothes and he could get his own stuff ready I have everything laid out and then Sunday. I'm letting her know I'm like, okay Sunday is like my what the key it's called the reset day But we've been doing this before it was called a reset. You know what I mean? I said Sunday is my day to prepare So I'm getting JB's uniforms together. I'm going through the roller decks in my head When I want to be making for the week when I want to be cooking She's like you cook all the I see I told I said I cook every two to three days Enough food so I cook on Sunday for enough food from Sunday Monday tubes And I cook again on Wednesday from Wednesday Thursday Friday And then with my husband is here We usually go out to eat on the weekend or we order in so I probably cook three times a week But I cook enough food to make it last for the next two to three days. You see what I'm saying? So that's what it is so um so One day she was up and I was like, how much sleep you got? She's like, oh, I didn't sleep that I didn't sleep that well. I think I got like only six hours. I said welcome to mother Welcome to motherhood and it's not to say that You know, all babies are like though right now You gotta make sure we put on the schedule be consistent with it And then but things are always always going to happen You're going to go through the tea then you're going to go through where they want to wake up You're going to go through oh my god, they're ready to go to school and then that's going to be different So I told I said I didn't start sleeping eight hours a night till JB was in school Because it's always something they if there's six something happens um There they have a nightmare something happens. So I get up I Right now since he's away in Kansas. I do all the pick up and drop off. I help him with his homework I get his lunch together. He helps clean up around the house. He's been doing something around the house I said I go to bed and I wake back up. So she's like because a couple of days ago She's like, what do you do for fun? I'm like I say well, that's what I like to read We go out to eat every now and then but I said but I'm not even thinking about what I'm doing for fun right now I'm thinking about what I have to do for the next day. You know what I mean? I mean, of course, I have my hobbies Yeah, I know that have my hobbies. I told her I love the plan. That's a hobby. I love to read which I still am reading But this is I think a lot of people look at social media and look at People vlogging and they think it's oh, but it's because of the soft life girl Those first few years Is not all that grand like the first I was saying to the child is actually in school It is tiring. It is work. It's like when you have more kids. It's even more work So yeah, she's she's starting to see she's like wow. She's like you She's like, why don't you sit down? I said I'm used to this I gotta get it done. I ain't got time to be worried about stuff. I gotta get it done Um, she was surprised that I was on anxiety medication. She said I could see that But you on medication? I see y'all. I've been on anxiety medication for 20 years But I ain't got time to think about I gotta I'm trying to think about the catfish you're gonna But no anyway, I'm enjoying her in a couple more days. We're gonna go for friday. I mean, we're gonna do happy hour um But yeah, y'all that's the biggest way you can teach people in my opinion It's just leading by example. You could tell them You can keep preaching, you know, but until you actually leave by example Walk the talk is that what they call it walk the walk That's when people can really learn So I've been eating but that's what I said. I've been eating better y'all I've been eating so much better today for lunch. Um for dinner me I made us the green goddess salad and she was surprised by that. She's like, I'm so proud of you I didn't know you ate this you ate like this I said, yeah, I've been eating like this meaning eating fairly healthy compared to my family child I've been eating like this for 20 years. I have to I can't eat fast food and junk all the time No, we're not like that. So yesterday I was on facebook and I saw someone I was watching who I've been following she's like I didn't clean my whole house looking at this viral tick talk about the pathological cheating husband I'm like pathological liar cheating husband. I'm like What is it in here? I saw someone else looking just at this particular thread on facebook right and another person wrote I'm on part 20 I'm a part 15. So I'm like so someone shared they linked the actual tick talk one of the videos and I went to tick talk And I'm looking at, you know, people commenting Checking in from Australia. I'm on part six checking in from Belgium. I'm on part 34 I'm like, how many part what is this? I'm I'm invested now. I don't know what is this about 50 part series playlists about a woman detailing her tribulation what we call a tribulation with her marriage to a pathological liar And all the things she had to endure I was like, okay I'ma lay off two crown for a while on youtube and let me dive into this baby Let me tell you something Spoiler it's gonna be so if you don't want to hear anything about this or are you tired of hearing this now Let's down below where you need to go to to not Hear anything about this When I told you y'all I was so invested at first. I was like Okay, so maybe she found out he he was married already or maybe she found out that You know, he I don't know. I was I was thinking the basic Within the first 20 minutes of this actual Shitstorm, I was like you have got to be kidding me. I'm gonna list like the top five Jaw-dropping incidents of the entire Fiasco In my opinion, this is just my opinion. Now. I didn't watch it on a tick tock instead There are several people on youtube that have been posting so click note summary There's this young woman who met a guy Via social media and within a span of a few months I can't even remember exactly how long it was but It was less than five months they dated Got engaged and got married Red flag and she says it herself that she missed all the red flags So one thing I absolutely admire about this girl is that woman is that she totally owns up to To Being a fool and that's not me saying this is what she said. She said I I owned up to it I was that's the first thing she says actually is that she was a fool There is this desire this overwhelming desire for women To get married and have kids by a certain age. There's this I don't look like you know, it's your your biological clock is ticking You gotta go ahead and find a man and even if you know, even if you don't want to have kids You don't want to mean just you don't want to be lonely. You don't want to die alone So she even said of herself There was this desire for her Why me why not now and you know, I'm not gonna wait on god anymore I'm just gonna go ahead and do it even though the signs are there their red flags are there to pause Break don't do it. So she makes this guy Via social media and literally on the way to their first date. She gets a she gets a flat tire He actually steps in It's like takes care of the situation. He gets her car fix and she's basically like, oh my god He is such a gentleman and I'm like What's interesting is that she's not she's very well spoken. She's she carries herself Um, you know, you can tell she's intelligent, you know, you know what I mean? She's not someone that's coming off as this book of wolf, but She's on her game, you know, so she has a job a good paying job. I think she works for like, um The police department within in in Atlanta So I'm gonna get to a y'all there were certain things that I was like this that's a red flag right there. How do you Let me just say this and I'm gonna bring up some of my stuff that happened in my relationship That made me know that okay, we're good. So So This was really a cautionary tale For other women and it's sad to see so many women because I was looking at certain comments from other women Seeing it. I dated a narcissistic like this. It was really hard to get out of the out of the relationship yada yada yada There are so many things that she should have done before they actually walked on the out number one She said that she did a background check After she got the marriage license, but she did say in the video. I know I know I probably should have done that before Now there's different levels of a background check and I will say this against spoiler The social that he gave her was a big social the first time she got a second The first social was different because that was actually for their marriage license The second social was what she used. I believe she had to have a background check and her job needed her spouses social and she noticed that that was totally different Um before I even got really serious with my husband and I really do think you should have to do this with anyone Especially nowadays, but I did this 20 years ago. My manager at the time actually suggested that she said, you know what? I have this software Give me your your boyfriend's information and I can run a now what she had was like an in-depth background check because she worked for the university of north texas The Background check she was able to do it will pull up their actual everything about them their driver's license People who were affiliated with them. So his brothers came up and I knew them. So when she ran my husband I saw he dropped she and she was like, is this him? I say yes, man Well, I don't guess and so his driver's license came up everything everything came up clean She was able to get this information When I tell you y'all I I am a person that I have little to no patience for BS There were so many times where I wanted to turn this stuff off y'all When it got to like part six or seven, I was like Screw this part 20. I was like, I'm done part 32. I'm like, are you freaking kidding me? This is too much shit for me I got a list top five things and five things that was just Eye opening for me that just didn't make any sense I felt like he spent Well, I'm just gonna say this they both spent a ridiculous amount of time looking for a house That the entire house cart or deal Literally wanted to make me turn it off. I mean she spent a good hour Talking about that and I was like I was so over that number two One thing that really had me he was killing off people with COVID So just to let you know she met this guy during COVID and so Things were of course as we know was a little bit different back then not a little a lot different First of all, I didn't I didn't even know people were dating back then He was say that or he did say that his grandmother died during COVID And then who else another like two family members died of COVID And I'm like, I think like Like his his ex-wife's daughter died of COVID He literally lied about the number of siblings he had Basically said that his father had two kids before His mother and father had kids that was a lie The other brother was actually a twin and the twin ironically was a vice president who drove a bmw So he almost like stole his twin brother's lifestyle The one thing that really just had me like I was actually chuckling at this He would have conversations or talk to people That weren't there meaning He would call his brother Let's say his brother is John. He would call John every morning At six o'clock in the morning and be like, hey, John. How are you doing? Yeah Well, hey, um Oh, okay. Hold on. Hold on. Hey Vivian. John said hi And I'm okay. John. How you doing? So she said that he would do that for months every day talking to his brother But he wasn't talking to anyone coming to find out he wasn't talking to anyone He was basically talking to himself But the biggest one y'all when I heard this I literally stopped what I was doing when I was listening to it I stopped what I was doing Sorry, y'all the baby's rocking himself to sleep I stopped what I was doing I turned off the phone I took my headphones off because I was I was cooking. I was like you have got to be kidding me So at one point he had a knee injury Now he tried to tell her that he hurt his knee at work because again, he's a vp. And by the way He's a vp and doing colbert. He still had to go into the office Anybody can tell you when you work in corporate america the vp's those that are upper management Basically even before colbert, they wouldn't have to go into the office like that So definitely with colbert. They didn't have to go into the office I'm gonna tell you this right now those who you didn't watch and he turned out to be a fork fork What he turned out to be a forklift driver when she said there's nothing wrong with being a fork Is it called a forklift? I've been drinking He will work in construction basically, but he told everyone he was a vp And so apparently he had hurt his knee at the job But then he comes to tell her no, I think this this is an old injury for when I used to play Um football because again, he used to play football, right? So she's like, oh my gosh. Okay. So at this point the injury was so bad that he was bedridden. He couldn't work Um, he lost a lot of weight. She said he went from like a three x To a one x so she would you know, he would have gated right there And when it was getting closer to the time when she was kicking him out She went into the bedroom He actually moved into another bedroom. It wasn't the uh, master. It was like a second guest bedroom so She went into this particular bedroom to you know, see what was going on in there because Again, he had been drinking gatorade. She looked at the bottle of gatorade And she's like the empty bottles of gatorade He had peed in them and left all of the bottles there Where I tell you That shit He said oh, I couldn't make it to the bathroom But you can make it down to Atlanta for a prostitute to do that's that's that's that's not something else That's something else. So y'all this story It is getting out of him because now Jerome is his name Jerome Jerome has came out and basically said that risa is lying That that after they went through therapy He they went through therapy, excuse me because he called her cheating with bret And he doesn't care and the thing that got me that I will say about you know, risa is that I don't understand why she I don't understand and I don't have to understand but because it's not my my story, but She spent a lot of time trying to find the truth Trying to find some truth when She spoke to his brother his aunt and his sister Sorry, he's what these are the people that basically gave her some truth If the family and the ex-wife are telling you is a lie Everything's everything's a lie your entire life That entire life was a lie and that is so disturbing, you know This is and I said this in my tender someone swindler video is that this is what happens when The idea of being in love Outweighs anything else you get so infatuated with being in love and wanting to be loved and being married that you could lose Damn coming sense and she even admits to that and so I think even her even when she got Married her mama was I think her mom was even almost relieved, which is a little bit That's so sad to me You see y'all let me know what your thoughts are because I was like you have got to be kidding me enough of that What I'm watching on tv chocolate. I'm really not watching much of anything to be quite honest, but I did finish true detective season four now It's the one with what is her name? What is her name? Jody Foster true detective is basically what it says It's like a detective series, but he has like a supernatural feel all from season one I really didn't I watch season two. Did I watch season two? I Watch season two. I didn't really watch season three season four was very interesting I think a lot of people from the comments I've been seeing and reviews and recaps A lot of people were not feeling season four They didn't like the ending they felt like there was a lot of plot holes They has a couple there was a lot of things left unanswered I'm a type of person to wear especially if it's a series that has the Unknowing the feeling of unknowing the supernatural feel. I'm okay with not Having the answers to everything. I'm fine with that It was very sad. It was very sad towards the end, but I enjoyed it to the point To where I think I'm gonna watch it again. Now. It's not as good as season one It's really not but I still enjoyed it Girl house of the dragon. Let me tell you something y'all Um My grace I don't think I know a couple of y'all said this was better than um game of thorns um I don't know about that, but It's pretty good. It's up there. So but I was a little confused after like I think like after episode four They started like escalating the years like you watching one episode like episode three Um, she's pregnant the episode four the baby is like a teenager. They ageing like those kids. I'm young and the rest of y'all know When it comes to super operas those kids be aging like this they age One minute, you know, um They babies in the next they got their own babies. They be aging fast as hell. You know Victor Newman up there I was not and I'm gonna leave you some spoilers. I wasn't sure how I was like There was a certain things that was going on and I was like This is another flowers in the attic. Well, she didn't be asked some ancestral stuff, but you know y'all in our honesty This is not saying I I'm okay with it, but they are saying true to history. Um Marrying within the family was very common and still in certain Um Countries is very coming for cousins and stuff to me. I mean the queen In britain married her cousin. So don't say married his cousin. So it's very coming. So in um House of the dragon the niece ends up marrying her uncle damon. Now damon y'all I'm I finished a such a series Damon Now damon y'all I don't trust him at all I really don't trust him like there's something about him and that one little the other kid The head is eye taken off out and he's still trying to get an eye from one of the He's like you owe me. I'm like, you don't sit your ass down. Um, so I love that The house of valerian is am I saying it right that they are african-american that they're a black child They're not african-american. They're black and child for a while, especially when my grade was coming in I was like Hell maybe I'm a valerian I got the bone structure Maybe I should like go to petco And say dracoria and see some shit pop off like seriously like I was y'all when I saw that gray coming in Y'all I'm six I'm silly but when I say like gray coming in and I saw them those black people with the white hair I was like I'm gonna let my hair go gray because I'm trying to look like that they look Stunning with the comparison of the white hair next to their chocolate skin. Absolutely beautiful Um, I love it y'all. I can't wait for season two Um, there were a couple of scenes where I was like I had to stop it and rewind Not as much as game of thrones, but there were a couple of shockers for me While watching the series and the dragons are huge now. I know that we got a glimpse of it Not necessarily of it, but in game of thrones They were talking about how the dragons were were like the size of lands But the dragons are absolutely massive in the house of the dragons. Do we know how many seasons it's going to be? I'm just curious if it's going to be as extensive as game of thrones Or are we going to see people from game of thrones do a crossover? Even though I know it's like A hundred and like 60 70 years before but I'm excited. I don't really am to see what's in store. Um That's it y'all. I'm not watching nothing on netflix. I want to watch t net again I'm really not looking into what's going on. Look apparently monique. I told y'all I told y'all monique monique monique has apologized to tally parry And opera You see what I'm saying? You see Y'all these celebrities get on my nerves. They really do like seriously And apparently Nicki Minaj is inviting cat wagons on two or four for what what is he gonna do? Like how is that gonna work? You a rapper. He's a comedian. How is that? She needs to be worried about her damn pedophile ass husband and brother Y'all petty but y'all besides that um, let me know what y'all watching. You know, I'm done with house of the dragon. I'm doing true detective I want to watch another series this but It is what it's all right y'all. I'm chatting away and everybody's asleep. It's early It's it's not even eight o'clock and everybody's asleep. But all right y'all y'all take care. Bye