 Okay, sorry about that The narcissist biggest biggest excuse for Coming back which most people fall for a lot of people don't expect this But the narcissist will often come back with an apology Acting as though they're so sorry for what they did They might even cry they might make excuses They'll act as though they've had this false epiphany They'll just tell you whatever they think you want to hear, but they're not really about it. And that's why So many people fall for this Because they think that when the narcissist is saying this Things are actually going to change But they never actually take the steps to change they're all words They'll just tell you whatever they think you want to hear But they're not really about it. They'll come back Giving you an apology Making you believe that they are about change But they're really not They never actually take the steps to change in the beginning They can make it seem believable They might do things they didn't do before they might act in a way That you want and then it just makes you think to yourself That they knew all along what they had to do But they just chose not to do it. They know how you want them to act and When they're trying to re-secure you they will act that way But they cannot maintain it over long periods of time They just end up going back to normal To the way that they were before but this is the excuse that they will use They'll act as though They didn't really know what they were doing at the time they didn't mean to hurt you But now they finally get it Now they finally understand what they did wrong or at least That's what they want you to think So that they can come back and get what they want from you. So, yeah, just want everyone to be aware of this Don't fall for that excuse They're not going to change They're just going to tell you that So they can get back in to make you give them another chance I'd like to hear from you as well leave a comment Has anyone experienced this with a narcissist Or they come back and they give you this excuse Leafs in 2021 says they are stuck from positive energy and personal growth change They just mirror and manipulate and circle back and Around it around any loop going nowhere fast and try to take us with them. That's so true. They are stuck in a loop They're just doing the same things again and again Expect any different results But whatever they say they stand for They never follow an established or official procedure to actually take care of those things Everything they do is contrary To what they say they stand for and what they say they are trying to accomplish Because if they really value those things They would actually be doing what needs to be done Instead of doing all of this pointless meaningless stuff that has nothing to do with anything and that's how you know It's all BS and they're just not serious about anything at all It's just a game Belinda says yes. He's so sorry He's now realized I'm the one he can't live without Okay, so yeah That is the Biggest excuse for coming back Which most people fall for they think okay? Finally They realize what they did wrong after Months or even years of arguments and misunderstandings they finally get it They finally understand but no They don't understand They don't want to understand as even if they did understand They would only push it away They would only fight it They hate the truth Because the truth does not benefit them. They hate reality Because it is not on their side And that is why they create an alternate reality with their own interpretations Whatever works for them. That's all I have to say for this topic. I hope it's been helpful for you We've got over a hundred live viewers here So please give this video a thumbs up share your thoughts in the comments and Be sure to share this video as well Got a premiere starting in about 20 minutes It's a really big topic. So don't miss that one. Thank you all for joining this live and Have a good day