 Yeah, we on boss talk one on one. Wow. I just always wonder about the father figure part. I was going to ask about, so your grandmother, was she in the different relationships as well? Yeah, her mom was down on Harry. Harry Hines. Not Harry Hines, but yeah. Yeah, we had close. But she ran bars. And she was a. That's what I had to say. That's all she did. And she was a drunk. She drank. I mean, she'd babysit me and drink a whole bottle of vodka in a night. You know, just my uncle, he raised himself with just her son. You know, that's why that, you know, my mom's sister had two kids by the time she was 15 already had two kids. My mom had me. So all three of us were raised together. Yeah. And so it was they didn't care. You just I mean, and I think that's what made me the dad. I am to be I'm almost too involved. I can't go to sleep at night unless I know where all three of my kids are. They're safe. I just I trip out. It usually it does take a different toll on different people. Like it'll totally wreck opposite. You know, you get a total opposite reaction. A lot of times when somebody go through a lot and when finally the one person that it triggers something in them to say, I'm not going to be that way. Well, I was a second person on both sides of my family, just to graduate high school. Wow. The second person had an uncle on both sides that both graduated high school and then I did. And then we've had cousins now, my daughter, graduated college, Austin's graduated college, my younger son, he'll graduate. I mean, it just you got to change the pattern. That's what made you. But what what made you make up your mind to say that I'm not going to be like them basketball and in sports and cheerleaders? I mean, you know, they kept me going. I didn't care nothing about school and I could have quit school and it would have been OK. My family would have been my dad resented me for graduating high school. And yeah, he I thought I was better than everybody because I and then I went to college and whooped and and and he just, you know, you're better than me. And then, you know, we raised my wife and I have had two black kids that have lived with us, who parents didn't want them. Well, my dad and granddad now, then we're from the old school and when it comes to that, I mean, my granddad didn't want a black person coming into our house. That's how bad it was. But I was always different because that that man, Mr. Keller at Eastgate taught me to be different. And so thank God for Mr. Yeah, well, my wife and I just, you know, if we'll take anybody in if we really feel they needed it. And we've helped. We've helped raised a couple of kids and and they want ours. And that's just what we do because people help me. And I feel like you always got to get back. You can't forget where you came from. And you got to help. If nobody helped me, I'd be in prison right now. Dead. Who knows? But I put people in people's life to create changes. And it's a chain reaction that is not for the moment right now. And it could be. But it's really for down the line. You see how many more people that person could help. Yeah, exactly. I think you you you're just describing a lot of times, you know, poverty, you're describing things that happen in a lot of not only white, but black, Hispanic, it happens in families all the time. It does. But because of a lot of time, disfunctionalities that stream from your background. Generational sin. As we are going to say curse, right? No, I didn't say at least it's not right. But it is generational sins. And you do have to stop it at some point. Yeah. But you have to want to change because some people just automatically fall into it. I've seen where kids say my mom used to always get abused. So I'm not going to be like my dad when I get older, but they end up just like him. They fall into it. Fall right into it. So I think so here in your victory story, I should say, how is it that I'm still trying to go back to that? How can that person who is listening, who find themselves going into something not meaning to and made up their mind that I'm not going to be like this person, but still seeing traits or not even be noticing that they're going through the traits. Oh, it happens, you know, and, you know, I had to I could easily fall into to getting high and doing all that, but it just it just wasn't for me. I wanted, you know, I remember I was a really good soccer player when I was little. It played for the East Gate Gators or a team and but my dad the night before or the day before picked me up and he was about my mom's and he took me to a to a nude bar and I drove there in seventh grade and he took me in and made him let me come in and then he tells me to go put money in up there and they kick us out and he goes crazy. Cops are coming in and but the next day I had a soccer game and he's so hung over that he tells me I have to quit the team when I get there. He goes, I'm going to take you to the game, but you got to quit and I go play the game. He sleeps the whole time. I end up scoring like three or four goals. Had a great game. I go to the car. He didn't want to hear how my game was. He says, so did you tell him you quit? And I'm like, no, I didn't tell my quit. Yeah, but but that's I was never I never missed a game of Austin's. I never missed a game of my other son. I missed some cheerleading stuff with my daughter. But my wife handled that. But, you know, it's just I think there needs to be a parent in the stands and they need to know you're there to support them if you can. If you have to work or something, that's another thing because you're supporting them in another way. Yeah. But, you know, if you're getting messed up and all other stuff, then, you know, you need to check yourself.