 think something called integrated masking is the way forward. What is integrated masking? You may ask. Well you probably will ask that because it's something that I've made up myself. It's a term that I've made up to just describe the process of getting yourself together, understanding who you are, what autism is like for you, how your interactions with other people, really understanding who you are as a person through unmasking. Once you've unmasked you can look at yourself and you can decide which autistic traits you want to show to anyone in your life in any situation. You can pick and choose what to show.