 When the narcissist realizes they should never have played you, you know these narcissists They're so high and mighty They think they're so great They think they're the best thing since sliced bread and They walk around with their head up their ass like there's so much better than you And like they can do what you do and They walk all over you. They look down on you When they're with you they take you for granted. They mistreat you They do all of these things to you and I know it's not fair It's not nice and Then they devalue you they degrade you and then they start to think the grass is greener on the other side they start to think that There could be a much better situation without you and They start looking for the next shiny new toy The next bigger better deal And then they're ready to move on from you Well, they're already Looking for someone new even while they're with you they're already ready to replace you and Then they just leave you behind they discard you They forget about you and it looks like they are riding off to the sunset as though now There's so much happier without you Things are so much better for them and you're just left alone and confused You're trying to figure things out you're trying to understand what went wrong What you did that caused them to leave what you did that upset them and You just can't understand it You don't know what you did wrong. Oh, maybe you did know but and you tried your best To fix it But it was just never good enough They were never happy they were never satisfied they always wanted something else or something more and Yeah, they're so arrogant and audacious they think they can just move on and find something better than you As though you're nothing you're not good enough for them, but it doesn't work out that way for them because they will regret playing you They will in the end Because what tends to happen is that? They end up with other narcissists Other manipulators scammers people who are Tricking and deceiving them people who are just using them and selling them a dream which is the same dream that they try to sell to you and Yeah, they end up getting tricked they end up getting used and Then they left in a worse situation Than what they were in with you and then they look back and They start to think that They could have just stayed with you Maybe they made the wrong decision because maybe things were better for them easier and Maybe they thought they were gonna build things there So they got married had kids anything could have happened and Then they realized that they've been fooled So of course by that point because they do know the difference between something that is good and Something that is bad It might not always seem like it, but they are aware of that So Naturally, they are going to think that They may have made the wrong decision That maybe they should have stayed with you. Now, that's when you will get the Hoover. They might Send you a text message They might Call you on the phone Or send you a message on social media However, it is that you communicate But they will try to reach out to you in some way And that is their Hoover attempt But they're not coming back to make things better for you That's not what they're trying to do at all They're coming back because they want something from you And that is the only reason why a narcissist comes back because they want Something and Once they come back and they've got it then they're going to leave they'll just forget about you all over again and Move on to someone else So It's important to keep that in mind So that you don't continue to repeat the cycle The love bomb in the devaluation and the discard Because that is what will happen So it is important to be aware of that because they will at some point regret Ends it up in this new situation and leaving you and then they will try to come back if they don't have any other what they Deemed to think is a better option But yeah, they only come back because they want something from you That's all it really is. It's not to Improve your life in any way They might come back with the fake apologies false epiphanies Future faking, but they're not really serious about any of that. They don't really care about you They can be very convincing But trust me, they don't really care they are expert manipulators Because they have a lot of past experiences of manipulating people But sometimes they do get their karma. They end up with someone who is manipulating them Someone who is tricking them. So there's no need for you to Worry about trying to punish them or trying to get revenge That will all take care of itself They will end up with someone who is just like them and Then they will get a taste of their own medicine they will and I know many of you you worry about trying to get them back you want that validation you Want them to know dis you? You want them to be there for you after they hurt you? I understand that But trust me. It is a waste of time Don't even bother trying to get them back Especially if they are involved with another narcissist Because if they are then you really have no chance You're not going to be able to compete with that You can't compete with an expert manipulator a Scammer a coin artist You won't be able to do that because especially if you're an empath You will only play fairly and honestly You're not going to go out of your way to trick someone and to believe in something that is not true You won't be able to do that So you are wasting your time by trying to compete with Whoever it is that they're involved with now So don't even try to do that instead Take that energy and invest it into your own life That will be much better for you. Okay, so That's it for this video. I Hope this message was helpful for you And if it was please give it a thumbs up down below. I just like to thank you all for joining me and As always I will talk to you in another one very soon