 Hello everyone Welcome to another NARC survivor live video. I'm out here at a park There will likely be quite a bit of noise throughout this video. There's not too much I can do about that There are lots of Bikes and modified cars, but I tried to find The quietest location that I can Might be able to hear some birds singing in the background. So Anyway, I hope it's all right Other than that the topic of the video today is The narcissist is getting their karma right now. I just understand some of you Maybe you don't believe in Karma the word karma, but to me it's all the same thing There is a force a higher power there is a Law about maybe the law of course an effect the law of exchange It may be karma God The universe, but I think we can all agree that there is some force out there Even though we can't see it We recognize that there is air We recognize that There is this force gravity That's keeping us down So yes, we all recognize that there is a Higher force a higher power even though at times some of us may not want to Give attention to it We may feel that we are in an unfearable situation Things have been done to us people are suffering so we may believe that It doesn't exist. We may not want it to exist but the truth and the fact is that it does exist it is there and Yes, this is not a Coincidence We didn't just appear here by chance. I mean You know it is quite difficult to fathom that we could develop our bodies our minds and have eyes and ears all of these senses this Fection this intelligence and everything else For this to happen by chance Of course that is quite difficult to believe Of course, there is the Big Bang theory but this Universe was caused by a Big Bang and Yes, there is a lot of science behind that and I'm not saying that that's something I don't believe in or don't agree with I'm not saying that It's wrong, but just because that may be true That doesn't mean that God and Karma do not exist Because you have to think that something Caused something created the Big Bang That means that there is Some form of a creator We were all created by something and Another thing to look at as well is that This world this planet It's very unfortunate. It's very fortunate to be able to inhabit life and It inhabits life because It Is able to orbit around the Sun and not only that but it has water It has the great ingredients for life, but also it's the The sunlight as well and not only that but consider that we are Millions of miles away from the Sun and if we were just Maybe a few thousand miles closer or further away from the Sun Then there would be no life on this planet So with that being said I personally find it very difficult to Not believe in God For these higher forces these higher powers. I Personally find it very difficult not to believe in that as you can see this is no longer In quiet space, so I'm going to move Bit away so you can hear me Clearly Fortunately, there are a lot of people Spaced out and positioned in areas of this park So as always it will be quite difficult to find Quite space. I have been moving around quite a lot Before I film this video, but I will do the best that I can But yes as I was saying given these scientific facts it is very Difficult for me to say at least that there is no God no higher power Because if you were just a few thousand miles closer or further away from the Sun That would change everything there would be no life So it really is it would have to be very large number of miracles And if you look at it, if you study it deeply you will find it's not just one or two miracles we are talking about millions of Separate miracles Happening at all different times and stages Throughout history over a period of Billions of years so Yeah, these are just some of the reasons why I do have a very strong belief in God and karma as well This is just some of the reasons although there are also The spiritual aspects as well But I want to keep this scientific I do want to go too deep into that As it says the topic of this video is Karma So that is what we're going to be talking about In this video So yeah The narcissist is actually getting the karma right now I know just that but they've been getting it their entire lives I mean you've only got to look at them The time that you live them They are very miserable people They are hurt people And as we know hurt people hurt people They go out of their way to harm others to cause trouble To put them at a disadvantage or any unfavorable situation They go out of their way to do that And there is no way there is no exception To this rule There is no such thing As a person who Deliberately and intentionally And constantly causes harm to people Yet does not suffer the consequences of that Which again is just further confirmation to me that there is This law, this high of power, this karma God That's just further confirmation to me It's the fact that These people are always very miserable Very angry, very hateful They are always out to get other people And Yeah it seems the more that they feed into this reality The deeper they get into it where they are so wrapped in Wrapped up in hurting other people And trying to ruin their lives The more that they are caught up in that the more miserable they become But at the same time it's like it's very difficult for them to stop it Because it becomes an addiction, a habit Because every time they Succeed or think that they are succeeding and tearing someone down It releases this dopamine chemical Within the brain The sense of reward as though they are doing something right When that is not right There is nothing right about that About going out of your way to harm other people To cause problems for them There is nothing right about that And that is not what I promote on this channel As many of you know What I do promote is Righteous behavior Looking out For people Your neighbors Your community Like they are your own family Like they are your brother or sister This is what I promote And it is not only because Yes you will Naturally get something out of it If you are Going out of your way to help other people To Make them happy To improve their lives If you are going out of your way to do that Yes you will Receive a reward in time Because it is all energy And what you put out is what you get back But as we know Narcissists all they do is put out bad Toxic Negative Pessimistic energy Which the intention is to take away or destroy These are two things that they do Take away or destroy And of course that is never going to result In anything good for them If that is all that they do And yet this is all that they do You have been around them You know this already And yet it is the energy That they put out They are constantly putting out this energy It just comes right back to them Because whatever you put out That is what you get back And yes they do try and push this energy On to other people They try to keep These sources of supply And the reason why Is because what they are trying to do Is dodge their karma They are trying to get out of it They are trying to avoid it But it is inevitable They will continue to receive their karma And not only that They are getting it right now They are getting their karma right now They are always miserable They are never happy And you should know that From being with them It is like you are constantly trying to please This unpleasable person You went out of your way To make them happy You sacrificed your entire life Your health Your money and resources In the hopes that They could receive it And finally be satisfied And maybe reciprocate something back to you So that you could build a relationship But they can't do that Because inside of them is just this void And it is a void that can never be filled It doesn't matter what you do for them Now that is their karma as well It is like no matter who they come around No matter who they meet Yes, they try and take and pull away And partake In these bits and pieces of other people They try to consume it But it doesn't really do much for them And you can see that It still doesn't make them happy Because people aren't really meant to be consumed They're not meant to be Eating away In the way that narcissists do They see you as an object And they just want to Take a bite at you They want to take a piece of you But not just a piece They want the whole pie And even then they're still hungry They're still not satisfied They always want more It's like this itch that they can't scratch They are never satisfied They're never happy with anything you do for them They never feel good Never They're always mad They're always angry And They're always in predator mode It's like they're constantly In survival mode Operating from the reptilian part of their brains Where it's just like Like They feel bad They feel deficient They feel like they're missing something And it just triggers this part of this brain Where it's like I need to get something I need to do something now Because that's the only way that they can feel satisfied They can't just go within themselves To Generate this feeling Which is really sad For everyone else Other than these types of people Happiness is actually a choice You can activate this feeling of happiness Whenever you choose to But narcissists are unable to do that And that is why They deliberately go out of their way And try to harm other people But that is their choice They are making a conscious and deliberate choice When they do that They're deliberately putting this energy out there Which is intended to harm you To distract you To confuse you And yes It will come back to them That energy will come back to harm them And Yeah a lot of them don't even see it These things happen to them And they spend their entire lives Just being completely miserable To where their entire life Passes them by And they've got nothing to show for it Not even any positive memories or experiences All they've really got Is they think back And there's these times where they got one over on someone They tricked someone, they manipulated them They deceived them And that's Where their sense of pride And accomplishment comes from That's where they get this illusion of power And that's all they've got to show for it A lot of times they don't always look at it as though it's their karma Because they're thinking, oh this is A good thing I've taken people down I've hurt them and I got away with it That's how they're thinking But in actuality Even the negative things they do The monsters that they become That's a part of their karma as well That is also their karma I think a lot of times that You know, it's bad for you It's hurting you, the things that they're doing They're going out of their way to harm you To bring you down But you need to Turn it around on them And to see The monsters that they've become Because now look at what they're doing Look at what they've been doing to you They've become these Monsters, these animals And they struggle to control their own behavior And they just Become progressively worse So how can that be any good for them? A lot of them, they turn to addictions They drink a lot of alcohol They turn to drugs They sleep a lot They're around with multiple partners Sometimes unprotected And they have STIs Some of them gamble They have shopping addictions They have all of these things And let's not forget their addiction To people I don't only do these things Yes, it is escapism They are coping and defence mechanisms Because these people are very weak And they need to compensate for that with external things I do may think They're not getting their karma They've got all of these things Maybe they have money They're surrounded by people Who are helping them and supporting them Whenever they feel down They can just smoke a cigarette Drink a glass of wine They can just Do drugs Go shopping But you may think that that relieves their symptoms No, it actually does not It does not Because remember they do have insatiable desires That can never be fulfilled Remember how much you did for them Remember how you tried your best To make them happy And it was never good enough So if you fail to do that What makes you think that someone else Could just come along and make them happy Of course they cannot It doesn't matter who they're with It doesn't matter how many people are around them They will always experience the exact same results Where they are dissatisfied Where they are still not happy They will always experience that exact same thing No matter how they try to distract themselves And develop these coping and defence mechanisms No matter how they try to develop these things It's not going to make a difference for them It's really not Because And I've been through this myself in the past I thought that by Having a lot of people around me Having these friends, these partners And Turning to shopping, alcohol Giving out times doing drugs I thought that these things would medicate me And make me feel better And short term in the moment maybe I did feel a little bit better But over time it just brought me down It just brought me down maybe even more miserable Where you develop these addictions And you're just constantly thinking What else do I have to do to try and feel better Because it's impaired my ability To generate my own happiness and joy from within This is their karma These addictions, these networks that they develop Is all their karma It's driving them down even more And I know it and we should all know it If we look back at our past At times where we turned to unhealthy coping And defence mechanisms It's not good Which is why I would advise for you If you are watching this right now And You're trying to heal You're trying to move on from narcissistic abuse I would advise for you Not to go cold turkey Because that's not good as well But to gradually Cut down on any unhealthy Coping strategies you may have developed Try to eat a healthier diet Don't consume too much alcohol Don't turn to drugs Be aware when you are shopping Gambling Or When you're turning to sex Pornography Gambling Video games These types of things I'm not saying that all of these things are bad I'm not saying that at all It's bad if it begins to affect your Daily activities If it begins to affect your life Because if it begins to affect that Then it is clearly a problem Because it's taking your focus and attention Away from things that should be more important to you So that's how you know that it is An unhealthy coping strategy I don't drink alcohol myself I haven't drunk any alcohol for Maybe five years now And also It's been about Almost four years since I have consumed any Meats or fish or dairy I have a strict vegan diet And Yeah I don't gamble I try not to shop excessively Of course I don't do any drugs I don't play video games I don't watch TV I don't do any of these types of things And Yeah my reason in for it Is because I just don't want to resort To unhealthy Coping strategies Because I know it just pulls you Deeper into a hole It's difficult to get out of it So that's why I don't tend to do that I appear to have got myself stuck in a corner here But I'm just going to try and finish this video The best that I can It's the best of my ability Yeah so I don't advise that you do that You should find healthier coping strategies That's definitely better for you Because again as I Have said this isn't part of the narcissist's karma That they will Sub the consequences of everything that they're doing They really will And Yeah this is all just a part of their karma You know the fact that they have to resort To such unhealthy Coping strategies They have to do anything that they can To try and reign it in And gain control over their Very poor and unhealthy emotional state Because they constantly have these emotions And that's what a lot of you don't understand When you leave them or when they try to move on These emotions are still there They're not going anywhere just because you're gone Or just because they tried to get rid of you These emotions are still there And they are always going to be there Because they cannot regulate their own emotions And it's how you know exactly what you were dealing with Because it is these cluster B disorders That all have great difficulty regulating their emotions They can't control their own Instincts They just can't control it And that's why they lash out at you They constantly try to tear you down They want to cause problems for you Because they can't control their brains Their minds They can't control that And they try to use external things This is how crazy it is They're trying to use things outside of themselves Outside of their own minds To make themselves feel better And it's a habit, it's an addiction And I'm not saying that's always bad I mean You know as long as it's not harmful to other people And it's not harmful to yourself But with them everything they do is harmful to themselves And to other people It's self-destructive But if it's things like you try and eat a healthy diet And you exercise You go to the gym Try to get plenty of sleep You like to be out in nature like me You like to spend time around children or animals You like to have healthy conversations And these things make you feel better There's nothing wrong with that As long as it's not what you're doing All day, every day There needs to be some variety And you need to be focusing on things That should be significant and important to you You need to be good within And self-reflecting Which is something that I do All day, every day All I ever do is go within and reflect on myself And who I am as a person I reflect on the things that I've done well And also the things that I have not done so well And again This is how you know what you were dealing with Because Narcissists, they don't self-reflect There's no introspection there Everything is outward focused Everything is outward focused It's just go, go, go Get, get, get Do, do, do That's how a narcissist thinks Because it's like an animal A predator They're operating from their reptilian brain They don't have fully developed human brains Looks like there's suddenly a lot of sports going on you They always seem to come to places at the wrong time When I got you there was no one here really But suddenly there's Tennis, cricket But I don't want to distract you too much from this video Even though as I said there would be There is a lot of noise in the background as well But yes Narcissists, this is how you know exactly what you're dealing with They have reptilian brains And develop brains They're emotionally underdeveloped Which is why they're so driven To seek out a source of supply To feel of them To make them feel better They're so driven and focused on doing that I do maybe think, oh that's What I do Because they project it onto you They deflect it It's like whatever you try to take some time to yourself They tell you you're being selfish Whatever you want to focus on Something that you're passionate about Maybe you're like painting Then it's like, oh you're so focused on Things that are unimportant But actually know the things that you're passionate about Are very important Because that's what builds your sense of self Your own identity So of course they want to try and make you think That these things are bad But no it's actually just bad for them Their addiction to things that they're doing That's bad That's self-destructive That's no good for them But for you The things that you're doing Focusing on yourself Focusing on your passions and interests These things are very good When you're around a narcissist All they're ever going to do is project and deflect Because as I said once again They do not self-reflect Like I said past we self-reflect All day every day That's all we do Especially when we're around a narcissist You'll find that when you're around a narcissist You will just You'll feel like you're stripped inside out And you're just constantly Walking around with your head down You're too afraid to even smile around them Because you can't be Anything They just want you to be stuck inside yourself Constantly self-loathing Doing the very thing that they can't do Because they do not self-loat They do not reflect on their shame They are shame-based people Who are doing everything they possibly can To avoid reflecting on their shame Because they have a mental disorder And they can't fix it They can't resolve it There's nothing that they can do about it It's just there So they never self-reflect I would even say that If a narcissist did somehow Managed to self-reflect for a long period of time They would not be a narcissist anymore They would not be a narcissist anymore But of course that is the last thing That they want to do And that is why they want to shut you down And take away your voice And stop you from Looking outward Outside of yourself And seeing the bigger picture Because they want you to constantly Reflect on yourself And think that you are the problem To support their delusions Their false reality That there is nothing wrong with them When in fact there is a lot of things wrong with them And it is worse than you could ever imagine They have so many things wrong with them And yes they do try and project it onto you Because That's very easy for them to do Because they already know that you are A good person They already know that you are an empath So of course that's the first thing They're going to do with the reptilian brains Is pick you out and target you Because they already know that you possess The mental and emotional capacity To carry all of their emotional baggage They already know that you are going to take that on And identify with it And when you are around the narcissist That is all that they want you to do They don't want you to do anything else Other than that Than to take on their emotional baggage The things that they never resolved Because they never self-reflected They've got all of these traumas Since their childhood Even processed They've never even thought about it They just pushed it away And acted as though their childhood was perfect You can tell just by being around them That their childhood was not perfect It was not perfect You can already tell that they had so many problems Just by how they treat you That tells you everything that you need to know Coming back in the car now I thought I could go out to the park After just stopped raining I thought maybe I'd be able to have some time To myself to make this video Nope As soon as I got there I know there's about 30 people there All playing sports, jogging The kids in the park So unfortunately It didn't turn out how I expected But I will still strive To bring you the best content That I can every day As you know I do sometimes drive For 30 minutes, 1 hour Sometimes more To find the best possible location that I can Where I'm hoping that nowhere else Will be there But it seems that wherever I go Even if I do find a little corner Of the park Instantly a lot of people Will come right behind me So Not too much I can do about that But yes They are getting their karma right now They are miserable And you could see it on their faces The entire time You could see it And it's clear because As I said the energy that you put out That's what you get back Remember how they never cared about you Remember how they never treated you With any respect Remember that When they're putting that kind of energy out Of course it comes back to them And then they feel bad They feel miserable That's just how it goes And yet a lot of you You think you believe What they're showing you after they go Where they're acting like They're living their best lives They found someone else They're so happy without you There's just no way That is completely impossible There's no way that someone Can do all of these things to you These things that are wrong Definitely Feel happy It's impossible Because what they did was wrong What they did was wrong So they can't move on And still manage to generate Their happiness from within Their disorder will not allow them To do that It just won't So it's a guarantee They harmed you Deliberately They did all of these things to you They're never going to be happy They're going to be miserable For the rest of their lives That's a guarantee I can promise you that I can promise it They will never Be happy I don't know What a lot of you might be thinking I'm not happy Right now Things are going wrong for me I've had to go through all of this stuff Yes, I get it I've been there myself Of course there were times Where I was completely miserable as well Trust me when the narcissist discarded me I was depressed And Even one time I attempted suicide It was so bad Although that was an impulsive decision But yeah Of course there were times Where I went through that And now You know I've healed I've processed these emotions And I feel so much better About myself And I forgive myself For the things that I've done wrong That's the most important part Taking accountability When you do that You come out You confess your sins You will feel so much better You will Especially if you know And you have the intention Not to do that again If you come and clean You will feel a lot better But narcissists as we know They don't take accountability They Don't self reflect They don't process their emotions They just pass them off Into someone else And you maybe take that on And think oh They just pass it off to me They're walking off They're smiling their happy note Whatever they put out That's what they'll get back That's what they'll get back And you just need to stop And recognize that It doesn't belong to you These emotions are coming from them They don't belong to you So reject it Accept it and let it go And let it go back to them Where it belongs And then you can move on You can be happy You can live your best life Without them But just don't let them know about it Because when they see that you're happy Remember they have this Underdeveloped mind They're emotionally Developed at the age of a child Maybe about two or three years old So they have this black and white mentality Where if you're up and you're happy They're down and they're miserable I mean they're always miserable But they get this two second high If they can tear you down in that moment They can make you feel small So they have this black and white mentality There's this contrast Where you have to be down For them to feel up And I guess that's part of their karma as well Because I can tell you for me There's no better feeling in the worlds Than when I know that someone Is accepted of me And they're able to Receive me But that is an amazing feeling And when you see it on their face That they can receive it They can partake in it They can process it and enjoy it They can consume it It's an amazing feeling To see someone taking that in And they enjoying it It's a great feeling that is But NASA says they will never get to experience that It's the other way around for them For them the most amazing feeling in the world Is when they Give you their garbage And then you look at it like it's your own mess And then you look down, you look sad That's the most amazing feeling in the world for them It all depends on what you have to give Me as you know I have a lot of Wisdom and experience to bring to you I have a lot of value Of course when people receive that Makes me feel amazing It really does I love it I'm really happy about it But NASA says all they've got to give is Shit garbage They've got stuff that no one wants And they will dump that on other people And when they see you receive it And you take it as though it's your own Then you might see that little Narcissistic smirk And Yeah they feel Happy with themselves in that moment At least their idea of happiness They're never truly happy Because of course happiness is generated From within But yeah that's their idea of happiness That's their idea of fun And I don't know about you but that's something I do not want to be a part of Because I don't take pleasure in tearing anyone down I most definitely do not take pleasure in doing that Unfortunately it is a part of my job And sometimes yes I do have to beat these asses down But I only Take pleasure in that when I know That people are receiving it And it's helping them And it's making them feel better About themselves and how they see themselves And they recognise that they're not the problem Because they can partake and enjoy it too And yeah that is As I said an amazing feeling The best feeling in the world For me And I hope that this inspires you And I hope that it will be the best feeling in the world For you too When you Support our community You spread the word You spread this message You give this video a thumbs up Share the video Put this out there So other people can see it Other people can benefit from it Because As empaths Maybe some of us where people pleases This is just what we do We like to see other people happy We're high value people We have a lot to give And when someone can receive it I think we can all agree It's the best feeling in the world For narcissists The best feeling in the world Is Shutting someone down Making their life hell That's the best feeling in the world for them Because at least in that moment It doesn't have to be them And again that's how you know That they are always miserable And they will never be happy But that's not your problem it says It's a problem you can't fix It's something they have to deal with But as we know that they never will So you've just got to leave them to it Let them mellow in the mess That they have created for themselves They made their bed and now They have to lie in it You just have to move on Become the best version of yourself And live your best life Because that's what you came here to do That's what God or Karma wants you to do So go out and do it Enjoy it So yeah that's it for this one I hope it helped you to understand Karma And the effects that it has on the narcissist I'd just like to thank you all for joining me On another NARC Survival Live video And as always I will talk to you In another one very soon