 Ninge kwa kwa yama, sasa kwa mbia monta, just done alright. Hi. You're still watching Why In The Morning, you can find us on WhiteFive on Facebook at Y254 channel on Twitter and hashtag is Why In The Morning. It's a beautiful Monday morning. Only blue thing about it is something on the set, okay? It should not be blue for you because we are the latest breakfast show around, okay? My name is Valentine or at Kala Miva as in Valoma Colors. Chuna Pena Colors and right now we are into our discussion Man Crush Monday. Having conversation with two kings and one queen and the topic is, is love blind? Is love blind? What is love even? Please talk to us. We'll have a couple of minutes to get to your feedback as well as going through a couple of slides and those to direct Tone Mali to Nihendasndo. But in other news we are really, really looking forward to your opinion. It's important. 20154 is another platform you can use. It's our text sign. You start with Y254. Now come and let me help me say hi rather to my guests. How are you, Nihendasndo? Hi. How are you? Hi. Hi. How are you? Hi, thank you. Nasi minaka apuwa. Thank you. That's our weakness. We are sorry. I'm so sorry. Onea kuita naniwewe? I need to add you for some jibaba. Jibaba mukuawapi. Me muku miss. In a round? But as the figure will fall sometime. But now I'm back. Have you been in love since you were away? Am I swelling in goma? Yes, in goma. Welcome. Hi, hi daddy. Hello. How are you? Fine, thank you. Mukuwaji. Mukuwa salama. Ujapote asana. Mukuwati asana. But I like seeing you around. Thank you. But they call you. Thank you. I'm Sylvester Sergun. But today I would like to add the... I'm called the youngest member of parliament aspirant in Kenya. Last year I fight for an MP post. Last time you kept referring to me as a scientist. So today I'm a politician. You're a politician. I'm the secretary general of the Kenya University students organization. And also the secretary general of East Africa student union. Would you happen to have an Instagram account secretary general? What? Would you happen to have an Instagram or Facebook account? Oh, yeah, yeah. I'll share the link. You share before we leave. We know you share yours. But say hello to the queen. Hi. Where we happen to Nakape? It's a number on Perungu. Thanks. Hi. How are you? I'm good, how are you? Nakape, thank you. I'm Edith Sitoma. Aha, where do we find you on social media? Edith Sitoma. Yeah, on Facebook it's Edith Sitoma. All right. Do you think love is blind? Nowadays I don't think. Why? Love has lost its meaning. Nowadays I don't think people love for real. Tell me the difference between love back then and love right now. What's the difference between love back then? Love back then, people used to love for real as in if you love someone you love him as in you mean it. But nowadays you see people are looking for money. Young ladies are going for sponsors. Can we call that love really? I don't think. In short, back then the red love we were talking about was just for Romeo and Juliet. That is when we can say that love was blind. But that story didn't end well. They killed themselves. And now you see maybe that is when love began to advise. I see what you're trying to say. Please help me, sir politician. Do you think love is blind and why? I don't think love is blind. There is nothing like love is blind. It's only a perception. That perception has been consumed by more than half of the world population now. That's why they are no longer falling in love. You'll see people lasting. You'll see people killing each other, stalking each other. So that's where the extent of falling in love is. Love is not blind. When you're loving blindly, it means that you're not real. You're crazy. Really? Those are very strong sentiments to share. You're sure you want to stand by them? Yeah, I'll stand by. Okay. I try to perform Facebook. I try to perform a channel. Twitter hashtag is white in the morning. We are going to start going to the stars right now but Chibaba looks like he wants to tell me something. You know when you talk about love being blind. First you understand that love being blind is loving someone. Despite looking at their faults, I love you the way you are. Or you are beautiful. You are not beautiful. I just love you the way you are. Without no attachments. But these days men are going, it is like men are looking for good looking lady. Front, back, whatever. Nice looking. And the ladies are also looking for men who have something in their pocket. And then everyone is getting angry with everyone else. The people who don't have money are saying girls just want money. And the people who maybe are not classified as, I don't want to say not beautiful. I want to say they have maybe personal features. They are complaining. They are alternatively beautiful. True. That's what you're going to say. Or else they have a makeup kit, something of that. Why? Okay, you know what? We're just going to go straight into the slides. Okay. Say you're in love. Does she suddenly become perfect, zero flaws just because you're in love? Say you are in love. Does she become immediately, does she become perfect with zero flaws simply because you're in love? Why are you giving the microphone away? Let's say we start with you. I could repeat it for you. Say you're in love. And then maybe let's say you're in love with Edith. You fall in love with Edith. She's wonderful. Has a wonderful personality. She's gorgeous. I'm a home worker. Does she now have no flaws? Like she's just perfect now because you're in love. Is that how it works? Okay. Sadly, that's the reality of now. People when you fall in love with someone which someone who doesn't have the qualities you wanted. It's not always like it's going to happen that you'll fall in love with someone with the qualities you want. There will be some flaws. So it will be up to you to now look down upon those flaws. Like you'll assume those flaws because you'll want to love maybe the lady or the man. So it's a compromise. So that's what brings the blindness now in love. I'd like to imagine. Let's give it a scenario. So maybe you're in love with Edith again. Yes. But Edith cannot cook. An African man I like to believe he likes someone who can cook for him and yourself you can't cook for yourself. Patu na penda Edith jamani. Ano kusungu shakili or you think about it Edith, night and day but you cannot cook. Is that something that's going to catch up with you later? Is that why love is called blind? Because it's an honor. Ufkirei kitunenda kusedi enambele. Is that why we're saying love is blind? Okay. I think that's where... I think that's where we are going to refine how this life is blind. But to me, that's not the case. When you dated each other, see your love, your flaws. So you love to share with your love or your partner those flaws. That's called... You are sharing... That's mutual reciprocal... Mutual reciprocal... No, I forgot the name but now that's... By you sharing your flaws with each other... Mutual reciprocal vulnerability. So when you are sharing the flaws that's now the time when the love grows stronger. So you love to accept before moving on with her. Edith, I have a special question for you. There are these songs or expressions of love but he blind, he put it... Let me give you a specific example. This is a song by Ashanti. Kitambo, it's called Foolish because she was in love with a guy who was not treating her right. And then there's this song, Ive paya Kitambo. It's called Love is Blind actually. So there was this notion that love is blind would mean if you're dating him, nana kupiga. But you're in love, that's why you're staying. Ati love is blind. He can treat you the way he wants but since you're in love, you can't go anywhere. Ati now that is what makes love blind. Is it true? Cause if someone truly loves you, nana kupiga? Ujo iskia. Ujo iskia umu na jana sema ui haspun piga ni pende. Ujo iskia umu na jana sema ui haspun piga ni pende. Kwa tu ui piga nabadu aneka? Infact na nasema asiku ni tapa ana tapa mungine ya ni paindi. Papa onaka baby na umba ni pige leu. I 이렇게 Kitambo zile. Infact na nasema asiku ni tapa ipika maneno. Kupigapi ya kwa maneno? Even the Bible itself, it has stated well. The man should love his wife. We ladies we are supposed to submit. Akuna malimandi kwa munafa kutuchia pama, no. You are supposed to love your woman. True, ni wukwede laiki ni bado noja ni Bible yu ime sema. Laki ni kupigana kuja papinadama. We should live according to the Bible. Do you live according to the Bible? Yes, I do. Are you submissive to your husband? Okay, I'm not married. But when I get married, I will. Yes, I promise I will. Is it as easy as it sounds, do you think? Atisisa juna penda umtuna fokuski ya kia nasem. Uem manye ume lele kufanya evi, but umtuna penda amanzuku sema wende evi. Uta, just go ahead then. Not much like last time. When you love someone, there are some things you have to change. You have to compromise some things. Okay, that I get. Yes. However. So, umtuna jua wende ume lele wakwenyu vala na ui uchali ya kumunyu utapata melele wa tofauti. Na wende ume lele wa. So, there are some things in order muingiyane you have to change. Ya, so for that love to grow. Ya, you can't say umeze kufa means cut. Demo me duna olewa, bado na takatu uvae means cut. No, you have to change. Ya, you can't say umeze kufa. No, kelele no. Did you see me? Did you help me meet me? No. So, I'm wearing miniskas, so na tika niswa na tika. So, in short, for the first time to kipatana, love na kwa too blind. Misha kwa ngele ni mkumuna. You know, monoma na ngele tu in the loose. Ah, kupuataari. But it can't really grow na grow, you see. Lakin isi valu kwa evi. How come remember that time, nika muli kwa make up, make up ume change? So, in a bidi, pure you adapt to the changes. Ni kuna suali jibaba. So, for example, you won a three million shillings just from nowhere. Ukuna three million kwa bank. Sisa apu ni umatoto isi. Wana jileta too. Ati sosa jibaba. Ahe, kumipuataari. Muna skonagi. And then you are a very generous guy. Na peyanatu, na peyanatu, na peyanatu. Does that make love blind? Sisa, ju me pendam tu na yana kupenda hella. Sia tia na kupenda hella. You want this baby here? That's not loving blind? No, no, no. Kuna upumbavo piya kumapensi. Uon upumbavo tari. Awezi na pigasimu. Baby, nini, jef, nimeku misi. Basing to me. To me 10,000. That is not love. But we've seen it happening. In fact, we've seen this has become a result for people harming each other. Yes. And that is why even now as we talk, you know, some case which is going on. And even in the morning I saw some news that the guy had been nice something for long. And now you know that. No, that is not love. Sasa unene. That is not love. Yes. Nini kupumbavo na sema. The guy, the guy in the court kuna upumbavo mapenzi. No, kini mapeza. Someone is not loving you. That is not love. Ebo mjibu. Atyu na sema. So that we can give it back to your college to buy a book. Now you know the story which is going on about Kohen. In the morning, if you want to know the lady, she used to deny that guy kujigo rights. Now is that love? Which is very wrong. Because if you are married, your body belongs to your husband. The qualification of being married is? Ya, those kujigo rights. I understand. Am I the only one? Thank you. Thank you. Am I the only one with a difference in opinion? Please say something to me, sir. Talk to me. First of all, I'll start here. You were saying that love, kupenda om tuji yaherla, yoni upumbafu sindeo. Sasa we kuyendakutu after them, rainbow, na kuna wa demo, kini anasura. Si yo ni upumbafu piya. Si we demo kuna standard zake. Nyukweli. Nyukweli la kini. Idi tanashu. Inabidi. Siku zaya, sir. Inabidi adabti. Nyukweli, ono je, as a man, even the Bible, tu kumbuka, kuna time, please don't refer to the Bible. Because yoi ita kwa, yoi ita kwa very ni ni. Ya, you are get it by the Bible, right? No, but there is Islam. Na kuna ingine. Tu miya ni ingine. So yoi namanisha yoi lava isa apply kwa Islam. No, ina isa. So, here is another. No, no, no. Don't choose religion. There are some others. Basi, we wutenda kwa, ni kikuliti ya murembo apa na mingini, same misi murembo, na kini aji kupendeza, wutenda na nani. You go for what you love. Ya, the same way, dey ma kilatia om say ni broke, na mtu akuna pesa, atenda na ulema ni akuna. We have to give a strip. No. Ima putreo na, urena pigama kompis, Yes, so that's so siya ti kwa, ju ni madem ni upumbafu, na ju ya ono ume, ina kwa read. No, no, no. Ono ono apa sasande yoi, ina tu naika double standards. So, kubali tu. Thank you, because it's just preference. Alafun kwa na ndia kuhuyu, wu ya mesema. Una pea kilam tu doze. Ya, tsa ni pea tu kilam tu doze, yoi. Una komesema, tukenda kwa baibu, unafa kwa submisif, sendo. Sasa, submission, does it mean that submission konji kwa write sii vo sendo. Sasa, kuni mawa, ama kutu ni mawa, yoi kwa kwa patia, yoi tu ni kama, ni kama sa iile una, una nua buk, ikuna content zake, so content zake, ni kama kupika, kufua, kupewa, una na zote. So, sasa ju, me ni mawa tu, sasa iile, ume dina yoi love. Nasa iile, ume dina yoi dem, pesa yoi kupita, kama fair. Dina yoi love. So does that, nukbe loel pupa after this. Alright guys, please do not be afraid to give me your comments as well as you've used Y254 Facebook, Y254 channel on Twitter, hashtag is white. Now the next side, can you be in love with more than one person at a time? Can you be in love with more than one person at a time? What do you guys think? Can you be in love with more than one? Can I start with the queen? Can you? Personal. Nombu kari bishe rongo, kwa mdongo. Why do you think so? Why do you think not? Because me I believe there's no way you can love to people. How? Unless, unless wu yoi una penda pesa yake, na kuna wunye wuna penda too. Why is it so? You can't say at it, at it, your heart can't accommodate to people. Say for example, let me just paint your picture. For example, you were dating Jibaba. Jibaba, you in love with him, yes, and everything is working out, but he has to leave the country for five months. He leaves the country. So he has to go anena kujijenga, lakini say it is not coming back for you, alright? Five months become six months, six months becomes a year, but he's still keeping contact with you. He's still saying he's coming for, for you. You meet him. They don't even know each other, but you meet him and he's also quite, you know, he's present. There's a different, ushe jaribu long distance. It was jaribu. It's very difficult. So you're with him. Your heart is with him there, wherever he is, but in comes this one who's now charming and telling you things, who is actually present, who is holding your eyes. Then I don't love him. That's not true. Yeah, then I don't love him. Kwele. Yes, he'll love it when he shifts. Kwanza, kwanza, kwanza, kwanza, kwanza, kwanza, kwanza, kwanza. Kwanza. Eyes are out. No, no. Kwanza. Eyes are out. How I Big Eyes tell you him he will say hey you're misfit you mean THIS想 if he loves you. This wants to have a heart, yes. Yes. Did I understand? Now I have interest in they know most people asking who你要 meet? I don't know what you call it, Broyo niwa movie Broyo niwa movie Kuna wule mugi niwa mpesa Alafusa kuna wule jamatu, wule unapenda tu Even if he's broke But you just love him But how he niwa pia Give them chances I will pay your time Ako na umstiyana kwa ikenya So easy as we talk 90% Ako na umu nizapata Yes ni mimi edit I'm with This is my guy Peki haketu Ya baya When if it's 10% there Why don't you think they exist? They don't Why? So you mean you don't trust your girlfriend Ema pia una mini Up on your bluntness Ako na umu nizapata But you have said akuna No, I say bluntly But ni meskia watua kusema Ati mutua ko niwa ko Akiwana were Aksha toka niwa Jamii Nukweli This is so To me, no You do one person one person like that You love one love like that Ya, a better deal with one person at a go You want to say something That's my choice Talk to me Would you pass him the microphone? Thank you Talk to I think to ni ju Ju ya experience Ujapata bado Lekine ita fika 2 times Wai ni kazi Renda kwa apply Zee, ita bidi tu Una ju ya niya Ikwana love with Too many Too many lovers ni Ima leto ni experience Ujapata umutua ati sasa ni first time lover Ati akuna watuengi Ujapata toa akuna modu Apo asende una patanga akuna love is blind Ujapata umutua ati Breaker kwanza Ya pili Iki fika atatu sasa usha kwa Immune No na So Ya wazisema Ati demo akusa saya kwa 10% Waziji juwa Una kamsa ana kwa beradi Ya apata Ana kamsa ana ayangata Alright, so we have another one Have you heard of foolish in love? There's this thing that people say You're foolish in love Does love make one foolish? Does one make love foolish? No, does love make one foolish? Apozime interchange Do you think it's true? You agreeing very strongly Ya Why? Instead of saying love is blind Say love is making people foolish Why? Because now you see love There's two types of love Loving from the heart and loving with the brain So when people fall in love They use the heart So that's where you You start now Chat all day You're calling yourself each and every minute Una kwa waziji So that's now being foolish in love But when you're loving with the brain Uta kwa una You'll be thinking of more things Which are constructive Mutanda kufukiria kwa kampuni Mutanda kufukiria pesa But when you're foolish in love Kupigiana tu seimu na kusema ho Demo kwa mifanya Mutanda kutumiya pesa Ufukiria kwa rini Apana minapenda self No at some point Onum這樣子 Is it the photographs or maybe it's the posting No, I've been in touch lately I'll have a round崔 For individual media Okay, coming down You want to tell me something? I think love has made most of the people foolish especially men Okay Makajagawaya Koz Val, uneza pata chali, ajawa dem ea mejeka, poa me pata dem wa kule and I'm so mesha Are you sure, kamatao we dem unona, isn't that foolish unona, you should love with brains And then you get upset Koz uhu dem ati enda pati jo pa tena mngene Ati enda tu It's not anyone's fault I am ati kakwe You are the person who was saying about unakana No, that is me That's why I said uneza pata 10% at least ladies oku faithful We are talking about this 90% So maybe I want you to zoom in on that question This investing I know this investing on ladies like really investing your time your resources na huko guaranteed you didn't ask if you will you marry me uma unona aje fuchapunenda aje unangushatu and then it comes that then you go saying all women are trash oh you end up not marrying then you go destroying people's hearts not because someone broke your one heart exactly so that is part of foolishness especially to So you agree No, I'm not agree I didn't say who is full but first first oku mwa kupenda he mamba kusumisha umistiana investments like betting na zaluza mawin aso unona apuchari anakwa mga mpenda kabisa ya keiote ya ndiwa fikei yo extender ya kusumisha dem ame mpenda then una fika maali una muruka so is that fair I don't know maybe two liza wale wale ruka ume apu anakwa mga foolish was bet wisely even the betting size on akwa mga bet responsibly so we are not foolish and when it comes to love you know men are always adventurers man ame ata aneza kwa kuna dem lakini dem mungi na kujetu apa jutu ni mugeni uchakana e una tu e yofiga sura una zatuku but with time gori gori jo so ya una ume wakwa evo so una pata ame fall ame li piya dem school face jo isotu vitu ndogo ndogo at the end of the day una pata she is not the one is that foolish is that blind love that is not being foolish kidogo tu ni blind love kidogo tu kidogo tu ujiya ujiya ujiya ingiya kwa una danisa na wakwa so bet responsibly I know you won't have something to say but I also want to tell you something then maybe incorporate it to what you are about to say I like Greek mythology I like the concept of many foreign gods Zeus, Juna many name Christo yes but I like the idea of god of love, god of war and all of these things in the mythology they say there are many kinds of love toze itutu me funja siare kina gape love, kina stwinani but this one has love between friends there is this kind of sexual kind of love there is an intimate kind of love it's not even tofao tii the intimate and sexual so there is a lot love see moja evi love ni alist kunae love kunae love kunae love kunae love are we putting way too much pressure on ourselves ama on each other kwenbe I love you now you must behave some certain type of way juna me kwenbe I love you ama now that you've told me you love me sasiezi angali manomumungi ne maze I just can't is that the kind of pressure we're trying to give each other here ni ni ni shida susandio ya pressure ni otuna jipa kwenbe I love you nanzaku jipa shuguli zingine ya nya ukona before because of the expectation in society pia sishida eto tulipata systemiko evo na kuchen systemi different ita kungumu ya ni na bidi tutu mihendele evo mistyana siya kwenbe na kupenda wisha handa kulipa rents but now I beg to differ apoka kulipu office ya naisi blind love ya trying to build yourselves ni mulkume pendana so you're now trying to build build yourselves atakama ya atakuacha palembe love wa ikwangi perfect ya apoka kwaacha this is cause and effect the cause is that you love her ni domana na maybe it's a non amlipia phase and the effect is what you feel like you now own her amani ni ni utama wacha to endetu evo why? because the expectations sisa kusasakuake expectation nanzaku kwenbe why? see see ma kusaya utu system to make patatu evo you ni Babylon na Mr. Aki we have another question can your partner do what they please because you love him can your partner do what they please because you love them I decided you ni pendama say silazma ni piksime ya kwa silazma tuongekilasiku natukotu nongekilasiku just because you said you love me now I wanted sama ma yashilakini ches ches shasimu kwa in love, saki storizako is that what we are saying love should be given na kupia love alafu nani pema mada rau is that alright? is not that blind love amma it's foolish as I said for the first time it is always blind usiyo go peru? for the first time ina kwa nga tu blind tunianza kujuana I must call, I must text ukiwana upegiwi simu sana ammotumu yumbesana yoku na mingini mahadi yambaye na patili attention kuna mimflani ati why do guys always have money the first two weeks you meet them alafu mtu akajibu it's the campaign week nukuele ju politisha na kuja manzea kia omba kazi siu kuja natruvitu nga nukpe amacho ya migu ya maskiyo akini akshapa takazi hai na pesa, acha kwa isumbua even again for the first time when we meet wikiya kwanza usiato bwa kila kituo mimi na kwa ngaivi mimi na itua Jeff, mimi na tokapa nga gani na pendahivi na vile wikiya kwanza imesya the next two weeks you don't have even something to share matia kungesana it just comes automatically so if there is real love sila zi mani kungelesha mimi na hongi or even I can talk to you but nanda kipungo na pato na fika malini letru sa hini siya fiko jabiwa good morning na zaku jab na zaku zasaitu kama kwa ibo ni watama kitui kona suga waita kwa na I think we face I think we face a love too kama tuveni kuna kugro kuna face kwa mtu i alafu nanda kwa adolescent then nanda kwa adult inanda ibo skuya kwanza wikiya na date yee my gosh sii gifanya iti gifanya kuna ili expectations ya ni kuna ili standard na jia kwa kama boy wanyana kujo kumit akone oko this level so yo kwanza wini zomba atanguo wende yo date muna zatu kujoana muna zatu kutuboma series asa ekifikwa sum point kusya zoiana yadu kujo kumbe hi alikwa nomba yo kuzoiana ni madarao sasa muna zoku perna sii lazima hi kwa madarao kwa twengine ita kujatu kama mtanzasa kwa more intimate nkusya jwa your flows nkusya jwa kwa jwa kwa kuna gini mazoni na kujanga ina badili kasaana aske alikwa mizia kukuita oya bro siya mke oya pade pade kuna bizokfanya pade ya shida yonde ma penzipuasa asa sii iya kujitara beb kila sa ujais kia tukwa mbebeb maze beb noma tumbo ni menyamba leo ekifikwa yo points asa yonde inaituwa mutual shared vulnerability muna zaku kusya tuflos ato wneza fanya evo kwanidem kunwana kama before ulikaon na izam fitu liki ni ita fika point重tenda kunwana kama ni bitumingi tumtanzaku fanya mutuali sasa utifu mp1t na ena kuchesu a1ata mnigina nikimawaya prosum kecheki Ssa keksu 1 правильно baby umikwa jiu si kumrefu watuja yongia uliko ku maze hangu Así que, k accidentally came to work and as much as I like, feltboardsON beunillion kwa sacrifices for them and they will fight for that because of their struggling people, eka inuistanthipa, kukul endure niogata Cheez Sandiaano · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · But anyway its Juna to get an idea to make them agree that But I like it. It's a very legit question. Apu kwa vulnerable. Ya ni monometu semya na ugopa kwa vulnerable kwa mstana. Akiyanza tu kwa vulnerable ondira chesu. At some point it happens. Situ mesama imaishani ku bet, man say. Bet responsibly. Be vulnerable with the right person. No, no, but at some point unapu diya nga runa chesu wunye. Alright, let's do this. Let's read a couple of messages from Zee Soso, me, the At White Five on Facebook at Y254 channel under the hashtag is one in the morning. Tkwa na Donald Chepkuta. Love is no longer. Blind ladies, most when I didn't say, edwa kisaka help, shulat linon, financial breakthrough, or out of desperation. Love is no longer genuine. Baby, who hurt you? Rozy baby, rungu says na, I got to experience what I own, and no more blindless. Good morning, Val. Good morning, Rosie. I see a man, James. Good morning, Val. Good morning, Val. Good morning, TJ Kingston. Love is blind, but sometimes you see, Simoness wakimsi. Babadoga is what represented love, it's not blind anymore. Thank you. Ademilo kingoji wa magumu. Anywa love ni blind. Kapsa? Amna siku ita una milele. Maybe, maybe, maybe, maybe. I generations ni katni, ni ceda, tu na leta ceda na isduri ala. Alright, so we have Kamwana Kaka. Hey, I don't know how to pronounce that one, baby. Nowadays, love in manza kuwana we have. We have a shady. It says, hey, hey, if simple boy akuna dem, haia. Web ni mnongi haji. Alright. Aya squeezy. Love si sura ni pesa. Wa? Then we have Louis Murio Wawangiro. Love got its sight the day it met money. We, and got to know each other. And my name says Leo. Use gizimeni shika manze na wilele. Haku takua na ripi. Oh, Patani Wednesday, baby. Kesho jiyoni. Patrick Sir says love is blind. True, even mad women in the market get loved, get pregnant, and give birth. We have to give him a kofi. On our both Sylvester Sergant says, tag me, Vera, saying a few love ain't blind. Zileke. On your way. Okay, okay. No kuna picha swift. Zileza Kingston. Uyu Melvo from Nyeri Outer na Rumoro. Dunia ni doa hares. Squeezy madengi wana die otas. Aya weka apu ongoji akupende. Shida. Weh. Chedi Mutugi says, love is not blind. Lover and the blind. Weh, weh sasa ni poet. Kamakamao says love is blind. Love is blind. That's why I didn't want to be blind. You don't pay in love. Lawi pilau. Says, baro ni blind aki asyone kapsa. Limit. Hashtag when the morning squeezing in gori sana. But baro na tegemi anakitu. Miseyana. Ana aim, amavenya na feel. I tell. Wuh. Nye vitu kwa ground the different. Mugi wa ukalao. Ukalao well represented. Nansi mijanjawa keno. Love is not blind. Nye mimi. Nye fung. Nye li funga macho kitambu sana. Eh. Maze. Ame fae ni edit. Ati but val. I love ikona macho. That's why. Hmm. Ati mini akupenya kama kamao. Maureen kwa itaz. Wuh. Val. Love is blind. Tana imiaza kuna squeezi. For real. Wuh monakainona maureen. Balo zikene. Artist says. Ara kitale love. Yes squeezi imekulakarot. So inezo ona. Okay. Tumekubali. William Wismatheri says mapeja squeezi inona. Mbeka pekiaki. Where Rupaul says watching kutokanyeri kama kamao. Anatu tuchiza pona kakavindio. Nika mandrama. Nika mavindio. Emma James says nowadays my ladies want to take a two intimacy with men. Hana gaso rizmo. Papa Atanandoa. Oh. That's a twist. So na tuna living in a generation where guys are the ones who want to get married and start a family in a chana tutaki. That is what we are saying. Hey. All right. In conclusion, how would you like to end this sir? Okay. Oh. In conclusion. No. Love. Love is. No. Tuna sama. Judging is easy. But understanding. Inakua difficult. But love. Love is beyond those both. It's beyond understanding and it's beyond judging. I like that. So at the end love is authentic. Let me start here Jibaba. Talk to me. Then I'll finish with the queen. Kukumali zia. Love to me isn't blind. I can see it in your eyes. I can see it in your eyes. And again. Apart from the eyes. Ladies we know what they want. You know what they want? Yes we know what they want. Themselves they don't know what they want. How do you know what they want? Was chana ajua li ken? That's what we know. That's what we can see. Yes. We are saying that love is not blind to me. I can see. I see what I want also to me. I can see this valve. That is beautiful. That is what I want. She has good morals. That is what I want. So to me love is not blind. When you make it blind. You just came going pigwana shokha. Why? Queen have a question for you as we finish. And this I'm asking you simply because you mentioned something about submitting as we were finishing. So can your partner do what they please to you just because you love him? Can your partner do what they please because you love him? Because you have agreed to submit. Because you have agreed to be this person's person. Now does that mean they can do anything they want to you? Whether it's good or bad. Not anything. But you should agree to submit so that you can start complaining. No. Being submissive doesn't mean that as in unafakufanyu wa tu anything. I'm a pigwana shokha. Such things. First a man as I said. A man should love his wife or his woman. Once there is that love submissive just comes automatically. So when there is love submissiveness will be there. And love is not a noun guys. Love is a verb. It's something that you do. You love with actions. You can't just sit there and tell me you love me and do nothing. So even me I love me. Thanks. Thanks very much. Of course actions will stick. I love that. It's not obvious. Imagine to someone because we're dealing with the youth. Youth kusana sana was chana ni home ones toes na to sumbuwa. Someone just looks at you for. Eh eh. Tijana tuwa kwangalia to some type of way. Akuita to beautiful. Ya completely confused for the rest of your life. You start saying I love you three days after meeting them. Please just relax yourself. Love is a doing word. He shows you how he loves you. Amma she shows you how she loves. It's not that he just tell you. And then kusahu. Ya that is it. He should show you how he loves you. Ya of course he should. Kusana someone cannot just tell me he loves me. Anani piga. Amma azinani shuguli. He should be responsible. You know a good man should be responsible. As much as he's loving he should also be responsible. Ya. Alright. So we finish with your social media handles please. Before I give them my angles. I can say that love is just a word. It's given a meaning by actions. Oh wow. Sorry poets. I didn't know I was a poets today. Ya. So my handles on social media. It's je fasun jibaba. Everywhere. Alright. And you quit? He did sichuma everywhere. And sir etasut. Sorry. Ni rungu pehe. Social media handle ni. Twitter ni. At S underscore sergon. Alafu Facebook, Instagram. Andrebo Sylvester Sergon. You even honorable on the platforms of social media. But it's H-O-N. Not the full onrebo ya. How do you spell Sergon? Ya? How do you spell Sergon? Sergon is S. How do you spell my old name? S-Y-L-V-E-S-T-E-R. Alafu Sergon. S-E-R-G-O-N. Okay. Alright. Apotundu ni kwa nasi dena. Mama, piya ni matika kuspelch. Nadia speli ni. So thanks. Thank you so very much for staying with us. It has been an amazing morning. To kuna from Tuesday almost. When the morning is a daily situation. We give you sauce Monday through Friday. 7 a.m. to 10 a.m. It has been a pleasure to take this ride with you. Thank you so very much. I hope umemka na umemka vizuri na tendele na shukle poa. We have another one tomorrow. The theme is Entrepreneur Tuesday. So it's money making day. You don't want to miss it. Otherwise, we think you should have an amazing day. And an amazing week. We wait. We wait. Bye.