 Did you defeat the narcissist there are many signs which will reveal to you if You have defeated the narcissist if you have defeated them they May give you the silent treatment They may stop talking to you they may cut contact They may discard you they may treat you with contempt as though you're worthless As though you're beneath their consideration As though you don't matter to them anymore That's one thing they may do if you have defeated them or they may triangulate you with their new supply They may compare you to them They may front them in your face They may try to make you envious and jealous because they're secretly envious and jealous of you if you have Defeated the narcissist that will cause a narcissistic injury They will get very angry They will try to sabotage your progress and success if you have defeated them They're going to do something They're going to react to that defeat in some way and It's going to involve tearing you down Making things difficult for you and that's really how you know that you have defeated them Like I've said before if you have hurt the narcissist They're going to get mad and It may not be overt It may not be clear to you that they are mad at you But they will try to hurt you in some way so that's really how you know if you have defeated the narcissist is when They try to defeat you in some way, but really everything the narcissist does is an attempt to hurt you It's all manipulation It's all fake. It's all an act It's like they put on a show just for you Just to bring you down Just to make you miserable Everything they do is intended to hurt you Every word every action That's what it's intended to do Sometimes the narcissist won't even say anything They will just ghost you And even that it's intended to be a punishment It's meant to get to you It's meant to bring you down and you can be sure that anything you do for yourself is a defeat to them whenever you focus on your own Individuality your own likes and interests You focus on things that you're passionate about You're focused on things that you like doing You're better in yourself You're making your life better Anything like that is going to cause a narcissistic injury It's going to be a defeat for them anything that involves you becoming better in any shape or form and Whenever things get worse for you whenever you're having difficulty with something They see it as though they've defeated you at least in that moment That's a win for them Remember everything is black and white to the narcissist There can only be one winner and one loser And they have to be the winner you have to be the loser But sometimes they have no choice but to accept the feat Did you defeat the narcissist? There are always signs that will reveal to you if you have defeated them They're going to Get mad Or they're going to be passive aggressive and give you the silent treatment Or they're gonna try and hurt you in some way They're going to try to sabotage something that you've got going on They're gonna try and take something away from you They're gonna withhold something from you They're gonna try and make you envious and jealous of something because they're secretly envious and jealous of you These are all signs that should reveal to you that you have defeated them Any time that they try and do anything to you They are reacting to that defeat I love to come down to the beach at night. It's just a vibe When you see the moon shining in the sky Got this white sand The waves are crashing in There's no other vibe like this and I think it's very healing for us as well Just to come out to the beach Hear the waves If you live near a beach Why not go for a walk tonight? If you're feeling down about the narcissist and something they've done to you Just go out and see how you feel. I've got a feeling that it will make you feel better It does for me. Thank you for joining me this evening Please give this video a thumbs up if you enjoyed it And if you'd like to book a coaching session with me You could head to my website. It's not survive at the Cuddy UK Thank you all for your support And I will talk to you soon