 Speak and live and relate and do life from what's healed over and from what you've figured out. Rather than speak and live and react and vent and rant and do drama from the open wound that you're going through right now. Some of you are going through stuff right now. It's terrible what you're going through. It's really hurting. It's painful. You're bleeding. That's not a time for you to be posting or speaking or ranting or venting. And so what I've learned in life at my age and stage of life to say to you guys is if you're going through something wait until it's healed and wait until you've figured something out. Wait until your cry for help moves to becoming an active service to the rest of us. If you will even just put that one alone into your world for the next six months it will revolutionize your life because some of you are constantly reacting and living from what hurt you. And if you don't heal what hurt you you'll bleed on people that didn't cut you in the first place. I've done that in my life and I've had it done to me and I think we've all got to figure out where this lands for us and beware the tendency to live speak react make decisions make choices when you're in a wounded open wounded condition it's not gonna be a good outcome wait heal learn grow that's the book we want to read that's the voice we want to counsel us that's the wisdom we're looking for is from people that have allowed it to become a massive act of service to the rest of us that are going through stuff and need someone ahead of us to say I went through that too here's what I learned pass it on to us.