 و أقولوا في القرآن ما جاءت به آياته فهو الكريم المنزل و أقولوا قال الله جل جلاله والمصطف الهدي و لا أتأوله أسئل كثيرا أتأتي بالنسبة للمتنزل ولكن أنا مرحبا من الفرق والتدريب هل يمكنك أن تقوم بخير من خروج تراني و تراني ارسل الإسلام و بخير قرآن الممارس الحمد لله رب العالمين والصلاة والسلام على عبد الله و رسلك نبينا محمد وعلى أهل هو صحبي ghost معرفة بين المتنزل و تراني أعتقد أنه جيد لقم بفهم المتنزل و المتنزل And Be wrote in combining the two together So let's first of all talk about the ruling of seeking knowledge There are two types of seeking knowledge There is an essential knowledge that every Moslem must have While some of the scholars they call them the knowledge of the situation we're just removing right now That you should know for example, the basics of Islam The five pillars of Islam, the six pillars of Imam If you are a parent, you know how to raise your children If you're a husband, you know how to treat your wife And the essential knowledge that every Muslim must have وم there is voluntary knowledge which goes beyond that, and that knowledge is mustahab. It is highly recommended and it is something which has huge numbers of virtues attached to it. In terms of marriage the general ruling of marriage is that it is also mustahab in a general sense. It is recommended. However, it may become wajib upon a person, if a person fears that they will not be able to stay within the limits set by Allah إلا أنهم يجبون مجرد. لذلك لا أقل أن شخص يجب أن يكون مجرد بينها هذه الأشياء ، و يجب أن يجب أن ينظر عليهم ، لذلك بعض الناس يقولون ، لا أشعر أن هناك شراء أو أدعى لهم أن يجبون مجرد ، أشعر أن أستمر في المهم يجب أن يكون مجموعة من الله مع المساعدة ويجب أن يكون مجموعة من فضلك ويشعر أن أريد أن أعطي أكثر من my time إلى المهمة المهمة التي يجب أن يكون هنا ويشعر على العلم ويشعر على العلم يمكن أن يكون هناك شخص who says I don't feel like I have the obligatory knowledge and that has to take precedence over the voluntary issue of marriage and so they put it in that order there could be a person who says I feel that I can't stay within the limits set by Allah and so I feel the need to get married there might be someone who says that I have not reached that level but there's a good proposal for me so I want to get married at this time Allah has blessed me with a good opportunity to get married at this time so when a person decides to join between these two things it's really really important that you bear in mind the general principle that was mentioned in the Hadith of سلمان الفارسي the Hadith of Abu Darda in which سلمان said to Abu Darda فأعطي كلها بحق الحق give everyone who has a right over you their right so your spouse is going to have a right over you rights over you واخدنا منكم مفاقا نغاليبgrunting from you it's a heavy burden to be marriedcis women take a heavy covenant from you it's a big big thing و الآفانstation الإحدشاء women have rights similar to the rights that are over them it's a big deal you have to give those rights and there's no good saying i'm not giving you your rights because i'm seeking knowledge لأن هناك ماذا حدث أن تسأل المعرفة لهم؟ أنت تسأل المعرفة لكي تأتي إلى الله ، أنت تسأل المعرفة لكي تسأل المعرفة لكي تأتي إلى الله وكي تأتي إلى الله ، فالتالي يجب أن تستحقق المعرفة لذا أنت لا تستطيع أن تأخذ من right of your family في the same time you should set reasonable expectations that you are going to be dedicating a portion of your time as much as possible to seeking that knowledge and to benefiting for yourself in the sight of Allah and also to help you to fulfill your responsibility towards your family because part of the responsibility towards the family as if we are talking about a man who is the head of the household then the man who is the head of the household for sure needs to have the knowledge to take those decisions to make the right decisions and the woman who is responsible for those things in the household she needs to have knowledge to take the right decisions so it's about bringing the spouse on that journey with you it's about making sure that you both have reasonable expectations it's about making sure that you're both giving each other your rights and you're not taking it away in the guise of knowledge and it's also about making sure that all of your free time is taken up with as much seeking knowledge as possible because as the famous saying goes that if you give knowledge all of you it will give you a part of it and if you give knowledge a part of you it will not give you anything at all That's what Allah is with you it will be easy for me to mention that I'm the most best والصلاة والسلام on you محمد وعن أهني وصحبه if you have any questions you'd like to see answered as part of this series you can email us at questions at amau.org