 So there's two ways to solve your way out of any problem, two strategies and I employed both and both work amazing and we're talking about any sort of problem like you need you know more money, a project done, better fitness, you know relationships whatever it is. The two strategies, one of them is like obsessive, like leave all your life behind and go after this full force strategy and the second one is daily balanced habits, the daily habit approach to reaching your goal. So whenever you're facing something that you want to accomplish and you should always be in one of these by the way, you should never be in in a dur mode, you know like you know what to do like you should always be either in the massive action focused type of approach or in the structured consistent daily action that could also be massive type of approach. Now, what was the difference between these two strategies? So let's start with the obsessive one because that's the way I used to do things. So I do see myself employing this strategy again in the future if it's the right circumstances. So the strategy is simple. You basically align your entire life to the accomplishment and attainment of only one specific goal. I did that, for example, when I set up my huge lecture, my 500 people lecture back in February, basically for morning till night, all I thought about was how do I get this done? How do I get this done? How do I get this done? And I had just one goal in mind and the methodology is very simple. You just take massive action and it's not like it's structured or anything. You just set a goal like, okay, let's set up this huge lecture. Nobody knows me after start from scratch. And you just ask yourself, what action can I take right now at this very moment that will move me one step closer? And then you take that action and then you ask, what's the next action that could take me one step closer? And then you take that and then that and then that and it's like action, action, action, action, action, action, action, action, you take that until it's done. Basically you become obsessed, you become like an animal and that's the way that I used to do it. The problem was it's not very good for my mental health to be honest. It's really bad for my mental health. It really fucked with my mind when I did that. Now the benefits of this are first of all focus. So you gain a massive, massive amount of focus because you have literally only one goal in your mind. And because you have one goal in your mind, you don't deviate from it. So this is also the, obviously the bad part about it is that you don't pay attention to other stuff in your life because you just obsessively attack this one thing. So it works, it works amazing, but again it has a certain risk. It has certain price that you have to pay, the price of committing to one specific thing. And the other benefit of this is the fact that you take an obnoxious amount of action towards this area. So you build momentum like crazy, like what would take me like a week or a month of momentum to build, you do that in like a day or two. Because literally from the moment you wake up until the moment you sleep, all you're thinking about is what's the next action I can take, what's the next action I can take, or the more precise ways to say what action can I take now. So I did that with the lecture again, I did that many times, but this is probably the most clear cut example of doing this. At the beginning I was like okay, I have 50 fans so I need to talk to them and ask them to help me. So like pick up the phone, hey can you help me, awesome yeah I'll bring friends, cool, okay, hey can you help me, yeah sure, hey can you help me, yeah sure, hey can you help me. And then I did that, it took me like two days and then I was like okay, I did that. Now what's the next action I can take, what action can I take now because I run out of options and now you have to get creative. I'm like okay, let's create an event on Facebook, that's the next action, just makes sense. I did that and then okay, let's promote this event. And then I started sending emails, okay that makes sense and then okay, let's make a video about it and then let's start calling new people and then let's start boosting it with ads and then let's do a lecture every day, a small three, four hour lecture which actually were like six, seven, eight hours but like a lecture every night and getting new people excited about it and get them to tell their friends, so I do the lecture. What can I do now? Okay let's not let the people leave until they invite their friends using my laptop and their Facebook to the event, then I did that and that and that, okay and how do I finance it, okay let's call this version, let's do this, let's do that. So it's basically, you just take the next action and the next action and the next action and the next action and you keep running out of things, like you try, you try, try and then things max out, like you use them until they stop working and then you're like okay, well I have to be creative now, so you think of better solutions and better solutions and better solutions and again this creativity comes out of the fact that you don't have any more ideas, so you have to be creative and some of these ideas are much better than anything you could have ever thought about. For example, how could I have ever known that if you do an event and you want to get a ton of people into it, the best way you can do it at least from my experience is to just get these people to invite as many friends as possible. So just open up Facebook and download this plugin to invite friends and literally get them to invite all their friends and then do that again and again and again. I did that with 30, 40, 50 people and I got like holy shit, I think it was like 8, 10,000 people who said okay I'm going to the event. You know obviously only like 500, 600 came but that really depends on it. One moment there was a car accident and when there was car accidents then people drive really weird, that's the accident by the way. So let me see, awesome, okay, it was a cop there, I was just making sure nobody's gonna fucking chase me for filming this for you guys. So that's one way of dealing with things and I did it and it was pretty devastating like you're gonna pretty much fuck up your health. Cortisol through the roof, cortisol is our home one related to stress and you know it's just gonna be in bad shape but you're gonna get the goal done. It's like an Alexandrian way like I don't care what's the goal I'm gonna fucking attack it you know like a till of the fucking hunt or something. Now the other way is the habit approach, is the daily habits approach. So nowadays what I do is I look at a goal and I ask myself what's the daily habits that will make me achieve this goal. So I am willing to sacrifice a bit of time for the sake of taking care of my entire life. So for example let's say that right now in addition to all my goals I get a new goal to have a lot more friends. So my new goal is that I want to have 500 friends okay it sounds cool 500 friends and be super popular in my university you know let's say I go to university. So the way I would set it up is I'd simply add more workload on a daily basis on a consistent daily basis by asking okay so I want 500 friends right yes. Let's say that every fifth or tenth new person I talk to it becomes like you know sort of a friend you know we'll use a rough definition for a friend so that means that I have to talk to you about 500 let's say even more let's say one in one in 25 you know it means I have to talk to like 2,500 people. So what I do then is I divide it like okay how long do I want this to take I want this to take a year. So I need to talk to 2,500 people in one year a year is 365 days let's say I go to university about 300 days so that means that I need to talk to 10 new people every day. So I'll simply add and have it again it doesn't change my life I don't go over focused on it I don't change anything it's make it's the main thing I want to point out is that it's a mechanical it's not like an emotional thing like oh my god I'm gonna talk to new people it's it's math it's just I'm gonna talk to this many people every day and that's it and you don't have to bring the emotion doesn't have to be like hello who are you it's so good to meet you no it's just a mechanical action that will produce result why because when you apply consistency the results stack up and like the popular kids you see at school the reason they're popular it isn't because they have amazing charisma they're popular because they have a habit of meeting and getting to know new people all the time and then a lot of people know them and love them and that's why they feel really accepted and when you feel really accepted you are naturally charismatic so you look at them and they're charismatic but they're not they don't have a lot of friends because they're charismatic they have a lot of friends because they made the decision to meet a lot of friends it's just like you see somebody you know it's not I'm not sure it's the best example just like you see somebody with swag you know like like you know money money money and I was like really happy and really know the money swag like a rapper well the guy doesn't get like that because he does have money because he has this swag that's not what caused the money he made a lot of money and you develop a lot of confidence when you make a lot of money so he has swag so so you build up the abundance and then you get the abundance in return so I would again set up a habit of approaching and and meeting and when I said approaching I mean like hey you know what's up or are you going to this class too or hey oh yeah that's you know that guy is looking at the grass oh that's a nice grass right or he's looking at the sky oh you know I love this guy today or somebody's looking frustrated what I'll ask him why what are you also in in in that class or do you also like have a bad day today like I would simply like make comments about things that they're looking at and you know like I said about one in 20 one in 25 will you know likely turn into a good conversation with somebody who's you know gonna be my friend so if I do like 10 of these every day that means that in a month I do about 20 25 if I go 20 days a week a month so that means that I'm gonna make about you know one two three four five new friends so I'm not again I might have missed the math missed a zero or something but I hope you understand the the logic behind it and if I do this habit consistently for something like half a year and I just don't stop doing it what's going to happen is I'm gonna build up a massive massive wealth of social network and I'll have so many friends that you know it will be too much like I won't I won't be able to deal with so many friends and then I'll become popular automatically so we'll take like half a year maybe a year of patient work and then again the obsessive approach the first approach I told you about it's more about like okay that's the only goal and then you literally just spend your entire all day long like like what's the next person I can meet what's the next and you're out of school like what's it was the next thing I can do was next okay I'll send a message to somebody new I'll post on the Facebook for the university I'll do these stuff is it looks like it's obsessive it's compulsive and again there's times for it and there's times not to do it most of the time you shouldn't do it but it is possible if you want to reach a goal in an extremely short time in an unbalanced way that is not sustainable by the way but just like achieve a goal and bam just like create a spike in your success and performance it's like black Friday you know on black Friday everybody's going nuts I mean the stores they're like so so so so so so so so that obviously they don't work like that you know the rest of the year because it's not sustainable but during black Friday or Christmas they go crazy they go absolutely nuts because they want a spike in the production and the spike is so big it basically is like the I think third of the third of the usual business revenue is done on like Christmas or black Friday so again it has its uses in the right moment in the right time if you see the right opportunity yes put everything on the side and go insane on one thing the rest of the time you want to be balanced and take the daily habit approach how can I achieve this goal in the daily habits and stop fucking being you know killing yourself like oh no I'm not able to do it so hard I'm not doing it well you know and just I'm trying to set these high high high goals and standards for yourself and killing yourself like oh I'm not able to take this action oh no it's too much will power you know do it easy because if you just started easy a year ago by now you would have already gotten it instead of being like no it's supposed to take a month no do it the slow way okay slow play it so you want to you know meet a lot of women don't go into cold approach like how I'm gonna start cold approaching women like one yeah yeah yeah and basically you can't even approach because it's so scary no start the most ask yourself what's the most easy light way of doing this production activity every day and slowly building it up for example what can you do turning on AC what can you do what you can do is go let's say have a goal to every day just you know ask a woman for the time now I know it sounds stupid but it means you ask 365 women you don't think you're gonna have chemistry with one of them you don't think that you ask a woman a woman and she you know she's like oh that's the time she's like happy and smiling and you're like oh nice just you just start talking you know and so ask you know five women ten women the time okay I don't care but again the more you do the daily habit the better you get at it the more comfortable you get the more energy you can output with the same level of intensity that's why I can do five videos a day and that's my normal now and if I want to go to ten it will be just as challenging as it is to you to go from one to two because you get used to the workload so you approach just one woman a day and just ask the fucking time which anybody can do then you do that and then next thing you know you increase the goal to I don't know talk to one woman every day or ask ten women every day what's the time or just make a comment you know and start talking to ten women every day and that and then you're talking to three hundred sixty five three thousand six hundred fifty women every single year you don't think something's gonna happen take the daily approach just write down your goals break them down into daily actions that you can take be patient you know they say be patient with the result and be urgent with the actions so be patient with the results just chill because either way most likely that's the fastest way you're gonna get them anyway and stack up your results slowly and surely don't be a hero and then you're gonna get more confidence more action more momentum you'll feel better about yourself everything will keep improving and that's how you you get the high the hero stuff because you don't jump from zero to a hero you go from zero to one to two to three to four and five six you basically improve yourself gradually until you feel comfortable being that hero but it's a process it's not a leap I hope this video helps you apply it it's gonna change your life this is philosophy that took me years upon years of ups and downs and failures and successes to build hundreds of books and mentors and seminar and courses and again so much good shit so much bad shit like I'm here I'm giving it to you I'm telling you the secret just use daily habit approach you do you have trouble with it let me know calm you know contact me book a call with me I'll help you you know I'll help you do that I'll help you set up your own set of daily goals so that you can achieve your goals and then you talk to me like a month for now you're like wow Robbie there's I have amazing progress you talk for me a year you talk to me a year for now you're like oh my god Robbie everything I wanted I got and then you talk to me like five or ten years from now you're like dude I'm super successful because again that when these increasing wins they affirm your ability to be successful and they also build up abundance you build up more buttons and more abundance instead of just going up down up down up down it's like up up up up up up up and it's low and but it's steady and it does have spikes sometimes naturally just like my views sometimes have spikes just like my workouts sometimes have spikes so you can use this content wisely fucking apply it don't just say oh this is right yeah you agree with you completely use it because this is the holy grail for me of you know the way I do my stuff and it works and you can see that works and you know you don't believe me yet fine wait another year waste another year see me grow you know five or ten times more and then apply it you know I'm gonna be here are you