 but many of you don't know how to cultivate a healthy happy relationship. So men in particular focus on if it isn't easy, it's time to replace you. There, I said it. If the relationship isn't easy, it's time to replace you. They recognize that the bumps in the road is how you build a stronger relationship with one another. Let me repeat that. Those men who are unconscious, they're working from lower vibration. Those are the ones that don't know how to cultivate a relationship. We were taught this stuff. Many of you were following the programming like I had. Go to college, get a job, meet a person, get married, buy a house, start a family. That was the programming. I know I follow that program. Did you follow that programming? You might have.