 unlearning is more difficult if you really love and appreciate and admire those who taught you it. If what you need to unlearn you have a special attachment to because of your appreciation of the person that taught that to you it's difficult to separate out sometimes the thing they taught you which now is not working anymore and it was maybe good for them or maybe it was good for them and it was never right for you but because of your love and affection for the people you kind of feel that you have to keep that stuff on board and give some kind of attention to it and you don't.