 The narcissist will lose their minds if you say this. That's what we're going to be talking about in this video. I'm going to reveal to you exactly what you need to say to really get under a narcissist skin, to really wind them up because I know how it is. You see that narcissist and it's like that this all-powerful being, they're invincible, impossible to be affected. It's like you're always at the mercy of them, but it's never going to be like that for you, but it's in your favor where you're able to hurt them in the way that they can hurt you. Because that's how it seems, isn't it? When you're interacting with them, maybe you're having an argument or a disagreement, whatever it is, or they're just insulting you as they do, and they can take all of these jabs at you. It's so easy for them to get to you, to get under your skin, but it's like no matter what you do, no matter what you say, it's like you just can't touch them. It's like you just can't give them a taste of their own medicine. And if you decided to click on this video today, that is what you are trying to do. You want to affect the narcissist. And yes, believe it or not, although they may seem very cold and robotic, and the furthest thing away from anything human, it's just that they can't really experience positive emotions at all, but they can most definitely experience negative emotions far more than a regular person. Yes, those emotions are very intense for them, far more than it is for us when we experience something negative. So I'm really gonna give it to you in this one. I am going to reveal to you exactly what you need to say. And honestly, it may seem like it's the first time in your entire relationship, your entire marriage with this person, where it seems like they're actually affected. It seems like they're actually bothered when you say this. This sounds good to you. If you're ready to get stuck into this one today, I just want to know what you have to say to make the narcissist lose their minds once and for all. Please give this video a thumbs up down below, show your support. Let's get this message out there to other viewers as well who may need this information. I can see there's 79 live viewers, but only six thumbs ups. So please hit that thumbs up button down below. Thank you. All right, let's get into it. The narcissist will lose their minds if you say this. When you're interacting with them, you're having an argument, a disagreement, whatever it is, they're pressuring you, they're intimidating you, they're trying to push your buttons, they're trying to make you react. All you have to say is these three words. The three words are I don't care. Yes, when you say I don't care, and you really feel it and mean it because at that point, you actually don't care. That will really get under the narcissist's skin. It will really irritate them. It will really wind them up. It will make them lose their minds. And up until this point, you may never have seen them react in this way. But when you say I don't care, they suddenly go crazy. You'll see the arms flying around everywhere and they're just yelling and screaming at you. They will go nuts. And actually, when you say these three words, yes, you do need to be very careful because the odds are that it will cause a narcissistic injury. And at times, there is no telling how they might react because yes, this will really wind them up. It will really get under their skin. And let's talk about why these three words are so effective. Because they are effective, I know that they are. I have used them myself in the past. It's worked for me. And of course, I know how a narcissist's mind works. So I understand. I know that it will affect them. If you're dealing with someone who is narcissistic, you say I don't care, it will get to them. And the reason why is because they want you to care. They want to matter to you. They want to have the power to make you react, to make you emotional, to make you emotionally invested in them. To where they hold a possession of significance and relevance to you. Yes, that's really what they want so that they can then get their narcissistic supply. And that is why this is so powerful. When you say to them, I don't care. Because above all else, when they're dealing with a person, they want you to care. But also, I must mention as well that, you know, when you're involved with someone, getting a relationship, whatever it is. Of course, that person is going to want you to care. I mean, that is completely normal. That's healthy. We all want people to care. I mean, there's nothing wrong with that. But we have to remember that with narcissists. It's very different. Why do they want you to care? They're not looking for a resolution. They're not trying to fix things or make things better. They're not trying to build a healthy relationship with you. They're not trying to do that at all. And that's why the situation never progresses or advances. It's like two steps forward, one step back. Because they want you to care just so they can get a reaction out of you and then they get their narcissistic supply. That is all that it is. And it is nothing more than that. So don't feel bad for them. I mean, it's not like it's a situation where someone very important to you, someone you love and care about and they're going through something and they just want to get your attention. They just want you to care because they're hurt, they're upset. They need you. No, that's a very different situation. With the narcissist, it's not that at all. They're trying to manipulate your emotions. They're trying to get under your skin to make you react, to hurt you, to upset you, to irritate you. That's what the narcissist is trying to do. So it's very different and it's very important to identify the difference there. When you're dealing with a narcissist, that's all it really gives. It is just manipulation. They're just trying to make you react so they can get what they want. Which as we know, it is their narcissistic supplying. That's all that they're really concerned about. They're not really worried about anything else. And that's why this is so effective. It is so powerful. When you tell them, I don't care. Because of course, how can they have the power, the control? How can they influence and direct your behavior in the course of events if you do not even care? I mean, just think about it like this. They can direct the course of events all they want. They can make the situation go however they choose to. But what does it matter if you don't even care? I mean, the whole point of what they're doing, what they're saying to you, the whole point of all of it is just to get you to care. It's just to get a reaction out of you. There is no other motive to it. There is no other reason or purpose for it. It's all just to get a little reaction out of you. Because as empaths, we are very reactive. They can see how we feel through our facial expressions. It reveals a lot about us because we tend to wear our hearts on our sleeves. So of course, they love to get these emotional responses out of us. It's a very powerful source of supply for a narcissist. And that is why it's very important for you to gray rock, to withhold your emotions, your reactions. Of course, I know sometimes it's easier said than done. I mean, there are going to be times sometimes where they do something or they say something and it's purposely intended to just really wind you up. And it may really be getting to you inside. It may really be hurting you, but you just have to try to numb yourself down. Be non-reactive. Do not let yourself fall prey to their agenda of where they are trying to make you react. Because remember, that is all a narcissist really wants from their supply. All they really care about is our emotions, feelings. And why do they care so much about that? It's because they are disconnected from their emotions. They're disconnected from themselves. They have no true self. All they have is a false character and they have to manipulate the empath's emotions so that we reflect back to them through our reactions how they want to feel about themselves. So as an example, a narcissist could say something very hurtful to you and then you react. You may react with anger, fear, guilt or shame. And when you do that, you may even see that little narcissistic smirk where you can see that they are enjoying it. They're finding pleasure in your pain. And that is all that it is intended to do when they do this. They are heavily dependent on our reactions. Yes, it really does something for them. Just for that brief moment, it makes them feel alive. It makes them feel like, yes, I got a rise out of this person. Oh, they care so much. What I said, what I did, mattered so much to them. Look at them, they're so sad. They're so angry. Now I have power over them. Yes, I got them. That's what's going on in their minds. That's how it is. Which is why you cannot let them know that they are getting to you even though, yes, they may be getting to you. Masters are just so cruel. Some of the things that they will say and do are completely heartless. I mean, they will deliberately do these things on special occasions. It could be your birthday, Christmas, Thanksgiving, Valentine's Day, and they will purposely plan it out for this day that you were looking forward to. This event, they may just wait it out for that day. Just so they can say something to really irritate you, to really get under your skin, to really wind you up. And they know exactly what they're doing. They know exactly what they are saying. And they may be thinking about it. A lot of times it's premeditated. They may plan it before the event. They're already thinking, oh yes, a special day is coming up. You're going to be there, probably looking forward to it. You're going to be all dressed up, expecting to have a good time at this event. What you don't know is I've got a little something planned out for you. Yes, they plan it out, they've got things scripted, things that they're going to say. And they really hope that when they say these things all hell is going to break loose. They're hoping that this is something you're going to be talking about until the end of time. So that they have this never-ending source of supply. Don't give them that. Don't give them the attention. Don't let them have it. Because that's exactly what they want. That's why they're saying it. That's why they're doing it. To get you to react. To irritate you, to wind you up. And as soon as you do that, you have lost. You have lost. And don't be fooled. Do not be fooled. Because some of you, you may think as an empath, you may think that if someone maybe you accidentally said or did something and it hurt them, and they were vulnerable, they revealed their emotions to you, you might feel really bad for them. You might want to be there for them. Comfort them. That's what you would do as an empath. And because of that, we often project this onto other people, such as narcissists, and we assume that maybe they would do the same for us. We assume that, no, maybe we don't need to hide our emotions, our reactions. Maybe we can just say, yes, this situation, what you said, what you did, yeah, it's hurting me. I don't like it. I want it to be different. You think if you say that, they're going to go easy on you. They're going to think, oh no, this is hurting you. I have to stop. And in fact, I need to be there for you. I need to comfort you. Because now you're hurt after what I said, what I did. Now, that's what you would do. That is not what a narcissist would do. They don't think the way that we do, they don't have the empathy to want to run in and be there for you. And in fact, whatever they said or did in the first place, the whole point of that, it was intended to hurt you. And they're not going to feel any remorse. They don't care. If you go to them and you're in tears, they don't care how much it hurt you, how much it crushed you. They do not care. It just does not matter to them. They do not want what you want. They do not feel what you feel. They really don't. So when you're going through it, you're going through that all in your own. They're not sharing your experience. They're not seeing it. They're not feeling it. I mean, of course, yes, they know that you're hurt and they're loving every minute of it. That's all they care about is your reaction. They don't care about anything else. But many of you, you get confused. You get it twisted and you think. Because you're thinking from your own perspective as an empath. And I do this a lot myself. So I know I understand. It's like because you feel hurt in that situation after whatever happened or whatever they said or did, because of that, you're thinking as an empath because you can share their feelings and understand their experience. Because you can do that. You're assuming they can do that for you. And so if you're vulnerable and you express your emotions, you think they're going to come running to you. They're going to come to your aid. You can try that. Honestly, give it a go. Let me know how it works out. Because if you are dealing with a true narcissist, all that's going to do is you're just giving them information. You're giving them ammo, data that they're going to keep in their back pockets to use at a later date. Because all you've done there is just revealed exactly what they need to do in the future to hurt you again. And I can promise you when they're pushing your buttons, they push a certain button and you yell, you cry. They're going to push that button again and again. They're going to keep pushing it until the button breaks. And then they're going to try and repair the button just so they can push it again and again. And they'll just push it until the end of time. It will never stop. Never. They will push that thing until they give you a heart attack. Until you're gone and dead. It is never going to stop. And it is never going to stop because the narcissist lacks empathy. I know this is difficult to understand sometimes. I get it because earlier on in my research I couldn't completely comprehend it myself. I just couldn't understand how can people not think and feel the way that I do. Because for me, I already know in these types of situations with narcissists if it was the other way around I would be that person who would be in there trying to help them. Trying to be there for them. I would feel so bad. And even if someone said or did something to me and it hurt me and then I was just so angry about it that I took revenge and I hurt them in return I said something mean to them. After like 5 or 10 minutes probably a lot less I would have to go back to that person and apologize. I would feel so bad. I really would. Even in relationships that I've had with narcissists where something like that has happened and typically as you know they start these arguments at night before we go to sleep. I can't let it go on until the morning. I can't let them go to sleep thinking that I'm causing them distress and hurting them. I just can't do it. I haven't got it in me to do that. And I know as an empath that you may be you can understand that, you can relate. But when they're trying to get these reactions out of you you must not react. You should tell them I don't care. Yes, it will hurt them. They will lose their minds but you need to protect yourself. You need to protect your mental health because of course if they're trying to hurt you and you reveal to them that you do care they're just going to keep doing it. They're just going to keep pushing your buttons which is why when they say these things you must not react. You must take your emotions away from it because otherwise they will have power over you. But you can also have a bit of fun with this as well. This is quite a clever idea and I've actually done this before but it is really funny when you see them doing this but I've got to tell you you can try this out. Just try not to laugh when you do it because it does work but what you can do you kind of have to maybe try to steer the conversation a certain way to where they say something to you and then you have to just deliberately react to it to something they've said it could be regard it a person an event whatever it is they have to say something or apply something and then you just have to react to it just pretend you're hurt you're upset by that and then just watch they will do it again they will say what they said again whatever they thought that hurt you that is so funny because you'll see them doing it they're like trying to push this button that you could just pretend to react to it but in your mind you already know all along it's not even bothering you but they think that it is so it's kind of like similar to a grey rock where you're observing but you're not absorbing it because it's not even relevant to you but when you do that you've got to try not to laugh because if you're laughing you're just giving the game away but I've done this a few times myself and it is hilarious if you want to have fun with an narcissist this is how you do it because as we know they're all about themselves they can't be very boring they're self-absorbed they don't take an interest in us they don't even see us even sex where the narcissist is boring it's like they just lay there like a dead fish and they expect you to do all of the work I mean it is a waste of time it really is but if you do want to have fun with an narcissist this is how you do it when they say it will imply something it may not bother you at all but just pretend to react to it act like you're hurt, you're upset and watch as they try to push that button again and you're going to be there just trying your best not to laugh because you can see you know already what they're trying to do because you led on that a certain thing bothered you with an actuality you don't even care but it's like important to them and they're trying to push that button and it's like I just don't even know how to describe it they just think they're getting to you but they're not and it's like with other things it's like they usually they have a way to get you to react but it's not effective unless you let it affect you I mean otherwise what difference does it make I mean maybe something where the narcissist is like I don't know maybe your mum just went to the salon she got a new hairstyle and the narcissist is like poking fun at it saying what's up with your mum's stupid new hairstyle and maybe you don't even like your mum maybe your mum's a narcissist so they're saying this and you don't even care it just seems so irrelevant like you know they're trying to hurt you but it doesn't mean anything to you so yeah I'm just trying to find a way to explain it but yeah that really works when you do that when you let on that a certain thing they say it would do hurts you and really it doesn't even bother you at all and then they will keep doing it they will try it again yeah yeah you want the narcissist to lose their minds this is all you have to do this is all you have to say I see we got 169 live viewers in here and only 41 thumbs ups don't forget to hit that thumbs up button down below it helps our community it helps to get this message out there to other survivors very important so please do that it will only take you two seconds but yeah you want to make the narcissist lose their minds all you have to do is say these three words when they're trying to get you to react they're trying to get under your skin just say I don't care but it's not just about the words you have to really feel it and mean it because they will sense your energy they will know if you're just saying you don't care when in actuality you do they will know the difference but as I said if you say that it will likely cause a narcissistic injury it will make them very angry and they may lash out at you they may try to ramp it up they may be thinking in their minds alright okay I don't care about this but what if I do this what if I do that maybe this maybe you will care if I do that and they'll just ramp it up they'll just do more and more until they do find something which is why it can actually be better sometimes to do something a bit more tame and not actually say I don't care I mean in all honesty that could put you in quite a dangerous situation so you do need to be very careful if you are deciding to say that remember these videos are educational purposes only so whatever you decide to do you are responsible for the consequences as an adult but I am hoping that this information will help you if you do say I don't care yes that will cause a narcissistic injury it will likely make them very angry so what could be better for you is if you do just grey rock you gradually stop responding to them as much you take away your emotions and don't do as other YouTubers tell you to do because what they say and I'm telling you it is actually very dangerous for you when you do this they'll just tell you to just all of a sudden go grey rock just immediately stop reacting just suddenly take away your emotions cut off the supply if you do that it's like you're snatching away oxygen from the narcissist and then they're unable to breathe they're going to feel like they're in a life or death situation and then they're going to attack you because it's like they're so used to this drug they're so hooked on it and suddenly you're taking it away from them they're going cold turkey so they're going to have withdrawal symptoms so what you want to do instead is you want to take it away slowly and gradually not immediately that way you will be better able to protect yourself so as an example normally you would just react naturally when they say something, when they do something so the next time you think a bit more carefully before you react you still give them a little bit of your emotion you don't go complete grey rock immediately but then over time maybe over the span of a few days you gradually make your emotions and reactions less and less so that they don't notice it so much because I'm telling you if you just go grey rock straight away you just go completely silent you're going from having these hour long arguments to suddenly you're just saying yes or no of course they're going to pick up on that of course they're going to notice the difference remember narcissists are heavily dependent on their narcissistic supply so they're going to know which is why you have to do it slowly and gradually that is the best way for you to protect yourself I mean that's really of course I've given it to you in the title already so you do need to be wise I've already said this is what you have to say to make a narcissist lose their minds so you do need to be very cautious if you are saying this and you're making them lose their minds you need to be very careful but I've given you now as well a more tone down version if you want to try that instead and to be honest that's what I advise I most definitely do not advise doing anything that might make the narcissist lose their minds this is more for educational purposes only of course I know there's a lot of people out there who want to know how they can do this they might not actually do it but they're just curious about it I mean because you see these narcissists and it's like nothing ever gets to them they just act like nothing bothers them and they're always the ones pushing your buttons irritating you they're never on the other end of it so you want to see what will it be like if for once they are on the other end of it and you're doing it to them you may just be curious about it if you decide to do it if you want to make the narcissist lose their minds and you say I don't care well you may be in for a bit of a ride I can tell you that because these narcissists they are crazy but just knowing that just constantly reminding yourself of this in your mind can protect you more than anything else just reminding yourself why are they saying what they say why are they doing what they do why are they trying to get a reaction out of me or you why are they trying to do that and of course the reason why is because they have no real self they chose to abandon their true selves a long time ago and create a false self the problem is this false self is dependent on external validation such as your attention your admiration your reactions your pain all of these things are validating the narcissist's false self and it's making them feel powerful and in control because without that they feel very insecure because their false character is not real and deep down they know that it is not real that is why they do what they do and you need to remind yourself of that any time that you're in an argument with them any time that they're trying to hurt you just remind yourself in your mind there he goes there she goes off on one again on a mad one what are they trying to do they're just trying to get me to react that is it that is all they're trying to do that is all they're trying to get out of you a reaction that's all that it is it is nothing more than that a reaction and it's hard for us to understand sometimes because it's like I don't care about reactions so much it's not that important to me so why is it so important to them why do they need me to react so bad and as I said goes back to the fact that they abandoned their true selves a long time ago in place of a false self this false self can't generate anything from within because it's false all that they have inside of them is a void that's why when you're interacted with them you feel so drained and lifeless you're not getting anything back in return you're not getting any energy back to replenish you you're just giving out and getting nothing back so you're getting very tired in the process it's affecting you that our success needs to do this though in the beginning they manipulate you they love bond you they idealize you they put you in a pedestal because they're hoping that you will reflect some of that back to them so that you will validate their false self of them being attractive and desirable but then after some time you start to realize that they're not so perfect after all they do have flaws they make mistakes just like anyone else we're all human although they're not really proper humans they're like the key components of what makes us human beings such as empathy but regardless of that because once you see through the illusion and you stop validating the false self it then moves to the devaluation phase where they're insulting you and putting you down and again it's just your reactions to validate the false self it's still the false self sometimes the false self once they feel attractive and desirable they want to feel wanted but when they know they can't get that they will settle for negative supply they will settle for feeling powerful significant and important by keeping you down and do you know what else is supply making you hate them even making you not want anything to do with them as long as they know that they are the cause of that and they will settle for that if they know that you're no longer going to idealize the false character as being attractive and desirable as they may want from you in the beginning but yeah if you really want to drive the narcissist insane that's all you really have to do just say these three words anytime you're having an argument whatever it is just say I don't care when you tell them I don't care they will lose their minds it's as simple as that they really will it will drive them insane just looking through the live chat here as usual a lot of trolls that kind of fits in with the narrative of this video what do narcissists want? a reaction why do they want a reaction because they have no true self they abandoned their true selves a long time ago so what have you got coming? nothing if they abandoned their true selves what is in it for you? I mean you've got to think they rejected themselves of course they're going to reject you as well they rejected themselves in place of a false self which needs to get reactions out of you at all costs regardless of anything else that is the only thing that they care about because all they have is a void and as long as you're interacting with them you will feel like you're getting sucked into the void you're going to feel miserable anxious depressed you interact with that void long enough you're just going to feel like you want to kill yourself I don't know that because that's exactly how I felt before in the past because you identify with their void their void of any positivity, love, optimism, joy you identify with that and you identify with their shame, fear, guilt desire you identify with all of this negative garbage you think that it's you and then it's like you just want to die you just don't even want to be on this earth anymore because you've interacted with a demon with someone who has no soul someone who is not even a complete human being they lack empathy so you're around them long enough and you may just end up feeling like you just want to kill yourself you will feel depressed so be very careful when you're interacting with them they're miserable people they're low vibrational anytime you interact with them all that's going to happen is your vibration goes down you feel worse about yourself you feel bad that's just how it is when you are dealing with narcissists you interact with someone like me though I can motivate you I can inspire you I can uplift you I can make you feel amazing about yourself and I don't have to do that by patronising you or giving you fake compliments no I can do it just by getting you to see the worth in yourself because if you can see the worth in yourself then you do have worth you have to see it first though narcissists can't do that because all they have inside of themselves is a void so all they can do is take all they can do is leech off other people that's why they're parasites the bottom feeders the takers, they're not givers you can wait around for the rest of your life that relationship that marriage that family, whatever it is you can wait around forever you can give them everything you've got and then you can be waiting there at the end of it with your hands out, expecting something in return you're not going to get anything you're not going to get nothing from them and I can promise you that you can give it all you can give all of your energy and emotions all of your resources you can give away everything you've ever had in your entire life you're still going to get nothing back and that is never going to change all they have is a void you cannot get anything out of that void all that void is going to do like a black hole, it's going to suck everything good out of you and then you're going to be left with nothing and that is all that is ever going to happen I'm on a bit of a rant tonight yesterday's night here in Japan I just really want to pour out this information to you because I know there are many people out there viewers who are watching this right now you're going through it this narcissists has made you feel bad about yourself they've made you feel down they've made you feel miserable and depressed they've hurt you they have no empathy for you they don't even care and it's not right you do not deserve to go through that you do deserve better treatment you do deserve love and respect and that is why I have to get on here every day to make sure that you do get some of that from me that's why I have to do this just have a bit of a stretch I've been sitting down a lot today driving I haven't really been anywhere because it's raining outside all day I do enjoy getting on here and making these videos giving out this very important information because I know a lot of you after everything you've been through you may feel like you have avoided yourself because you've been completely depleted by the selfish, narcissistic person who takes everything you've got and giving you nothing back in return so now you need some love now you need some validation and that's why you get on here that's why you have to understand that you are never going to get that from a narcissist all they're ever going to do is manipulate and use you and not in the good way they're going to manipulate and use you in a way that is unfearable for you in a way where you were left depleted you were left not even knowing who you are by the end of it you were left not knowing what to do with yourself and these people are everywhere in the world everywhere you go you will run into another narcissist that's just how it is that's why I advise for people to continue watching my content because there's always going to be another one around the corner they're all over the internet or with social media they're even all over this channel as well I mean come on just look through the live chat right now take a look at some of these comments you see how many trolls you see how many narcs are in the live chat right now making mindless comments as I'm trying to give you this very important information which is meant to help you and protect you these narcs are way on something else they don't even give a shit about you or anyone they come on these videos that are meant to protect us from narcissists and they're making it all about themselves like they're the most important person in the world out of 8 billion people but regardless if it's 8 billion people or not we're still just floating on a little rock in the middle of the universe in the middle of nowhere these narcs are completely delusional they think they're so special so important, so grandiose why? because they got a reaction out of us that's why that's why they're so special, so grandiose well you know what maybe there is some sense to that or maybe we were just fooled, manipulated that wasn't a genuine reaction anyway if you wanna get that you gotta go about it the right way you can't go about it by doing that again I'm telling you these narcs are everywhere everywhere you go around every corner you gotta find another one you have to be very cautious these days they're all over social media, data naps and as I said just look through the live chat the comments you will find even on my channel as well all of these trolls, all of these haters they just can't stand this information they can't stand us, empaths as Dr Raminia said they hate our empathy they don't like it because they don't have that they can't connect on a deep level to people like we can but they will pretend that they're with you they'll pretend they're on the same frequency the same vibration, no they ain't that's manipulation, that's what narcissists do they just love bomb, they just idealize they reflect back to your own qualities and virtues it's all fake it's not real, it's not genuine it's just how they get supply sometimes they do get supply by being in opposition to you but if you're operating from a state of self confidence and they can't break you down the only thing they can do is try and hop on the same frequency as you but even then it's not genuine because I was watching a video by Dr Sam Vaknin today a diagnose, narcissist, self-proclaimed psychopath he's the author of Malignant Self Love I was watching a video by him earlier today and even he was saying about how narcissists cannot experience positive emotions so all of these things that we're doing and talking about motivating and inspiring people uplifting them helping empaths they don't care about any of that that there's nothing for them all they care about is distracting themselves from their negative emotions because that's all that they really feel that's why their narcissistic supply is so important to them they are not on our level emotionally, vibrationally they're just not even there and they are never going to be there it doesn't matter what they say, it doesn't matter what they do all you're ever going to get from them is manipulation I'm telling you they love it when they argue with you, when they push your buttons they see your facial expressions, your emotions if they can compliment you and then they see your face light up or they say something hurtful and then they see that look of shame in your eyes that makes them feel so alive that is their narcissistic supply and they are loving every minute of it they really are there's no good bringing this information to them though there's nothing you can tell them there is no way to get them to understand there's nothing that you can do they are never going to see things the way that we do to the narcissist, everything is just a joke everything is just a play, a script it doesn't matter if someone dies the show must go on it's always just a joke, they never take anything seriously and then you look at them, you leave them, you check back with them after a few years, whatever it is you look at the social media, their lives just fall apart because everything is just a joke to them they never take anything seriously and you've just got to think what hope have you got around someone like that someone who thinks everything is a joke these people are useless, they're no good to you they don't take anything seriously what about your life what about your health what about your future maybe you have children, what about them they don't care about any of that everything is just a joke to them they don't take anything seriously and if you have been involved with the narcissist you won't know exactly what I'm talking about everything is just a joke to them everything they're just having a laugh they don't take anything seriously it's crazy, it's sad that's how they can do this that's how they can push your buttons and wind you up and when they see that it's getting to you they just do it again and again and again and they don't care how it's affecting you they don't care about what it's doing to your mental health how it might affect your future, your children they do not care about anything they don't even care about themselves they engage in impulsive and reckless behaviour most of which is self-destructive anyway they don't care about anyone or anything very dangerous people to be around you have to be very careful when you're dealing with them nothing will ever be serious with a narcissist it will always be a laugh, a joke if you're around them long enough they will destroy everything in your life you could end up in jail in a mental hospital homeless dead, suicidal all for the butt of a joke that's all that it is to them it's just a joke to the narcissist if you didn't get the punchline when your life is all over when you've lost everything when they've driven you insane when you're in a mental hospital or you're suicidal, you're depressed, whatever it is if you didn't get the punchline they just see it as though, oh well the joke's on you that's how it is and that's how it will always be with narcissists it's only ever going to be a joke a laugh at your expense if you could go into a prison just see the narcs in there they're no different to the narcs on the street you think they care about what they've done to people's lives you think they care about how they've affected people, no they're laughing about it in there I bet you they're bragging about it about the accomplishments as they see it how they've ruined people's lives murdered people, raped people yeah that's all just a joke to them they're gonna laugh at that they find it funny they really do they could have taken someone's life they could have forced someone to have sex with them narcissists are criminals to them it's a joke they don't even care and until the very end the day that they die it's always a joke it's always a laugh it's always a show and the show must go on they don't care about you they don't care about anyone they don't care about themselves it's all an act they can pretend to care about people if they think that it's getting them somewhere if they think it's getting them what they want they have no empathy I said it before they are imprisoned in a world inside their own heads there's nowhere else in there they can't feel what you feel they can't care like you care they can't share your experience they can't do any of that it's all just a laugh a joke to the narcissist they want you to care what they want from you is what they can't get from themselves genuine empathy genuine care love so they're trying to get out of you but even then they mistreat it they misuse it they abuse it they just use it for their own selfish needs for narcissistic supply but the joke is really on them it really is the joke is really on them because they can't experience life in the way that we do I mean the most amazing thing is when you are actually on the same page on the same frequency as someone else for real and it is a genuine experience instead of it just being fake like it is with them they will never get to experience that for them it's always fake it's never anything authentic for them their idea of fun is just hurting us manipulating us deceiving us for us we can actually have real fun with other empaths we can actually have a good time for real we don't have to pretend we can actually share the same experience feel what other people feel how amazing is that that's something that is reserved for empaths it's not something that nox gets to experience but they are very envious and jealous of it they really are they are very envious of our empathy our ability to connect and be vulnerable to experience real love yeah they try to compensate it and act as though we're the fools we're stupid we're weak yeah that's just what they tell themselves deep down they wish they could be like us just try telling them how they can't love they can't be vulnerable they can't be intimate say that to them what should they react that will make them insane more than anything else because deep down we all want to be loved we all want to love unbelievable though the cometonist life chat it's been going on and on for over an hour now the things that people are saying George GTS you speak Spanish homie hi 5G 1 2 3 time to spin plates what is this about Nick Shaw are you artists Justin shit is that Eminem now we're talking about LL Cool J what is going on in this live chat I don't even know after time now and again I often look at it just to make sure everyone is understanding and you know there's not anything that's misunderstood with what I'm saying but honestly it's got to the point where it becomes such a distraction now there's like so many crazy things that I see in the live chat I just feel like turning it off it's like I'm trying to talk about the message trying to give this information to you then it's like all I ever see is like all of these weird things like Eminem and Israel, Palestine it's always the same repetitive things are you Spanish Mexican, there's always these weird things in the live chat this is very weird but if anyone does actually want to know I mean you can probably tell but I am from the UK I'm from Wales, I do have a bit of a Welsh accent and I'm also quite dark because I am half Schrananken as well so if anyone genuinely wants to know where I am from that is it I haven't been to the UK for almost two years and even then I was only there for a few months I've been travelling the world now for about five years every day being to all sorts of countries around the world I've been to obviously all over the UK Wales, Scotland, England been to France Schranke Thailand, Malaysia Vietnam Taiwan South Korea, Japan I don't know where I'm going to go next I'm always moving around eventually I will probably have to go back to Malaysia because as many of you may know Nala is there right now she's actually been living there for probably about a year and a half maybe more so it's almost become like her new home she probably can't even remember what it's like to be in the UK where it's cold weather I'm not even sure how long it's been since she was in the UK I think at this point it must have been over three years since she was last there I mean she's been travelling the world herself Nala lives a very good life a luxury cat but yeah I do miss Nala a lot I think it's been over two months now since I last seen her she's going to be seven years old now next year she's getting a bit older looking very healthy she's still a very youthful cat always running around tons of energy I think she's going to have a very long healthy life because she has worked very well taking care of yeah I do love my cats I do love my Nala now there's a lot of spam in the live chat as well I need to start getting a moderator in these live chats we haven't had one for a while I think the last one we had was Life is a Journey he was very good well he did I haven't seen him for a while but we do need a new one so if you are interested in being a moderator on this channel all you've got to do is send me an email it's coaching at narcsurvivor.co.uk send me an email there requesting that you want to be a moderator in the live chats and then I will interview you because we do need to get to an on cue it's difficult for me to control everything while I'm delivering this message at the same time but yeah that's it for this one that's what I got to say and I hope it was helpful if it was you can show your support down below by giving it a thumbs up 177 live viewers and only 78 thumbs ups so please hit that thumbs up button down below it is very important as it helps the YouTube algorithm to get this very important message out there and also let me know what you think of this video in the comments section I am reading your comments every day sometimes I may respond as well I can't respond to all of them as I am getting quite a lot I'd also remember to hit the subscribe 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